Define couple?? One person= SINGLE

Define couple?? One person= SINGLE

    | Mar 28, 2018
swingalingson   Man 37yrs
2 people=COUPLE.



Do they have to know eachother?could they have just met? Do they have to be long term? Could it be a SUGAR couple.



All of these couples exist, who outside of the couple looks into the relationship and determines if they are a true couple.



What is a true couple.



Honestly if an entry requires you to be a couple that being 2 people.



Where do the other rules come into play? Is a couple not a couple?



Play nice folks.
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Lovechild17   Woman 48yrs

This could

get ugly.



LC.
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HotNightsPerth   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 45yrs

Depends

Depends if you’re describing a couple in the formal or informal sense.

Good old google dictionary describes a couple as “two people who are married or otherwise closely associated romantically or sexually”.
Synonyms associated with the definition are “husband and wife, twosome; newly-weds, partners, lovers, cohabitees”.

By this description, this could include formal or informal partnerships which I think is fairly accurate in modern society. When we think of couples, we naturally think of partnered or married couples first. But really, you could just be a couple in the sense of friends or associates.



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Well...


...when I say I'm going to have "a couple" of beers on a hot day, it usually means a half-rack is going to give it up for the cause so maybe that's it? A couple is actually 12 randoms all running around naked and sharing MasterCards!

What's a ménage a douze?

Pass the popcorn and lollies, LC. I'm scared already!

👹👺⚡️

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OkeyDoke45  

Man 48yrs

Totally inexperienced, but...

I take it this is related to the thread on a bloke wanting to couple up with a woman just to get into a swingers night at a club?

I personally can't see anything wrong with finding a ''buddy'' to gain entry to such a thing. As others have mentioned on that thread, you have to stay as a couple though - so just agree to allow each other to indulge as they will but stay ''together''. I'm sure a good time would be had by both parties regardless.

Don't get the sniffy responses from the other forum, ''if you're not a real couple then you're not welcome''. Are FBs classed as a ''real couple''?
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

If it’s to get into a swingers club / party

Then perhaps you need to then play together as a couple and be intimate with one another sexually.

So many males pick up any female (that they have just met ) as a means to get into a swingers club as a couple . They then turn into single males once through the door. False pretences !!

So for us, a couple in the swinging scene / at a swingers club or party, really need to be romantically / intimately involved and to play together in the same room (or combinations thereof) and not part ways and play separately within the club / party

- Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

If it’s to get into a swingers club / party

Then perhaps you need to then play together as a couple and be intimate with one another sexually.

So many males pick up any female (that they have just met ) as a means to get into a swingers club as a couple . They then turn into single males once through the door. False pretences !!

So for us, a couple in the swinging scene / at a swingers club or party, really need to be romantically / intimately involved and to play together in the same room (or combinations thereof) and not part ways and play separately within the club / party

- Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

It’s about

Preventing the male, of an alleged couple , parting ways within the club and behaving like a single pushy male .

Obviously this applies on couples only nights at clubs / parties .



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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

To explain further

If a guy dressed up as a woman, to get into a swingers club on a couples & single women night , and once inside took off his dress and changed into male clothes,would that be acceptable ?

Of course not.

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EarthQueen   Woman 47yrs

Also curious Okey Doke

If you go with FB or FWB does it mean you have to stay in same room together in most clubs? Or do each have different rules?
At the end of the day I guess what matters most is respectful interactions from the said couple yeah?

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CandyD   Woman 32yrs

In Sydney clubs

Couples are supposed to stay together. Same room. If a man is walking around on his own he can be ask by the staff. 1 where is his partner and 2. May be asked to leave.



It’s not single men that are the problem. It’s any man walking around Unsupervised. Lol.



Otherwise depends on the people. I’ve seen plenty of instances where it’s clear people just teamed up together to get it and separate the minute they get In The club... and the guy because a nuisance. Hassling people and acting like he is entitled to something.



So depends, if you can stay under the radar. Watching people together it’s easy to see the real couples compared to casual fBs.
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funcple74  

Couple Man 43yrs Woman 43yrs

sooo nah.. yeah nah, yes thats right, nah..

We like to play with married couples, single guys and single girls, but having a FWB couples wanting to join us a couple of times, and it was really not for us, , the dynamics just arent the vibe we are into.. some couples may be happy to play with them, as long as they are up front about being FWB thats cool i guess
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gazpacho   Man 56yrs

Heterosexual Couple no doubt.

2 shall be the counting, neither one, nor three, and four is right out.



A couple is more of a concept than a matter of practice.



Hugs

Gaz
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HotNightsPerth   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 45yrs

funcpl74

If a FWB couple hadn’t have told you they weren’t a ‘real’ couple in the traditional sense, would you have even known they weren’t?
Not criticising, just curious as to how the vibe was different?

Ms HNP x

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funcple74  

Couple Man 43yrs Woman 43yrs

HotNightsPerth

For sure its possible that they could slip it past us/you, but married/in a relationship couples surely have a stronger sense of compersion towards each other, and thats an element we like to share with our own partner, where as a single using another person as a pass through a gate may be a little more self serving in their actions, again, just our perspective which shapes our choices,, we may be right, may be wrong.. :) -Mrfun
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 38yrs

Good question

Pretty simple for me though; a couple is a genuine long-term couple. Fuck buddies or playmates or FWBs that pair up are not a couple. There's no confusion about what makes a couple a couple in real life and there really shouldn't be one in RHP Land or in the Swinger Lifestyle.

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Msmidnightblu71

Was this question mainly about clubs??

I guess if you are being deceiving for the purpose of entry and you get busted, then you should be kicked out. If these are the rules of the club.

So many variations on the meaning of the word................

Depends on what context you put the word into.

I define it as 2 people who are together in some sense, married, living together, friends, FWBs etc.

Who really defines what rates as a couple?? Who wrote the rules on coupledom?? Is there actually rules?? Each couple views their relationship differently. The dynamic is different in every relationship.

Ms M

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FredAndGinger2  

Couple Man 44yrs Woman 42yrs

Club or personal meets?

For clubs I suppose any M/F pairing wwould be fine to get through the doors.

Our interests are more about friendship and connection which we've found only with genuine loving couples.

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SugarSugar69   Woman 38yrs

Singles attending as couples

I on occasion do this. I'm 100% single. When I choose to partner up as a couple for whatever reason it's with someone that I trust. Have a strong sexual connection with and always treats other's respectfully.
Being married or in a relationship does not always mean people have stronger bonds or sexual chemistry.

People love to assume so much these days. Partnering up is not a pass to get into the gates it's my choice to do so for whatever reason. FB, FWB yes if they choose to attend parties or social settings as a couple can do so they have all the other elements couples do so why not?

Less judgment and more time focused on having fun peeps.
Why must we label everything???

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swingalingson   Man 37yrs

Apples are Apples pairs are pairs. Why not couples?

I have left this subject vague. If I got a dollar for everytime this subject came up I would be Bill Gates, Elon Musk or Donald J Trump.
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megz85g  

Woman 33yrs

I’ve arranged

To meet guys at a swingers club and we have then entered as a ‘couple’, despite being our first time meeting. All these times after our fun, they have left and I’ve stayed as a ‘single’ fem

- Posted from rhpmobile

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