Are men capable of not cheating??
April 03 2024
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MsSuperFoxy
21 days ago
Absolutely they can and so can women in FF committed relationships.
It's not always men who cheat on their partners, women do too.
Let's make it clear, if a person wants to cheat on their partners, they will choose too.
There's many reasons why a person cheats. It's not always black and white.
Ms Foxy
Andrea_Sydney
21 days ago
According to surveys and research men and women cheat the same numbers. They apparently cheat at different times in their relationships and for different reasons. But it’s not a gender thing.
I guess also depends what you perceive as cheating.
Flirty2020
21 days ago
Of course they can.
We have been married for 26 years and my husband has never cheated on me. He knows and understands that it would not be worth jeopardising our marriage & life together, for a few moments of pleasure. I feel the same.
RHP User
21 days ago
Are woman capable of not cheating? Is it possible??
FeistyFatty
21 days ago
Don't get it twisted.... Women cheat just as much as men do.
boobsandbusted
21 days ago
For sure ,in two marriages ,before we stepped into the lifestyle 10 years into the second one ,I had plenty of chances with nice women and the thought never crossed my mind ,it was Mrs b that floated the bi sexual idea ,for her to look into , me ,I was happy and comfortable with just her and if swinging stopped but we kept our friends as friends I’d be equally just as happy with that , ok maybe not quite as ,but I’d deal with it , lol
Mr b
MisterMassage
21 days ago
I'll put the question out for opinion, when couple swing with each other and they swap partners is that cheating ? some may say no as it is permitted, but are the promises of dedication broken from marriage ? love to hear some thoughts.
TattooedBimbo666
21 days ago
Thank you guys for the replies. I ask this question because personally I have never cheated I could never even bring myself close to it to me when your with someone you don't even want to go elsewhere... BUT... I have also never been in a relationship where a man has been loyal to me and me alone and if course the insecurities start to creep in... Why aren't I ever enough??... I've actually got to the stage now where I almost expect it because it's all I've ever known 😔
fun2behere
20 days ago
I was in a long monogamous marriage and never cheated. After about a year of separation, my ex and I were having a few drinks. We both commented that it was like we had a big sign on our heads that said SINGLE. We agreed it was that we were suddenly open to opportunities that we just didn’t see before. She had a guy hit on her at the airport and gave him her number for a date. I had women I knew through work ask me for a drink as obviously the word was out I was single.
So whether you are a man or a woman the opportunities are there if you want them.
I also add I was working in corporate life then. Office affairs were common. Especially by executives. At one very large well known company all bar one of the senior executives including the CEO were having office affairs. Half left their wives for the girlfriend.MisterMassage
20 days ago
Alexis & MsSuperFoxy, thanks for your explanation on my query, you made my query quite clear and I appreciate that, Cheers.
Round2hell
20 days ago
No
the79W0LF
20 days ago
More women cheat than men, check your stats first 🤦🏼♂️
Tommy2132
19 days ago
No good looking guys can’t what’s the point
A good looking guy is attractive to 90% of women
An ugly guy is attractive to no one
A good looking guy is capable of knocking up 1000s of women no problem
So let the good looking guys do there stuff and keep multiple women have for a bit
We will happily fuck you if your young old ugly fat we don’t care
Obi1kenietzsche
19 days ago
I find I’m actually extremely happy and content when I’m stuck to a woman.
MrReliable2
18 days ago
It's absolutely possible, I was married for 25 years, never cheated once, wasn't interested in anyone else.
I would still be in that position now if it wasn't for cancer.
If people have cheated on you, that's a problem they have, it has nothing to do with you not being good enough.
There are lots of men and women who don't cheat, tha hard part is finding the right one.
EarthQueen
18 days ago
I think it's hard to say people, men or women, will never cheat. Relationships and circumstances change and what you think will never happen happens. Relationships get stale, resentments build or people are more friends than lovers or the opportunity presents itself and then it happens. Also ,what do you consider cheating? Is it actually having sex with another person , is it an emotional affair, is it chatting online to other people with our you knowledge but nothing ever happens? There are many ways to do things without your partners knowledge or consent.
Anmnmmalia
17 days ago
Nah
Kincraft
17 days ago
It's possible... but maybe rare.
More likely, men will be loyal where there are few opportunities to cheat or when the risks/stakes are too high. In 'modern' society, few men (or people for that matter) have the social values that would promote loyalty above satisfying primal urges.
Ironically, it's partly women focusing their attention on the most attractive men, and competing with each other for attention (often via providing sex), that has allowed a select group of men to indulge in promiscuous behaviour. The most attractive men have 'learnt' that sex is easy / of little consequence... cheating isn't seen as a great taboo. They simply move onto the next woman.
You want someone who doesn't cheat..? Pick someone who doesn't look like he could get laid at a night club. And then make sure he knows that it's an insult worthy of breaking up.
More subjectively; I've not cheated on anyone. Yet, I learnt that women couldn't be trusted to remain loyal... Rather that join that team, I opted for open relationships with the rule of 'let me know first' (this wasn't about permission). You'd hope this would resolve the issue. Instead, I'd discover activities conducted in secret... as though there was a need.
Women may complain about men cheating, but there are men who are eager to be loyal, opt for open relationships in favour of avoiding a thing that would cause a relationship to end, and still cannot find someone who's trustworthy.
When I message women, I often hear 'you're not what I'm looking for'. Which is fine... we've all got our preferences. But, I wonder how many women are inadvertently selecting men that will cheat on them.
For clarity, I've lost faith in traditional relationships. The risks and stakes are too high. I'll sustain a relationship for as long as we're both happy together... however that relationship happens to look. There's a basic need for companionship and intimacy that warrants discarding any ideals I held about relationships... despite this flexibility, women aren't interested. They seem to prefer a different type of man... and I suspect it's those that are in the habit of cheating.
Despite my rant, I do sympathise with the position women are in. It's a messed up situation, and it may be a little unfair to boil it down as I have. Realistically, we're all good people trying to make the most out of a challenging life.
The main point is, if you're always finding men that cheat, the problem isn't men... it's either the type of men that approach you or the type of men you're choosing.
Crystal_Randy
15 days ago
My partner never cheated and I let him do any he wants and even sent him to Thailand and let him to travel anywhere and talk to gym gals but he never cheating and makes me angry lol
SugarSugar69
15 days ago
Funny that. I just got cheated on.
SDSBinMelb
14 days ago
Of course they can. But relationships normally fail because both parties are unhappy and don't know how or have the emotional intelligence to reconnect. Remember women cheat as much as men.
Hornyandnice
14 days ago
Hi , I am a 53year old male, my partner and I have been together for 22 years. We have 2 awesome kids. I look at her everyday & want her. We have had experiences together, I have not once contemplated being disloyal (a scumbag).
So yes, men can be loyal and there are a lot more like me I’m sure.
👍
Season2
13 days ago
Yesssss
RHP User
13 days ago
Yes....Although it is the reason im as old as i am and been with two womenfolk my whole life and have none of that blasted game im supposed to. Cups half full and half empty all at once
RHP User
10 days ago
No sorry
Outlaw77
7 days ago
Go both ways it's sort all here about man doing women are just as bad they just don't get fond out as much but think 60% people do these days 🤔
Pascoe45
6 days ago
What a stupid question was married 24 years never cheated never considered it if your in love your life is full.
Sorry this has been your experience.SugarSugar69
5 days ago
Not from my last experience
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