How to get milfs/cougars attention

How to get milfs/cougars attention

    | Mar 10, 2019
mr_discreet   Man 23yrs
Looking for advice on how to find a women older than me. Always been a thing for me but never have had the chance. Do milfs even find young guys attractive?

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Redmustang   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

Women in general like to be treated with respect and as people - not just bodies built for pleasure.

A little seduction and attention goes a long way. A woman will like to be pleased and teased and potentially have expectations for drawn out sessions whereby her lover is incredibly attentive and he receives the same attention in return.

It’s not rocket science. We are people. If you want us listen to us and what we say - more often than not by listening you’ll find your answer as to what you have to do to get her attention.
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

mr_discreet (cougar Hunter)

We are called DOWS. Yes, we do find younger men attractive. However you don't find us, we find you. Once we have hunted you, be very very careful as we will eat you alive. 😉

I'm sure there will be a few Cougar Hawks along here very soon. They may take you under their wing if you are lucky.

Ms Foxy

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MrMojoRisin  

Man 65yrs

Damn Foxxxy

Do I have to wait until Jane Fonda makes a pass at me?
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Free_spirit_72   Woman 46yrs

More details

Your profile needs a boost. More info. Plus a face pic, make it a bit shadowed or whatever if you like, just need more to make an impression.
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sweetnsensual  

Couple Man 46yrs Woman 45yrs

It’s our choice young man!
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mr_discreet   Man 23yrs

Ahah thank you all ahah I guess I’ll have to work on my profile 😀
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Redmustang   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

Clearly it’s an individuals choice (regardless of age) who they seek out.

If a woman indicates interest and begins a chat - be respectful, be kind, show interest in her, don’t brag about skills or longevity in the bedroom. She’s a person after all... highly desirable and needs to be treated as such.
Remember manners they always do well.

Good luck with it
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Soulhunters   Couple Man 36yrs Woman 55yrs

I like younger

But single. My couples partner is a fwb I first met 4 years ago. Respect goes a long way as someone has already mentioned. Unlike last night when a random messaged to ask for a hook up as he was sober and could drive.....
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backtofun  

Woman 35yrs

Redmustang u guys have my attention! Foxy is also bang on.

I have found the conversation with younger men begins to bore me as I have moved a long way last riding in cars, music blaring and the basic ‘please blow me in my car’ just doesn’t excite me... u want an older woman u need to keep her sexual mind interested leading up to a meet and make ur introduction message hearty but not a short story.
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Redmustang   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

And sadly crass single males before you have paved a difficult path for all single males to come. So it may feel like pushing you know what up hill.

You’ve got two choices - join the ranks of the crass unsuccessful single males or break the mould and be different, persist and pave your own path. We shouldn’t be tarred with the same brush of those before us because of where you fit into the social ladder..

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FatFunFiesty   Woman 38yrs

I'm not a Cougar or a DOW but I have enjoyed men much younger than myself. I have also NOT enjoyed them, and sadly the latter outweighs the former.
I take everyone on a case by case basis but have found alot of the younger men (18 to 28) are completely crass and uncouth and I just don't respond well to either of those traits.
There's alot to be said for maturity as an attractive trait....... and I dont mean maturity in years. Maturity in the way you communicate and carry yourself. Respect in the way you treat others.
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Redmustang   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

Backtofun - women are beautiful strong intelligent creative individuals and deserve to be treated as such. They deserve to be nurtured and respected.

I always feel that if you seduce the mind then the body will follow. Show courtesy, respect and be interested in getting to know those who interest you. It doesn’t seem such a hard recipe to follow..
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 37yrs Woman 56yrs

I’m a little older than most of the beautiful ladies on the forum so far . I can tell you that I don’t ‘love ‘ the cougar , for some reason I feel it has negative connotations.
As you can see I’ve married a much younger man . He was 23 when we met ,I was 43. Younger men ( as well as older ) still get my attention .
I agree with you all , respect goes a long way.
Some older women find younger men attractive and I’m sure some women don’t ? Like everyone on RHP we all have different wants and needs .We’ve found a huge percentage of young men just want it ‘NOW’! We say in our profile we like to speak first ( that applies to anyone ) , meet for a drink and hope for the best . This isn’t a generalisation but a lot of young men don’t have anything written in their profiles and when they message it’s hi or how are you doing ! Sadly that’s not going to grab ‘a cougars ‘ attention . A bit of humour , the acknowledgment that you have obviously read our profile and are what we are seeking goes a long way . Patience is of utmost importance.
Mr_Discreet good luck in your search for ‘cougars ‘ . Be patient and respectful and I’m sure the rest will come to you.
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 37yrs Woman 56yrs

Sorry I don’t love the word cougar !
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island_life   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 45yrs

Agree with everything the other ladies have said.. first impressions count for SO much, especially on here when you're trying to stand out from a very large group of other single guys..
Get some decent profile pics..

I cant soeak for others, but personally I like to see good upper body pics (unclothed) .. maybe Jean's and no shirt..
Ad yes, I do like to see a cock pic or two . But not JUST cock pics lol..
They are definitely secondary.

Also, put some thought into your description..
At the end of the day we want to know what you have to bring to the table..
Telling us that "you've always lived cougars etcetc doesnt given us any indication on what you will be doing FOR us..
If you have great massage skills, oral skills, or can make a lady wet by just nibbling her earlobe let us know !

Hope this helps a little..

T xx
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Sawadee   Man 55yrs

mr - discreet..

As you can see by the advice from ladies in the know. You as a single guy will be expected to do all the work with little or no response .. Why ? because thats just the way of the world. Women have you by the nuts as they say' and they know it ? So while your deadly serious in your attempt to jag a root., woman dont have that same ugency ... Why ? because they can , thats why. True ' there are women who are more serious than others , The trick is to find the one who's up to it.. Good luck...
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Redmustang   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

Sawadee I don’t even know where to begin...

Men are not expected to do or the work with little or no response that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Women reciprocate what’s put into them as I’m sure men do to them. So if you want a quality woman with skills to make your toes curl and eyes roll back in your head then yes you have to put some effort in.
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island_life   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 45yrs

Right on red mustang !
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

Same way you seduce any woman...

Through genuine connection...
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 37yrs Woman 56yrs

Sawadee, I’m at a loss for words .
Really ??!!!!

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