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How Do I Let Her Down Gently?

Hi Bessie and Geoff,

I've been with my girlfriend a few months, but things aren't really working out and I want to break it off. Do you have advice on how to do this gently, I don't want to hurt her any more than necessary.


How Do You Tell Who's Into 'Playing'?

We're a happy couple who enjoy the swinging lifestyle. When we go out to bars and clubs we often wonder if some of the other couples there are also into the lifestyle, but we don't know how to tell, and don't want to offend anyone by approaching them. Do you have any advice on how to figure out if...

Why Am I Going Slack At The Worst Times?

I don't have a problem getting an erection but at times it just doesn't last and she loves lots of foreplay and feels that it's her fault when at the wrong time it just goes slack.

Is it something physical or maybe could it be mental?

To Call or Not to Call

Hi, I've been dating this guy for about a month now. He works full time in a busy job. I work casual. I enjoy his company and I'm sure he enjoys mine. My question is, there's times where I'd like to call him through the day just to say hi, but I'm not sure whether to call or not, he could be busy....

Can I Change Her Mind?

Well I have never been on a date or even kissed another woman in my life. I just really wanted to focus on getting a career before I saw anyone. That was until just over two yrs ago. I had a severe stroke, and if they didn't find me in time I could have died. I thought I wasted my time studying and...

The Subject of Swinging

If you have been with a partner for a while and would like to try swinging with them, how should you go about bringing this up with them, what's the best way to broach the subject?

How To Meet Someone Special

I really need help. I have been trying to find a girlfriend and it is not working out with me. I even tried the net and it is still not going well for me.

Can I get some advice on how to meet that special someone?

Note: I am a decent looking guy but I am too shy to ask out any girl because I...

Stressed Hubby

I have been married for 13 years and have three young children but lately I am not too happy at home.

I have even met someone and have been contemplating leaving home to be with this other woman. Lately all the stress of thinking about what to do has been putting a bit of a strain on my mental...

How do I forget my Ex?

Hi Bessie & Geoff.

I have just ended a pretty distressing relationship with a man I loved very much. Unfortunately he couldn’t keep off the net and chatting to other women. He even had two of us going at the same time 2 years ago, but I took him back. Silly I know.

My question is, why do I not...

First Date Expectations

Hi Bessie & Geoff,
Great to have you on board. We are looking forward to some really useful advice.

We would like to ask: What do you think are the keys to making people feel comfortable, particularly when meeting for the first time under the pressure of strong sexual expectation?

Yours C &

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