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First Time BTM
August 11 2016
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lots of lube.....and relax...
Make sure your top gets you relaxed, horny and begging first.....take it slow
And then add more lube.....
Hope you enjoy
Xx
- Posted from rhpmobile
DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Shave , flush , flush again 😊
Use lots of lube and relaxxx 😊
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
what's BTM? Bum to mouth?? 😇
RHP User
8 years ago
You're already excited about it, so that's half the foreplay right there.
Douche and repeat. That eases your mind, so you can totally relax and focus on enjoying the moment.
Or I could come and hold your..um..hand??
Make sure you come back and give us a full report. ;)RHP User
8 years ago
I'm confused as well, is this anal or BTM ie rimming?
And is it with a guy or a dildo? I only ask, because with a dildo / strap-on you can't as easily 'feel' when the receivers ass loosens, as I imagine a cock could. So a fake cock would require more verbal communication to continue by the receiver.
I think it's easier when actually already very horny. If it's rimming, just make sure the area is clean and as tidy as required by both participants.
For anal douche / enema: Lube. And I prefer anal specific lube, as it seems to grip for longer.
I like to start of with butt plugs. Starting small, get hornier, swap to larger...
I prefer to push back on cock, rather than the cock pushing into me - to start. This enables you to control it, and not move until your muscles start to relax and accommodate. Otherwise I find it hurts if they are controlling.
Be in a position where your body is most relaxed, to start. I wouldn't recommend starting on top / cow(girl)boy? style
Always include other stimulation to keep the arousal and momentum going.
Lastly, have fun :)
Missb4u
8 years ago
I thought BTM was an appreciation for bottom..
Bottom being a term for a guy that is penetrated.
Is that correct?RHP User
8 years ago
Not sure if it's different for men and women but UnicornDelight nailed it, make sure your top has you horny and begging, that's the key, full arousal and heat with the other person, building up to the point where you're begging for it, that's what happened to me the first successful time. My first time with success, was after a 2-3 hour play session, with an experienced guy, that's the other key thing, make sure you choose someone with experience, but they then have to know how to build up to this, and of course have the experience to not just slam it home ouch. Experienced guys will know how to gently ease it in, move around to get the right angle, little bit of action happening and only increase intensity when they know they're not hurting you. Then you feel their excitement and arousal heightened and it's amazing, very intimate, only something I share with a few guys who tick all the above boxes, and mine to begin with lol
I respect that everyone does this differently, but I'll also say that for me, I don't like stretching, for me it works best with straight in (I use oil as lube) BUT I can't take a thick cock, few guys have tried and it wasn't going in, just wouldn't fit, so we gave up. Choose someone not too thick, because when they are able to get it happening, you can enjoy without pain, though they still need to enter really slowly, quite often takes a bit of manoeuvering and a few goes to get started, then allow you time to adjust to the feeling. That works for me anyway. Length is fine, but thick can be an issue. I feel the ass was designed for a purpose, and stretching can cause other problems, it basically needs to be tight and I'm not messing with that. Up to you how you choose to do it, it's your body, and you'll know yourself how your body copes come the time. But it's exciting and very intense when it goes well. Good luck. I agree you'll have to report back after the event mmmRHP User
8 years ago
allow anal foreplay for a few weeks hence your partner uses your mouth and slowly build to fingers and then you just have to see how that is. You will like rimming and thrusting your arse against the mouth
RHP User
8 years ago
I read it the same as Missb.
Top, btm or vers.
He be taking some cock, lucky boy!! Bottom(btm) is receiverRHP User
8 years ago
There's an abreviation called ATM which in kink speak means arse to mouth.
BTM is bottom, going by the profile descriptions of bi/gay guy roles. I'm always on the lookout for btm or vers guys. Tops are everywhere. Lol.RHP User
8 years ago
I thought you would have known that Candy with your bf being bi ?
RHP User
8 years ago
Have you snaffled all the Top/Ver guys Willow? I never meet any and think I must be some sort of bottom magnet. Vers are my unicorns
RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah sounds like it hey? Haha
Versicorns?RHP User
8 years ago
Sounds about right. I assume a versicorn is a unicorn with a horn at each end?
RHP User
8 years ago
My boyfriend never uses text speak, and I haven't come across BTM before. He would write the words bottom or top. I assumed it meant the same as ATM but a nicer version. Lol.
My boyfriend prefers to bottom but is a switch. Which is lovely. He has deflowered a few bums in his time - I even have got to watch a few times. There wasn't much preparation done as such. Just need to be very turned on, lots of lube, and go slowly!! Let the bottom dictate the speed at first. Personally I sometimes find it can hurt a bit if the guy is rock hard - so best to make that cock come first before it goes in your bum.RHP User
8 years ago
Just a question...has anybody tried using honey as anal lube?
RHP User
8 years ago
Honey dates to eat sure. 😋
But honey is sticky, it would make the rear entry less smooth and more bumpy. LolRHP User
8 years ago
Well there you go, I never heard of slipping a bit of honey up there.
Will do a sneaky, and see what my friends reaction is. Hope he likes honey. Better than using vegemite. LolRHP User
8 years ago
Hold the food stuffs. Not a fan of mixing my plates.
RHP User
8 years ago
Visual of Nutella kinda looses the appeal to rim. Ewww!! Is it...or isn't it. Haha.
Bi_english_guy91
8 years ago
Buy an anal trainer kit from a sex shop/ online sex shop.play on ur own first so its not too bad.douche, only take in the water u can handle. and flush afew times until the water is clean.lots of lube, u can buy special anal lubes which help numb.
and the advice possibly isnt responsible but ill say it anyway...... have afew drinks to losed up mentally, u dont need the nerves.... and also amyl makes a world of differance.
goodluck, and enjoy :) xxxRHP User
8 years ago
test
RHP User
8 years ago
My last female partner, before my amazing wife, loved me talking about having been and fantasising about being a bottom. I must say, I love a woman turned on by gay sex between two men!
RHP User
8 years ago
sounds like an awesome partner to have trynewthings123b and have always fantasized about a mmf with a sexy lactating woman...
And go for it jay228, you will love it !
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