Do older women want relationships with younger men?

Do older women want relationships with younger men?

    | Apr 04, 2019
vampavibe   Woman 39yrs
Everywhere I go, I'm seeing older Australian men who are clearly in their late 50s or early 60s with much younger women, usually of Asian appearance, who wouldn't be any older than 40.
It's astounding how common this is.
They all appear to be actual couples in relationships.
I see the same couples like this on public transport travelling to and from work each day, around the city, shopping centres etc.

But I've noticed that I never see the opposite.
I never see older Australian women in their 50s or 60s with much younger Asian men.

Why such a huge discrepancy?

My questions are:

1/ Has anyone else noticed this?

2/ Aren't older Australian ladies interested in relationships with younger Asian Men?

Thoughts?

Kindly keep all comments polite, thanks.


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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 39yrs

I have noticed alot of older Aussie Gents with much younger Asian wives. Can't say I've seen the opposite though, ever.
Personally i don't understand the attraction (if any, if we're being brutally honest). I also would not be interested in an actual relationship with a much younger man, our life experiences and common interests would be worlds apart.
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0z_boy   Man 58yrs

Hmmm

Yes Ive seen a lot of it as well, and most with a few kids in tow.

I blame the internet! A lot of the sexually active and eligible women in the 50-60 age bracket have gone feral cougar leaving the randy men in that age bracket a little lonely :D
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HappyGoLucky70   Woman 48yrs

Yes I've seen this a lot too. I can only think that's because they've had no luck in relationships with women in Australia. There is a big thing for Thai brides too. Not sure why the trend isn't the same the other way around
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Tall_n_Hard  

Man 61yrs

@FFF...

The general reason why you will see a willingness for younger Asian women with older Caucasian men, is that they see the men as a relaible source of security for their futures. They figure that the man will have gone through any 'wild side', have security in the forms of housing and/ or income and be prepared to have a steady relationship with them.

Also don't know why you generally don't see the reverse.

Tall
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

I have seen it but no so much Asian

I think/ believe it has to do with inter racial marriages and cultural upbringing of the males. In "some" cultures as it is Taboo for interracial marriages and the man must honour his family values and marry within his own, to carry the family name. Males are of high regard. I know as it happened to my daughter when she married a man who has very strong custum believes. She was a "white girl" and it was very frounded upon in his culture. All is ok and accepted now but was not at first. His mother cried non stop for over 3 mtonths. It broke my heart when I was told that.

Yet, go to Bali and there are heaps of Australian women with Kuta Cowboys. Weird as they prefer to travel there than stay here. A woman at my work went as far as Turkey to find a husband.

Ms Foxy

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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

Actually, I just thought of this.

My mum's sports physiologist is dating a much younger man who is asain.

Ms Foxy
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 56yrs

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The Asian ladies take up with the Aussie older gents so they can provide for their families back home.

The gents are happy to provide for the families as they are provided with a young trophy female, sex and company in their twilight years. Win win situation for all.



And let's face it, most of these guys would be lucky to pull a woman at the nursing home let alone a female half the age. She gets to hope he falls of the perch earlier rather than later to get whatever money is left.

Still, it works. Good luck to all.
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0z_boy   Man 58yrs

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Yes Annie and tall are right on the money.
I think the older women dont go the same way as they dont need to.
I have occasionally caught some of these young wives checking me out, and by the look of the hubbys I can understand why. hah
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boxestotick   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 45yrs

Money and a visa!
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Qefenta4  

Woman 100yrs

I know

An Australian business woman who has been married to a much younger Balinese man for over fifteen years.They live in Bali and she financially supports his other wife and children.

It works for them.

Hugs Q
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

I do see it too OP...but from what I’ve read, and conversations I’ve had with blokes who holiday in said countries they are attracted to their submissiveness....

A guy that I spoke to at a flour mill met a lady overseas and he said the lady he met wouldn’t go out unless she called him to ask his permission, what to wear...etc..

I find that to be far too clingy for my liking and to be honest, it’d do my head in...
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avixen

I think a reliable source of security to provide for family is one thing but how does one live without the connection. Without passion? Relationships come in many shapes and sizes and we are never to judge anyone’s as what works for them is their business. However regardless of the relationship type you have wouldn’t anyone still want it based on friendship, loyalty, passion, desire, trust, forgiveness and growth? Are they not key aspects to it? Love can be given or taken it’s not a necessity for a strong relationship and can ruin things but would longevity in a relationship not need to come from more than security? Would that not get taken for granted and the male become suspicious as to the intent of his partner (or vice versa) Or does he not care because he’s getting benefits from it no questions asked and he enjoys not being challenged and not having to answer to someone?
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

I have not noticed the discrepancy. Maybe because I do not go actively seeking the discrepancy.

I do know there is and have seen and met a few couples profiles on here, where the woman is of an older matured age and the male half is of Asian decent and younger. I do know there is a regular forum poster who is in this situation, as I have met both of them. I also do believe this couple are together because they genually care for each other, and are not in it for the visa or money. So, it does happen, not here but out in the community as well.

Ms Foxy

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avixen

Foxxxy It’s nice to read that these relationships do work and are more to the eye than what we see. It’s easy to assume you know what’s going on in someone’s relationship just by being a third party viewer, but particularly as you become close to them, however you never truly know unless you ask that person. Assumptions can kill.
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

* Not "just" here but out in the community as well.

Ms Foxy
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OkeyDoke45   Man 49yrs

Not as simple as some think...

Darwin is a very multi-ethnic community with many inter-racial marriages.

There are ''anglo'' men with Asian women who met in Australia, fell in love, got married etc. They have a relationship just like everyone else.

There are the older/elderly men with younger Asian wives - the wives probably mostly are of the ''mail-order'' (to use an old term) variety, but of these there are two sub-sets that are pretty much split down the middle in my experience.

The first are of horrid, putrid, morbidly obese men who treat their wives like absolute shit. They sought them out most probably for an easy, regular root - with the added bonus that she cleans the house as well. I have met a few like this through my work and it is hard for me to hold a civil tongue. I have told a couple of the long-suffering wives on the quiet that they should leave their husband and go find a man who at the very least won't treat her like a slave.

The second are men who were never able to enter into a relationship with a woman for whatever reason - and yes I will admit physical attractiveness is not one of their strong points by and large. Time is getting on, they are getting a little too grey in the hair for their liking. A trip to Bali, or Thailand, or wherever where there are women who wish to leave their lives of hardship. Tick all the legal boxes to get married and she can migrate to Australia. Yet the men treat their wives with love and respect, the wives are genuinely in love with their men in return. I have met a few like this again through my work.

Being that Bali is a short flight away from Darwin I go there quite regularly. I have a favorite massage place (of the non-special-finish variety) that I go to every time, and every time I get young women flirting with me and saying they would really like an Australian man, and of course I am sure that they say that to every single Australian man that they see. I'm not saying that's a bad thing - I would probably do the same were I in their situation. Some of these would like to be ''kept women'' but remain in Bali, yet others will want to go the whole hog and find an Aussie husband to take her to Australia.

So there's a little bit more to OPs topic than just ''dirty old Aussie men looking for a cheap root who cleans house''. There are those for sure, but there are others as well. Sometimes the women get an absolute shit deal, but in my experience many find themselves with a good man who takes care of them.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 56yrs

I like what Okey dokey posted

The same can be said for older Aussie guys who get an Asian house boy for sex and service. Some are treated like shit and the situation arises because younger Australian guys would never put up with the treatment from the dominant pigs but the Asian guys send money home for family.

But we can't tar and feather all these Aussie guys, there are many loving relationships amongst the terrible ones.

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slightly_busted   Couple Man 52yrs Woman 44yrs

we know quite a few younger asian or women from that area with older auzzie guys and they are very very happy as far as we can tell , it’s not always about the money but a nice lifestyle helps i’m sure ,good luck to them why not , also as mrs b damns them ,they aren’t always anywhere near as young as people’s eyes may think ,just saying

mr b
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slightly_busted   Couple Man 52yrs Woman 44yrs

oops and on ops topic ,haven’t met any the other way around young asian man with older aussie woman that i can think of,but i bet there are plenty out there

mr b
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avixen

And back to ops topic - speaking only for myself - I can’t say younger has more appeal than my age or similar. I do have doubts about compatibility with someone younger however i think that compatibility can’t be measured by age or distance or societal norms. It’s a feeling you get about someone and being compatible with “x” person during a period in your life doesn’t mean that someone similar will be compatible in future

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