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With swingers’ parties, group sex and orgies temporarily being taken off the table, what are pleasure-seekers to do with their free time?

Actually, there are a few options, masturbating together, over the phone or on video chat, can be a super sexy way to connect. Here are 9 fun ways to get off while you’re in isolation.

1. Hotline -Dirty talk

Pick up that phone and practice your dirty talk with a hot RHP member. This can be less confronting option that full-on video chat, or a great way to warm- up to video chat. Since you can’t see each other, you really have to paint a picture in each other’s mind.

2. Sexting

This will reach new heights. You’re going to be a pro at getting off on sexting. Read on 5 tips on how to UP your sexting game 

Think it as foreplay and as a tool to get to know the other person’s turn-ons. In case you are just getting to know each other virtually, imagine the fun and the sex you’ll have when you actually meet in IRL. 

3. Video Chat – Skype sex

This is a step up from phone sex since you can actually see the other person. When you can’t be in the same room, cam sex is the next best thing. Consider your background, use soft, indirect light. It might feel weird in the beginning, that’s ok, you’re trying something new, just roll with it and in no time, it’ll be quite thrilling. Why not dance in your lingerie, or show off all your dress-up costumes, flirt and dare each other and who knows what follows…

4. Steamy Erotica

You can find lots of sex stories right here on RHP that caters for any fantasy and taste - hours on end of RL events and some born from very vivd imaginations. Bonus points if you and your partner take turns reading erotica to each other.

5. Creativity for your slightly kink taste

This is where your creativity gets to shine! Look around your house and see which vanilla object you can use for sex. If you’re into nipple stimulation, those clothespins can double up as sex toys. Go into your kitchen and maybe use your spatula to spank your partner. Exercise caution because, FYI, the candles you have at home are not appropriate for wax play. 

6. Sex Toys

Consider trying a new toy during this time. Companies online are still shipping. Explore sex toys, during this time, sex toys are the closest thing to the real thing. You can try strap-on and pegging with or without an audience. Pegging is something a lot of guys fantasise about and some like the idea of an audience watching them. 

7. Digital party

Move your party to digital. Oh yeah, call upon your naughty RHP friends, organise a group happy hour and sign on at the same time to make it feel like you're together even when you're not and have a group sesh. Start off with a slow and sensual striptease and then let your inner slut shine. Tell whoever joined in what you like them to do to you, bring your toys to help you take your fantasy further. Show off your ‘slut-moves’ and put on a great show and indulge in your voyeuristic tendencies.

8. Sex Marathon 

Have towels, toys, lube, water and wine by your side and go on a sex marathon, or specifically long masturbation session. Set a DateFinder inviting pleasure seekers to come join you on a marathon video masturbation. It’s not like any of us has to wake up early to get to work in time.

9. Pole Dancing

If you have talent, why not put it out there for everyone to enjoy. Why not broad cast and share your sexy talents with the rest of your RHP members? 

These circumstances won’t last forever. Try to find some good in the tough times you’re facing. Expanding your erotic abilities and offerings is a great way to brighten your mood and lift your spirits. Stay well and make the most of the extra time and be creative and safe when exploring your sexuality