Face pics

Face pics

    | Apr 10, 2019
the2ofus4you   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 46yrs
We have been talking too a couple for a couple of weeks now and feel we have a lot in common
We have showed them our face pics but they have said because of his occupation they can’t show their face pics
Our question is, how do you feel about meeting people that you have know idea what they look like

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Free_spirit_72   Woman 46yrs

Dubious.
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MsJonesy   Woman 51yrs

Nope....

And nope.



I would not meet with anyone where I hadn't seen face pics. The old "I can't show my face" excuse just doesn't cut it; there are many people on this site whose workplace wouldn't be thrilled with their presence here, but it is an adult site for people who wish to engage in consensual acts with others.



My advice...remove access to your gallery. Politely but firmly let them know you won't meet unless you can have face oic access. Likely result...they will disappear. Highly doubtful they would ever show up for a meet, even if you agreed to it without having seen their faces. So move on to people who don't put barriers in place.
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avixen

For me it would be a no.

Whilst it’s great to connect mentally and be stimulated that way - faces pics are a must.

Who do you know who you are talking to otherwise:

One and only time it happened in the past was a definite miss.. the couple showed up, spoke in front of us in another language to each other more than once and then after some talk left.

It’s about respect.

Everyone requires discretion. Everyone potentially has something to lose here in the confines of normal day to day life I’d discovered however respect each other enough so that if someone shows you face pics then it’s reciprocated. And no it’s not about tit for tat - it’s about respect - mutual respect. You want something from someone then you give them the same in return, man, woman, couples, single , other - don’t ask of someone what you aren’t prepared to give back.
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

Let’s focus on the facts....

1. They have your face pics
2. They are seemingly interested in meeting.
3. Meeting would enable you to see their faces


Exactly what is their issue???

My guess is they’re never going to meet you....
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hotnhorny4u   Woman 52yrs

So they won’t even show their face pics via other means? Not looking good, but if it comes to an actual meet being organised well what have you got to loose. If they don’t show have a plan B and it they do show and they are not your thing at the very least you had a night out.


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privatecpl4u   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 52yrs

Suspicious, but what the hell its a fifty fifty chance of how it will turn out. Go for it what have you got to loose? We have met a few nice people in this same scenario.
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 39yrs

NEVER do it. Completely suspect.
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 39yrs

I'm actually taken aback that you've been chatting for a few weeks WITHOUT seeing face pics. If they're not shared willingly after about 2 or 3 messages, i will request. If at that time they don't share then I jump ship. I wouldn't have indentured "weeks" of my time on someone that could be Sloth from the Goonies or a colleague.
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abab1  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 43yrs

We're one of those ones that didn't show face pics online.
Until recently we ran private parties in Townsville and met a lot of local people.
There are lots of awesome people here but a few odd ones too. We met everyone that came to our parties for a coffee or cam chat instead to make sure everyone was genuine and friendly. They got to see our faces there.
It worked really well as a face pic on a site may not be theirs, be photoshopped, really old or 30 kgs ago!
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horneycouplewa  

Couple Man 53yrs Woman 52yrs

I don't get it

Hhhmm weeks of chat .... that's a longtime if it's consistent chat !




I don't understand why the excuses of not wanting to show face pic's from a private gallery which you can take away access at anytime YET they will say I can send you a pic via email which you will always have (screams married man playing alone to me)

We/I won't ever meet without seeing face and full body shots, basically we just end up saying we will be at a club hope to see you there or if they are worried about being seen there too then a quick drink to meet before we head out. If they don't show no loss to us.

There is also video chat on several apps to verify someone and this is a must for us with singles (M or F), if it turns out to be who they say they are a definite boob flash is going to happen
Mrs H
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avixen

Abab1 - cam chat is ok.. at least everyone gets to see everyone before fronting to a face to face situation and not being sure who they will meet..

I understand people not wanting face pics on here (even given the private galleries and the control over who views them) but given the copious messaging apps available there’s really no reason to not share via one of those methods. And for me again, it comes back to mutual respect. If you want and ask something of someone then you give them the same respect in return.

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cuckcouple09   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 45yrs

Thanks every one for your thoughts
As I work fifo the chats have been ongoing and via another app....
Every one is different, but we prefer too see a face pic before we meet
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privatecpl4u   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 52yrs

Hey abab1. You guys do hold awesome parties and you are correct sometimes a face to face meet, Skype, FaceTime is the way to go as pics online are not always good representation of people or yourself. If they don’t agree to any of the above. Walk away.
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stueyjay45   Man 46yrs

If you are so worried about showing your face because of “your work” then don’t get onto these sites.... simple.... and honestly, it’s Cairns, no one is THAT important (except in their own lunchbox maybe) that they have to remain hidden.... and IF they did actually turn up to a meet, would they be wearing a Donald Trump mask to hide their identity? Some people are far too full of their own self importance to be given the benefit of time let alone anything else
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 39yrs

Cuckcouple and OP.... Are you the same couple?
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 39yrs

StueyJay well said👍🏻
I won't FaceTime or cam or phone call with anyone..... not even people i know, let alone people i don't lol
If a person is interested enough to message me and they dont furnish me with a facepic then I'll NEVER be interested enough to put any time or effort into meeting them face to face.... its ok, that's a no from me, enjoy the site and i move onto the next message.

Simples.
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DonnaBrett   Couple Man 57yrs Woman 51yrs

Nope.

They are time wasters. If people don't share face pics with first message we aren't interested...sometimes we'll wait for a second message if their profile seems amazing but that's it. One couple actually messaged us some time ago, and even gave a phone number so we could text. They saw our faces upfront but wouldn't show theirs. They said they prefer to meet in person. When we insisted on seeing faces first they got really nasty with abusive messages and then had the audacity to call us rude. It was bizarre.


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Timmers   Man 39yrs

Nope just nope.
I mean how would they feel if you turn up and be like um no thanks. Sorry but that could happen then who’s fault is it 🤷‍♂️
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LizVS

Not sure

YOu would have to go with your gut feeling on that
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thecatsmeowaus  

Couple Man 35yrs Woman 31yrs

Delete access to your PG and check if they have the black tick icon from RHP. We only chat with verified or validated profiles. If they are, then push to meet. If they delay significantly just delete their dumb ass. Many times we have had our time wasted by catfish profiles and uncommitted participants.

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