D/s Curiosity

November 10 2018

I have been lurking on Rhp lately, let my membership lapes to guest status. I've not long back from a stint abroad. I lost touch with some really terrific people while away, so a I'm posting partially as a means to shout out and say, "Hey, I'm back." I'm also posting because while in Rome, I had a glorious evening with a Dominant. He was quite a few years younger than me, only the second time I have taken a younger lover but my god, that mattered only for the insecure five minutes my ego had a shit fit, he was beautiful, confident, insanely security and commanded my attention in a way that was new. The experience so intoxicating that now I am hungry for more. I'm wanting to meet single Dominant males, those who have an equally nurturing aspect to their personalities as well as that delicious ability to mentally connect & drive the D/s dynamic. If not Rhp does anyone have recommendations for making such connections in SE Qld?

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    5 years ago

    I understand, Fetlife may be a more productive site for you in this regard.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    5 years ago

    Welcome back...
    You could try Fetlife tho be careful please. There are a lot of would be dims out there and make sure you DEFINE what type of Sub you are. If you aren't a slave, make sure you say so. If you are a brat, make sure you say so. The dynamics between the different types if D/s relationships is quite substantial. Its not as it seems to those with little experience. (Not intended at your good self, just a general statement)

    Good luck.

    If you can not find what you want, as in some one with the experience, you could and can find someone who wants to lesrn along the way with yourself. Which in itself is a dayam great journey too.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Don’t hold your breath hun,
    I’ve been searching for months and months.
    No doubt after your post your inbox will be flooded by thirsty boys that think that slapping your ass and pulling your hair makes them a Dom 🙄

    I have had the pleasure of meeting and chatting with a few here on RHP, perhaps I could make an introduction, we just don’t have the same ideals on the dynamics we seek.

    Fetlife has lots of groups and information, unfortunately not so good for meeting “real” Dominants.

    KinkD can be useful sometimes.

    But.... alas I’m moving on with a naturally Dominant gentleman in the vanilla world who seems to understand more of the dynamics than most “Doms” .

    You’re probably best to search profiles yourself and pay attention to the language they use. You’ll know. Good luck 🤗

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    There's so many Thirsy wannabe Doms here. I agree with Inspirt. These wannabes can be dangerous.

    Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Submission, and consent.

    Conversations around philosophy on these two topics may be a fruitful way of removing the wheat from the chaff. A lack of formed thoughts on these may be all you need to know.
    Otherwise, as always, I do agree. Take care. Also, good luck.