M52
Partner is curious about swinging
September 25 2022
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teamaj2
2 years ago
Personally I think it’s 100% fine to go and get a feel for what happens at a party, event or club . They all differ obviously. Even attending the same place on a different night we found the atmosphere can vary so much and is often crowd dependent.
We attended our first party years ago . We had an agreement if at any time I wanted to leave we would . My husband reassured me he would not be disappointed.
There is no pressure to play . You can just mingle , sit on the sidelines just the two of you and look around get a feel for things . Everyone new proceeds at their own pace . It’s an adventure and there should be no pressure to do anything unless comfortable .
Good luck . I hope it goes well for you both . Ax
Flirty2020
2 years ago
There is never any pressure, to play. Certainly not at the clubs that we have been to.
And no, always means NO.
Margo_Lover
2 years ago
The great thing about a club is the options you have.
You can mingle & socialise.
You can watch people play.
You can go into a room, close the door and play yourselves.
You can open the door and let people watch.
You can allow people to join and play separately on the same bed.
You can touch others (with permission) whole playing together on the bed.
You can play with others to whatever degree everyone is comfortable with.
It can be an excellent way to immerse yourselves in that environment.
Our 1st experience was in a club. A fantastic night.
- AlexRHP User
2 years ago
Yes this is how I will be approaching it with someone Ive just entered an open rship with. Shes obviously not as exposed to it as I am so its a matter of baby steps to begin with, watching first. The if thats ok, maybe having sex in a room where another couple is having sex (but not swapping).
Just make it a gradual easing in of the lifestyle...
MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Absolutely, you can go
No, it's not rude to watch as long as consent is given and you know the club rules prior. IE: Open sex, anyone can watch. Chain across door, you can watch but no entry. Door open, you can enter but must ask consent to touch/join in. Door closed, do not enter under any circumstances till the door is reopened.
Best to talk to the club prior.
If she she says "No" to anything, remember Her body, her choice. Do not try to convience her into doing things you want or else it will all turn into shit.
Best of luck.
Ms FoxySawadee
2 years ago
We're in the same boat as you.. Mrs Sawadee likes the idea but is too shy to take the next step.. She even suggested l go and see what happens, but theres no way by myself.. Not that she's new to playing , we've had a few experiences but not with so many ppl . More one on one.. She also doesnt like the idea of single males
CuriousAsianCpl
2 years ago
Depends on how well you guys have communicated and feel about each other. We considered swinger clubs to start with but ended up meeting couples that we got along well with and we had already agreed to start full swapping from the get go. No regrets and loving it.
hounddog70
2 years ago
Update … we went to between friends Friday night . It was sooo good . We had a great time and she enjoyed every single aspect about the whole evening.. we had a couple of really sexy encounters with other couples .. she’s looking forward to going back. It went better than I expected.
Mysteryosah
2 years ago
Its is true ,just watch and go along with the current
Mysteryosah
2 years ago
Dont be shy and take it like an adventure of your life and i was shy the first time too
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