Women are absolutely amazing creatures at any age, but there is something striking about an older woman. Whether you attribute it to her experience, her age, or her gained knowledge of self and her sexuality, she makes the best woman for men to date.
They are often referred to as Cougars, silly nicknames aside, dating an older woman, could be the best dating decision you ever make.
There are plenty of solid reasons to date older women that have nothing to do with just how fabulous they look. Here are all the reasons why she's the best woman to date:
1. She knows what she wants
With age, women understand themselves better. They understand their emotions, their bodies and what they want better. They have had plenty of time to figure out what's most important to her.
She knows what, how and when she wants something. She has no time for games, if she's interested in some bedroom play and you are her lucky pick, it's on for sure. She does not second guess herself. She will tell you, clearly, what she wants in the bedroom, how she’s going to get it. There's nothing sexier than a woman who is confident and fearless.
2. She's sexy
This is a woman who knows her body, her desires and when she fancies to try out a fantasy, she's serious about it. Sexiness isn't defined by the body alone. Sexiness comes with age. Older women know how to be sexier. Celebrities who prove older women are sexy as hell are; Sharon Stone, Kelly Preston, Kathy Ireland, Nigella Lawson, Elle MacPherson, Vanessa Williams, Michelle Pfeiffer, Elizabeth Hurley and the list goes on.
3. She's confident in herself and who she is
Older women are not hangup on body issues, they understand that their flaws are just signs of a life well-lived. Jane Fonda, once said: "It’s impossible to be truly intimate with someone if you don’t like yourself.” Words well spoken.
At certain age you come to appreciate your body and sexual appeal. You're sexually confident with what you like, and open to experiment with fantasies without hangups.
4. She knows what she wants in bed and will ask for it
They've not only lost their inhibitions, they feel freed from the awkward sexual encounters of their youth. Older women like sex because it's not only about fulfilling their partner, it's about their own fulfilment and during their lovemaking they do not stress about how their body looks. They focus on the experience and the sensation along the way. They focus on their sexual urges and desires.
5. She's experienced
Experience in the field of work is important, as it is in your sex life too. Older women know what turns them on, what and how they like to be pleasured. Most important they are not shy in asking what they like. They have tried a few things out and they can teach a younger partner a thing or two. What else can a young man ask for?
6. She's independent
She knows the importance of not losing yourself in the other person. Instead, it's better to love each other while giving each other the room to grow and flourish. Younger women and men get so possessive of each other unwittingly suffocating their chance to grow as individuals and as a couple together.
Older women wants you, but she doesn't need you.
7. She's truly free to be herself
She seeks out relationships for no other reason other than pleasure. She is not worried about commitment/marriage, kids and stability, she has been through all of these and they are not a priority to her any longer. She has all her attention to fulfilling her fantasies, her desires and indulging in her pleasures, to have fun with you.
8. She wants make you a better lover for her and your future lovers
She will make you a better man. She will teach you that women are exquisite creatures who are so much more than their visual bodies. They have desires and sexual cravings, that once divulged can make your life a hell of a ride. They will teach you to become the best lovers, to listen and to pay attention to your woman's bodies and minds. Your sex life with her will be unforgettable but the lessons you take from her will be forever.
Guys there are so many sexy older women on RHP, ask them out before someone else beats you to it.
Writing interesting pieces about sex, the lifestyle and the different aspects of human sexuality is a challenge that Christina will endeavour to take. When she’s not blogging, she loves to exercise, watch movies and go to the beach whenever she can.
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