Women are into sex a lot more than men realize. And they don’t just want polite, demure hotel sex.
Heck, some women sometimes want something different. Secretly, many women want ....
Rough sex or forceful sex, has been around since the dawn of time and it’s a definite game-changer. At the right time, with the right partner, it can be a lot of fun. Rough sex is intense, passionate and a complete relinquish and acceptance of someone's powerful desire over you. This type of sex, is a incredible mental experience that is unequal to ordinary sex.
Experts say there are valid psychological explanations for our love of spanking, hair pulling, pushing round, manhandling and for some women this is a real turn-on.
How is rough sex a turn on?
Think back on the occasions you were bitten, scratched, or spanked, your blood pressure goes up and your heart races in response to that pain. If these happen during sex, say you are being spanked; you interpret it as sexual excitement.
As it turns out the pleasure and pain areas in our brain overlap. This overlap tricks your brain and causes it to confuse pain and pleasure when you’re experiencing them at the same time. Explaining why rough sex can be a real turn on.
If this sounds interesting, then this is probably something for you. Before getting down discuss your limits and boundaries and have a 'safe word' to stop anytime you feel in doubt or need a break.
Here are four ways to try rough sex. Start slow or go all out, entirely up to you but have fun with it.
Start with a medium spank and work up to a harder spank if you enjoy it. Spank with an open palm on the fleshier, lower part of her ass closest to her vagina. It sends vibrations through her clitoris and her whole body that lights a sexual fire.
Don’t be afraid to spank him, too. You might be surprised how much he likes it.
Some women like having their hair pulled during sex. Just be sure he grabs your hair near the scalp, grabbing your hair by the ends is often too painful to be pleasurable. Reverse it on him when he is pleasuring you, it's a great way to tell him how hard and where you want him.
Biting is raw and sensual. But if sensual biting is new terrain for you, start with the nape of the neck. The secret to keeping real pain out of the sensual biting equation is to keep it quick. But for those who like a little bit of pain in the mix go a bit harder for a bit longer. Ensure you find out beforehand where you partner likes to be bitten.
Being picked up, thrown over a man’s shoulder, and tossed on a bed can bring out the primal side in a man. Simply push her against the wall can do the trick too.
Sometimes, it's nice not be in charge. It's a form of just switching off the thinking side of sex and simply experiencing the pleasure. Sex is about losing inhibitions and surrendering, and sometimes it's easiest to surrender when somebody is totally pushing you around.
If you want to experience crazy sex - where you going to have sex all over the place complete with hair pulling and ass slapping - it's only going to happen if you specifically ask.
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Writing interesting pieces about sex, the lifestyle and the different aspects of human sexuality is a challenge that Christina will endeavour to take. When she’s not blogging, she loves to exercise, watch movies and go to the beach whenever she can.
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