How many woman DONT masturbate?

How many woman DONT masturbate?

    | Apr 29, 2018
I'm curious, my wife doesn't masturbate and doesn't have much of a libido. I often say to her that masturbation will help her libidio- not sure if that is scientifically proven or not. Do you masturbate and if yes how often and do you think it helps you libido? I love the sight a woman playing with herself or even being told I rubbed one out this morning- makes me very horny. I'm pretty confident that most guys masturbate and quite frequently. Look forward to your thoughts.

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MrMojoRisin   Man 64yrs

My wife has virtually no libido at all.

She tells me she still rubs one but only rarely.
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noeleena   Woman 71yrs

not possible

Hi.

I,m one of those that its almost impossible reason being because of corrective surgerys, and being intersex makes it in my case a non effect, if a guy was to be with me for a long time = months , it may work or come back to life, hardly any thing stirs my female part,s though strange as maybe, I do come on heat and go into sexual over drive, and that my whole being , so with the right person = male = maybe it may come to gether .

when.., lol,s..........doubt any one wonts to be in a long term relastionship...... so quess it wont happen.
Fact of life I,m facing.

...noeleena...
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swingalingson   Man 37yrs

Mr MOJO

Give her sum of ya MOJge
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Lionsdoll1   Woman 38yrs

Not many

In my experience from chatting with friends over my adult life, not many of us women do master bate.

For woman we’re a little more complicated and require more than just a physical “rub” especially with oneself.

I had read an article during a time my libido was practically non existent. It has suggested that the more arousal we received, the more we wanted and needed.

So I tried. Nope. Zilch. Nudda.

I then bought the bestest toy ever invented, the womaniser! 😍

Boom 💥 hello!!! I found it certainly did raise my libido more and more each time I played.
( now I secretly think I’m an Addict 🙊)
I now need to as part of my daily ( or every other) daily routine lol 😝


Go shopping my man!! Now! 😁

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pipsqueak

Just curious




are you married or single ? you seemed a little confused about your relationship status on your profile and your forum posting. Not judging, just asking why cant people own their relationship status ?


Moving on


I masturbate a lot but no necessarily for sexual pleasure. Stress relief, bringing me down when I'm a little wired after working all night, it helps me get to sleep, so most of the time its has little to do with sexual pleasure. More for a physical release, those sleepy hormones kicking in when I need them most

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MrMojoRisin   Man 64yrs

Swinga

Thanks for the advice, it's worth all that I paid for it. Exactly nothing.

If I want advice Aunty Annie makes a better choice, now go back to what ever it was that you were doing and stop pissing me off.
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inspirit   Woman 54yrs

A lot.

Not just for sexual pleasure either. One could say I am addicted and if so, I couldn't think of a worse addiction. So I rub one out 2 - 4 times in a 24 hour period. Like Pip, I do to get to sleep most nights too. The morning it starts my day off relaxed. If I having a doona day..... don't ask.

I am single tho.

😛

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MissRedFox  

Woman 42yrs

When I had no libido

I had no interest in masturbatiom. When my hormones kicked in with my second pregnancy it was like a discovered masturbation because unfortunately when I turned to the ex expecting a enthusiastic reception I was turned away

Now it's part of my sleep routine so at least once a day - 3 times a day or more if I'm extra horny and it can depend on finding the time and privacy
XX

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OkeyDoke45  

Man 48yrs

Whoah...




Quoting 'MrMojoRisin'

Thanks for the advice, it's worth all that I paid for it. Exactly nothing.


If I want advice Aunty Annie makes a better choice, now go back to what ever it was that you were doing and stop pissing me off.
Pistols at dawn between you two? That escalated fast!
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OkeyDoke45  

Man 48yrs

Some people...

Are just not comfortable with their own sexuality. The only two serious relationships I have been in, they both have been very sexual women but would not dream of flicking the bean (a truly abhorrent saying that I nonetheless love, kind of like ''blue-veined custard chucker''), by themselves or otherwise. As I mentioned though, they had an otherwise very healthy appetite for sex (the first one though, that appetite was directed toward another).

This sounds quite different to your situation, and it sounds like you are in one of those diabolical ''sexless'' relationships. And yes, they are diabolical. Your thoughts start to stray, and given enough time I think most would stray. It is a terrible feeling, to be a sexual being in love with one that is not.

Sometimes it is poor self esteem issues, or body image issues, or they have fallen out of love with you, or they still love you but you've packed on the kilos or whatever. Whatever the cause, only by talking to her (the go-to solution offered up by nearly everyone here) can you ascertain this and possibly correct it. It may be that it is insurmountable, that will provide its own challenges, but it may just be something you can fix.
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lovedance

Horny AF!!

I can’t remember a time when i haven’t masturbated... what can I say, I’m a horny fucker!!! Lol

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MrMojoRisin   Man 64yrs

Okey Doke

Most people who have been on the forums for a while will know that I am in a sexless marriage.

Two things I will not tolerate are people getting on their high horse, or taking the PI55.
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purplehaze4u  

Woman 53yrs

I love to pleasure myself

Sometimes i can go a week without it but sometimes twice a day. De- stresses me and yes it does make me hornier.

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OPNmarriagecpl   Couple Man 38yrs Woman 38yrs

Interesting

Thanks OP, The question raised and responses have been really interesting.
I masturbate regularly. For different reasons which are never lack of sexual fullfillment because I am quite satisfied between hubby and playmates. I find an orgasm relaxes me and energizes me at the same time.
I have to start my day with rubbing one out. Depending on the free time available during the day; there would often be another one or two longer little self plays (vibrator) then one quick one to go sleep. But if Hubby away and no playmates available and im horny..... could be as many as 10 plus times in 24hours.

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OPNmarriagecpl   Couple Man 38yrs Woman 38yrs

Libido

Sorry forgot to answer your other question OP. I find the more i masturbate or have sex...... the more i want. To the point of becoming quite obsessed by it. I can get a little frenzied and completely preoccupied with sexual gratification quite often.

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Service_man  

Man 58yrs

Addiction




Quoting 'inspirit' Why would you think its a worse addiction? You're just a horny woman. If it helps yo u get through the day with wind in your sails surely that can't be bad??

Not just for sexual pleasure either. One could say I am addicted and if so, I couldn't think of a worse addiction. So I rub one out 2 - 4 times in a 24 hour period. Like Pip, I do to get to sleep most nights too. The morning it starts my day off relaxed. If I having a doona day..... don't ask.



I am single tho.



😛

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Service_man  

Man 58yrs

Vanilla Custard




Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' 'blue-veined custard chucker'') You cracked me up with that --

Are just not comfortable with their own sexuality. The only two serious relationships I have been in, they both have been very sexual women but would not dream of flicking the bean (a truly abhorrent saying that I nonetheless love, kind of like ''blue-veined custard chucker''), by themselves or otherwise. As I mentioned though, they had an otherwise very healthy appetite for sex (the first one though, that appetite was directed toward another).

This sounds quite different to your situation, and it sounds like you are in one of those diabolical ''sexless'' relationships. And yes, they are diabolical. Your thoughts start to stray, and given enough time I think most would stray. It is a terrible feeling, to be a sexual being in love with one that is not.

Sometimes it is poor self esteem issues, or body image issues, or they have fallen out of love with you, or they still love you but you've packed on the kilos or whatever. Whatever the cause, only by talking to her (the go-to solution offered up by nearly everyone here) can you ascertain this and possibly correct it. It may be that it is insurmountable, that will provide its own challenges, but it may just be something you can fix.


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nightingale8   Woman 32yrs

I do

But not very often due to lack of time alone and a surplus of available means (my partner). Had this not been the case, i dont think it would be nearly as much as some here and I consider myself a very sexual being. Yes I definitely think it helps with libido but as others have pointed out above if it's not there in the first place it's really hard to get going. I think it's about cultivating libido in all other areas of life, not just in the bedroom. I watched a TED talk a while back where Esther Perel spoke very pointedly about getting the energy back into the relationship. My partner said it didn't resonate but he's a man!
Exercise, particularly weight training for me, never fails to bring rev my drive.

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EarthQueen   Woman 47yrs

Hmm

Have experienced low libido a few times and also tried to use masturbation to fix it. It didn’t work. Loss of libido is complex and connected to body and mind. The way I fixed mine was go down tantric path, gain awareness of my body and also try to drop my level of anxiety about losing it because it is sad and frustrating for me and many women when it happens.

I’ve gone through periods where I would masturbate a few times a day, once a day it varies. But I’ve done it regularly since I was a teenager. I think it’s just good in general to focus and get in touch with your body. Doesn’t always have to end in orgasm either. When I wasn’t single I could experience lack of desire for my partner but still want to masturbate. So again maybe not always connected.

Don’t put too much pressure on your partner to “fix” her libido. She probably feels enough shame and guilt about it already. Talk about it for sure. She will probably take any questioning as a criticism though. Nobody really wants to live in a marriage without connected sex I don’t think ? But it can be hard to fix.


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freshcpl

No

Mrs Fresh says she Doesn't need to as we have such a great sex life, but when we play she loves to touch herself and goes wild .

Mr mojo so sad to hear you have a sexless marriage. But im sure theres a story to it.


- Posted from rhpmobile

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