How do you meet poly people?

May 04 2018

For friendships. We are neither particularly 'alternative' in our lifestyle nor status quo in our relationship. Seeking educated civic minded people who like to have a mutual mental wank time to time and fill ourselves with misplaced feelings of superiority? Just seeking tips on where to go.

We are in an open relationship and wouldn't describe ourselves as polyamorous. Curious. It seems polys are as elusive as unicorns?

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There is a website just for Poly people, that have regular socials. Also linked with a social group through the Meetup website, and also through alternative sites such as Fetlife.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I’m in scarbs area looking for f or couple

  • usrightnow_Again

    usrightnow_Again

    6 years ago

    They're out there. Glad to finally see a second thread under the Poly heading. Best of luck. Mr. & Mrs. urn.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    to know more too :)
    I am very poly curious and would like to learn more, talk to those in this lifestyle.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    Thanks CT. Which poly website do you speak of?

    URN - good to know and yes I had come back to the single thread once or twice but it seems to have gone cold for some time. I assumed it was from 2005 and some bubonic plague had swept through taking all the polys with it.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    6 years ago

    think that Poly is swinging and vice versa.

    The two are quite different we feel.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    6 years ago

    Hehe

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LuxurySlut

    LuxurySlut

    6 years ago

    There are poly communities out there in Major cities. Some people from that community overlap with the kink and swinging scene.

    Swinging and poly are different: swinging is the sexual and physical aspect while poly is the emotional and feelings aspect.

    Check ‘by the bi’ they’re a couple in Sydney area. Also searching the words polyamory and Sydney on FB or the internet will bring up some suggestions. You could start there and find out if it’s for you.

    I’ve been part of two poly groups in Melbourne and after a few years of exploring and evolving, I finally settled on ENM ‘ethical non-monogamous’ as an identity.

    Businesstime

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I wrote a reply and recommendation and it’s disappeared...

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    6 years ago

    Carry a packet of Saos around with you everywhere you go

    You’ll soon learn who I’d or isn’t poly







    Because..... poly wants a cracker

    🤣

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousm50

    curiousm50

    6 years ago

    I can now recommend reading "Opening Up".

    Thought provoking and helpful.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We connected with the poly community via Facebook. There's local as well as international groups.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I would love to know when to find a beautiful women who would be part of our life. Do they even exist 😀

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I’m connected to the Melbourne poly community. There’s meetups, drinks, events and an app to meet online. It’s a very active community where I’m building friendships and relationships. Their events are advertised here on RHP as well.

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    5 years ago

    Ah an interesting thread,we are interested in this as well but no idea how to make it a reality!

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    5 years ago

    The main Poly meets of late seem to be midweek. Are there any equivalent around the weekend?