Dating Articles

  • Introducing My Partner To Swinging

    Alison Cox | July 27 2022

    Introducing My Partner To Swinging

    Many RedHotPie couples would agree that swinging is one of the most rewarding sexual experiences imaginable.

  • Couple Seeking Single Bi Girl

    Alison Cox | July 20 2022

    Couple Seeking Single Bi Girl

    A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie.

  • Date ideas to spice up your sex life

    Christina Miller | June 21 2022

    Date ideas to spice up your sex life

    Couples who go on interesting date nights have better sex lives.

  • 'Throuple' reveal their bedroom issue

    Rebecca Daniels | August 06 2021

    'Throuple' reveal their bedroom issue

    A husband and wife who began a three-way relationship with a woman have revealed the issue they encountered when first sharing a bed.

  • The Top FREE Features on RHP!

    Rebecca Daniels | July 30 2021

    The Top FREE Features on RHP!

    They say the best things in life are free, and a lot of them can be found on RedHotPie!

  • Valentine’s Day Survival Guide for Singles!!

    Rebecca Daniels | February 12 2021

    Valentine’s Day Survival Guide for Singles!!

    Single as a pringle? Flying solo this Sunday? Well, we say don’t sweat it.

  • Couple Seeking Single Bi Girl

    Alison Cox | January 20 2021

    Couple Seeking Single Bi Girl

    A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie.

  • 7 Women Share Their Hottest Rebound Stories

    Rebecca Daniels | September 15 2020

    7 Women Share Their Hottest Rebound Stories

    The best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. Just take it from these women.

  • Eat out to Help out: Improve your Oral Skills

    Rebecca Daniels | August 26 2020

    Eat out to Help out: Improve your Oral Skills

    Eat out to help out – that’s the slogan Rishi Sunak is using to encourage us all to head out to restaurants post-lockdown amid the coronavirus pandemic. It also happens to be a great mantra for non-restaurant things, by which we mean sex.

  • 5 Ways to try BDSM with your partner

    Rebecca Daniels | August 03 2020

    5 Ways to try BDSM with your partner

    Lockdowns appeared to have a curious effect on sexual habits, according to new research: People were having less sex, but made it kinkier.

  • Ace your first RHP video date

    Christina Miller | July 29 2020

    Ace your first RHP video date

    Tips on how to ace your first RHP video date

  • What It Means to Be Demisexual

    Rebecca Daniels | June 26 2020

    What It Means to Be Demisexual

    While many people have positive feelings towards their partners and lovers, there are others whose erotic-response-cycle responds primarily to those they feel a deep emotional connection to. This is called demisexuality.

  • How to Give Women Orgasms According to Lesbians

    Rebecca Daniels | June 18 2020

    How to Give Women Orgasms According to Lesbians

    There's a 21 percent orgasm gap between lesbians and straight women. We asked lesbians what can be done about that...

  • What The Heck Is Ambiamory?

    Rebecca Daniels | June 05 2020

    What The Heck Is Ambiamory?

    You've heard of polyamory, but what about ambiamory?

  • Virtual Dating – the RedHotPie guide!

    Rebecca Daniels | April 16 2020

    Virtual Dating – the RedHotPie guide!

    Has lockdown life got your dating life all messed up? We’re here to help...

  • Stay in & get off

    Christina Miller | April 09 2020

    Stay in & get off

    9 Sex Tips for Self-Isolation - Stay in and get off

  • Sydney's Sex Clubs Booming!!

    Rebecca Daniels | January 13 2020

    Sydney's Sex Clubs Booming!!

    While Sydney's once-thriving nightclub scene dies a slow and painful death, another type of venue is emerging from the shadows and taking its place - legal sex clubs. Once upon a time, these clubs were only mentioned in hushed tones and you had to know someone who knew someone. These days, they advertise in mainstream press, their owners appear on TV as sex and relationship experts and people are proudly "checking-in" to sex clubs on social media.

  • The Single Female's Guide To Being A Unicorn

    Christina Miller | December 13 2018

    The Single Female's Guide To Being A Unicorn

    The elusive Unicorn that is every couple's ultimate fantasy

  • 'You Can't Ask That!' RHP Swingers featured on ABC

    RedHotPie Editor | August 07 2018

    'You Can't Ask That!' RHP Swingers featured on ABC

    A very special 'Swingers' episode of 'You Can't Ask That' by the ABC, features amazing couples from RedHotPie.

  • 10 Top things to do this Valentine & Ace it.

    Christina Miller | February 12 2018

    10 Top things to do this Valentine & Ace it.

    On Valentine's Day indulge in some time together or alone, celebrating the most romantic day of the year.

  • Tis the season to hookup

    Christina Miller | December 19 2017

    Tis the season to hookup

    Tis the Season for Casual Sex. Here's Where You Can Find Your Holiday Hookup

  • Dating younger vs. dating older

    Christina Miller | May 29 2017

    Dating younger vs. dating older

    Sexual exploration has no age boundaries, each and every date is an opportunity to learn more about your sexuality.

  • 5 tips on how to UP your sexting game

    Christina Miller | May 24 2017

    5 tips on how to UP your sexting game

    Sexting can be a fun, flirty way to keep the passion going and to tease your love/lust interest

  • Older Women are the best for naughty dates

    Christina Miller | April 19 2017

    Older Women are the best for naughty dates

    Women of all age are beautiful creatures. Oh but, the older woman, she is someone special....

  • How to nail your first date

    Christina Miller | February 26 2017

    How to nail your first date

    How to set the mood for intimacy on the first date.

  • How to kiss like a pro

    Christina Miller | February 24 2017

    How to kiss like a pro

    Kissing is probably one of the most important parts of sex

  • Sexy Things to do on Valentine’s Day

    Christina Miller | February 14 2017

    Sexy Things to do on Valentine’s Day

    If you want to do something a little more special than the same old thing, here is a list of sexy things to do on Valentine’s Day

  • Valentine's photo session

    Christina Miller | February 13 2017

    Valentine's photo session

    Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to take some sexy photos and update your RHP profile.

  • Photos that will make your profile irresistible.

    Christina Miller | January 10 2017

    Photos that will make your profile irresistible.

    Photos can drastically increase your chances of getting more communication and dates.

  • 10 Reasons You Should Date an Older Man at Least Once

    Christina Miller | November 09 2016

    10 Reasons You Should Date an Older Man at Least Once

    An older man has a unique appeal that might be what you are looking for.

  • 5 Tips To Become A Sexting Legend

    Christina Miller | September 13 2016

    5 Tips To Become A Sexting Legend

    Sexting techniques that get you the results you want!

  • Hottie Alert! Bikini Model, Sahara Ray's Top 5 Insta Pics!

    RedHotPie Editor | August 09 2016

    Hottie Alert! Bikini Model, Sahara Ray's Top 5 Insta Pics!

    Not a week since Orlando Bloom got the old bait 'n' tackle out on holiday, Justin Bieber and Aussie girlfriend, international swimwear model Sahara Ray have been gettin' rude and nude on holiday in Hawaii. Obviously we're big fans of gettin' the kit off, so we've decided to celebrate this story by collating Sahara Ray's five sexiest Instagram snaps. So strap in and scroll down for an eyeful of Sahara!

  • Want Your Profile To Be Irresistible? - Do This!

    Christina Miller | July 07 2016

    Want Your Profile To Be Irresistible? - Do This!

    Write a profile that captures your kind of people

  • How To Be An Awesome First Date

    RedHotPie Editor | October 02 2015

    How To Be An Awesome First Date

    First dates are daunting. Many consider them akin to a job interview. And like a job interview, where you gotta make it through the process in order to get the job, you gotta make it through a first date in order to snag the man (or woman).

  • Swing Into Spring!

    RedHotPie Editor | September 24 2015

    Swing Into Spring!

    Hot bodies, bums, flowers, fresh scents, sex n sun, at last spring has sprung! You may have already noticed the subtle sensations coursing through your veins changing everything from how you feel to how you’d like to be felt.

  • Seven Tips For An Office Fling!

    RedHotPie Editor | August 05 2015

    Seven Tips For An Office Fling!

    HAVE you ever thought about dating a co-worker? While most companies advise strongly against office romances, sometimes true love still blooms in the workplace.

  • RedHotPie's Guide To First Dates

    RedHotPie Editor | July 29 2015

    RedHotPie's Guide To First Dates

    First impressions… you only get to make them once, which is why first dates can fill so many of us with dread. So here at RedHotPie we’ve decided to do something about it.

  • What do women think of dick pics?

    Christina Miller | April 24 2015

    What do women think of dick pics?

    Do women get turned on by dick pics?

  • Top 5 reasons why men in their 30’s are looking for older women.

    Christina Miller | February 25 2015

    Top 5 reasons why men in their 30’s are looking for older women.

    So, what is it about older women that men can't seem to resist? While pop culture often idealises younger women, there's a merging trend of men who are attracted to older women.

  • Things to do on Valentine’s Day when you’re single

    Christina Miller | February 12 2015

    Things to do on Valentine’s Day when you’re single

    What to do on Valentine's Day if you're single. Spending Valentine's Day alone is not all doom and gloom,it can be awesome.

  • Are you single because of your DNA?

    RedHotPie Editor | November 21 2014

    Are you single because of your DNA?

    IF you’ve ever wondered why you seem to be permanently single while others are always coupled up, it could be down to your DNA.

  • Australian Senator After "Well Hung" Lover

    RedHotPie Editor | July 22 2014

    Australian Senator After "Well Hung" Lover

    Lonely hearts across the country are finding ever more innovative ways to discover the Romeo to their Juliet, the Kim to their Kanye. Now newly elected Palmer United Party senator Jacqui Lambie has taken the trend to a new level by using talkback radio to search for a potential suitor – preferably one "well-hung" and loaded with cash.

  • Girl Meets Couple

    Rebecca Daniels | July 15 2014

    Girl Meets Couple

    We wrote an article from a woman’s perspective on first meets with men - but what about meeting couples? Is it twice as scary? Are you twice as likely to have awkward moments? The short answer is no!

  • Sex Box to premiere on SBS 2!

    RedHotPie Editor | July 04 2014

    Sex Box to premiere on SBS 2!

    IT’S the latest TV show coming to Australia that’s likely to spark a fair amount of controversy. SBS2 is bringing daring British series Sex Box to our screens and it’s safe to say, Friday nights are never going to be the same.

  • Dating Naked - Best TV Show Ever?!?

    RedHotPie Editor | July 01 2014

    Dating Naked - Best TV Show Ever?!?

    Volleyball, music festivals, grocery shopping… just a few things that would be made infinitely better if we did them nude, in the buff, sans stiches! It’s obvious when you think about it, but for some reason society at large is a little slow on the uptake when it comes to the wonders of the birthday suit, but thankfully, that’s about to change with what could well be the greatest television show ever made.

  •  The Great Australian Sex Census results released!!!

    RedHotPie Editor | June 11 2014

    The Great Australian Sex Census results released!!!

    ARE you looking to spice up your sex life? Stop dating that boring accountant and nab yourself a tradie or a lawyer. Your job title says a lot more about you than you think, according to the results of Australia’s largest sex survey.

  • 7 ways to tell if you're good in bed

    RedHotPie Editor | June 10 2014

    7 ways to tell if you're good in bed

    Bragging about being good in bed is one thing, secretly hoping you're great in the sack is another, but what really does make you good in bed? Whether you're in a relationship or newly dating, being good in bed, together especially, is something most people consider vital to a happy relationship. So what are the tell-tale signs?

  • Stir's Sexual Bucket List Top 50

    RedHotPie Editor | June 06 2014

    Stir's Sexual Bucket List Top 50

    Those horny kids over at The Stir have come up with a Sexual Bucket List Top 50 (from a female perspective)... we've had a quick squiz through it and wanted to share it with y'all. We have a funny feeling you can do better!

  • Aussie Couple Describe Their Successful Open Relationship

    RedHotPie Editor | May 16 2014

    Aussie Couple Describe Their Successful Open Relationship

    Many couples say they couldn’t bear the idea, while others say they’re more than a little curious.Rach Wilson and her husband Kerry are in a successful open relationship. They’ve been married for 11 years and seeing other people for eight years.

  • Sexual Confidence!!

    Christina Miller | April 02 2014

    Sexual Confidence!!

    Of all the things that affect our sexual satisfaction, the most important element is sexual confidence. Sexual confidence is identifying exactly what you like and dislike, and having the confidence to express it.

  • Steak and BJ Day

    Christina Miller | March 14 2014

    Steak and BJ Day

    Ladies, March 14th is Steak and blowjob day.

  • The fine art of Oral Sex and the random bloopers

    Christina Miller | March 11 2014

    The fine art of Oral Sex and the random bloopers

    Be the master of oral sex and you'll be in great demand.

  • Are Pubes back in fashion? Yay or Nay?

    Christina Miller | March 05 2014

    Are Pubes back in fashion? Yay or Nay?

    The humble bush is back in the public eye once again. Humble as it may be, it inspires a lot of discussion:

  • Sex-up your Valentine’s Day

    Christina Miller | February 12 2014

    Sex-up your Valentine’s Day

    With Valentine’s Day around the corner, you are probably wondering what to do this year.

  • What do you want more of this year? To have more sex?

    Christina Miller | January 17 2014

    What do you want more of this year? To have more sex?

    We are all too familiar with the usual New Year’s resolution such as; lose weight, eat healthier, make or save more money, quit smoking, travel more, exercise more, you get the idea.

  • The Hottest Love and Sex Trends of 2013

    Christina Miller | December 16 2013

    The Hottest Love and Sex Trends of 2013

    What’s new in sex and dating? A lot actually! Sex trends are constantly evolving from right under our noses.

  • Aussie condom commercial banned for being too sexy!

    RedHotPie Editor | December 10 2013

    Aussie condom commercial banned for being too sexy!

    A couple explicitly makes love on the pharmacist’s counter, in the aisle and on the floor in order to find the perfect size rubber.

  • Sex on the first date

    Christina Miller | December 10 2013

    Sex on the first date

    A new set of dating guidelines, have been circulating and challenging conventional wisdom, by telling women it’s fine to have sex on their first date.

  • 10 Sex Myths Debunked

    RedHotPie Editor | December 03 2013

    10 Sex Myths Debunked

    There's a lot of fiction surrounding sex out there - and we're not talking about the 50 Shades variety! From who should be initiating sex to what actually makes a good session between the sheets there's a lot of myths floating around and it's time to set the record straight. Dr Gabrielle Morrissey separates fact from fiction when it comes to what's going on in the bedroom.

  • Are tattoos sexy or skanky?

    Christina Miller | December 03 2013

    Are tattoos sexy or skanky?

    Tattoos are an artistic and sexy expression that has lately become a mega trend in all sectors of society. Tattoos are a form of permanent body modification to shock, to delight and to excite.

  • What penis size or shape is normal?

    Christina Miller | November 26 2013

    What penis size or shape is normal?

    Most men wonder if their penis size and shape is normal.

  • Let's talk about Anal Sex!

    Christina Miller | November 12 2013

    Let's talk about Anal Sex!

    What is the fascination with anal sex? Is it because it’s so taboo, that it makes it so desirable?

  • The Truth About Sex at Work

    Christina Miller | November 08 2013

    The Truth About Sex at Work

    We all know that work is a place where we need to switch on to work mode ONLY, but we’re not robots, we are mere humans with many needs.

  • The secret to men’s sex appeal

    Christina Miller | November 06 2013

    The secret to men’s sex appeal

    Sex appeal no matter how old you are is not just about sex. It’s about being confident in who you are and what you look like.

  • Survey Reveals Women's Turn-Ons - Results Surprising!

    RedHotPie Editor | October 30 2013

    Survey Reveals Women's Turn-Ons - Results Surprising!

    IN BAD news for blokes everywhere, it seems flowers and chocolates are not the way to lure women into the bedroom.

  • Keeping Things ‘No-Strings’

    Rebecca Daniels | October 25 2013

    Keeping Things ‘No-Strings’

    Friends with benefits (FWB), cuddle buddies, no-strings-attached, fuck buddies…whatever label you put on it, it’s no secret that these kinds of casual relationships are becoming increasingly popular. But after being intimate with someone, it can happen that one of you might develop feelings for the other – especially if it becomes a regular thing. There are ways that you can help avoid these awkward moments and keep things on a level that both you and your FWB are comfortable with.

  • Snappy Sex - The Truth About Quickies!

    RedHotPie Editor | October 14 2013

    Snappy Sex - The Truth About Quickies!

    Forget everything you've heard about quickies being a pale imitation of "real" sex. Research shows that sex in any quantity or duration is healthy for your sex life and your sex drive.

  • Open Relationships on the increase! Would you? Have you?

    RedHotPie Editor | October 04 2013

    Open Relationships on the increase! Would you? Have you?

    The first time Danielle Ezzo met Matt and Rachel, she was relieved. The fashionable trio had met on the dating site, Nerve, and had been exchanging messages, but hadn’t yet met in real life. Ezzo, 29, recalls that evening at the Bowery Hotel in spring 2009 fondly: “I was excited that they were just as cute as their profile pictures.

  • The 'B' word - a look at bisexuality and the lost potential.

    Christina Miller | September 26 2013

    The 'B' word - a look at bisexuality and the lost potential.

    Are you playing for both teams? Then the world is your oyster...

  • Age gap relationships, what is all the fuss about?

    Christina Miller | September 10 2013

    Age gap relationships, what is all the fuss about?

    What’s age got to do with it? Relax and enjoy. Let’s just take in life a day at a time and make the most of it.

  • Sex and the Single Guy

    Christina Miller | August 20 2013

    Sex and the Single Guy

    Are we placing too much expectations on single guys? They get nervous just like the rest of us

  • Top Ten Cougar Holiday Spots

    RedHotPie Editor | August 15 2013

    Top Ten Cougar Holiday Spots

    IF YOU'RE a young, single male heading to Lizard Island anytime soon, you'd better be on the lookout!

  • What is Transgenderism?

    Alison Cox | June 25 2013

    What is Transgenderism?

    At some point, you may have wondered what it actually means for a person to be transgendered. Is a transgendered or transsexual person male, or female, or both? Or neither? In Thailand, transgendered people are considered the third sex, which might be a convenient label for some trans people but it probably doesn’t suit the individual situation of most others.

  • Swinging sex sessions - Guide to better swinging fun

    Christina Miller | June 19 2013

    Swinging sex sessions - Guide to better swinging fun

    People in the swinging lifestyle come from all walks of life. It is logical to assume then that there are a lot of different types of swingers; Soft swap, Same Room Sex, Full Swap Girl on Girl, Voyeurs/exhibitionists, Kinksters, Role Playing/BDSM, Tight Schedule Swingers Cuckold Fetishist, Gang Bang, Ménage a Trois...

  • A Single Girl’s Guide to Swinging

    Alison Cox | June 04 2013

    A Single Girl’s Guide to Swinging

    Swinging is generally considered as a naughty (but oh so nice) pursuit for couples to enjoy but a growing number of single women are wanting in on the action too. Not prepared to wait for the right guy to come along to pair up with, many ladies are fronting up to parties and clubs own their own to satisfy their curiosity and urges.<br /> <br />

  • Girl Meets Guy

    Rebecca Daniels | May 22 2013

    Girl Meets Guy

    First meets can be scary as hell, and even the most confident woman can get nervous! So having been in this situation plenty of times myself, here’s some tips that I hope you’ll find helpful in navigating the first-meet-minefield.

  • How to seduce brunettes: Hilarious 60s dating video emerges

    RedHotPie Editor | May 08 2013

    How to seduce brunettes: Hilarious 60s dating video emerges

    A hilarious dating video made in 1967 has been published online, offering a fascinating inside into the now-extinct courting ritual. The short film, produced by the US military in 1967, advises naval officers on how to make a good impression on women.

  • Are Older Women Better in Bed? 10 Reasons to Date a Cougar.

    Christina Miller | April 11 2013

    Are Older Women Better in Bed? 10 Reasons to Date a Cougar.

    10 reasons to date a cougar. Cougars & young men

  • Top Tips For Single Male Profiles

    Rebecca Daniels | March 20 2013

    Top Tips For Single Male Profiles

    We here at RedHotPie have decided that it’s high time we created a list of do’s and don’ts for our newcomers on profile deal-breakers. The following list was compiled from suggestions given by other RHP members for single male profiles. Take notes fellas and improve your chances of success.

  • What your sexual fantasy says about you

    Christina Miller | February 26 2013

    What your sexual fantasy says about you

    Fantasies are a common part of adult life and they are healthy release of pent-up feelings – but what do these fantasies tell about you?

  • Last minute Valentine Date ideas

    Christina Miller | February 11 2013

    Last minute Valentine Date ideas

    Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, which means that lovers everywhere will be on the lookout for unique and sexy date ideas. You still haven't organised a date? There’s a lot of pressure to make this a special day, romantic, original and memorable, and we're here to help...

  • Dos and Don’ts For Taking RedHot Selfies

    Rebecca Daniels | January 11 2013

    Dos and Don’ts For Taking RedHot Selfies

    To selfie or not to selfie? That is the question…. What the heck is a selfie? That’s another question. A selfie is a shot taken by you of yourself. Those sexy RedHotPie-worthy shots aren’t usually the kind you’d want to ask someone else to take for you.

  • Susan Boyle’s accidental adult party invite

    RedHotPie Editor | November 23 2012

    Susan Boyle’s accidental adult party invite

    The PR team of British singer Susan Boyle delivered the twittersphere a collective heart attack yesterday with the joyful peddling of a hashtag nobody thought to double-check.

  • Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers

    Christina Miller | October 04 2012

    Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers

    One of the traits that determines happiness and mental health is flexibility: the capacity for creativity, abstract thinking, and adapting to changing circumstances. When it comes to the sex lives of swingers, there’s no question that they are more flexible in their approach to sex than their monogamous peers. But the real question is more complex: Is flexibility toward sex a good thing or a bad thing?

  • Higher risk of divorce when men do housework, Norwegian study finds

    RedHotPie Editor | September 28 2012

    Higher risk of divorce when men do housework, Norwegian study finds

    COUPLES who share housework duties run a higher risk of divorce than couples where the woman does most of the chores, a Norwegian study sure to get tongues wagging has shown.

  • Spring Into A New Sexlife!

    RedHotPie Editor | September 05 2012

    Spring Into A New Sexlife!

    The warm weather isn’t quite here yet, but when it arrives, it’ll be time to spring clean your sex life. Never mind the kitchen and the garage – start in the bedroom. We put together three simple sex tips to take your sex life from good to great this spring.

  • Dating Badboys

    RedHotPie Editor | June 11 2012

    Dating Badboys

    Ladies, imagine these two scenarios... the first: you’re in a movie theatre, it’s an action film, but you’re not paying attention to the script nuance or the mise-en-scène, you’re watching the brooding lead; he’s chiselled, handsome, and oh-so-dangerous. Now, the second scenario: you’re on the couch, finishing your second tub of rocky road and you can’t stop crying, because that chiselled, handsome and oh-so-dangerous guy you met a few weeks ago cheated on you, with five other girls, several of them at once.

  • Pimp out your bedroom and close the deal!

    Christina Miller | April 26 2012

    Pimp out your bedroom and close the deal!

    How many times has it happened? You’ve donned your best threads and hit the town with that new hottie. You’ve navigated your way through the fumbling first date banter, negotiated the post date relocation to your house and finally, you’ve suggested you move things to the ‘other room’.

  • We're *All* Hot!

    Alison Cox | July 22 2010

    We're *All* Hot!

    It seems that a handful of couples from the RedHotPie forums aren't having as good a time as they could be, largely due to the perceived superficiality of other couples and singles who see fit to deem them hot, or not. People being superficial? Really? Get outta here. All jokes aside, it really does seem that a lot of lovely couples are feeling disappointed, disillusioned and downright unattractive due to being rejected solely on looks. Furthermore, when you're rejected time and time again for the same reason, you can't help but feel that you've grown a second head you weren't aware of, or that our society is becoming more and more looks oriented.

  • Swinging: Need for Discretion?

    Alison Cox | May 17 2010

    Swinging: Need for Discretion?

    Swinging and alternative sexual interactions (ie - non-vanilla, non-monogamous sex for recreation) is nothing particularly unusual these days. Did you catch the swinging reference in the Steve Carrel flick Date Night recently, for example? Yet, a pervasive theme for most swinging couples is the need for discretion. You only have to go through a handful of profiles on RedHotPie to note that the 'need to be discreet' is still the number one rule of thumb where meeting fellow swingers is concerned. Naturally, no one needs to broadcast their sexual peccadilloes to the world but how important is it for the average couple to keep things on the down-low?

  • Single Guys Are Hard To Find??

    Alison Cox | March 18 2010

    Single Guys Are Hard To Find??

    It’s not unusual to hear about couples finding it hard to meet single girls for FMF fun but it may come as a surprise to discover that some couples are similarly having no luck in hooking up with single guys for threesomes or gang bangs. With a good number of eligible men on RedHotPie, it seems implausible that couples are being left high and dry: disillusioned that something so seemingly simple to organise falls through time and time again. We take a look at why this may be the case and look at how some of the many myths about single men may well be the reason why finding Mr Right isn’t so easy. We’ll also suggest ways to try and ensure the guy you chat up will front up.

  • Have Condoms. Will Travel

    Alison Cox | November 12 2009

    Have Condoms. Will Travel

    What swinging couple hasn't gone interstate or overseas and fantasised about adding some sexy spice to their vacation? After all, you've escaped the daily grind and set yourselves up in a nice hotel room or holiday pad. Adding some sexy new friends to the equation seems to be the most logical thing to do. In fact, for many busy couples, being away seems like the best excuse to try and hook-up since you've only got that small window of opportunity to taste the local produce, so to speak. In fact, the RedHotPie forums and various website comments suggest that a lot of couples are keener than mustard to make the most of their holidays, be it a weekend in another State or an extended break in a remote part of the country.

  • Managing Your Swinging/Life Balance

    Alison Cox | September 07 2009

    Managing Your Swinging/Life Balance

    The enjoyment of being in the ‘lifestyle’ is manifold and most RedHotPie couples actively engaged in swinging will no doubt agree that it is a most welcome aspect to their relationship. However, I am sure that many couples have also wondered how to maintain balance in their lives so as to ensure being involved in the lifestyle does not have to come at the expense of losing other equally important parts of our lives. Conversely, how can a busy couple ensure that they can get their share of the action and not get left behind in the ‘too busy’ bin of RHP?

  • Sticky Swinging Situations

    Alison Cox | August 11 2009

    Sticky Swinging Situations

    As most couples who have spent some time meeting others would no doubt have experienced, the world of swinging provides some toe-curling sexual possibilities. Many have also been fortunate enough to make some great friends from the scene and blessedly their weekends are now abound with enough social engagements to make Paris Hilton spin on her heels. On the other hand, walking on the wild side can also open up opportunities for people to experience some embarrassing conundrums as well as Twilight Zone moments that would leave the most seasoned veterans of the swinging scene slack-jawed with disbelief. We’ll take a look at some of these sticky situations and how you can avoid them, or at the very least, go into damage control and salvage the rest of your night.

  • Swinging 101

    Alison Cox | June 04 2009

    Swinging 101

    We’ve read about it, countless films have portrayed it, and we’ve all inevitably talked about it, but what exactly is ‘swinging’? Is it about overweight, older people caught in the seventies having rampant sex with each other? Or is it like a secret, elite club not unlike that which was featured in the Stanley Kubrick film, Eyes Wide Shut? Do people really throw car keys into a bowl? In reality, none of these concepts accurately capture what swinging is all about in the naughties. In fact, swinging is enjoyed as much by Generation Y as Baby Boomers, and a wide cross-section of people are swingers today.

  • Introducing My Partner To Swinging

    Alison Cox | June 04 2009

    Introducing My Partner To Swinging

    Many RedHotPie couples would agree that swinging is one of the most rewarding sexual experiences imaginable. However, before a couple can enjoy the many benefits of swinging, it’s important to lay down the groundwork properly before even posting a profile on RedHotPie.

  • (Greedy) Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

    Alison Cox | May 08 2009

    (Greedy) Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

    It’s a Friday night and Andrea is getting ready for a very special night in with her husband Dave. Andrea can barely slip into her silky lingerie in anticipation while Dave is waiting for his lovely wife on their bed, wearing little more than a bathrobe and a knowing grin. The door bell rings. Andrea’s heart races fast as Dave goes to welcome their guest into the house. “Hello gorgeous.” Andrea looks over to see Matt at the bedroom door. He has the same devious look on his face as he did the last time he paid Andrea and Dave a visit. He moves towards Andrea and plants a soft kiss on her neck. “Hope you’re up for a good night. My mate Rob’s on his way too.” So unfolds another tale of a greedy girl getting her just desserts.

  • Don’t Waste Time: Successful Dates for Couples

    Alison Cox | April 07 2009

    Don’t Waste Time: Successful Dates for Couples

    We all know that RedHotPie is a great way for adventurous couples to meet other like-minded people for fun, and it’s been fantastic for the RHP Team to read about the amazing experiences many couples have had over the years. However, we do appreciate that not all couples have had as much luck as others, and indeed some have been left feeling defeated and disillusioned about the ‘scene’ that so many describe as amazing. People are then rightly or wrongly labelled as time wasters and before long, everyone ends up in a lose-lose situation which could have been avoided by taking some basic precautions. In this article, we look at those basics which are all centred around the same concept: You can only have your time wasted if you let it!

  • Valentines Day: A survival guide for singles

    RedHotPie Editor | February 11 2009

    Valentines Day: A survival guide for singles

    Bah Humbug! Sure that phrase was patented by the folks at Christmas Co but we’re going to licence it here for a moment. What an exclusive little club Valentines Day feels like when you’re on the outer right?!? Well this year, if you’re flying solo we wanted to give you a few tips on how to best navigate Valentines and come out with a few positives. No need to reel from bar to bar bouncing of one smooching couple to the next. This year, we’re gonna take the power back!<

  • Nipple crack jelly sex - Aus Day weekend heats up!

    RedHotPie Editor | February 11 2009

    Nipple crack jelly sex - Aus Day weekend heats up!

    Well February saw a slew of high class, high heat adult parties go down around Aus (pun intended) but it's always hottest in Queensland. The Hawaii 50 beach party hosted by Couples International was wet and wild and jammed with the sexual goodness of over 300 hot bodied folk.<br><br> Being as it was almost Australia Day, you just felt things were going to get even crazier than usual and when punters arrived to find a jelly wrestling pit quivering before then, well let's just say the fun started straight away. Before you could say "nipple crack jelly sex" 6 couples had taken the plunge and the flesh did fly! But that was just the start of what became a truly massive evening!

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