M35
First hotwifing experience
February 21 2018
For me I was in a long term relationship (5years) my partner and I had broke up briefly and without me knowing slept with a close family friend.
We got back together and she eventually told me what happened at the beginning I was extremely shocked it took a very long time to get my head around it, and the thought her being with him made me sick, but after a few months I began to fantasise about her being with someone else ( I guess it was my way of dealing with it) and it actually aroused me.
After about a year i told her that the thought of what had happened actually turned me on and I had been dealing with it imagining her being with someone else. To my surprise she agreed that she would sleep with someone else. Soon after that she made a profile on a dating site not this 1 and it wasn’t very long until she picked someone she like. They arranged to go for a drink at the beginning it was left at just a drink and see what happens.
She text a few hours later saying she was back at his house and they were watching a movie and was If I was completely sure I wanted her to go ahead with it, of course my reply was yes even tho I was hesitant I had mixed feeling of excitement and hesitation. A got a message about a hour later saying she was just in the bathroom and that they had kissed on the sofa and some touching and he was waiting in the bed for her. At that point the excitement of knowing that she would within the next few minutes be having sex with someone else got me hooked to hotwifing right then. Of course the next day i got all the details
- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
You’re no longer with her
Was her eagerness to enter into this lifestyle that you suggested a contributory reason for you breaking up a second time?
- Posted from rhpmobileSawadee
6 years ago
What you explained is the way it seems to happen. I've read similar posts here saying the same.
I agree you probally turned a negative into a positive by reverse thinking the original hurt.. Fighting fire with fire as they say...RHP User
6 years ago
no we broke up do to other reasons, but she did hook up with quiet a few other guys on diffferebt occasions she worked in a bar in the city so was easy for her to find guys
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Stuart , that’s not a hot wife, that’s a cheating wife, no one wants one of those, better off with out her
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Stuart , that’s not a hot wife, that’s a cheating wife, no one wants one of those, better off with out her
- Posted from rhpmobile
AKAHunk
6 years ago
"We were on a break!" 😂
- Posted from rhpmobileMischeviouslad
6 years ago
You can see why I asked
- Posted from rhpmobileraceyroo
6 years ago
That's a great question!I know a number of couples in which one has 'cheated' on their partner and had sex with another person which then opened up a whole range of conversations they had both been thinking about, but didn't have the confidence to ask because they didn't know how the other would respond.
RHP User
6 years ago
My Hotwife Mr couplakiwis just had her first Hotwife experience, why, yesterday actually while i am out of town on business. We had talked about her Hotwifing which turns me on on like you can imagine. She stopped in tk see a guy that we had met on her way home from work. Well lets just say that the video that she sent me will keep me occupied for hours while im away on business.
So ours was well planned and thought out and it drives me wild.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Is this the same as cuckolding?
- Posted from rhpmobile
Coupleforsin
6 years ago
For us the whole ‘hotwife’ experience revolves around both of us experiencing the play. I’ll find the guys for her, will eventually meet the guys, have a drink with them to ensure they’re of the right look, mindset, attitude, personality and maturity we’re after and then we arrange play at a motel somewhere.
Of all the experiences we’ve had, All have been exciting. Some have been a little less impressive in the performance stakes but we all have fun nonetheless.
She loves being the centre of attention and loves two guys on her at the same time.
We have a very strong emotional connection with each other and we have a set of boundaries we’ve both agreed not to cross. All play is as a couple, no seeing others behind each other’s back.
Trust is a massive deal for both of us.
We couldn’t imagine sending her off to fuck a guy without me being there to encourage her, to protect her and to ensure she gets the very best from the play.
The above works for us because we communicate effectively and openly.
Hotwifing works well when it’s planned and discussed and you find good guys to play with.
- Posted from rhpmobile
Verypicky
6 years ago
And how much they were forwarding in asking me for a good time - it got me so turned on. So we watch a few wife’s dvd’s And I was just keen to try it - hubby said I was to good to keep to himself - and said it’s not right to be the only one to appreciate my body. I’m not young by any means but keep in shape. So it started there - so happy life’s good - love hubby to the moon and back and still get to appreciate other guys
- Posted from rhpmobile
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