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tips 4 bisexual girls!
April 12 2010
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RHP User
14 years ago
Me tooooooooooooooo, so want to explore and not sure how to go about it all?? what if I hit on a chick and she isn't even BI??
sexslaves
14 years ago
I am bi and too have found many on here to be fake but if want to chat and meet pm me
RHP User
14 years ago
Girls are girls they talk more than guys & over a wine can let there hair down! what is so wrong about being bi or open? it annoys me that every woman i have dated is bi & wants to play but it is always me that has to make the first move. My daughter came out to me & it was a thrill to have her feel confident enough to tell me honestly that she enjoyed another woman. I know spen a fortune on toys for her & her beautiful lover so be brave she was.
RHP User
14 years ago
Yes, having the same problem myself. I'm married and my sex life is fantastic but after spending a few encounters with women at swingers clubs, I would like to spend some discreet time one-on-one without the hubby. I seem to be attracting men on this site who are obviously fantasising about ??? and even though a few women have had a look, none have come foward yet. Hmmm...anyone else have any tips or shall we just all get together and have some serious fun enjoying eachother!
RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'veronica88'. Hmmm...anyone else have any tips or shall we just all get together and have some serious fun enjoying eachother! Me too. But I do like your idea. I am getting alot of couples who want to play but been there done that and I just want to have some one on one time witha girl. Ok so I am not a young thin thing and i have my curves but I am proud of my curves and the effort it took for me to get to where I am. (no longer majorily over weight) So where is our group fun going to happen? Kisses Focus
RHP User
14 years ago
having just checked out all the hot ladies having posted here i know our problem - we are all living way to far apart from each other. see the bad aspect of living in such a vast country. lamenting travel distances focus
RHP User
14 years ago
Well, you're welcome to get in touch with my wife. She's bi, and you guys can go have some fun by yourselves. I'll be in the house, but there's 1001 things to do, so it's highly likely you won't even see me. But the home office is off limits, of course :).
RHP User
14 years ago
I have alot of trouble too trying to talk to girls that I don't know when I'm out, but occasionally I meet the odd one who speaks to me first and then it goes from there. Girls are so hard to apporach and are very clicky in their own groups. I rely soley on eye contact and body language - but I do agree, wish it was easier... :)
RHP User
14 years ago
I too would like to explore my bi curious side, after one experience which was limited with the girl i certainly have been looking for a female to either do some one on one or to join me and my husband, either way it is impossible to find people that are genuine, could it be to do because we are not your skinny types???
RHP User
14 years ago
To be honest, even though I would be classed as "athletic", my ideal woman to stroke and play with would definately be larger than myself, lovely, curvy and soft, very voluptuous and hot in all the right places. Getting wet just thinking about it.
RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe all us Real Bi's need to have a shared email for us all to swap contact details with....I hear exactly what your all talking about. it would be really nice to meet a hot curvy woman without her partner every now and then or better yet no partner at all.......yes i ma the first to admit the ffm is always fun but ff is sooooooooo much better............xx
RHP User
14 years ago
Agrre with you all & have been trying to find the same for a long time...I note there are a few people here in Sth Qld, does anyone know of any clubs women go to meet on the Gold Coast? But if there are people who host parties on Gold Coast, please post so we all know --- would be great to attend a ladies only evening to meet similar.
RHP User
14 years ago
As far as lesbians go, they won't touch anybody who's fucked a guy. I got dumped by a lesbian because I'm bisexual >.>I'm not sure why girls won't play with you. Maybe you aren't giving the right signals.
RHP User
11 years ago
The problem I've found is I'm 23, I've not had much experience with other women yet (but I have had a little bit), and I really hope this doesn't offend anyone on here because I honestly think you're all gorgeous....but for the first serious time hooking up with a girl, I would like it to be with someone close-ish to my age group. It sounds trivial, and it's not a want I expect I'll keep as I get more experienced, but right now everyone around my area is either 20+ years my senior or is a general member (like me haha so no complaining here really) and we can't message each other. Bah humbug!- Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
11 years ago
girls ,,,,sorry to here those things but heres a trans girl available ,,,,,,,,if any of you jump the fence a little ,,,,,,mmmmmmm xxxxxxx
RHP User
11 years ago
try a bi couple.....wow factor when they are hott and confident...ooh also hes got to be bi dominate aswell...hola
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'scottyskip'My daughter came out to me & it was a thrill to have her feel confident enough to tell me honestly that she enjoyed another woman. I know spen a fortune on toys for her & her beautiful lover so be brave she was. I have a daughter too..... now, she's only 10 so her sexual preferences are not something thats relevant right now.But, I will say that while I sincerely respect the very open nature of your relationship with your daughter..... .....that the idea of you buying your daughter and her lover a lot of toys... is pretty weird.... borderline creepy.DG
RHP User
11 years ago
Without actually coming out to all my family in friends I've just started acting bi. Vocalising women's beauty, lingering to look if I see an attractive person, taking care of my appearance so they spot me also. It is helping. I still don't know when the person I am being attentive to is bi, but I assume they are and I am starting to see reactions in the women I come across. Today I stopped almost dead in my tracks when I noticed an attractive woman at the supermarket. I looked once, twice three times and yep she saw me looking and we definitely had a moment. People like us are out there, you need to open your eyes and take a chance.
RHP User
11 years ago
I have tried to meet other women on here too, Im verified, have a validation, but it seems so many are fake on here or just not wha they say they are in their profile. I have flirted and emailed so many woman here and hardly any r interested. Im almost just to the point where I am going to just go to a brothel, lol!!
RHP User
11 years ago
I've had luck contacting other women and I think I have made what may turn out to be my best friend in the last few months. Swap phone contact details and that's the way to go. Ask for the phone number in the first online conversation if it is going well. Not just email or you get caught in an endless cycle of emails and no real contact like talking and arranging a meet. It's easy for the non genuine people to hide behind emails and online chat. Who wants to waste time getting ready, taking time out of your day and attending a meet only to be stood up (not me). Genuine bi girls that are genuinely interested in you will give you thier phone number and will also have pics and after initial contact will let you see them on cam and say hi. You don't have to play first cam time either, but confirming that your real by camming is the only way to be sure it's not some guy pretending to be a girl and same goes for phone calls to confirm a female voice on the other end. A genuine bi lady will play on cam with you just like a man would if he was interested. If she trusts you enough to let you know her number then she should be assured that you will not annoy her with endless contact and that you will txt her first to ask when is a good time for a chat. Respect is the key. And don't baulk at the notion of cam sex with your new lady friend either for fear that you may not be good looking enough etc etc. Remember that you will be getting down and dirty with her at some stage so don't be shy as she will see it all if all goes well anyway. If you cam and she then does not want you then it's not meant to be. Someone who is genuinely interest in you and attracted to you will love your body on cam despite what you may think of yourself. I have had women say no as they fear I might find them unattractive somehow. Well maybe I might and that is a good thing and not bad as attaction needs to be there to want to meet up and it is a pain turning up at a meet and attraction is not there. So make sure you like before you meet by camming as it's the only way to be sure. I will meet my gf's on my own and play with them without him, but I would also want them to share him with me at times as after all I am a couple and I like to experience things with my man as well. May as well be single if you play solo all the time and that aint going to happen in a committed couple. And I could never be playing in the same household as him and expect him to miss out. Spending one on one time with a gf is important as they are my gf's firstly and then ours. Dont just let it be only about sex either as they are people with lives and interests and they should become your friend and not just a play thing or added extra. Getting to know a bi lady is like any other new friendship. Take the time to get to know the person and put the effort in just like you would with a man you are interested in. Take time out of your day to contact them and let them know you are thinking of them etc etc. it's the same principle. Quoting 'tribilady' I have tried to meet other women on here too, Im verified, have a validation, but it seems so many are fake on here or just not wha they say they are in their profile. I have flirted and emailed so many woman here and hardly any r interested. Im almost just to the point where I am going to just go to a brothel, lol!! Remember that people may have circumstances that get in the way of letting them get verified etc etc. We are not bothering to upgrade till we have sorted out our impending house move in a few weeks. We are genuine. if there is an attraction there I WILL meet with a potential new GF. Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'scottyskip'My daughter came out to me & it was a thrill to have her feel confident enough to tell me honestly that she enjoyed another woman. I know spen a fortune on toys for her & her beautiful lover so be brave she was. I have a daughter too..... now, she's only 10 so her sexual preferences are not something thats relevant right now. But, I will say that while I sincerely respect the very open nature of your relationship with your daughter..... .....that the idea of you buying your daughter and her lover a lot of toys... is pretty weird.... borderline creepy. DG Yes agree. The way he wrote it makes it appear like daddy is too interested in what the daughter gets up to sexually with her as he said it 'beautiful' gf and you instantly thinke he is fantasising about them thinking that and by buying them sex toys. He should not be buying them their toys. Involving yourself in any way shape or form in your childrens sex life is just Ewwww Creepy and so wrong on so many levels.
RHP User
11 years ago
Heya, I think that a lot of women are just so cautious. Interested enough to be here but still fearful of photographs and exposure. Also, I have found there seems to be very few women like you and I tribilady that want to go solo. There seems to be plenty that want you to join a couple. I'm still pretty unsure myself about this way of connecting so chances are that those women are the same.
RHP User
11 years ago
I have to agree that I tink women are a bit cautious here and need to be as there a lot of fakes. But for whatever reason, there are just a limited number of women here looking for other women.I do have to disagree with an earlier post, there is no reason why you cant not be verified on here. It takes a minute to take a ic with the number tey give you and email it in. you can do it with your phone these days. What I always do is aks for a verification picture and you would be surprised how quickly it weeds out the fakes
RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'tribilady'I have to agree that I tink women are a bit cautious here and need to be as there a lot of fakes. But for whatever reason, there are just a limited number of women here looking for other women. I do have to disagree with an earlier post, there is no reason why you cant not be verified on here. It takes a minute to take a ic with the number tey give you and email it in. you can do it with your phone these days. What I always do is aks for a verification picture and you would be surprised how quickly it weeds out the fakesAs a couple that is in a long distance relationship and unable to get to the camera together and hold up that number for verification there has been a reason that we are unable to verify till we are together again in two weeks time. I havnt seen Mr for 6 months and we only just joined this month. So that picture won't happen till we move in together. So there are valid reasons that prevent verification sometimes. Can't do it over the phone if we are not together and the system requires both of you to be in the picture at the same time.
RHP User
11 years ago
Hi All I would have to agree with Jbuggy. Being a bi-sexual girl is already a challenge here, but also being one in a relationship that would prefer to have another bi-sexual girl only to play in our couple adds an entire new layer of difficulty! P.s. might be a silly question but can we verify without exposing our face? just in case someone happens to know us
RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Shake__and__Bake' Hi All I would have to agree with Jbuggy. Being a bi-sexual girl is already a challenge here, but also being one in a relationship that would prefer to have another bi-sexual girl only to play in our couple adds an entire new layer of difficulty! P.s. might be a silly question but can we verify without exposing our face? just in case someone happens to know us You have to show your face in the picture to verify. that's why we are having trouble doing it till we are together again. More difficult for us as we have to be in the picture together as a couple and we are long distance till next week. Don't worry too much about showing your face as the picture you verify with is not posted on your profile. It is just for admin to make sure you are who you say you are. If your worried about being the third wheel in a couple then make sure you ask whomever you may consider lots of questions and make sure they want a friend and not just another play thing. Best question to ask is something that will possible elicite the answer: "cant wait to watch you with him/her" of something like that. Although it's about pleasure and that comes partly from what you see it does not show that you are wanted as a friend does it. For me (Mrs) I have to have a friendship with those that I play with and I have a rule that the lady is my friend first and then ours. He never plays solo without me. I socialise with my play partners and it isnt just about sex albeit when it is we enjoy it very much. We will both socialise with my gf's as well but they are mine first and foremost. Plus try find a couple where the Mrs will play solo with you at times and that it's not just all about sex to please the male partner. If you are truly bi you should be good friends with the lady and want to spend quality time out of the bedroom as well as in it. Be friends with the man as well but be careful that you are not just being used to spice things up so to speak. Your not spice, you are a person. I spent tiime on another swingers site when I was single and that's the advice I was given and it served me well. What's the point in giving yourself to a couple unless you are going to get back something from it in return.
RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wefukugood' Quoting 'Shake__and__Bake' Hi All I would have to agree with Jbuggy. Being a bi-sexual girl is already a challenge here, but also being one in a relationship that would prefer to have another bi-sexual girl only to play in our couple adds an entire new layer of difficulty! P.s. might be a silly question but can we verify without exposing our face? just in case someone happens to know us You have to show your face in the picture to verify. that's why we are having trouble doing it till we are together again. More difficult for us as we have to be in the picture together as a couple and we are long distance till next week. Don't worry too much about showing your face as the picture you verify with is not posted on your profile. It is just for admin to make sure you are who you say you are. If your worried about being the third wheel in a couple then make sure you ask whomever you may consider lots of questions and make sure they want a friend and not just another play thing. Best question to ask is something that will possible elicite the answer: "cant wait to watch you with him/her" of something like that. Although it's about pleasure and that comes partly from what you see it does not show that you are wanted as a friend does it. For me (Mrs) I have to have a friendship with those that I play with and I have a rule that the lady is my friend first and then ours. He never plays solo without me. I socialise with my play partners and it isnt just about sex albeit when it is we enjoy it very much. We will both socialise with my gf's as well but they are mine first and foremost. Plus try find a couple where the Mrs will play solo with you at times and that it's not just all about sex to please the male partner. If you are truly bi you should be good friends with the lady and want to spend quality time out of the bedroom as well as in it. Be friends with the man as well but be careful that you are not just being used to spice things up so to speak. Your not spice, you are a person. I spent tiime on another swingers site when I was single and that's the advice I was given and it served me well. What's the point in giving yourself to a couple unless you are going to get back something from it in return.Thanks, some good advice there!
RHP User
11 years ago
Im married but want to explore with another woman ive wanted to for a long time. I dont consider myself a bombshell so lack the confidence to hit on other women....starting to think i may never get the chance....
RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'firsttime81'Im married but want to explore with another woman ive wanted to for a long time. I dont consider myself a bombshell so lack the confidence to hit on other women....starting to think i may never get the chance.... Start by filling in all of your profile and putting a picture in there to spark a ladies interest and they will come to you if they are attracted. I looked at your profile and there isnt a lot in there that says who you are and what you like other than music. Attraction is a big part of it and it doesnt matter what you think of yourself as there is always someone out there that will like what they see in you. IDK why you havn't filled the other stuff in. All I can say is have a look at a few other profiles and they will give you an idea of how it all works. I like to be friends with those that I play with so you also need to indicate if you want a one off or somethiing ongoing. Also because you are attached it's a good idea to let prospective playmates know if your partner will be involved or if you are flying solo that way people know what your all about.
2cruizing
11 years ago
We have been on RHP for a year now and have been looking for bi females in a couple or a single bi female but have only met one.where are you all???i am bisexual and tho I'm part of a couple my hubby is happy for me and another fem to play alone(hell be in the house) but wouldn't bother us unless he was asked to join.
De0cypher
11 years ago
I find it impossible to show I'm interested with other girls in real life. But turned out the temp girl at work was bi (younger and curvy and gorgeously self confident) and for some reason even before I found out she was bi, I'd get a massive rush from talking to her. We had a late night event at work one night, with drinks of course, and she was getting very affectionate..kisses on cheek, arms around my neck and I was so aroused thinking 'holy crap, is she actually interested in ME?!' - I just remember thinking I had to take my chance and cornered her against the dark bar and kissed her. She was so incredibly soft to touch and tasted like strawberries from the cider she'd been drinking. There was a little more touching (mouth on her nipple and my hand on her thigh) but being at work, I had to be discreet sortof! so that was the end of the night. Unfortunately, her contract never got renewed as she was travelling, so I never got to see if I could've been any bolder....
RHP User
11 years ago
A suggestion. There are quite a few meet and greets set up via the RHP forums - group social get togethera, I think. I wonder if there'd be interest in one exclusively for bi and bi curious women.
RHP User
11 years ago
i to am bi an after reading all these comments i have realised it is hard to find another bi girl without there male partner needing to join us..a bit of one on one suits me more than a a 3way with a couple :)
RHP User
11 years ago
Why not go to a swingers or adult club. Lots of girl on girl action there. Or try BiAustralia.com
RHP User
11 years ago
I'm engaged, but I'm also very curious. Have been trying to meet someone for a while, without luck. And am really loosing faiith that i'll ever get the chance to explore my curiosity.
RHP User
11 years ago
hi a pity your in qld, im in victoria, love, would love to see a photo, im 51 and would love to experience another woman,cheers kaz
RHP User
11 years ago
im in the same position im alittle curiouse into bringing a nice lady into my personal life with my partner but don't realy know ware to turn also id likto meet someone decent that I could trust hmm
RHP User
11 years ago
Was as young as ten years old, as silly as that may sound to most women, its true, and i myself am married to the man of my dreams, and i thank the universe day and night for having him in my life, and i hear what you all are saying about wanting that one on one time, myself find that having my hubby ( the one who completes me in every way) to be there and to be a part of it all is so much more exciting, tantalising, and simply blows my mind that I don’t ever get the need or want too have a woman all to myself, I want to share every experience I have with the one person who I adore and cherish the most my hubby…. Every one has different needs and desires, I’m just seriously thankful that my hubby’s n My needs wants and desires are very much the same as each others and in sync with one another… Best of luck to you all I really hope you all find what your after honestly, being someone who has been with a female one on one it’s not what its made out to be! It’s sooooo much more fun seeing his reactions and enjoyment as it is for him xxxxx
RHP User
11 years ago
Soooo I'm starting to e joy the bi life and agree finding a NSA fun girl FB is harder than finding a couple... But now I have a few of you to look up ;) I'd love to be in a venue of only girls free to flirt & play ;)
RHP User
11 years ago
Hey grls jus reading the tread and hey why not kill 2 birds with one nut so to speak.. I'm 24 and would love to help you bi curious girls out in the bed room.. You no jus make it a lol less awkward with a penis lol..
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
There's always one who thinks he's special lol DG
RHP User
11 years ago
Its best to go to gay nightclubs. Things seem to happen when you least expect them to. Im more there for the music and dancing and perving on all those gorgeous gay boys dancing on the table but more often than not feel a hand slipping under my skirt and a nibble on my neck. Yep my attention is now focussed elsewhere :)
RHP User
11 years ago
Don't take on a couple as second choice
RHP User
11 years ago
if your profile was actually available to see
RHP User
11 years ago
Our Block list just got bigger...too easy
RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with everyone here it is difficult. I don't get to go out much due to a young family and when I do - wouldn't be able to tell who else is bi and interested. I find on here I get some interest but the girls aren't allowed to play alone their male partner wants to be involved. I enjoy the one on one for now.
RHP User
11 years ago
Being attached may be off-putting, ya. But I swear it's because we don't look bi. People assume girls with short hair are gay. Maybe someone will find something that distinguishes bisexual girls.And guys, my parents still don't believe I'm bi haha It's an unspoken topic they dodge.
RHP User
11 years ago
Hi all, i am definitely bi, and will have a hotel room in Melbourne July 7-9, any girls wanting to join me are most welcome!
RHP User
11 years ago
I share everyone's frustration. I would love to be one-on-one, but can never seem to find anyone. Having said that, I get approached by a lot of couples where "she" is bi-curious more than bi-sexual. I don't want to be anyone's testing ground. I have been with several couples where I please her, but she doesn't know how to please me back. It really shits me. How hard can it be? I now no longer respond to couples where they say "she wants to experiment". I have also yet to find a couple that I can approach to say I am only interested in her....Or a profile of a single lady that is actually real... I am sticking to couples and asking for one-on-one play later :)
RHP User
11 years ago
It is a shame that so many bi-curious/sexual ladies don't want to play with a bi-lady if their partner is there. It's all about explaining what you want and to what level the male partner is to participate, for us he can be there for support only/touching me only or what ever the other person is comfortable with. Our last two experiences on holidays in Queensland (definitely more genuine ladies over there) were with ladies that wanted completely different things, the first wanted lesbian sex and the only time my partner join in was for light massage/playing with me and eventually doing me doggy while I was down on her, the whole night was sensational and the lady who joined us wants to take it further next time. The second was more bi and was happy with all in which was another fantastic night. Ladies don't block the couples just make sure that they will accommodate what you want not just what they want.
Splicey
11 years ago
Quoting 'inkangel' if your profile was actually available to see You know this post is three years old, right?
RHP User
11 years ago
Haha well picked up!! Three year old thread but obviously still very relevent! I'm single and bi, have met and played with women alone however am interested in fostering real friendships as well as sexual relationships too... I love playing with couples however when I read in a profile "Bi female but my partner will be there to watch and maybe join in" I start to question who's motive is really behind it all. It's one thing to find a man who is happy simply to watch, however if it ends up that he can't respect that it may just be about the two women exploring and playing, then I get a tad dubious.
Splicey
11 years ago
MrSplicey is fine with me taking on a female lover or simply playing with a woman. He's never had any real desire to inject himself into the situation. He's happily gone to bed a left me up with a woman. But if for some reason we found a woman and within the throws of passion I wanted MrSplicey involved I would like that opportunity. Not because it was a rouse all along to get him involved or that he can't respect boundaries, but because us experiencing it together would be something I wanted in that moment. Of course if the other woman did not want that, he could easily and happily accept that, as would I, and he'd sit back and enjoy the show :)
RHP User
11 years ago
I agree and where are they down here in Nowra please let me know thanku xoxoxo
RHP User
11 years ago
if your interested don't hesitate 2 call I understand bigtime xo
cremecaramel
11 years ago
So gorgeous people I can't say I'm not having the same problem myself but all I can say is it takes time. I'm a bisexual woman who is allowed to play alone but I've run into some issues with other attached bi woman who aren't allowed or don't want to have another woman without hubby...I've identified one of the issues as being that one of the guys doesn't know or doesn't trust the other guy in a foursome where the two girls wanna b one on one....as well as the fact that not all bi girls are turned on by a woman without a guy there. I'm not one of those :)....but I understand the attraction differential......it's hot to fuck another woman while she's pleasuring your man... Anyway..... In terms of attracting girls who will play alone I found that by being verified, getting involved in the forums and having good photos in your public profile rather than blanks, no matter how good your profile sounds, will nine out of ten times improve your chances of hooking up. Let's face it we are a shallow species when it comes to first impressions....good luck ladies and please check out my profile....;)- Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
11 years ago
If anyone holds the secret to meeting genuine bi girls interested in 1 on 1 with a young, attractive girl then I want to know that secret! It shouldn't be this hard :-(
RHP User
10 years ago
im still looking, but find it really difficult to find someone im attracted to who can play on a regular basis.Do u ever get to the gold coast??
RHP User
10 years ago
i understand your dilemmas! being only nearly 19 finding a female relationship/playship was pretty much impossible before 18 then i met my boyfriend about 1 month after so i had no chance... but now in a relationship and looking for a lady for a threesome is extremely hard to find. especially one our age :S
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'De0cypher' I find it impossible to show I'm interested with other girls in real life. But turned out the temp girl at work was bi (younger and curvy and gorgeously self confident) and for some reason even before I found out she was bi, I'd get a massive rush from talking to her. We had a late night event at work one night, with drinks of course, and she was getting very affectionate..kisses on cheek, arms around my neck and I was so aroused thinking 'holy crap, is she actually interested in ME?!' - I just remember thinking I had to take my chance and cornered her against the dark bar and kissed her. She was so incredibly soft to touch and tasted like strawberries from the cider she'd been drinking. There was a little more touching (mouth on her nipple and my hand on her thigh) but being at work, I had to be discreet sortof! so that was the end of the night. Unfortunately, her contract never got renewed as she was travelling, so I never got to see if I could've been any bolder....Awesome story !!! You should really think about posting a lot more on these forums. That was hot !!! And no not just from the guy , my wife loved reading it as well.
RHP User
10 years ago
I guess my wife has being lucky, on here and at clubs. But, out of all the encounters shes had its usually a bi curious woman or just the wife/gf wanting to satisfy their hubbys fantasy. Which is ok I guess, but the problem is they wont actually do that much. Maybe five mins of play with the girl then they jump on there hubby..We did meet this really hot couple though a few weeks back, now she was truly bi. And my wife still talks about that woman and how good she was.. Definitely worth the effort.. ps- Hot couple if you are on here and remember us .. Please lets meet up again lol
RHP User
10 years ago
For men to find women for sex it's much harder for us For women to find men it's really easy For men to find men it's easy For women to find women it's hard Just doesn't sound fair does it lol
RHP User
10 years ago
If you find the answer please share it with me :-)
RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, I am very feminine and hang with my gay male friends and am always passed over as I look like a barbie. Looking to make a real connection , friends etc so joined here.
RHP User
10 years ago
I'm having same trouble :( would love to meet another bi or lesbian girl to become friends with and hook up occasionally
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
oh thank god ive found a forum to talk about this ....... I to am dying to try a girl with my partner and like others I see it at swingers clubs and want to hit on her but am scared what if shes not bi.......so maybe we might get lucky on here????
RHP User
10 years ago
I ( female) am more than Bi-Courious but finding it hard to find anywhere in Sydney to meet any Bi ladies, does any one know of ANYWHERE in sydney to go.
Very new to the scene but very willing and teachable student.
I know what pleases me, but would like to be able to "learn" for a better word how to please a woman, we are all different and different things turn each other one and please us, but also would like a guide to the Bi scene.
My partner is ok for me to form a friendship by myself. If I found someone and he could join us later after a while that would be a jointt decision better the three of us, but if it stayed just two he would be fine with that as well. His takes pleasure from my please.
If anyone can help me on this journey it would be very much welcomed.RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'carabeandelight'oh thank god ive found a forum to talk about this ....... I to am dying to try a girl with my partner and like others I see it at swingers clubs and want to hit on her but am scared what if shes not bi.......so maybe we might get lucky on here????
Single Bi girls looking to play with couples are referred to as Unicorns, as they are a rare breed. Even on here.
Patience is key, and a club might be a good place to start. Just ask politely if you can touch, the worst you can get is a no.RHP User
10 years ago
When you do find a Unicorn here, make sure you are clear about the fact it is as much about her as about you two.
Too often we get messages along the likes of "I've always wanted to have a girl please me" or "It would turn my man on to see me with another woman".
That's great for them, but what's in it for us? Good luck!
hotcple0069
10 years ago
Hi all,
I too am struggling to find a girl, I would like to have a girl join me and my partner as its been a fantasy of mine for years, hubby is happy for me to play with the girls without his involvement and as we are a committed couple I have no intention of meeting anybody without his approval. We have met a few couples and I have made strong connections with the females but nothing has come from these yet, some have been offended when hubby had no sexual interest in them yet they were there to meet me? We have been accused of being fake many times and we have come across fakes too so that's all part of internet dating I think. I noticed most of you are guests too, so not messaging anybody would greatly reduce you're chances. We have been on here a while and I have not had a single message from a girl its always couples with bi fem and that's fine but they all want full swap or nothing. We went out to a meet night last night met some nice people but after last night we have decided we wont renew our membership this is our last hurrah if it doesn't happen then it was never meant too. We have invested too much into this search for very little result so its time to move on with life. Hubby suggested I host a girls only night in a hotel room on the coast as only couples are interested in us he would take the guys to watch footy and we would stay in the hotel its starting to sound like my best option now so look out for that.RHP User
10 years ago
very bi lady here and blonde would you like to meet .
RHP User
10 years ago
to be honest... the problem tends to be that people are looking for a one off or a fling with a woman. For most truely bi women... Other women are a passion. To be treated as the 'unicorn' sometimes feels akin to being seen as a sex toy.
I myself am put off at the idea of being used simply to satisfy a curiosity or as a sex toy for a couple. Now i know this is certainly not the case with everyone. But too many women become pushy with the 'i want' attitude when talking to me. And too many couples are all about what I can do for them.
For me.. Women are a passion, I just cant hook up in a one night stand with a woman 1 on 1 (yes I have tried.. LOL). It just doesnt feel right. And as for playing with couples.. This can be an amazing experience as long as its an equal experience. All three people should be there for equal pleasure. Actually, that is really how it should be for any sexual encounter.
So my tip... couples.. think about her needs.. she is potentially coming into a committed relationship as the 'other woman'. This is daunting, as as much as the female partner assures its ok. We are still worried. The last think any bi girl wants to do is come between a couple.
Girls, just be honest. If you meet a girl your are interested in. Tell her. She may not be bi.. So what. you will have least have made her day. But you never know.. She may be into you as well. We dont wear labels pointing us out. LOLRHP User
10 years ago
The best feeling is actually when a woman contacts you out of a couple. Especially when they ask would I mind if the husband joined in. I have met some great couples and the best ones are the ones that keep in touch with you and treat you as a friend. Then there are the ones that just couldnt give a dam after wards. Not asking for much to be treated fairly. So you wonder why this is why. I have been a couple at one time on here and I know how hard it is to find an additional female. My advice try with couples that has a bi female that way its easier for you all to go your own way after.
hotcple0069
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' The best feeling is actually when a woman contacts you out of a couple. Especially when they ask would I mind if the husband joined in. I have met some great couples and the best ones are the ones that keep in touch with you and treat you as a friend. Then there are the ones that just couldnt give a dam after wards. Not asking for much to be treated fairly. So you wonder why this is why. I have been a couple at one time on here and I know how hard it is to find an additional female. My advice try with couples that has a bi female that way its easier for you all to go your own way after. Done all that still no success :(
RHP User
10 years ago
Most of females I meet are so cock orientated they don't seem to just enjoy
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
my gf is happy to help out any girls on here.
RHP User
10 years ago
Hi All Im on my "L" plates with being BI , but why don't we all try and get together and have our own little play time party . no guys (SORRY) just us girls im able to host .My hubby works away a lot so its all good .
RHP User
10 years ago
Try being 54 BBW and Bi.....it just doesn't happen ...would love to find someone to spend time with and build a real friendship with where you don't have to act straight all the time for fear of frightening you're friends off ..
- Posted from rhpmobilecremecaramel
10 years ago
Wow! There is definitely always one! Well said Mischievouslad!
- Posted from rhpmobilecremecaramel
10 years ago
Hey ladies in Vic :)
I'm trying to get some idea of the interest level for a bi girls get together in Melb at the end of May....sans partners of course. Just a few drinks and dinner/nibbles probably at a bar or pub and then perhaps a foray elsewhere....;) Any interstate ladies please feel free to cum along.
Anyway... hands up if your keen. Inbox me or message me on my listed number. Try for the last sat of may....? We need at least 10 lovely ladies to go ahead with the night. Good luck everyone else and don't give up on your dream peeps. Xxxx
- Posted from rhpmobilecremecaramel
10 years ago
Hi ladies the best way to meet bi gals in Melb is to turn up to the meet n greet on the 31/5.....lots of sexy ladies have already confirmed their attendance, which is not reflected on the events page as we trying to keep it on the down low....;) check the events page for details or message me.
Cheers
Ally
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
I've started threads in "Dating, Meeting and RHPers" and in "Secret Womens Business" but there hasn't been a huge response so far and no suggestions for dates or venues.
RHP User
10 years ago
I would love to meet some of you... I'm a bi curious well covered curvy, country girl who would really love to play with a woman. I have a parter but he knows this is for me and he would not be involved. I haven't got pics up as i work with the public but drop me a line if you're interested...
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'BignbiNewy' Try being 54 BBW and Bi.....it just doesn't happen ...would love to find someone to spend time with and build a real friendship with where you don't have to act straight all the time for fear of frightening you're friends off ..
- Posted from rhpmobile How can we meet up?RHP User
10 years ago
guys always complain it is difficult to hook up with hot girls.. it is only after I discovered my real sexual preference that I could stand in their shoes and feel the pain of a guy ……… no idea how to identify another bi much less hooking up with her…and it is difficult to rely on body language/eye contact as girls tend to check out the same sex not necessarily because she is attracted to her, but also because she is wearing a pretty dress or had her hair nicely done
ideal bi girl would be one who is athletic and has a perky butt and close-ish to my age group (other girls are equally hot but I'm just more comfortable with girls close to my age)RHP User
9 years ago
I have had no problem finding bi girls beit the net or out on the street.Suggest you try harder .LOL.
RHP User
9 years ago
Being a bi girl in a relationship where as a couple we also have a couples profile has it's challenges. I have a single girls profile because my partner travels extensively for work and we are so limited with when we can play as a couple that it just works better for me to have a single girls profile to look for ladies to play with while he is away with work otherwise I would never get any girl play lol
Firstly trying to get across the point your not threesome hunting is the main one if you have attached on your profile. I find a lot of ladies on RHP who say they are looking for girl on girl play are in fact just threesome hunting for their husband/boyfriend and have no intention of playing one on one. I list on my profile very clearly I'm not looking for a threesome only girls wanting to play one on one with no males present in any shape or form (this includes my partner being as far away as possible from me when I'm with a lady lol). As I also have a preference for women over men I list this clearly on my profile to try and attract similar ladies who are just seeking girl play and nothing else.
I also have a verified profile and ask that any ladies interested in meeting must also be verified or willing to prove to me they are in fact female before I will meet in person (had a lot of single guys pretending to be women). I also have a line about how I'm not interested in endless conversations and mail pingpong, I want to exchange phone numbers asap as soon as I establish a lady is who she says she is. Then I set up a casual meet for coffee or such and then at a later date a play date if everyone gets on well. So far this has worked well for me but there is the issue of there being limited ladies in my area who suit what I'm looking for. It's just one of those things, men and couples will always outnumber single bi ladies.
You just have the be patient and as long as your honest up front with yourself about what your looking for things should go your way eventually :)
Taby xRHP User
9 years ago
I wonder if the OP ever found what she was looking for.
RHP User
9 years ago
I was in the same boat a year and a half ago...
But god bless the world of on line dating! The first 6 months of my journey was playing with couples, but as I met more people and my confidence grew it became easier to approach single women. Now I'm quite comfortable hitting on chicks, and have found my confidence must be appealing as 9 times out of 10 I'm successful! Now I'm hooking up with single girls more often than guys, though tbh I still prefer threesomes. Miss_Taby, as much as I believe your husband is happy for you to play alone, that situation is something I'm still very wary of. I would happily play alone with the female of a couple but only after I knew the couple very well, enough to know that there is no chance of damaging the relationship. There are plenty of couples that can do it, but many that think they can and realise they can't. I am not interested in becoming involved in any dramas, so I tend to stay clear of single girl profiles that reveal they have a partner. I would suggest seeking other couples in a similar situation to yourself....RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'unicorn99' I was in the same boat a year and a half ago...
But god bless the world of on line dating! The first 6 months of my journey was playing with couples, but as I met more people and my confidence grew it became easier to approach single women. Now I'm quite comfortable hitting on chicks, and have found my confidence must be appealing as 9 times out of 10 I'm successful! Now I'm hooking up with single girls more often than guys, though tbh I still prefer threesomes. Miss_Taby, as much as I believe your husband is happy for you to play alone, that situation is something I'm still very wary of. I would happily play alone with the female of a couple but only after I knew the couple very well, enough to know that there is no chance of damaging the relationship. There are plenty of couples that can do it, but many that think they can and realise they can't. I am not interested in becoming involved in any dramas, so I tend to stay clear of single girl profiles that reveal they have a partner. I would suggest seeking other couples in a similar situation to yourself....
I get what you are saying Unicorn99, and yes I do agree some couples have trust issues etc and cant play separate.
My partner and I have been swingers for over 3 years so we have great communication and trust each other impeccably. I have played with women one on one many times without him and it has in no way damaged our relationship or caused issues, thus why he has no problem with me looking for girls to play with without him. He actually encourages me to do so because he travels so much which limits our play time.
Taby xRHP User
9 years ago
After reading different forums over the last 12 months and searching profiles over that time you would have to agree that a very large percentage of people on here are far from honest in their profiles an are not what they say they are. As a result it makes it very hard for the genuine people like us all to find anyone on here or even make contact as we are all very weary. And it doesn't matter if you are a guy, girl, couple, straight, bi or gay.
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Looking4trouble' After reading different forums over the last 12 months and searching profiles over that time you would have to agree that a very large percentage of people on here are far from honest in their profiles an are not what they say they are. As a result it makes it very hard for the genuine people like us all to find anyone on here or even make contact as we are all very weary. And it doesn't matter if you are a guy, girl, couple, straight, bi or gay.
I have to disagree, though of course I can only comment on my own experiences. There is definitely fake profiles, liars, cheaters and the like, but I don't let that interfere with me meeting the genuine people. I've developed quite a good instinct and always follow my gut, and I've only had a few negative experiences versus well over a hundred good ones. I find chat is a great way to get to know people prior to meeting, so when I get approached by someone who interests me I ask them to come join the chat party. I like to watch how they interact with others as it has proven to be a great pointer as to who they are in real life!RHP User
9 years ago
Is.......you girls are used to the men beating a path to your door, but that's not what your looking for now so "woman up" and make the first move.
RHP User
9 years ago
I feel that sometimes many people do judge you by what size you are but if anyone is genuine enough they would not Le,t that minor thing get in the way of what could be had. Unfortunately it's a sad thing that does happen but be proud of who you are and love those curves girl, know how you feel although I have lost a couple of curves but hey nothing wrong with them :-)
Minxey
9 years ago
Hi everyone,
I joined the site recently and I am also frustrated that the only bi girls that I am being contacted by are in a relationship and just want to have a MFF threesome. I noticed most bi girls in my area around my age are only guests on this website. :(
Just because I am bi, doesn't mean I want MFF threesomes. What if I just want the pussy cat?
I figure the only way to interact with females is by going to an event (sigh...which is almost always a swingers thing) or paying for membership (which I can't afford right now) to contact females.
I would love if there were more RHP events for singles!
PS: a dad buying his daughter sex toys makes me spew in my mouth a little.RHP User
9 years ago
My fifo fella is more than happy for me to play with girls, one on one. It is incredibly hard finding someone who can play alone with me. Love to catch up for drinks with a purely bi and, bi curious girls. I'm sure it would be fun. Maybe RHP could help with a night😁😁😁
RHP User
9 years ago
I too am finding it difficult, I have a lot of fantasies I would love fulfilled, I am married but my husband is not a great bed partner just want to be satisfied, without the feelings of guilt hence why I'm turning to other woman for sexual fulfillment.
RHP User
9 years ago
As a community could we organise a bi girls meetup? There's a common thread here, that being a bi girl wanting to meet other woman is hard - either it's a threesome, or I've sometimes found that lesbians are not interested in woman in a hetero relationship. So... let's connect? A girls only night perhaps at a pub/bistro? Keep the details closed and vet everyone so anyone who feels nervous can come along in confidence.
Anyone in Perth interested?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Got on then put up a meet n greet for bi ladies in Perth and I will bring a few of the great girls on RHP with me.Quoting 'sensualitea' As a community could we organise a bi girls meetup? There's a common thread here, that being a bi girl wanting to meet other woman is hard - either it's a threesome, or I've sometimes found that lesbians are not interested in woman in a hetero relationship. So... let's connect? A girls only night perhaps at a pub/bistro? Keep the details closed and vet everyone so anyone who feels nervous can come along in confidence.
Anyone in Perth interested?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Now if only I lived in Perth... :(
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
That ladies find it so hard to find bi girls.I know an estimated 20 or so 5 who are in my local area and 4 I play with maybe you should try the clubs and putyourself out there.
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