M32
Profile assistance..
June 01 2020
I have tried the premium profiles, spent hundreds however I seem to be lacking something!
- Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552
4 years ago
Your profile is pretty good. I might reorder the photos and put your third photo as your profile pic. Otherwise remember it is a competitive pool, so your best bet is actually to relax and be yourself.
SpicyKale
4 years ago
Not a lot wrong with it... Shows personality which is more than you can say for most we read. If i was going to give any feedback it would be find new pics. The surfing one would look great in colour and maybe a photo blur for discretion rather than it looking like mr squiggle had an affair with your mum😁 It's just a hard life on here for single guys!
nightingale8
4 years ago
Easy for me to say but might I suggest it’s not your profile but perhaps what you’re messaging or simply competition. Just a guess of course, nothing wrong with it x
FeistyFatty
4 years ago
Agree with SpicyKale and Rlee. Your profile is well written and clear with your intentions. Photos are nice. Its a tough gig for fellas on these sites. Maybe when all the restrictions lift and events recommence you can get along to one of those and meet some people. Good luck x
RHP User
4 years ago
You know women are getting 10s / hundreds of messages. So, they can have any kind of date, when they want, on their terms - and even 2, 3 in a day if they fancy. 'Tis just the way this site proceeds.
However, you are attached therefore you buck this trend because you will only be able to date on your terms.
Your dilemma is - no matter how your pics / words are drafted, you're driving against traffic. Perhaps your search should be limited to other women that are attached, but as you know - you'll find your options are much fewer. And being a guest member? Well, there's not even any RHP petrol in the car.
Wishing you luck.finediner
4 years ago
Rlee, thanks. I think I need to get onto the desktop to do it though. The mobile version is having issues. Any one else find that?
Spicy kale - haha! I’m old enough to actually remember Mr squiggle! I watched him on YouTube only recently. I think I now know why so many women my age and younger have issues with clowns and the like. Its not because of scary movies... it was puppets like squiggle! I’ll take onboard your suggestion though and see what I can do!
Thanks nightingale and FFF, I’ll take that as a compliment. :) certainly no kidding about it being a tough gig! I didn’t want to sound like another whining single man :|FeistyFatty
4 years ago
I LOVE MrSquiggle!!!! Upside down, upside down 🤣
RHP User
4 years ago
According to your profile you are attached (with not even a mention of whether you're playing with or without the knowledge of your partner), and you're a guest member so you're relying on women and couples to message you. Regardless of what you think about the fairness of it women and couples are much more in demand on here, can usually be quite picky, and receive plenty of messages from men both single and attached. Many are also reluctant to get involved with attached men for various reasons (again regardless of what you think about the fairness of that situation).
It's no wonder you're struggling. The odds aren't great on here even for single paid up men so to put it bluntly you really are pushing shit uphill.RHP User
4 years ago
It's a crazy / unkind world at the moment. And let's be honest. We've got a guy who's "attached" asking people "How can I better my profile so I can cheat on my partner?"
That question alone is kind of "Wow".SpicyKale
4 years ago
FFF, with a nose like that I'm sure Mr Squiggle has all sorts of hidden talents😉🤥
USA, couldn't agree more! It's one of our few hard limits on here.... for us as a couple we need to trust the people we're with, and cheating partners isn't a great start. History has shown us that playing with "married singles" just leads to getting fucked around... but as sn aside no one told the OP to change his status to single😉
ArdourMuse
4 years ago
Assuming I received a well thought out message from you to prompt me to look at the profile, what would put you in the 'meh' category for me include:
Attached status without comment in regards to the deal. Personally I don't care if you are attached but I like to hope that you are honest with me if you're wanting to keep it hush hush or not...not because I don't value discretion but it helps me to make up my own mind what risk there may be to me for partner to finding out.
Also, although your profile is written well enough it doesn't tell me what you're offering me...other than coffee and a movie buddy...lets face it... most are here for sexual experiences and we don't want boring when we have a wonderful selection on offer with the next message waitong in our inbox. It says play meets only, yet you want coffee and movies...I read into that as all talk, wants an easy fuck, will probably ghost.
Next!SpicyKale
4 years ago
While most might be here for sexual experiences, if all you've got for us is a profile that tells us how horny you are, that you can lick pussy for hours or gives us a blow by blow rundown on how you want a sexual experience to go it's an immediate pass from us. I think you might be underestimating the good folk of RHP if you think people aren't looking for an insight into someone that's not necessarily sexual. For us at least, we'd prefer to meet really interesting people and let the sexual stuff work itself out as we go... it's much more fun, if we wanted to role play we'd hire an escort. While the OPs profile won't work for some, at least it's not the autofill bullshit we usually see. No his profile isn't perfect, who's really is? If he wasn't straight, attached and in Melbourne we'd give it a second look and that's more than we can say for 99% of the single male profiles we've read lately.
Sawadee
4 years ago
Which I havnt read , but I've been here long enough to know it doesn't matter how good your profile , no one really bothers to read them anyway unless of course you look like Brad Pitt ..
A good photo probally helps which for recognition reasons' i can't post myself. But I accept that and something l have to live with .
Regardless ' lm a big believer in everyone doing thier own profile. Someone else might be superior with the almighty pen , but then you need to live up to what they have written which will eventually find you out . Be yourself ' write your own profile and be comfortable..finediner
4 years ago
All interesting reply’s, thanks. Even if some are jumping to some conclusions and being quite frank. I get it..
The way these profiles are, I think reaching out and seeking feedback is perfectly reasonable. Some people will completely disagree with items, some won’t. Some will offer constructive feedback, others will point and shoot. But I appreciate it all none the less; so thanks! I’ve already found a few errors in my own profile I can fix up, since reading your comments.
Freshsheets
4 years ago
Hi,
I liked your assessment. Care to have a chop at mine?
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