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Hotwifing, New Hot Trend, It might Just Be What You Were Looking For!We all have sexual fantasies. Why can’t that fantasy be one in which you watch your wife have sex with another...

Christina Miller | August 17 2015

Hotwifing, New Hot Trend, It might Just Be What You Were Looking For!

Let’s simply begin with defining Hotwifing and Cuckolding. For many people, the terms ‘Hotwifing’ and ‘Cuckolding’ are used interchangeably, and thus incorrectly, they are not necessarily the same thing.

Hotwifing

A “hotwife” refers to a woman in a partnered couple who has sexual encounters with other men. At times this encounter might happen in the presence of her partner. Other times in his absence followed with a retelling of the events. The male partner in this relationship is turned on by his partner sexual escapades, and derives pleasure and arousal from her exercising her sexual autonomy.

Cuckolding

A “cuckold” is a man that enjoys the dominance/submission power relationship with his female partner. Often, the cuckold likes to be belittled, humiliated, or otherwise made to feel powerless. To capitalize on this power dynamic, the female partner has sexual encounters with other men. The male partner’s pleasure and satisfaction comes from the power dynamic between himself and his partner.

Thus, “cuckolding” is more about the power exchange (as in other kinds of BDSM relationships) while “hotwifing” in general often lacks this element. A man may derive intense sexual satisfaction from his partner having independent sexual escapades, but be completely uninterested with the idea of being humiliated by his female partner and/or bull. However, another man may only enjoy such escapades if he is also humiliated, forced to “clean up” the woman after her sexual encounter, or otherwise made to feel inferior to the bull.

A “bull” is the term commonly ascribed to the other man in the scenario, the person that the hotwife has the sexual encounter with.

Why has hotwifing become such a popular fantasy among couples? The main reason is to fulfill the desire of almost every man to see his beautiful wife interacting with another man.
Other reasons come to mind, the explosion of Internet facilitated the fantasy, women are more comfortable with their sexual desires and are not afraid to voice it and act on it, and last people have come to understand that fantasies are a healthy way to explore one’s sexuality and beneficial way to bond.

Hotwifing, might just be what you were looking for at this point of your relationship. Read the benefits below:

1. Freedom

Most women secretly desire this, the freedom to enjoy another man’s company and to explore their sexuality guilt free. When a man encourages his woman to enjoy other man’s company, she gets to enjoy and exercise her sexual autonomy and to express freely her sexual desires.

2. A huge turn on.

Hotwifing is a sexual fantasy that can take your relationship to the next level. It’s a way of women expressing themselves and a huge turn on for their partners. Many women are getting into exhibitionism. They love their partner watching them have sex. For the partner who wants to show off his hotwife, it’s a huge turn on to watch another man enjoy his sexy hotwife. Watching your wife/partner with another man is like watching a hot porno, with her as the main star.

3. Free from the shackles of jealousy

Jealousy is the main reason many relationships fail to work. It contributes to disagreements and sometimes breakups. Hotwifing can help the men overcome most feelings of jealousy and insecurities. This kind of relationship can make your partnership more trusting and open. There is a difference between sex and a loving relationship, your partner knows this, and the steamy encounter is only SEX.

4. Increased Trust and Communication

A strong relationship is built on trust and good communication. Healthy relationships are not about the things a couple does together but about how they communicate together, how they treat each other, and how they work together to maintain a mutually beneficial relationship. Hotwifing will not increase these aspects in a relationship if they don’t exist already. They must exist before you embark in this fantasy.

5. Look Better

To continue being the desirable to men, a hotwife will be motivated you to stay fit, eat healthy, look sexy and stay young both mentally and physically.

6. Increase and improve intimacy

Your relationship and especially sex life will absolutely improve. The physical and emotional intimacy associated with hotwifing is intense. The feeling of seeing a wife with another man will just turn any man on making the sex life better and more frequent.

7. Boost confidence and self-esteem

The esteem of both parties involved will increase and this is great for having a healthy relationship. A confident man is also what a woman wants and what better way to show how confident you are than letting your wife get out there with other men.


The benefits of hotwifing are many and there are many adventurous couples that indulge in this fantasy. However, every couple has a different dynamic, and as such, hotwifing might not be your fantasy. As a couple it is best to go with what works best for you.

Comments

  • turtle_dove

    18 Oct 2015

    great article!!

  • rubylove77

    20 Aug 2015

    Great to see the topic being discussed on here. We love the idea and because of this we have very strong relationship and trust for each other. Gotta love hot wifing!!!

  • juicy4fun

    18 Aug 2015

    We have now been diagnosed. Interested males can submit their resumes !! Hahaha No seriously, get in touch.

  • kamalover

    18 Aug 2015

    Great reading. May every husbands and wife motivated by this.

  • glamrous2

    18 Aug 2015

    Definitely love being a 'hotwife' 😈

  • Wildewillsy76

    18 Aug 2015

    I have had a couple of hotwifing experiences where I have been "the other male". On one occasion it was such a turn on for him, her and I were being taped by the husband as I not only shagged her silly and came inside of her the husband came also as he wanked away.

  • eroticcruises

    18 Aug 2015

    Nothing better than watching my wife enjoying the sexual favours and lust of another guy, it is a huge turn on for me and she loves having me watch her fuck them as well, no jealousy at all just unbridalled lust and fun. She is more than welcome to explore her lust on her own and satisfy her desires with whomever excites her interest. And to hear how her body responds ot their attention when she returns is a major turn on and just adds to our own sessions.

  • Moxters

    18 Aug 2015

    LUUUVVV it! both of us

  • HungGent

    17 Aug 2015

    Amazing experience for all parties involved ;)

  • sydney_tradie

    17 Aug 2015

    ive been a lucky guy to have had afew great hotwife experiences, its very important the single guy clicks with the hubby..cos when the hubby gives you the green light you can tell he just loves to watch his wife having sex with another guy

  • charliesangelkir

    17 Aug 2015

    I'm ready to try my first interaction with another man, c'mon guys

  • up2bnorty

    17 Aug 2015

    Such a turn on and so much fun!

  • Hottie1

    17 Aug 2015

    Definitely love being a hotwife . 😍😉 xx

  • Funsexycoupleus

    17 Aug 2015

    Very well written!

  • lookintoplay_qld

    17 Aug 2015

    I love watching my wife have fun its biggest turn on for me

  • Mister_Miss

    17 Aug 2015

    It works for us, best if done only occasionally as the build up to the event,is the best part.

  • patch4733

    17 Aug 2015

    Hotwifing is such a hot lifestyle and does build confidence, self0esteem in both partners

  • secure2

    17 Aug 2015

    Something we are very much interested in

  • princessandnever

    17 Aug 2015

    i love my hot wife so much.she loves a big cock fucking her hard to which i am unable to offer.i am sometimes allowed to watch or i sit at the door and stroke my little cock while i listen.the best time for me is clean up where i get to clean her well fucked pussy full of fresh cum and hopefully get to suck his big cock clean too.only once has she been out all night with a hot boy,I'm hoping she does it more often in the future

  • totallygenuine

    17 Aug 2015

    Yessss definitely my thing. Been pleasing many of wives/gf's of the couples (hot wifing) for 6 years now.

  • FunSexyCple

    17 Aug 2015

    Watching her with another man is such a turn on for me, no jealousy. Plus I take it as a compliment that another guy finds my sexy wife attractive.

  • rwatto

    17 Aug 2015

    yes I would like to watch my wife enjoying sex with other men mm or lady if she wanted would turn me on

  • Desireburns

    17 Aug 2015

    Hell yeah! Hot wifing is just so hot!