M28 F28
Curious couple
August 31 2021
that everything involving the swingers scene is absurdly expensive for no particular reason?
been trawling through the forums and seen event tickets of $100+. Thats a hell of a lot of money to invest in for a couple that likely has zero intention of taking a shirt off at the very first time they meet swingers.
Were curious, not perpetually horny.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Maybe ask for a special discount just for for you?
SpicyKale
3 years ago
$52? Just get the basic membership, it’ll be a full time job sending more than five messages a day anyway. I think we post about $13 a month, we’d definitely get our money’s worth and we’re not very active, especially since covid hit. As for prices for events, most are byo, so maybe $150 for a night out 🤷🏻♂️ If things are tight, look for a meet and greet, they’re free, zero pressure in a vanilla setting, with no sexual activity. It doesn’t have to be an expensive hobby if you’re careful. Oh, don’t expect it to be wall to wall fucking, we’d meet 1 out of 10 we chat with and then only meet every second person again! Good luck, it’s not tinder on steroids
Kokoflamingo
3 years ago
Some of my friends spend well over 200 dollars each on a regular night out on the town.
Mrs_Deep_Love
3 years ago
It sounds like you have high expectations that people will just fall into your lap. Your post reeked of entitlement.
You get out what you put in.RHP User
3 years ago
If $50 breaks the bank for a membership I can imagine the anko brand jocks , double pluggers and beater singlet. And of course the rusted swift belching smoke... so sexy.
FeistyFatty
3 years ago
Y'all sound like fun
RHP User
3 years ago
You're a "Furry" right? What does a furry suit cost - $100 or more? Your lady is a "Weeb" right? What does it cost to adopt another's culture... lots? You like a night on the Jack Daniels - what does a bottle cost in pricey Perth?
Now you're here. You're into a new dating scene. Don't be kangaroo arms - reach into the wallet, drop some dollars and give it a RHP go.RHP User
3 years ago
What exactly do you expect for ANY amount of money? It’s a dating site not an escort site so as much as the site creators may like to imply you’re guaranteed a good time that actually couldn’t be further from the truth. You have to pay the money and put in a decent effort, even then many aren’t successful.
The event prices can be ridiculous though and I totally understand, I wish there was more meet and greet type events. I’d like to go to them first and see how I like it before laying out hundreds of dollars for a night I may or may not be freaked out by, lol.
Not because I’m a feral who wears wife beater singlets, because I’m a mother and a human with more important priorities.RHP User
3 years ago
What is a furry? and a weeb? (feelng old)
teamaj2
3 years ago
VVF welcome to RHP . Like everything else with these sites , we all have choices and no path taken will suit everyone. If you feel the $52 is steep , stay as a guest. See what the universe brings you in the way of like minded people .
We once were members . With the onset of Covid we opted to be guests . We still get lots of messages and make connections with people .
We all have different budgets and spend our hard earned cash as we deem fit or necessary . 52 dollars doesn’t sadly buy you much these days . Maybe some takeaway and a bottle of wine , if you are lucky .
Membership does not guarantee success of meeting up with like minded people. Neither does attending events . It does increase your chances I would think. We certainly met a lot of amazing people attending events . I think finding the right event is a bit of trial and error . You may see that as a waste of time of money and energy . We are happy to be patient and believe all good things are worth the wait .
Wishing you guys success in this venture . A xRHP User
3 years ago
100$ might seem like a lot but when you consider that's per a couple and most clubs will offer a discount on future nights if you become members, Cvs on the Gold coast for example will knock the price down to 80$ for members so that's just 40$ per a person and also the club is BYO so you'll save money there.
To be fair I don't think many clubs would be able to operate for much less. Lets say 20 couples go to a club, that's 40 people and an average night, if they pay 100$ each that's 2 grand. They don't make any money from the bar as its BYO. they'd probably have to pay for a few staff, say couple of people to run the bar, a DJ, a receptionist to meet and greet and that poor fucker who has to wipe up the cum and jizz from the rooms after people have had fun.
Then they have to pay for whatever specialist license they need to run the venue. They have to pay for bedding, laundry of all that bedding, the condoms, the lube, the nibbles, the hot tub (if they have one) and then on top of that there's there normal overheads of water, power, maintenance and rent.
when you take all that into account there's very little change from that 2 grand.
As for the membership price 52$ is the maximum amount you can pay for just one month. I think if you just want to dip you toe in the water that's not too much, if you get a taste for it you can always get membership for about 12.50$ that's the price of a pint of beer in some bars.
You could of course just remain as guest members. Me and my partner have never paid for full membership and so far we've played with 4 couples, we could have probably played with more if we wanted to.
The difference however is we've gone to the trouble of making a good profile (at least we think it's a good profile) We've taken some good photos of my partner in her lingerie and some photos of us together having fun (I tried the lingerie but it didn't suit me as much) and we've written a good few paragraphs about who we are and what we want.
The first impressions of your profile, well for starters you have no photos so that's an instant no from us and most other couples or singles and the part you've written about your partner just gives the impression that this is your idea and she has little to no interest in the lifestyle or maybe even she has no idea you've created this account.
My advice
Make a much better profile with photos and much more detail.
Attend an event before you criticize or complain about the price. There are free or low cost events that members host and if you register your interest on the event page the hosts might contact you with the details. Again however your profile might let you down, most of these evets have limited space and you have to ask yourself why the hosts would contact you when there are much better profiles competing for a place.
As others have said you get out of this lifestyle what you put in and that doesn't just have to be hard cash. time and effort goes a long way.
Best of luck
MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
Sorry but what are you expecting...Free prostitutes?
🤷♀️🤷♀️
Ms Foxy
AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
Value/money means different things to everyone.
As a paying member for several years before reverting to a guest, I've had experiences that no amount of money could have purchased.
And to be honest, being involved within the RHP community, l could have easily have had the same experiences without being a paid up member. But l chose to do so to be able to use some of the extras to assist my journey such as restricted pics etc.
The 1 thing that should be avoided is paying memberships and entry fees and expecting sex because you did. Many do and it doesn't work, you just end up being a wanker in more ways than one.....
So pay or not pay, it's your personality that will decide success or not
ElectricDreamers
3 years ago
Try a lower access monthly or 3 monthly option and if you like it take the plunge to annual.
We came here for sex and stayed for the community - using RHP primarily for going to events and setting up dates - back when we were allowed to.
badboyhere
3 years ago
Let’s face it these days you pay $3.50 for a bottle of water which is almost $2 more than you pay for petrol and water used to be free once upon a time ago, a long time ago. So really nothing is free these days. You pay for what you get. Stay as a guest member and see what happens and lower your expectations and that way you won’t be disappointed .
gccouple1709
2 years ago
$100 for an event. Looking at the fact that you and your partner can go to an event (which is almost always BYO) and even if you don't take your shirt off, enjoy a much better and interesting visual experience than you would at any nightclub seems like a bargain to me.
Many nightclubs are $20 or more each to get in (there's $40 gone), then you get in there and pay $12 for a beer or wine, $15 for a basic spirit. Have a few drinks, there's at least another $80 gone and what have you got for your $100?
Watching people dance around and judge each other all night?
$100 for an event where you can bring your own drinks and see people having real sex in front of you seems like a great deal in comparison!
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