First time at swingers club

September 13 2019

I’m a single guy going to a swingers club for the first time looking for some advice thank you

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    5 years ago

    Respectful

    There will more than likely be a very high ratio of single guys to couples, and so there will be a lot of competition.

    Our advice is to shower, shave & endure that you are well groomed.

    Be respectful towards the couples there. Approach then in a polite way. Do not be pushy, predatory or follow them around.

    Ask before touching or joining in or even before entering a room / space that they may be playing in.

    Introduce yourself and engage in a polite conversation.

    Have no expectations nor entitlements. The money that you paid to get in guarantees you only 1 thing and that is entry into the club / party. There is no guarantee of having src.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    5 years ago

    Excuse

    The typos. Darn iPhone and it’s predictive text etc

  • nevahadsomuchfun

    nevahadsomuchfun

    5 years ago

    I went for the first time this year... and have been about 6 times since. Some nights hit and miss... Better nights are when there are events planned to ensure more ppl are there. Don’t be one of the seedy ones that try and do stuff without asking or jerk off by yourself. I find it really weird. There are some great couples that do go and enjoy the company of other men. You will see things you would only dream of on a good night and if you’re lucky, may be a part of.... enjoy!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Dynamic couple..

    GREAT advice !

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    And remember..
    If single guys are allowed that particular night, that means at least some if the ladies/couples are probably looking for single guys..
    (Speaking for ourselves lol)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Just relax. Most people will be a little nervous, just talk to people. Play it like a normal party, just that you will see more breasts and cocks than you would at a normal party. There are alot of ladies who want to play with guys but talk to people feel them out just be respectful and a little cheeky. Its very fun. And dont feel a need to play either, if you want to hell yes if you dont dont. No one cares if you play or not.