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Christina Miller | March 23 2017
How to give great head
So it’s great to get a chance to hear about some tips and tricks to make your bj skills awesome. A great bj is a combination of a lot of things and not being afraid to improvise.
Make your blowjob unforgettable with these tips and tricks.
Tips & tricks
Position
Just as with actual intercourse, some positions are just better for a blowjob than others. Let him lie down , or stand or sit down and then there’s 69, whatever the choice make sure you get comfortable, use a pillow under your knees if you’re going to be kneeling.
Lick It
BJ are not a rushed thing so take your time, lick and taste the tip of his penis while you still have your lingerie on to signal that you are focused on him and his pleasure.
Work on his balls
Most guys like their balls being cupped during a bj. Balls are very sensitive so be gentle. Use your tongue to play with his balls, lick them and suck them gently.
While you’re in there try this; lick his rough patch of skin (perineum) located just behind the balls this is a pretty sensitive area and most guys love it to be stimulated but are too shy to ask for it.
Use your tongue
Your tongue is a weapon of mass destruction – use it on the head, on the shaft, on the balls and run it along the length of his manhood and you’re guaranteed to drive him crazy with pleasure.
Use the twister – make slow circular motion with your tongue around the top of his penis. Alternate direction and speed to add some variety
Use slip and slide - by taking him into your mouth and pressing/rubbing the tip of his penis against the inside of your cheek and tongue.
Deep throat
Yep, some can take cock all the way to the tonsils, but if you have a sensitive gag reflex here’s a tip give it a shot.
The easiest way to deep-throat is on your knees, so relax and use your hands for better control. Put your tongue out as much as you can to make more space in there and hold his penis as long as you can and slowly bring it out. Getting good at this comes with practice and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive compared to when you started.
Why is deep throat so good for him?
The slight spasming of your throat (thanks to your gag reflex) will make it more enjoyable and stimulating for your man, along with the fact that the rest of your mouth and tongue will be stimulating the shaft of his dick.
Use flavour
Use edible lube to make it both pleasant to your bud-tastes and to provide the gliding and moist down there for him. Then go to town with your mouth and tongue.
Change things up and use ice cubes or ice cream to keep him on his toes. Use whipped cream, chocolate sauce or some minty lollies that add flavour to your mouth and it might drown out the taste of his cum when he ejaculates.
Eye contact
Maintaining eye contact is sexy, you can watch him melt with pleasure in your mouth and he can watch you enjoy it.
Spit, swallow or .....
This will depend on your mood and whether you really want to knock his socks off. Men like it when you swallow because it makes them feel more dominant, connected and satisfied. But if you are not up to it, do the next best thing and have him blow in your tits or face.
..... Have a bukkake
This is pro-level stuff and when you feel like letting your inner-slut shine, heck girl let no man stop you.
This is your chance to showcase the porn star in you, but it will be an evening to remember.
The key to great head is to be open minded and willing to experiment. And then there's practice. Giving great head will bring his mind to meltdown mode like a power plant.
If you'd like to explore your oral sex skills, then we have the perfect opportunity for you.
Our Secret spot club in Sydney is having a Oral sex themed party on Friday 31rst March.
Are there any amazing bj tips that you’d like to share with us?
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Comments
DianaMite
26 Mar 2017
Let him teabag your mouth with his hard cock dipping it deep down into the back of your throat. He can still finger and lick you or put a toy in your pussy from that position if that is what you both want. Wow well I'm horny typing all that I hope it helps. Xx
DianaMite
26 Mar 2017
I can sometimes get a strange sensation in my pussy when we feel the hump because it is just so stimulating and the guy usually yells out. It is very invigorating when that happens. I am happy to swallow his cum if he treats me with respect and asks if it is ok. Always check with the guy if he wants you to keep sucking it while he cums or stay still and wait. He can become extremely sensitive so you don't want to risk hurting him. I'm happy to clean him up afterwards if that is what he wants either with my tongue or a soft cloth. The other thing that makes headjobs exciting, refreshing and fun is the use of ice cubes especially on your mouth. They feel fantastic on your pussy too with a nice warm tongue to bring her back to life after you have been made numb. Most importantly remember to have a bit of a laugh and go with the flow. One last thing there is no better way to really deep throat a big cock than to lie on your back with your head hanging over the side. Cont....
DianaMite
26 Mar 2017
I do cup his balls as much as I can. Sometimes I want him slighting or just hold him at the base and apply pressure. Then I slide my mouth over the top and down towards the base. Slowly at first. I twirl my tongue around on the inside as if I am kissing his cock. That is my secret to enjoying sucking is that kissing us the best thing in the world. I suck loosely and then tighten up and I actually become a vacuum. I will then start from the tip sucking so hard that he starts climbing backwards and moaning then I suck downwards one inch at a time like a vacuum. They love it. All the way to the base. Usually my throat has warmed up by now and I can deep throat. Depending on the length and girth of his cock. I will keep trying until I get it down the back of my throat. I want both of us to feel the hump as it slides right over the back of my tongue and into my throat. I have no chance of breathing at this point so I won't last too long but, I will suckle on it while it is in deep. Cont...
DianaMite
26 Mar 2017
My favourite position us for the man to be lying on his back in the middle of the bed. I can either be at the side of him so he can still finger me or use a toy on me if he wants. I would start by twirling my tongue around the tip and tasting him then sliding my tongue down his shaft and licking and sucking on his balls. Then slide my tongue back up and flick my tongue over his knob. I make sure I also flick my tongue over the frenulum the little triangle elastic band at the base of the knob because it is sensitive. I suck that area and kiss it too. I like to do heaps of kissing of his cock as well as licking and sucking. I will nibble on the knob scraping my teeth gently over it. I always add variety. I enjoy grabbing his cock at the base and slapping it against my tongue, lips and face really hard and fast it makes a fantastic wet slapping noise so it is very stimulating for both parties. I make sure I moan heaps too. Do heaps of breathing on their cock they love the hot air. Cont..
Bustercrimes82
26 Mar 2017
Most women focus on stimulating the head but forget about the shaft and balls. I love attention to my shaft, licking it all the way from balls to tip. Something else I love is when a woman sticks her tongue out nice and wide and lets me wack my cock on her tongue and rub all around her face. They always seem to love this too 😝
Mistress_Blood
24 Mar 2017
"Men like it when you swallow because it makes them feel more dominant" No wonder I spit! NO man is dominant to me! No way in HELL I'm letting them cum on my face... But other wise the article had a couple of interesting tips.
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