Face Picture in Public Photos? Yes or No?

August 25 2019

Hey.



Im still fresh to RHP and im still un-decided about whether i should have a face pic in the photos anyone can view.



I want to because when i scroll profiles and see a face pic it almost always interests me and id bet they have a lot of success.



I dont want to because.. privacy concerns maybe? Haha im not really sure how to put it. Obviously i need a bit of help here!

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    5 years ago

    I do, hubby does. I don't show any interest in members that don't display a face pic freely; be that in their Public or Private albums. But if its not a decent, recent, un snapchatted (so juvenile) pic shown with their first message, then I show very little genuine interest.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Ultimately it's your life and none of others' business what you do with your personal life. Unfortunately, our friends, neighbours, co-workers don't think that way and are judgemental - to the point of getting ostracised or being turned down from opportunities in life because you wanted to seek primal gratification.

    Our personal advice is not to, but if you do it's ok as long as you understand the risks. As they say, you can never retract what you put out on the internet. Cheers, Aj & Dee

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    To not want to display my face in public.. However ' l do have a face pic in my PG which i open when l feel it 's nessasary. If this gets up someone's nose ' so be it.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    Unless one works for ASIO, The French Foreign Legion, Italian/Russian Mafia or a wanted crimminal or married without your partner knowing you're on here, yep! there is a reason to hide yourself.



    I do prefer face pics as it gives me a choice. Much better than a fugly dick pic or being unreal.

    Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    To put your face pic up as a profile pic. Many do on here. No shame in that.

    Ms Foxy

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    5 years ago

    But l think the important thing is to have some pics available to see straight up to garnish some interest from passerby traffic. No pic, many drive straight on without slowing. We are a visual crowd.

    And if you choose not to have a face pic in your public window, you must have one in your private gallery otherwise those that do stop may soon takeoff.

    Think of it like those prostitutes in the shop windows overseas, if the blind is down you ain't gonna stop let alone knock on the door.... Its common sense but apparently there is a shortage in here.

  • funcouple2017

    funcouple2017

    5 years ago

    Our advice is not to have public face pics. Society is judgemental and this lifestyle is still in the shadows. We also do not share our face pics with profiles that are not validated by others in the lifestyle, as it could be a fake profile with someone just looking for photos or trying to recognise someone. Maybe that’s us just being paranoid. I guess everyone is different and it’s a personal decision. We don’t really want to criticise or judge anyone in this lifestyle, because life can already be challenging enough.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    As long as they have face pics in their private galleries then a body pic is also fine. No pics is a no no. I dont care what you do for a living, a body shot isnt going to cause any upset. I tend to think people with no pics are attached and on here without their partner knowing. (Im talking from experience, almost every time....). People with face pics will have more success than people with none. Imagine if people were so precious on Tinder? The site would shut down!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I'd get sacked lol, but happy to share my bod. Face pics happy to share with people I know aren't associated with my work.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    I agree. Especially this "People with face pics will have more success than people with none".

    I believe also, some (not all), I get themselves all uptight and paranoid for being on here. Like it is so Taboo or something. It is not breaking the law to be on here. The only reason being (that I can think of), someone may report them to who/whom ever, yet they are also on here. I find that rather, vindictive strange and bizzare.

    Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    True! No different to being on other so called vanilla sites where Ive been asked for random hook ups by men and couples. Same sh*t, different name. At least on here you can also make some awesome social friends if you want to. And whats bad about that? X

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'Kokoflamingo'



    As long as they have face pics in their private galleries then a body pic is also fine. No pics is a no no. I dont care what you do for a living, a body shot isnt going to cause any upset. I tend to think people with no pics are attached and on here without their partner knowing. (Im talking from experience, almost every time....). People with face pics will have more success than people with none. Imagine if people were so precious on Tinder? The site would shut down!

    I haven't been on Tinder for about 6 months but the last time there was no shortage of ''silhouetted against the sunset'' body shots. Plenty of face pics, but plenty not as well.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'
    I agree. Especially this "People with face pics will have more success than people with none".

    I believe also, some (not all), I get themselves all uptight and paranoid for being on here. Like it is so Taboo or something. It is not breaking the law to be on here. The only reason being (that I can think of), someone may report them to who/whom ever, yet they are also on here. I find that rather, vindictive strange and bizzare.

    Ms Foxy
    It depends on what they're here for though - RHP has probably more of an emphasis on fetishes and kink than most other sites that I've looked at, and a lot of people are worried not so much about the fact that they are on here but that Joe or Jane Bloggs from work will find out that they are into MMF threesomes (for example). I know a couple of people where I work will get on dating sites to see who's on there that they know for shits and giggles (I know, they need to get themselves a life), and they would not hesitate to show absolutely everybody else at work. That's just one example, and is the biggest one for me. I have occasionally braved putting my face pic as my profile pic, but then I go into a bit of a panic about it.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    Obviously, the couple of people you work with don't know the best kept secret is never shared. They are informing you red flags of their behavour. Thats thrir problem not yours.

    Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'
    Obviously, the couple of people you work with don't know the best kept secret is never shared. They are informing you red flags of their behavour. Thats thrir problem not yours.

    Ms Foxy


    Their problem it may be, but I would have to deal with the social and possibly professional implications at work should they blab it all about.

  • KittyDeluxe

    KittyDeluxe

    5 years ago

    I understand that some people want privacy - I do get that.
    Personally, I prefer profiles with photos of your face and body.
    I get a little tired of asking someone for a photo of themselves and being sent a dick pic.
    Quite frankly, what your cock looks like doesn't interest me in the slightest.
    I want to know there is a physical attraction first, an if there is - move on to the intellectual attraction.
    So if you don't want to have your face/body public it's fine to have them in your Private Album and allow access only to those you want to chat with.

  • KittyDeluxe

    KittyDeluxe

    5 years ago

    If you are seen on here, it's by someone here for the exact same reasons as you.
    Stop worrying so much.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    5 years ago

    Professional reason being the main, then again I’ve been spotted by people I’ve worked with and it opened up a lot of discussion between us. The fact they’re equally “guilty” of being here goes the way of people in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. I think men would fare better being on a site like this and being pitted professionally moreso than a woman who would be “slut shamed”, there’s a word I have used in a decade or more....



    I’m personally beyond caring, most wouldn’t say anything if they’ve seen your face here because it would be putting themselves to the person they’re blabbing to. Ripple effects.... if I’m ever asked I just refer to the fine print “it’s an adult dating and social networking site” what others use it for is on them.



    Should I ever find my images, like my profile write up being used by someone else from this as I have in the past there’s always the Moderators. Failing that, I don’t do images that would place me in compromising situations by having pink bit or sexually charged shots that could be used against me. 🤷🏼‍♀️ And always ALWAYS make sure you check the lists of people who have access to your photos and remove access after a while. That’s just good housekeeping!



    Safety first, last and foremost ~ Indy

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    5 years ago

    PROOFREAD!! Men outted professionally and slut I haven’t used in decades!!! Damn autocorrect

  • brokenhands

    brokenhands

    5 years ago

    Thank you all for your feedback 👍 still undecided at this stage and if i had to choose id probably lean towards no face photo until i get a good one.. im thinking a close up half face with sunnies? Haha..



    But for real.. if i dont have any success ill be putting a face photo up like it or not coz at the end of the day, there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in using RHP 😊

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I would very much love to put a face pic up here, I like the honesty of it and it cuts down on any deception. But I am scared. Guys you don’t want to interact with can use it to find you on other sites (it has happened to me lots) and people you know can use it against you, not everyone takes rejection well and it’s pretty easy to create another profile if I block someone. They just keep coming back, angrier and angrier.

    Anyone you know could be on this site. We all have our reasons for being here, but it’s easier to be more honest about your kinks when you remain anonymous (no face pic)

  • KittyDeluxe

    KittyDeluxe

    5 years ago

    Guys track me down on other sites all the time.
    If I say No on one site, they see me on another and try again.
    There's nothing to be scared of, really. Block them and move on.
    Put that face pic in a private album and revoke access ten minutes after they've read the message giving them access.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    Exactly what Kitty stated. Heaps of guys track me down too. There's nothing really to be scared about. Block them and move on. Heck, I'm in a high profile job in a well known department. My face pics is out there. I dont give a shit what anyone thinks. My choice to be here, not anyone elses. Theres no law stating we can not be.

    Ms Foxy

  • usnow

    usnow

    5 years ago

    For anyone that is genuinely single there is no reason they cant have a face pic , they are doing nothing wrong , its no different than being on a dating site .For those of us that are married or long term attached its a complete different situation , its hardly the norm for general society to be into swapping partners or having threesomes .For anyone to say otherwise has really got no idea .

  • yep_its_me

    yep_its_me

    5 years ago

    Well as everyone agrees, it's personal Choice. I display mine because I have nothing to hide, also I don't really mind what people think of me, the important people in my life know everything. So if you are comfortable then go for it. Many including friends and my partner don't display for privacy reasons, doesn't stop bumping into oeople while in public...... it just depends on how you act.