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10 Reasons You Should Date an Older Man at Least OnceAn older man has a unique appeal that might be what you are looking for.

Christina Miller | November 09 2016

10 Reasons You Should Date an Older Man at Least Once

There comes a time in everybody's life when we need to embrace change.

When you are a girl and have been dating young men for a while but things aren't going as planned, you may start setting your sights on someone who’s more refined, more sophisticated, and definitely more mature.

Maybe you should start looking to date an older man, because…


Here are 10 reasons you may want to date an older man:


1 He’s more secure.




Other than money, he is also more secure when it comes to his emotions. In general, he’s more certain of what he feels about himself and life.


2. He knows more about sex



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Older often means he’s got a couple of tricks up his sleeve, right? He probably has some high-level moves you haven't heard of yet. With more time to perfect their technique, these men know where to touch, and for how long.


3. They have learned from previous relationships



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He already knows that different women have different ways of expressing themselves, which means he's better able to understand you. He has learned that some women are more emotional, vocal, relaxed, or sexual. Each times he meets a woman he assumes nothing.

4. He's patient


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He's had enough dating experience to understand that all women have different little quirks and he's not going to make a fuss over it. He's going to back off and give you the space you need. Understanding the meaning of delayed gratification comes with years of hard work.

5. He's confident and knows what he wants



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Confidence is an admirable quality in anybody, this assures that when you’re with your older man, you will settle for nothing other than the best. He's experienced ups and downs in life and he knows how to get back up and get what he wants. A confident older man has strong sex appeal.


6. He's not jealous or over emotional


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He’s secure in the fact that you would like him for who he is, and not just some flimsy reason like you checking a younger guy passing by is going to set him off. 


7. Better at communicating


If there’s something he wants to say, he’ll say it in as crystal clear a manner as he can muster. He has not time for games or misunderstandings.


8. He may be looking to settle down


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This is great news for the ladies out there who want someone to settle with, or to go to parties with.

9. Chivalry



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It may at times seem annoying, but it's it’s a gesture of feminine appreciation, so welcome it.

10. No Roommates



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It’s unlikely that your older man will share his home with a couple of unruly slobs he calls his best friends.

Taking the risk with an older, more mature man can open your eyes to new perspectives. Why not give it a shot, and see how it works for you.

Have anything to add to this? Let us know in the comments section below.

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Comments

  • mike2im

    23 Nov 2016

    A very good article, and a lot of truth about it. The over riding consideration I think is an older gent can bring is a real sense of caring and respect. Strange as it may seem, but having a meaningful conversation each time you meet seems to be the biggest difference (I am told) between older and younger gents.

  • Naughtydouble

    11 Nov 2016

    😊😎

  • Cuddleycouple23

    10 Nov 2016

    Alot of younger men have these qualities also . Hmmm

  • Nitrox1

    10 Nov 2016

    But why would a man want a younger woman, same points appy

  • Reg44

    09 Nov 2016

    Age is only on the surface. We are still young at heart physically and mentally... Appreciate peace, the scent and the feel of a woman.. We have evolved

  • Forus1234

    09 Nov 2016

    Couldn't agree more! The older men feel honoured to be invited into the bedroom & have a high level of respect!