How do women feel knowing the guy is married and still sleep with him

How do women feel knowing the guy is married and still sleep with him

    | Mar 14, 2019
SilentJ81
I'm a married man just lookimh for fun, it might spice my marriage up. Have been issues in past. So what I'll hoping for is no strings attached, fun times with other women.
Black and white its wrong. I know. Just curious to see what it feels like and 50 shades of grey.

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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 40yrs

How will

Cheating on your wife spice up your marriage?

Reading through your profile wording, most women will probably be put off
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Rlee552   Man 43yrs

Points for honesty

The woman on this site are spoilt for choice. Given that, I suspect they will not want to enter into, or be part of, your situation plus the risk of the associated drama.



That being said, I have seen a few profiles where people have indicated they want to meet attached people. However, these are few and far between.
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 37yrs Woman 56yrs

SilentJ81
I will try my best to comment without judgement.
Firstly , I’m wondering if by posting this on the forum you are hoping to draw attention to your profile .
How playing outside of your marriage can ‘spice up ‘your relationship I’m unsure .
I can only speak for myself. Like all profiles on here it’s very personal. Speaking for myself I have no interest and I’m beginning to wonder why I’m posting a comment .
Not wanting to sound harsh . Perhaps your search will bring you some like minded souls .
On a positive note - wishing everyone a fun filled amazing weekend .
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FredAndGinger2  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 44yrs

50 Shades of wrong
50 Shades of nit a chance buddy
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FatFunFiesty   Woman 39yrs

Yeah but nah..... your profile wording is swipe left material.
Im a 1 percenter here as I prefer and have more attraction to cheating married men. Don't know why, just do. But reading your profile, you will struggle to get anywhere i think. Just because You are married and doing the wrong thing DON'T expect a willing lover to make all the allowances for your choice. No face pics is a prime example...... i know myself and there's no way in hell I'd meet a man without seeing some face pics first....... and if pics are like pulling teeth, I get over that fast.
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megz85g   Woman 34yrs

Nope nope nope
Look, some girls might be into it, but fuck I just think of your poor wife. Man up, tell her somethings not working, and concentrate on fixing what’s wrong before hurting her.
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Xenaesque


Points for honesty for sure and realise lots of people potentially are on here in a similar situation but don’t say.

Not all relationships are perfect - some lack key aspects of what is required, some fade and dwindle over time as you become used to each other and maybe take each other for granted.
Looking for it here won’t change what you have at home.
Address what’s wrong at home first then see where you stand and what your next step is.
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Phoenix_Rising  

Woman 37yrs

“I want you for fun, don’t judge, do be discreet, don’t have pubic hair”

That’s what I’m getting from your profile to be honest (and offer you the judgment you say you don’t want but seem to be seeking) there’s not many women I think who will be chomping at the bit to be your side “fun”,
Probably your best bet is to find one who also wants to have an affair.
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FatFunFiesty   Woman 39yrs

And just to add i have lovers (past and present) who are married (no permission) and they have ALL commented that their married life is improved. They've put it down to them feeling wanted again, feeling happier, feeling less stressed. Ive also heard a remark about "not annoying and pestering the missus as much". Might feed into the OPs reference to "spicing up the marriage". Not sure.
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 55yrs

Also

Highlighting the word BEAT makes me wary. I think your profile is a red flag and you will be disappointed. Most women on here are looking for someone who doesn't have commitments.
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Qefenta4   Woman 100yrs

There are always strings

Yes it can be exciting to have an illicit affair.If you are bored in your marriage it might as you say "spice it up"

simply because you have a dangerous secret which can blow up at any time .

And yes there are women who prefer married or attached men.

Why? They don't have to cook,clean,do your washing take care of your children,your elderly parents ,walk your dog ,wash your car do your shopping and after all of that ,work full or part time ..and then have the time inclination and energy to have mind blowing sex with you.

So yes,there are definitely women who prefer attached men.

However your profile is rather unenticing and there is a lot of competition on here.And most women will want to see a face pic..unless you can convince them that you work for ASIO.

Q
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OkeyDoke45   Man 49yrs

You're going about it wrong...

Screwing around will not quell the fires of discontent that have started in your relationship, it would rather be like pouring petrol on them instead. Mind your hands!
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XantheaHunter  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

If you want to spice up your marriage, ask your wife if she wants to join you or could you not handle her being with another man? Cheating is wrong. Playing together openly is not cheating.
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 47yrs

How do women feel knowing the guy is married and still sleep with him

I'm ok if it is all out in the open (both parties in the marriage are aware). The problem I have is the deceit and the removal of her choice. You are making a choice without involving her. Where's her choice in all of this? If your wife finds out, the last thing any wants is an angry woman knocking on their door.

IMO, you are curious and emotionally unavailable. Most ladies do not fall for this line: "no strings attached, fun times with other women". It is red flags.

There is no such thing as "no strings attached". There always will be strings. You are best off paying for a prostitute if you want "fun times", that way there is no emotional attachment. First up, at least talk to your wifeand be respectful before making any moves.

Ms Foxy

(PS My advice is not free. Account will be in the mail 😛)
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The_Antichrist   Man 40yrs

Why not work on the marriage??

Using other people to give to you what your marriage isn’t, isn’t going to fix the issue in the marriage....it avoids it...

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PassionFreaks  

Couple Man 42yrs Woman 49yrs

I don't need to know people's other halves to have respect for them.

I'm with DC how exactly would it spice up your marriage?



On another note I'm a bit over men telling us how we're all spoilt for choice 🙄



Ms PF
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boobs_or_busted  

Couple Man 52yrs Woman 44yrs

spice up your marriage ,more
like fuck up your marriage when you get caught ,and maybe that wouldn’t be such a bad thing for your wife , sorry but not sorry ,just purely hate the way your thinking is going with this

mr b
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boobs_or_busted  

Couple Man 52yrs Woman 44yrs

ps and on a side notes as the male part of a swinging couple , i would put my foot down for once and not let anyone like you near my wife due to your untrustworthiness and lack of respect to your own wife , what makes you think anyone would put the relationship in jeopardy just to help your ball bag out
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Readyfors0mefun  

Couple Man 38yrs Woman 36yrs

We as a couple won't be in it, we always ask the question if things look like progressing further than just chat.
We don't judge anyone but it's just a rule we have and we will stick to it.
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Deleted1

Agree




Quoting 'PassionFreaks'

On another note I'm a bit over men telling us how we're all spoilt for choice 🙄

Ms PF

Certainly ain't much choice up this way.

Of course, that still doesn't mean that I would be at all interested in the OP, whose profile is about as appealing as a shit sandwich.

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