Oh no😮!!!!!

basically my girlfriend of 8yrs has discovered my dirty little secret

So basically my girlfriend of 8yrs has discovered my dirty little secret it just so happens to be that I don’t mind goin a bit of both ways if ya know what I mean the thing is that I’m very discreet about it also don’t mind a hot trans girl too you know like the very passable ones most people wouldn’t even know they were trans that’s how hot I’m talking.... well anyway just last week while I was asleep my girlfriend picked up my phone (which I dont keep locked) ????? And she has opened it up and bang right in front of her was my messages on another dating up I won’t name the app but let’s just say it’s 99% gay guys and the occasional trans she then wakes me up going off saying what’s this blah blah blah and now she is theeating to tell all and is calling me a homo and all that kinda stuff so in a sense this isn’t a story of being caught but naked rather the story of being caught butt fucked... I’ve got no idea what to do rather then own it I guess..

Thanks Rhp for the chance to share this embarrassing yet very exciting story .

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BrizFunTimez

Posted: Mar, 18 2018

Maybe you can just explain that this was a kink thing and that you were too embarrassed to tell her. That said I think she has a right to be mad. You did break her trust. But if the love is strong enough hen I am sure you can work through it. The only way to make things work in this world is openness with communication!! and honesty!!. You have a girl who’s willing to play already, hold onto her with all you can!!...Good luck! 😊

sensualplay

Posted: Feb, 21 2018

Good luck. It'll take some time I imagine to repair deceit. I agree the only thing you can do is own it. And dig deep, be vulnerable and share how you are with the deceit, the things that got you to that point.

Sustainable relationships need trust, transparency, honesty and vulnerability

TheDoorMan

Posted: Feb, 20 2018

You broke her trust. You been together for 8 years and you did not tell her. That's just _cked. You own it now! Try explain it to her honestly. If you want to stay together. Best of Luck.

Crazysexycool72

Posted: Feb, 17 2018

Shes pissed, you cheated on her and kept a big secret. Always be honest most women get it you know you should of trusted her, whos to say she may of wanted to join the fun. All the best

DeanW

Posted: Feb, 17 2018

So both of you are right snd both of you are wrong. Which is why it’s such a tough situation now.
You should have told her, but is very hard so I get that.
She should appreciate you have the interests you have, but that’s hard because she does not feel like being accepting cause she’s been blindsided.
It’s not all about you, you need to realise she is in this too.
It’s not all about her, you did not hook up with others to do something to her.
Dude, don’t kick her out like someone else suggested, she’s not a fucking fuck doll is she?
Don’t run away from the tough conversation now that you have avoided for years.
Own your own sexuality but own your responsibility to eat some fucking humble pie for her as well. 8 years buddy, I think she deserves youv to cut her some slack right now as well.
Get together, shelve the pride and talk!

fantasy1971

Posted: Feb, 17 2018

You cheated on her. This has nothing to do with your sexual preference. Shoulda been honest when you discovered what turns you on......may have been fun. Now it’s just pain.

Single_Discreet

Posted: Feb, 16 2018

Nailed it Joanne 1991

joanne1991

Posted: Feb, 16 2018

Maybe some honesty wouldn't have gone astray. 8 years really, no wonder she went off. Lots of questions regarding safe sex for everyone involved.

jordy666

Posted: Feb, 16 2018

She’s an asshole for calling you a homo and threatening you. If she doesn’t understand you have sexual needs that she can’t satisfy then find you a girl who does!

Single_Discreet

Posted: Feb, 16 2018

I don’t blame her, and No I don’t find it exciting when you cheat on her not with another woman but a guy, did she have any say in the protection of sex.

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