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Why would anybody want to be slave?
April 18 2015
So why would anybody want to be a slave unto me and give me their whole lives to do with as I wish?
It has been my experience for more years than I care to remember that true slaves have emotional issues or have shut down completely and pain and suffering is their only way to process this emotion.
In the end game slaves are people that deserve love just like anybody else and this is where the job of a “Master” should come in.
My slaves have learned to love themselves, to appreciate life, to be ambitious, to be leaders, to be proactive, to be dominant, to be teachers and mentors.
So if they are all that why would they still need to be a slave?
Their slavery is now designed to enhance their lives and goals so its used as a tool to achieve more and more leadership in their lives.
My slaves used to tolerate pain very well but now with their head-space being so much better they do not tolerate pain too well, which means I adjust this discipline down and I also adjust the time I need to spend with them as they don't need me today so much as a “Master” but as a friend, teacher and mentor.
So even though my slaves are Total Power Exchange unto Me it is now just a protective measure to preserve the work I've done with them over ten years now.
My slaves are happy, independent and free most of the time unless I call them to serve Master if they get too emotional about anything.
So with two slaves already why would you need more?
Slaves are genuine people and a great asset to help with our family environment perhaps as an au- pair in return they get a level of attention and listening they never, ever got in their entire lives
Slaves are people too and in the end they may stop being slaves altogether isn't that the job of the Master?
Comments
TheLuckyOne
9 years ago
Why anyone would want to be a slave. I've lived too sheltered a life to pretend to understand. Your profile is fascinating though. Have you had many people contact you?
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Why anyone would want to be a slave. I've lived too sheltered a life to pretend to understand. Your profile is fascinating though. Have you had many people contact you? On this site because we are relatively new we have not had many people contact us and the couple of guys that did wound up being fake or similar.
We are glad you think our profile is "fascinating" and in many ways we will lose a lot of audience because of it.
I understand the slave mind because I lived a life of hell too and with that one either gains empathy or develops narcissism.RHP User
9 years ago
I have no issue whatsoever with your choice of lifestyle but I fail to see the point of your post. What are you trying to achieve, what is your issue, what is your gist ?
Advertising ? Self promotion ?RHP User
9 years ago
However I understand the dynamics on what you are saying. For a very short period of time I was a submissive to a Dominate. What I will say as this is a very personal experience of mine. We spoke at length about my past being everything from my family and how I grew up, work that I did, my past marriage and children. What I wanted to achieve for myself and how I could change my life to gain what I needed in life.
This was for the most part a purely non sexual encounter. Also my past had it ups and downs but mostly happy. What he did do on a daily bases was to give me many tasks to assist with improving my daily life. It gave me direction, also made me feel like someone cared enough about my well being. It held me responsible to someone at a time when I felt like I didnt have anyone.
I achieved what I needed and now life has become more positive again. Although when it ended I was at a loss, but I had gained so much and for that I will always be grateful.
I wanted to share this as the world of bdsm is vast and has many facets. Its not always in a sexual nature and always more about the mental side of our bodies.RHP User
9 years ago
Geeeezus
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
It might be a fine line between excessive control by an overly controlling older man exploiting a young woman's past pain and vulnerability and a lover,teacher,healer connection.I lived in and around Buddhist communities for over twenty years,there were teachings,practices,rules known as precepts,it was literally having a Guru or teacher that I trusted,following a spiritual path which was lo a practical one.I know longer live in Buddhist immunities but the path is still there...for me it all comes down to the motivation and ethics of the Master.xxFreya
RHP User
9 years ago
Your comment
We are not into sexually pleasuring anybody as We take and not give.
How's that working out for you all on this site?
Not judging
just damn curious on a wet Saturday night in MelbourneRHP User
9 years ago
Your profile certainly is different. I do find it disturbing that you demanded your slave have your children though. That is a line you should never cross in my mind.
I did pick up a spelling error on your profile. You have written exiting a number of times but I think you may have meant to write Exciting. Good luck on RHP.RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Your profile certainly is different. I do find it disturbing that you demanded your slave have your children though. That is a line you should never cross in my mind.
I did pick up a spelling error on your profile. You have written exiting a number of times but I think you may have meant to write Exciting. Good luck on RHP. Yes you are correct with the typo's I'll get to that and thank you for pointing it out.
Profiles can't convey a whole history or story and you would have had to lived our lives to understand but when you lose your entire family, when you suffer from deep anxieties, when obsessive compulsive disorder owns you when some one is screaming for you to help them year after year to find an answer then you must help them any way you can.
Yes I commanded her to have children because she wanted to have children but was too scared to do so unless commanded.
Assumptions can too easily be made and our purpose here is just to meet somebody on our wave length that can help our family and we help them.
Too often people judge one another without knowing the circumstances and when this occurs many people lie to avoid the judgments.RHP User
9 years ago
Read the profile & tried to keep an open mind........but looking for vulnerable people & the use of words like spiritualism, entrepernership & immortality, plus commanding someone to have children, makes it very hard for me because there is one word that sprung out to me & that is cult
just my thoughts thoughRHP User
9 years ago
I got half way through reading your post and read the word slave way too much. I can't get through 12 Years A Slave, Armistad or Glory without turning into a crying, guilty, blubbering blob of caucasian male mess.
First world master problems?
anyhoo back to watching Mr Garrison and Mr Slave on South Park...Jeezz Chrisst
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Please make that documentary about your life, it will be amazing! You won't need actors because you've got slaves already right?
Have you got any guns? Dude! Get some guns!
Start working on that new religion of yours, get some tax breaks, get a "compound", walls n shit, it'll be great! Chicks dig churches man. You can then give yourself The Freedom Medal of Valor, make out with John Travolta and then enslave the rest of us. Good luck Brosef, if anyone deserves happiness it's you
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
This site is getting to weird and it is with great regret I will close our account & profile.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
I could never be a slave.
When I read a profile tike yours I get a feeling of panic and fear.........FREEDOM IS THE ULTIMATE
Good luck finding what you are looking for.
LRHP User
9 years ago
It appears that you view yourself as 'evolved' or 'illuminated' but just screams narcacistic personality disorder with a lot of delusion mixed in.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Dont think that anti aging immortality is working for you. You both look unwell, emotionally and physically. Just an honest observation.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'simple_desires' It appears that you view yourself as 'evolved' or 'illuminated' but just screams narcacistic personality disorder with a lot of delusion mixed in.
- Posted from rhpmobile Controversy creates interest and impacts minds and it's a good thing, it makes people think.
Who is the slave? who is the Master? who is evolved or enlightened?
I am also a slave unto my slaves that are very often greater than I.
The person we are looking for is the person with the least amount of resistance for us and in the real world everybody is slave in one way or another.
We welcome your opinions and the controversy.RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'simple_desires' Dont think that anti aging immortality is working for you. You both look unwell, emotionally and physically. Just an honest observation.
- Posted from rhpmobile You are perfectly correct! we do look unwell, these are file photo's from about four years ago when we liven in hell. Both of us were seriously ill at the time and lived in a different location so a very good observation!RHP User
9 years ago
Ugly is as ugly does.
Do you ever have something nice to say or does all that uncalled for bitchiness make you feel better about yourself?RHP User
9 years ago
Like Jersey my life has been too sheltered to offer much, and most of your questions appear to be rhetorical.
I'm confused though about the fact you say both women are "zero-limits slaves", while all three of you are "strongly dominant".
How does that work?RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Like Jersey my life has been too sheltered to offer much, and most of your questions appear to be rhetorical.
I'm confused though about the fact you say both women are "zero-limits slaves", while all three of you are "strongly dominant".
How does that work?
We all love one another, we are family, I am to my family zero limits which means I would die for them and whatever is mine is theirs.
All of Us have known each other for years and have seen hell and by working through that hell we all got to be very close and became the best of eternal friends.
Every one including myself started off life as submissive pleasing others and not ourselves because we weren't worth much, judgements can kill the spirit.
We are family and there is nothing we wouldn't do for each other we are all zero limits unto each other so whatever any family member needs they have it, which means my money, my time, my life if need be.
I too am a slave unto family and in this house who ever is strongest leads and very often I had to reverse roles here.
We are all strongly dominant because we fight to never, ever again be victims.
We have children and these children need to see leadership at all times.
Everybody in this house has shown unusual courage and fortitude and it's what keeps the children safe and that's what we expect in others that we meet.
So for me I am prepared to do whatever it takes to protect and serve family, so I am the slave, I am the Master, I am the student...
Quoting 'Meander' Like Jersey my life has been too sheltered to offer much, and most of your questions appear to be rhetorical.
I'm confused though about the fact you say both women are "zero-limits slaves", while all three of you are "strongly dominant".
How does that work?RHP User
9 years ago
Firstly, bite me.
Secondly, its my opinion and I prefer honesty. I also have female aspergers, if you must know, Truth is important.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
You are the nastiest person I know here and have been on my block list for a long time - perhsps its you that is the bitch?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
That's no excuse for continually putting people down. You can be truthful and nice at the same time.
Peace out.RHP User
9 years ago
With the "bitchiness" I was referring to your in my view bitchy behaviour.
I would ever call you a bitch, nor anyone else. I can only go by your behaviour on the forums, and I would never claim I know who you are as a person.
Hope that clears things up.
Sorry OP, I hope you don't call your slaves bitches either, unless they want you to.RHP User
9 years ago
After reading your profile, im feeling a little scared...Each to their own though, but your profile made me want to run as fast as possible.
inspirit
9 years ago
a good way too fish.
I found your profile a TAD interesting though I can not help think you are more along the lines of some "cult".
I do understand "full exchange of power" though it seems you are losing the power of your "subs". Hence why you are here now.
You say on your profile you want people to pay for membership if they are guests and wish to contact you. Good luck with that. It doesn't seem to me you are actively seeking then if this is your COMMAND.
I also do not understand why you are justifying a "Slave" in an emotional sense. You are actually making a huge generalisation and it is not really the whole truth in a broader sense - is it? I feel that is you perception in your maybe limited experience.
Not all slaves are the same. Mind - Body or Spirit.inspirit
9 years ago
PURRRRR it up
RHP User
9 years ago
It comes fom what we don't understand ..if Polys choose to live their lives in an unconventional way,then that is their choice.its only a problem if there is no choice,then that is not acceptable...but all we know of them is what is posted here..and is it a fetish or a fantasy ?xxFreya
DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We would never want to be a slave nor master. It smacks of sexism of dominance and lack of respect.
In our opinion men and women should be equal and not treated as possessions by one or the other.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' a good way too fish.
I found your profile a TAD interesting though I can not help think you are more along the lines of some "cult".
I do understand "full exchange of power" though it seems you are losing the power of your "subs". Hence why you are here now.
The reason we ask people to pay to speak to us is because we do not actively message anybody.
We have paid for services in the past and found most people not to be serious, if it can be proven that a person is serious then of course we can pay if it's difficult for them to do so.
I have no experience with the "slave" side of things when it comes to kink nor do I have interest.
I have as much power over my slaves as i ever have had and they have as much power over me as they ever had if not more in fact.
Since I don't do role play we have a law in this house and it is who ever is strongest leads and very often I have been in that slave position.
If we can find a person as dedicated as us around our children and not do things out of kink but a genuine caring for a family environment then we are winning.
We will do whatever it takes to protect family slaves must obey and that makes things safe.inspirit
9 years ago
I do understand they are in a poly relationship and the ethics of which they live under (From their profile)
i just do not understand if you can put it all under the one umbrella or "BDSM" as they have or can you? Is BDSM a "Cult" - I thought not.
"Slaves are people too and in the end they may stop being slaves altogether isn't that the job of the Master?"
I have to wonder at this statement........RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I do understand they are in a poly relationship and the ethics of which they live under (From their profile)
i just do not understand if you can put it all under the one umbrella or "BDSM" as they have or can you? Is BDSM a "Cult" - I thought not.
"Slaves are people too and in the end they may stop being slaves altogether isn't that the job of the Master?"
I have to wonder at this statement........
Who is not a slave? if you pay taxes, work nine to five, get ill, die you are a slave to that which you can't control.
The job of a Master or Mistress or researcher or whatever label we need to give it is to stop people being slaves to what they can't control and get them back to control.
Labels are interesting "BDSM" "Cult" "Poly" and so forth and it does seem to create judgments...RHP User
9 years ago
justify rudeness with a medical condition? Not cool.Plus how can you say they look unwell emotionally and physically? Unless you have seen pics of them previously,and can compare them,thats a hurtfull call to throw at strangers. Blunt and rude comes across as... Blunt and rude. Speaking truths can only be done when speaking about yourself, not others.
RHP User
9 years ago
You are ignorant. Period.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
You have made three comments on this forum topic. None of which added anything to the topic, and bordered on vilification of the OP in my opinion. And then you're surprised when someone calls you on it???
OK, so this lifestyle is not for you... just say so without being rude and judgemental. I'm with Meander and Willow on this all the way. And if calling you out on your behaviour makes me a nasty and bitchy person so be it. More than happy to wear those labels in this case.
Elle
OP - apologies for the off-topic rant.inspirit
9 years ago
Take your bitch session to the venting post.
Or even the chill out lounge considering you are instant posters. Either way fuck off out of here if you have nothing constructive to say.
Just sayinRHP User
9 years ago
I shall go - have fun smashing anyone with different views
RHP User
9 years ago
Yep, you're right . I'm off to the venting thread...
Much love,Elle xxRHP User
9 years ago
Thanks, I think I understand. From what you said I can see how you'd be a courageous bunch.
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie' We would never want to be a slave nor master. It smacks of sexism of dominance and lack of respect.
In our opinion men and women should be equal and not treated as possessions by one or the other.
- Posted from rhpmobile
It's still not my cup of tea, but I have learned over time that Subs don't have their power taken but instead choose to give it to someone they deem worthy.
I think as long as all three of them are consenting adults, and their kids and animals aren't harmed in any way as a result of their life choices, I can't judge them negatively.They seem to have found what they wanted, something many here haven't (yet).RHP User
9 years ago
Polyfamily I hope you are all getting the professional help you need. Sounds like you have all suffered extreme abuse and traumas in your life and in my opinion you are not living a health lifestyle. Of course I am no professional but from the surface building such interdependencies and to label people salves is not a good thing. I fail to see how that can help anybody. Teaching someone to totally depend on someone for all their needs and encourage them to absolve all responsibility for their own life and to not make any decisions for themselves is harmful and makes them Extremely vulnerable when one day you are not around.
are you raising your children as slaves too? Surely what we all want for our children is that they become confident people who can be independent and know how to make informed choices on their own. We want them to be able to survive in the world. I would have thought you would want this for your lovers too.
Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Something........ isn't right.
DGRHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Polyfamily I hope you are all getting the professional help you need. Sounds like you have all suffered extreme abuse and traumas in your life and in my opinion you are not living a health lifestyle. Of course I am no professional but from the surface building such interdependencies and to label people salves is not a good thing. I fail to see how that can help anybody. Teaching someone to totally depend on someone for all their needs and encourage them to absolve all responsibility for their own life and to not make any decisions for themselves is harmful and makes them Extremely vulnerable when one day you are not around.
are you raising your children as slaves too? Surely what we all want for our children is that they become confident people who can be independent and know how to make informed choices on their own. We want them to be able to survive in the world. I would have thought you would want this for your lovers too. It gets tedious to read all our posts but it has already been mentioned that no one in this house maintains absolute control and I'll restate "Who ever is strongest leads in this house" whether I'm a slave, a Master, a coach depends on my ability to be.
Everyone is being taught leadership and everyone in this house has the same status.
I may have to rewrite a profile to make this more absolutely clear.
We are after people that can adapt to change and learn health, leadership, and so forth and to do so one must first learn to follow absolutely as they will be around children.
Our children are raised to be leaders immediately as they do not need to learn the lessons of the adults. In our house the children are immediately equal.
Our problem is that we write honestly and that opens up a can of worms for those that do not understand our lifestyle.
Anyone can write a comment but what was the intent behind it? was there an attempt to understand the author?RHP User
9 years ago
In Simple Desires defence I would agree that anybody person gang considers themselves to be master has to have an element of a narcissistic personality. Absolutely. Why would want to be Master otherwise??
RHP User
9 years ago
In Simple Desires defence I would agree that any person that considers themselves to be Master or Mistress of slaves has to have elements of a narcissistic personality. Absolutely. Why would they want to be Master otherwise?? Not saying that they are evil... Narcissistic most likely.
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' In Simple Desires defence I would agree that anybody person gang considers themselves to be master has to have an element of a narcissistic personality. Absolutely. Why would want to be Master otherwise?? Lets take my child's mother as an example. She had to standup to a swimming teacher for being too forceful with our child. Now at this point unless she was able to take control of a situation this child would have been in psychological danger, if we need to call this "dominant" or Mistress or Master or leader is irrelevant. Most personal trainers come under the category of leader in this sense and help bring about change.
We are either leaders/ Masters/ teachers or we are victims and this means mastering a situation, a circumstance, an environment that is toxic and sometimes this means working with people and their emotions.
It is unusual on a site like this that there is misunderstandings such as this.
The world can be a dangerous place and one has to have the ability to master a situation and it really all depends on ones integrity and ethics.
It's too easy to make assumptions and not understand these principals such as safe, sane and consensual which would occur through dialogue with us, in many ways you have prejudiced this rather common facet found in BDSM and if it's not your interest this is fine but it may alienate some people.
Some people will cherry pick their assumptions and this is called "confirmation bias" and others will benefit from the dialogue.inspirit
9 years ago
Isn't it easy to pass judgement on such we know little about and that is another person/s and how they choose to live.
I do wonder why we as humans continue to judge and not accept.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
You have to judge situations and people. It's how you survive. Just accepting things is bloody stupid and dangerous. So many people are keen to say they understand and want to be seen as accepting sometimes without really looking at the situation. The Poly has responded and told me I don't understand. And no, I don't. His further comments also put up some red flags for me. I don't wish him ill but I don't believe he is someone I would take advice from on this subject.
RHP User
9 years ago
We are either masters/leaders/teachers or victims? Really? Well that is a very sad view of the world isn't it. The world is totally shithouse in so many ways and people who damage each other every day, rape, kidnappings, abuse, religious leaders harming children in their care, etc etc. Doesn't mean I have to accept that. :(
RHP User
9 years ago
Red flags indeed!
Bye OP, I hope you and yours will be safe and healthy, both physically and mentally.
And why is everyone leaving today?Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Guess I was right.
inspirit
9 years ago
Sure DG said something not right but how he fuck would you know DG?
Meeka you are not into nor do you understand BDSM in any shape or form - you have stated this many times in other forums yet you still choose NOT to understand t at all. That's your choice but fuck you go on about shit sometimes and in this instance you take something and twist and turn it to how you perceive it.
BTW just accepting is not dangerous and stupid in my opinion. Judging to me is MORE dangerous and stupid. You end up becoming a cynical ole maid in my opinion. We do have the ABILITY to question ans this is not judging.
Meander - One minute your accepting them you aren't. What ever.
NONE of you KNOW this poly family and you all have the gore too judge. Unreal!
You can write what you want back - I really do not give a shit for small minded crapinspirit
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You have to judge situations and people. It's how you survive. Just accepting things is bloody stupid and dangerous. So many people are keen to say they understand and want to be seen as accepting sometimes without really looking at the situation. The Poly has responded and told me I don't understand. And no, I don't. His further comments also put up some red flags for me. I don't wish him ill but I don't believe he is someone I would take advice from on this subject.
RHP User
9 years ago
If you think that sounds healthy and the fact he wants another damage woman to join his haram of slaves. Good luck to you. Has this changed my opinion of you. Yes it has. Again good luck to you.
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Sure DG said something not right but how he fuck would you know DG?
...
Meander - One minute your accepting them you aren't. What ever.
I wasn't agreeing with DG, but more with what Meeka was saying.
Many of the OP's responses didn't show up until I had posted my last one, and they made me see things differently.
Still only going by what I read, of course.inspirit
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If you think that sounds healthy and the fact he wants another damage woman to join his haram of slaves. Good luck to you. Has this changed my opinion of you. Yes it has. Again good luck to you. So once again you put your judging hat on. Has my opinion of you changed. NO. Good luck to you too Meeka.
I am use to taking things out of content and do I have to agree with you .........nope.
There was never enough information to pass such harsh judgement.RHP User
9 years ago
Quote from OP "Slaves are genuine people and a great asset to help with our family environment perhaps as an au- pair in return they get a level of attention and listening they never, ever got in their entire lives"
Well I am sure thy will find a needy person who will be happy with that. Shame he has gone. Wanted to know how you raise kids as leaders while all the women in the household are slaves.inspirit
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quote from OP "Slaves are genuine people and a great asset to help with our family environment perhaps as an au- pair in return they get a level of attention and listening they never, ever got in their entire lives"
Well I am sure thy will find a needy person who will be happy with that. Shame he has gone. Wanted to know how you raise kids as leaders while all the women in the household are slaves. No one knows what the OP truly meant and you can take the whole thing out of context all you like.
OMG - Did you not read that they are actually ALL equal. They started out as slaves and clearly became more. YES the OP fucked up his dialect a few times though can you not see that.
As I siad it looked like he was fishing for more "slaves" in here and as I said it looked to me more of a "cult" than anything to do with BDSM and as he said he did not do roleplay.
Say all you like Meeka you do NOT know the full story and grasping at straws.
There are woman and men out there like that who ARE damaged beyond belief. MAYBE the Op has professional skills in this area we do not know about. Maybe I am wrong too - though I also accept that.RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting theOP "It has been my experience for more years than I care to remember that true slaves have emotional issues or have shut down completely and pain and suffering is their only way to process this emotion."
You feel that is a good thing and good way for people to heal? By become slaves? I still say it would do More damage than good. This has nothing to do with BDSM To me.inspirit
9 years ago
he made a generalisation which I asked on in an earlier pot of mine. Remember though that his his experience.
You are right in the sense it has nothing to do with BDSM he even started that himself and as I suggested it sounded like more of a "cult" to me.
Who knows if it does or doesn't. The subs have not spoken in their defence at ALL.
Yes it does all sound "wierd". Though for me - I do not know the full story so I am just not going to pass judgement. Question it I will tho that opportunity has passed.
I don't really give a shit what you think of me either.RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' BullshitQuoting 'Meeka100' You have to judge situations and people. It's how you survive. Are you calling bullshit to the quoted part about judging situations/people?
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Why don't you GIRLS
Take your bitch session to the venting post.
Or even the chill out lounge considering you are instant posters. Either way fuck off out of here if you have nothing constructive to say.
Just sayin
Just sayinRHP User
9 years ago
We can only go on what the op wrote, if he didnt write clearly enough about his lifestyle,its not the reader at fault for making their own conclusion. We can only go on the small window of info he gave us.I cant assume what I think he may have left out. So I will go on what he did choose to share on here. The topic doesnt really have any question to it, other than " am I a master?" If he thinks he is, then he probably is. I personally didnt feel that adding " a slave" to the already established poly set up would be healthy to children. Thats my personal gut feeling. As an au-pair ( which to me is a maid) I cant see how that would fit into the family unit that he has spoken about.Bringing a stranger into his home as live-inDoes she get them coffee, make their beds, look after the children( god forbid)? He didnt elaborate on that part. But he did say that in return the "slave" would be " listened to and feel cared for" so of course ppl are going to disagree with that.It came across to me as demeaning.Yes he may have written it wrong, but thats how he wrote it. He put it out there, ppl answered how they feel about it based on what he shared. To be honest, he lost me when he said the pics he had up were 4 or 5 years old? I called bullshit story then.( my opinion) if he is still in this poly relationship, why not post recent pics? Just sayin'
RHP User
9 years ago
If you must make demands then you are a self serving bully. Submission is given, not taken.
RHP User
9 years ago
There are many thinks in this life that I don't understand, and this is another one. I accept that this is not the way I'm wired. I cherish equality in a relationship.... I neither want to dominate or be dominated. That's just me.... goes to show that everyone is different.
RHP User
9 years ago
To use the word slave would be bad here as most would not understand its dynamics.As for me I would not have a slave as I prefer affection given and not demanded so I prefer my subs and yes it would make you a Master.
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