Escorts....

Escorts....

    | Jul 14, 2018
Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs
Who has used the services of an escort before?
What were your thoughts? What prompted you to use one.

If you haven’t used an escort before - why not? Is it something you would consider?

My partner has suggested one before and I have been against it. My thoughts are that I wanted someone to truly desire me because they wanted me - not because they were getting paid to..
However given the volume of people on this site finding someone sincerely interested in meeting us is exceedingly difficult... lots of people blow smoke but fail to have the spark to go all the way and light the fire...

I’m finding it hard at the moment as I’m putting myself out there trying to impress people and seemingly failing at every turn..

Whilst we would like to decline a friendship and potential on going something with someone maybe in the meantime an escort is something I should give consideration to..


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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

Ok... let me fix the above

We would like to develop - not decline - definitely develop a friendship with someone we meet - look for an ongoing connection if possible

Develop!!!! Lol

Mobiles and fat fingers don’t mix!

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BYOGIRLS   Woman 39yrs

Yes but ????

I have used a male escort many years ago when i was not confident with myself to go out there and explore the outside world. At first it was great and gave me the sense of feeling a woman again for a while but reality hits you after. I will forever remember the wonderful times we had together and he taught me a lot and he help built up my confident and here i am on here exploring further but I really couldn’t have done that without meeting my male friend, i’ll be forever grateful to him for this lifestyle journey I’m on...I think if using an escort with two of you might be more ideal than one to one at least both of you share the experience together.
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CandyD   Woman 32yrs

Xena

Have you gone to Our Secret Spot? The swingers club. I think you might really like it there and it is another way of meeting like minded people. Better than trying to hook up online.



CD
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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

It will be an ‘us’ experience

All the way.

I won’t do anything without him. It’s a package deal with us.

It’s just a thought for an experience. Something I get to share with him and that person and then get to have him after as well too.

At the moment I’m giving to people and not getting anything back, it’s just a little draining mentally and leaves me wondering what’s wrong with me... lol
I won’t give up - I’m way too stubborn for that lol but this was a thought I had to be able to explore options, be open to possibilities, experience new things..
what we do with others only heightens what we have together, it’s never detracted from it.

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CuriousCrumpet   Couple Man 41yrs Woman 34yrs

Xena...

We have for the reasons you mentioned, used the services of a female Escort twice and more recently a male.



The girls experience was ok but like you a connection is needed for a great experience for us and it just felt lacking and staged to an extend. Still had some great parts to it though but not something we’d rush out for again.



The male was even less successful. False advertising and wouldn’t stop commentating the whole time, found it very off putting. But served a purpose. The MFM situation was one we’d not tried and were curious about, and now we know it’s in our comfort zone.
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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

CuriousCrumpet

Thank you - I think for me the connection will be what will hold me back.... but have to admit currently the thought is very enticing... at least I know they’d show...

I do like the lead up to actually meeting someone, the chat, the drinks, the dinner, the flirting.... and this would obviously be absent in an escort experience..

I just don’t know - I’ve alwas straight up shot my partner down in the past and I’m sure when he finds this forum post he’ll have a giggle to himself, but not my mind is giving it due consideration....

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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

Hmmm typo’s

Lol apparently my keyboard use is shocking today let’s try always lol and now my mind...

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WineAndFunTimes   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 36yrs

Not for me

I need there to be a connection between myself and any potential play partner. And I'm very picky. I already have great sex with a handsome man at home so swinging is just an extra bit of fun on the side.

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pipsqueak  

Woman 34yrs

Disclaimer




I have written this before but important that I disclaim again


I work in a Escort agency owned by a close friend on a Saturday evening and if its a long weekend I often do another night. So my post is obviously going to be pro using the services of a escort, just so one knows


No I'm not a escort but yes I have been tempted and yes I have had offers. I work behind the scenes doing many admin tasks including the books but also media and being a phone hostess (taking the bookings and scheduling the escorts and drivers). I sew lingerie, I make tea, I make up hair and faces and endless other behind the scene tasks


So a little bit of insider info


I start at 10pm and work through till 8-9 am Sunday morning. Peak Escort request time is between 1am-6am Sunday morning (Friday nights are quiet as many are out at end of week drinks etc). Busiest days for escorts is Monday/Friday (tradies days off)


We have both male and female escorts on the books and require a written health check every 6 weeks from them in order for us to book jobs for them. They are not allowed to drink or do drugs on the job, unless they are towards the end of their shift. Then its their business


And a little about them, well most of them are aged in their 20s and 30s most are uni students with massive HECS debts and gruelling schedules or backpackers. Some have been at the agency forever and some like the back packers make quick good money and then move on. We do have older ladies and gents in their 40's who are our most popular escorts, who mainly work as escorts because they love people and sex and the money is good and the work suits their hours and life commitments


Yes, escorts do love sex and love the company of people otherwise it would be hard for them to do their job


I think many have a stereotype of what a escort is suppose to be, let me tell you, they are normal with financial commitments like all of us, just trying to make a buck. Its a tough job at times, but I hear from them more positive stories than negatives


Male escorts are often hired by ladies to attend events with them and act as a partner/boyfriend, sex can take place but its not a given nor always requested. The female client simply would like someone to attend a event with them, without hassles or complications and to act as the perfect companion. Occasionally women do hire them men for more and the clientele is usually post separation/divorced and looking for reassurance about their desirability and femininity. A help you back onto the saddle scenario. Our males escorts love these bookings as the women are often a little hesitant but given the right circumstances, bloom


Men and couples bookings, its more about someone to party with and ultimately have sex with.


Safe, discreet, no hassles, no dramas, no follow-up and every desire and whim is catered for


You chose your escort. They will turn up, they will not be drunk nor high on drugs, they are open minded and willing and no third party will suddenly appear ! They will leave when asked and will not contact you unless you request it. You are in complete control. Complete and yes they do look like their pictures otherwise we couldn't run a successfulagency


They want to spend time with you as they would rather have a long job for the night than move on to endless other jobs which requires travel and means they are losing money whilst commuting. They want repeat business (this is what a good escort counts on) so they are looking for regular clients, to establish bonds with and that is often the case with the client who is looking too. They often want the same escort but at the same time, the escort always knows their place


So for me, the escort is the perfect solution for many woes especially if you are catering for a fantasy for the first time. You want to try but not sure. I recommend this is the way to go


Ok chemistry, yes that has to be established but that's in any given human interaction but if you reject the escort based on looks, they just move on. Nothing personal. You cant force chemistry but in the case of a escort if you're not feeling it, you ask them to leave and they will. No harm done, no ego damaged, no spite or anger or nasty consequences.


As I posted previously in another thread, I'm not saying its the ultimate and only solution but Id like to think people are more open to it and acknowledge that using a escort does have its advantages, more advantages than disadvantages


Feel free to PM if you have any questions


Now, off to hustle


















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Curioustwo88   Couple Man 29yrs Woman 29yrs

Not for me

I couldn’t do it, I really need a connection and to know someone wants me for me not because they are getting paid.

Mrs C

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pipsqueak  

Woman 34yrs

Xena




Your post came up after I posted


A misconception


Often a escort does meet for dinner, drinks, chats, and there's lot of flirting


Its such a mistake to think that this doesn't happen. It does. In fact many couples request that's how they meet initially and that happens about 80 percent of the time. Its just like a normal meet but yes you are paying for that meet


The escort rarely just rocks up and get straight down to it except at times with men only jobs. A lot of texting ad flirting and interaction takes place prior, to warm the client up and trust me, the escorts love it too.


Its a job with a lot of benefits


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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

pipsqueak

It was your post in the other thread that made me just have a little rethink and curious about others experiences with escorts ☺️

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Snap_Dragon   Woman 40yrs

If




Quoting 'pipsqueak'


Male escorts are often hired by ladies to attend events with them and act as a partner/boyfriend, sex can take place but its not a given nor always requested. The female client simply would like someone to attend a event with them, without hassles or complications and to act as the perfect companion. Occasionally women do hire them men for more and the clientele is usually post separation/divorced and looking for reassurance about their desirability and femininity. A help you back onto the saddle scenario. Our males escorts love these bookings as the women are often a little hesitant but given the right circumstances, bloom



I lived in one of the big cities I would be seriously considering hiring a male escort. After 18 months of no sex I'm getting a really bad itch, but at the moment I seriously cannot be bothered with all the bullshit that comes with looking for a guy that I'm reasonably attracted to both mentally and physically. I went onto Tinder a few weeks ago and honestly I think it's sucking the soul out of my body.

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thenomad85   Man 32yrs

I haven't

I haven't. Mainly because I'm a bit morally weird on the subject - I want someone who wants me, not somebody who's doing it because they have to as part of their job. I'd be worried they'd not actually want to, which I wouldn't be at all OK with. And I'd be absolutely horrified if they weren't in the business willingly (although from pipsqueak's testimony that seems to be less likely to be a thing). Plus I think the legalities are a bit weird.

For someone who's had as long a dry spell as I have (several years now) a lot of guys are surprised I haven't, but I guess I'm just not 100% comfortable with the idea.
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

For the first 2 years of separated life...

That’s all I did was visit a brothel....couldn’t have sex with them though ... got rather expensive though...

But I missed adult contact....and being naked provided vulnerability.... just to hold a woman close was lovely if only for an hour...

I stopped going though it wasn’t viable spending $300 a pop for a cuddle lol

Every now and then I get tempted to do it all again to revisit that feeling but I go visit my mates place and go hang out with his staffy nowadays....

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pipsqueak  

Woman 34yrs

MFW

If you ever head down south, I’d love to take you to dinner and introduce you to the behind scenes of my little job. I think you would be interested :-)



The staff are lovely. All normal with their stories to tell . Yes they are good looking but not ridiculous zoolander good looking , just easy on the eye and come from all walks of life



And the thing about escorts. The sex, it’s all about YOU and your desires, not them, so how can there not be a connection ? Imagine being completely indulged, the centre of attention, all your sexual needs catered for, every whim met and you don’t have to reciprocate if you don’t wish. Your time, your escort



Trust me an hour is not enough





Now Anti, we’ve talked about a loyalty card for you :-)



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Hottie1   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 51yrs

Yes I have ...

Used an escort, it was a way to introduce me to being with other people as I’d only been with my husbandand he had suggested swinging ... I procrastinated on that for 10 years. I was worried about whether I was good in bed and could perform well .... pffttt what a load of rot lol 😂



The escort and hubby were my first ever 3some and MFM ... he had a 10 incher and I wondered WTF I was going to do with that thing. Poor hubby got stage fright and it was a spectatotor sport that evening for him ... but it was also the very moment that he learnt he loved watching me, apparently nothing quiet and shy in this chick :) There was kissing, oral on both sides, squirting (lots from me) and the escort loved it too.



I may be out of line in saying this but I was lead to believe that the escorts wouldn’t orgasm/cum in case they got a call out and to ensure that they could get hard again ... oops, every single one we were with did orgasm.

It was an expensive experience but I wouldn’t change it ... the confidence that it gave me worked a treat :)

It was a lot like swinging ... quick connections, fuck, then head your seperate ways.



We stopped because of the expense but also our favourite escort left and the following two experiences were ordinary at best ... one escort even used toys on me, he came twice in an hour and I faked it ;)



Being in the swinging scene, I wouldn’t go to an escort again, for that casual sort of fun swinging events give me the chance to play, watch, socialise etc. it offers a lot more than a one on one :)



Mary xx
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Once

I trie did once when I was younger. I was going through a nasty drought and like going to dance class I delayed or made excuses and one day I just went yep.

It was a horrible experience, for me anyway I don't judge about anyone else view. It was such a business experience it felt flat and non fulfilling. Like a lot on here I need to feel a connection, there was none it was more of pay, shower, condom and cum. I felt like I needed to date her first just too feel something.

In the end that was it, the worker said I'd make a great male escort. I'm the type that if I was asked to be a "make believe partner" for one event I'd shine like a true actor. I like portraying someone for someone, give me the details and I'll be that character. But I'm also the type who is a gentleman, good company and if someone just likes to feel good around someone who has a lot energy I'd be a rich man.

I guess it really depends on the person too, some love their job and enjoy the right clients, where some are just in it for the $$$ which again it is a job. I feel for some workers thought dealing with desperate, smelly men and the restrictions and rules in place due to those who have no respect for people.
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curiousgirl35   Couple Man 36yrs Woman 36yrs

Thought about it but...

We are looking for a 3 way but i want to experience pleasuring a woman, dont really want to pay to do stuff to them 🤔🤣

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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

Pip...

Hahaha loyalty card...like frequent fucker points?

- Posted from rhpmobile

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