Hotwifing for beginners....

July 04 2019

We've recently delved into our mutual kink of hotwifing. A question for my fellow hotwife ladies..... what makes for you a great hotwife experience? Is it the planning beforehand? Is it the sexy teasing chat leading up to the meet? Is it the naughty pics and vids you send your man during? Is it the thrill of fucking someone new? Or the feeling of coming home to your man to share your raunchy adventures? I'd love to hear your thoughts and any horny experiences x Bonnie 😈😘

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • wodtat35

    wodtat35

    5 years ago

    Hi Bonnie
    I too am a hotwife and have had some amazing experiences. In my opinion, the answer to your question is all of the above.
    For me, the excitement of meeting someone new, the lead up chatting is necessary for me. I never randomly meet up without having gotten to know a little about the person before I plan a date.
    Date night is super exciting, from planning what I am going to wear, where to meet, and of course the execution. When it all comes together it is totally exhilarating.
    Returning home, to my incredibly horny husband is so much fun, just be careful not to wear yourself out on your date or he will be disappointed :) :)
    So much to share....
    Good luck on this crazy journey... it is soooooo much fun xx

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    5 years ago

    With a post like that I imagine your inbox is now full. Hot photos btw.

  • XBonnieClydeX

    XBonnieClydeX

    5 years ago

    Why thank you Boxestotick ;)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    The lusty silent exchange of 'forbidden spark', the body language and eye contact is delicious, especially if we meet in a dimly lit bar, but, this only takes me so far.
    What is seriously pleasurable is the mutual engagement of the three people. So, when he's been messaging my husband telling him what he wants to do to me or directs the play in other creative ways - this here is knicker-drenching to me, it this sizzling dynamic that steps up the exhilaration factor and sets it apart from other encounters.
    Oh, and there's the rabid after-sex sex with my hubby - usually we're both aching for more and this is made even more luscious if I can still smell the lingering scent of this gorgeous man that just left me quivering.
    Now I need to touch myself
    Mwah, SNW

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    WOW I could feel every word you said Go through me. Your husband is a lucky man in many ways. I have a whole book of things to tell him about how I would treat you. With respect yet animal....

  • XBonnieClydeX

    XBonnieClydeX

    5 years ago

    SweetNaughtyWife

    I know what you mean about the three way chat. I've had so many knocked drenching three way conversations like this. It's such a turn on!

    Just finished reading your profile. Wow! So well written, love it!! Has given me a few ideas to change ours up a bit so thanks for your input x Bonnie x 😘

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Maenad; check this out 😈

  • newgirl74

    newgirl74

    4 years ago

    OMG I thought the three way chat was something only I loved. Even if nothing happens the prospect of it and the thrill of two guys chatting about you like that is AMAZING especially if I’m at work and only participate in it occasionally while trying to concentrate on work (and usually failing badly).

    A word of warning though those chats can sometimes include friends and just get out of hand because we are all a lot bolder on our keyboards and phones. I can get awkward after lol

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love the anticipation and getting ready, the build up is amazing. Have only ever played with hubby present and previously he would arrange dates and buy me new lingerie to wear for my date!. We have had a few disappointments with people that didnt show but everyone we have met from RHP has been easy to get along with. We have progressed now with me choosing who to play with and a couple of repeat performances with one guy. I only wish we had done this years ago ! and the sex with hubby afterwards is always amazing

  • JustForFun3350

    JustForFun3350

    4 years ago

    Speaking as the extra wheel here. For reference I've had a furtive 'back seat of the secluded car' experience with the same couple then, just last night, a wonderful MFM experience with a delightful hotwife.

    For me I think it's mainly the chat leading up. I like to swap pics so when they like that too it's fun.

    In both cases I've chatted primarily with the lady, though in the first case hubby occasionally popped in to the thread.

    The experience itself, my limited experience suggests, comes down to the role and involvement of the husband. Them being relaxed about it is important. The car one was sitting in the front, mostly commenting on what I naughty girl she was. Fun, but limiting.

    Last night the guy wandered off, tended to his pets, dropped back, gave her bum a smack, got himself a drink, chatted like we were in a bar, then joined in. Made it much easier and enjoyable

  • Sizequeen_HW

    Sizequeen_HW

    4 years ago

    Just to add my 2 cents worth as a female that mainly plays as a hotwife these days...I love the anticipation when meeting a new guy for the first time and the initial meet and greet, while somewhat nerve wrecking gives me a buzz.Ultimately, though its not about 'falling in love or getting too clingy so I love the sex and the fact there is mutual respect and understanding amongst all 3 party's/Enjoy your journey B&C....as every situation is unique and a story in itself.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    Found myself identifying with all you had to say. As you say , the buildup and antisipation can be quite exhilarating. Been awhile since our last experience ' but ever since I suggested getting her a new man for her birthday recently , the knowing smile she has ever since says it all.. So it will happen , just need to find a suitable candidate..