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Make her squirt! A quick guide to female ejaculationLearn the basics of what it takes to make her squirt and give your girl a sheet soaking orgasms!

Christina Miller | July 19 2018

Make her squirt! A quick guide to female ejaculation

Is squirting the stuff of urban legends or is it real? It’s definitely real. Squirting is not a party trick. It either it happens, or it doesn’t.

The question isn’t if female ejaculation is real, the question is why don’t trust women to tell us?

When we credit people with their own sexual experiences we can all learn from them. When we accept that bodies are diverse and amazing, and that we don’t know it all. Only then can we better learn and understand each other.


Female ejaculation does not always happen, it depends on the situation, how stimulated and comfortable women are. It is estimated that around 60% of women can ejaculate. Some experts even state that female ejaculation is something that has to be learnt, which means that you may need some training to do so.


It’s quite normal to experience female ejaculation during sex, but it’s also normal if you don’t do experience it.

So, to clarify what squirting is, here are a few questions we’ve answered and some tips if you want to try it.

DOES IT HAPPEN TO EVERY WOMAN?


Nope. Research shows that a large number of women can squirt. If you feel like you are missing out, don’t. Because you may be able to learn how to squirt.


SHOULD YOU TRY IT -  AND HOW DOES IT ACTUALLY HAPPEN?


Heck yeah, you should try it. According to a study conducted, 80% of women and 90% of their partners who have experienced this said it was good for their sex lives – so why not give it a go?


You might or may not get there – again it’s not clear if it’s a born or learned skill – but all the same have fun trying to succeed, it’s lots of fun. So, if you want to give it a go, these squirting techniques and tips may help you with achieving a stronger orgasm or a squirting orgasm.


If you want to try it, here a couple tips to follow:



Get her to relax

The most important thing that helps a woman squirt, is that she is in the right frame of mind. This is everything, really. If she feels judged, nervous or shy or that she can’t let loose, there’s no way she’s going to squirt. The secret is that she needs to feel comfortable and free that she can let loose and squirt.

Use lot of lube


Plentiful amounts of lube are absolutely recommended for this. You will always benefit from extra lube, because making her sore or scratching her is going to kill your chances of making her squirt. 


Stimulate the G-spot




Be certain that your partner is completely aroused. Use loads of foreplay, focus on the clitoris and other erogenous zones and then move on to stimulating the G-spot.

You find that squirting happens during G-spot stimulation. You can find the G-spot by sticking a finger in vagina and making a ‘come hither’ motion. You know if you feel an almond-sized area wrinkly skin. A quick note, it is vital that your hands are clean and nails are trimmed to avoid infection or injury. 


Get a toy


If your fingers get tired, because squirting, especially if it’s the first time, takes time and fingers get tired. So, bring in your favourite vibrator.


Hop on top



Not going to sugar coat it, it may be difficult to squirt during sex, especially in the beginning. If you’re game, try woman on top position, facing him or back to him. This position helps you better control the angle of his penis.


Don’t hold back




Just like you won’t hold back an orgasm, don’t do it here. Relax and just let your body enjoy it

Some women squirt more than others, but the sensation will be pretty intense.




It can be a shock the first time it happens, but the good news is, you’re most likely doing something right, so you can be proud you’re pleasing her.


If the sheets get wet, don’t make a big deal of it – just have a towel handy! If she’s embarrassed, reassure her it’s completely natural.


If it doesn’t happen




Don’t get discouraged if she doesn’t squirt the first time, you can try again. When you eventually succeed, she’ll love it. If it never happens, she’ll still love all the attention and the orgasms as a result. Bottom line is - squirting and not squirting are both normal. 


It's great to want to experience another aspect of sexual pleasure, but don't let that translate to pressuring yourself to squirt or feeling "inadequate" if you don't. It should go without saying that if you feel pressured to do it, it's just not going to happen.


That’s it. Hope these tips help you with squirting.




If you’ve discovered your key(s) to squirting, do you have any advice to offer? Please share in the comments below.

Comments

  • WELoveToPlay

    04 Jan 2024

    What an amazing feeling, my husband really knows how to press my buttons. He has an amazing tongue and literally gets me squirting with in seconds. I’m a very big squirter at the best of times. I really love double penetration , anal especially if really sends me over the edge with uncontrollable squirting and multiple orgasms .it is a totally different experience through anal, you could say it’s a whole body orgasm that simply drains you from top to bottom Our bed gets quite soaked as well with the numerous towels but it’s all worth it. Keeping well hydrated before during and after is well advised for a great night. We absolutely love it .

  • Naughty1

    01 Jul 2019

    Born to licking

  • squrting

    24 Jun 2019

    Is it just me or does pussy juice taste nice and sweet,I just love tasting my lovely wife’s juices

  • clarky1976

    07 Dec 2018

    Mmmm just need a whiling play mate to put theory in to practice

  • PartyOrg

    06 Dec 2018

    Love the article, however I also think it depends equally on the lover and their technique...... They need to know what they are doing. Check out my singles profile @squirttrainer I am very passionate about this subject

  • activegrind42

    16 Sep 2018

    i do like a squirter big turn on

  • MsBlissBombs

    07 Aug 2018

    54 and have only just been shown how and made to squirt multiples. Pretty amazing. Love it!

  • kissable_desire

    23 Jul 2018

    With the right attention I will squirt over and over. I find the most amazing orgasms are from oral stimulation. Guys it doesn't stop there. As I am just getting over the shakes and shivers of that orgasm if he starts to thrust into me I will feel the squirty orgasm building almost immediately grinding into his cock to hit that perfect spot as soon as he pulls out I will squirt all over the room. Once ithe squirt dies off thrust in again and carry on. When I think it's all over and we've cum together I have the after shocks and my body goes into a sort of fit. At that point I literally just need to be licked in the right way and I will just start cuming over and over. I've easily had more than 50 orgasms in a 3 hour season. Having turned latex sheets into water beds can be dangerous at position change so still need a good 20 towels on standby and keep well hydrated before, during and after. Happy squirting!

  • Katkat

    23 Jul 2018

    For me a guy should know what he’s doing exactly I’ve only had 3male that made me squirt 1st is penetration wise must have really thick & long & hit my g spots. Second is I had FWB he could make me squirt a lot by eating me greatest feeling ever when you’re reaching your climax he keeps eating my clit gently till I cum over & over then I’d squirt eventually. But the best was 27times I’ve orgasm in one day such a euphoric feeling when u both climax.

  • jualfun

    21 Jul 2018

    Hmmm think really it’s another word for no bladder control.

  • steveandhisgirl

    20 Jul 2018

    if the guy is good enough i can squirt across a room........if he bores me he ends up across the room lol

  • rover35

    20 Jul 2018

    It’s the most awesome feeling making a naughty lady squirt for the first time and watching the absolute pleasure on her face.

  • outoftowner42

    19 Jul 2018

    It's such a fantastic thing to see, especially for the first time a lady gets there, and to look her in the eye is simply sensational. Seeing the reaction gets me highly aroused. Great article & like all things, it's the journey not the result where the fun is.

  • suzanj

    19 Jul 2018

    Thank u for the article. My hubby and I are in an open relationship for some years now and I have experienced many things in this time. Although some men have made me squirt I am yet to feel any sensation from it. I also find it hard to cum. Rubbing the clit vigorously does not do it for me, infact it turns me off. Can anyone offer any advice on how I can experience the wonderful sensation of squirting that i keep hearing about and how to cum more often please😋

  • mensbits

    19 Jul 2018

    I enjoyed the article. Thanks for the tips. it's an awesome turn on to help a woman to squirt. I guess the key is relax enjoy and change the sheets......

  • FUCKONFIRSTDATE

    19 Jul 2018

    Fun occasionally, but having your bed soaked in pee, even worse some one you just met that nights pee , not so fun, lol We have a picnic blanket, the ones with plastic on one side, we put on the bed, but spur of the moment. who can waste time getting it.

  • DarkAngel55

    19 Jul 2018

    I am s huge squirted learnt this some 7 years ago through a guy who got me to squirt over and over I just love the sensation of it so do most guys I get with too best experience I have ever had love doing it

  • Forus1234

    19 Jul 2018

    We love watching people’s reactions when they haven’t witnessed a woman squirt before. It’s quite easy to learn. Can also be achieved by standing up having sex, one leg up

  • FunGi69

    19 Jul 2018

    It is an amazing experience to see the look on a women's face when you bring her to be squirt for the first time... I am yet to meet the women who can't but they definitely have to be relaxed and it's much easier when they are not trying to squirt and just go with the moment...

  • TheScorpions

    19 Jul 2018

    We love to show ladies how to squirt 💦💦💦

  • Hotcouple640

    19 Jul 2018

    We have been with so many non believers and they come away amazed. There are some positions that will give you a better chance of squirting but once you have experienced the feeling you will live it. It’s also a massive turn on for the male half also. It’s just a great experience for everyone. Just remember extra towels. 💦💦

  • PartyOrg

    19 Jul 2018

    One of the best articles I have read on squirting..... My singles profile is squirttrainer so it is something I am rather passionate about :)