Feeling insecure

Feeling insecure

    | Mar 14, 2019
curiousnhorny05   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 38yrs
So.. I’m not the skinniest chick out there but make the effort to look sexy for any potentials.
But what I’m most insecure is how I look “down there. I also play sport and pretty active so my inner thighs are darker than I’d like.
Tell me I’m not the only person who worries about this?
Pls be gentle. I’m normally super confident but have this in the back of my mind. When I started on here I honestly felt no one would be interested.


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Xenaesque

Omg - ask any woman and she would have something (probably more than one thing) she would change if given the chance, that she self conscious about... I reckon I could list a half dozen easily!!

Own who you are and be proud of who you are. Being beautiful comes from more than looks it’s soul mind and body and if someone judges you purely on your body then don’t deserve a second look.

Rock who you are! Own your body and it’s unique road map - no one else can off what you uniquely have to offer 😉and that’s worth more than anything..
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Xenaesque

I just checked out your profile and from what I can see you are sexy and gorgeous!
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Xenaesque

And it’s hard putting yourself out there for judgment.

Kudos to every bloody woman that does it because they are all damn sexy powerful beings..😘

Ok and maybe some kudos to the sexy handsome men as well ☺️
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countrytouch82   Man 36yrs

In this scene and at parties where people do get naked etc, I've seen little or no judgement of others and generally people do not bat an eyelid as to what people look like, body wise or private parts wise (of course this is for parties and people that do not have body type restrictions).

Many of us have insecurities about being naked etc regarding appearances. Sometimes that comes from within ourselves only. Sometimes it is general society that causes our insecurities, not people in this scene. For example I am quite white under all areas of normal clothing, even just recently at a concert as I slipped my shirt arm up a little to put on more sunscreen, someone behind me immediately made an audible comment about how white I was. So I'm not that comfortable being topless or near naked in public, but I've never ever had such a comment naked at a swingers event.
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XantheaHunter  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

Enjoy your good assets, improve what you can and accept or ignore what you can't. You have amazing breasts and would definitely turn heads.
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allfouradventure  

Couple Man 56yrs Woman 52yrs

Well said “country touch” well said !
My partner has a great figure and those that have seen her naked and in her various positions whole heartedly agree, but the female for some reason see things that no other can see .

Enjoy your figure curiousnhorny .... no one else matters
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 40yrs

Inner thighs ??

You mentioned you got dark inner thighs from being sporty & active ?

Forgive our ignorance, but what has gone dark and how ?
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curiousnhorny05   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 38yrs

darker skin

just from my thighs rubbing together.. the skin has gotten darker nothing dramatic
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The_Antichrist   Man 40yrs

Everybody.....has an insecurity about their body....

Welcome to the world of humans 👍👍
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 55yrs

Yep




I like my boobs and legs but not my wobbly tum. However.......no one has ever looked at it and been put off. If a guy has a confident naked woman in front of him he will be a happy lad indeed........
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OkeyDoke45   Man 49yrs

Try being a ginger...

And having no real uniformity of pigment anywhere. You could play ''join the dots'' on my skin and still be at it 22 years later.
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sassynswyte   Woman 45yrs

We have all felt and thought what you are feeling xx

I'm a bigger girl too and hun it's personality that makes you sexy.. I always look at it like this.. your partner loves you and not everyone is going to be attracted to everyone.. that is just the way it is. 50% of woman on the world are going to be skinnier, sexier, neater down there and 50% of woman in the world are going to be fatter, less sexier and less neater down there. All that matters is that you love who you are.

Its just as hard for men when the other guy is twice the size of him and buffed..

Everyone feels exposed and judged but hun just own who you are and love you.. but what you are feeling is perfectly normal and we have all felt it xxxx

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