Why don't white girls like indian guys?

August 04 2017

I m an Indian guy and find it really hard to find someone to meet up. I m not accusing or complaining but i d like to know what it is that that may be the issue and how i can be more attractive to you beautiful ladies 😉?

- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It's Toowoomba. Not many people meeting up? Assume it's a small place?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    My wife, her colleagues and a female colleague of mine all think that Indian men are sexist. I know this is not a big sample group but I do feel there is this perception.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Men & women should like Indian men because they can be better lovers than white men, they also have bigger manhoods & know how to use them better & longer? So come on white women, love ur Indian men & try them out for good sex

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Indian men are also nicer & more experienced in sex & karma sutra? Hey zapzoo, msg me private so we can chat if u like

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    But your profile needs work....and the first thing you can do is get rid of that close up of your mouth and tongue....To me, it's not appealing it gives me the feeling you're gonna eat me, in a Hannibal Lecter fashion not in a sexually arousing way....



    The wording is very bland and I didn't feel as if you were trying to connect with people but push yourself onto them without showing some of your personality.....

    But....

    This critique is also coming from someone who hasn't written one word in mine lol

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Eiliethiya

    Eiliethiya

    6 years ago

    With your ethnicity. I just didn't reply cos there's no face pic to be seen :)

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    1) Toowoomba...
    2) Go to search, reverse your search to men seeking women in the 30 -40 age range and check out your competition.
    3) No face shots.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    in what they find attractive.
    I don't think it is a racial thing at all. Some people like red heads, some don't, some like petite women, some like curvy girls, as Meander mentioned some like taller men.
    Attraction is a very personal and individual thing. Maybe alter your search by ticking the "looking for me" box.
    Additionally, as Candy mentioned, potentially your location is an issue, or like Eilie mentioned a lack of a face picture. It isn't necessarily a race issue.

  • Supernova

    Supernova

    6 years ago

    Australian women (especially on dating sites over-burdened by choice) are particularly fussy and quite superficial.

    Many won't want to date a foreigner who does not fit the ideal standards set by their peers on social media.

    Aussie women want: tall, tans, tattoos, and handsome faces. Personality is a 'secondary' requirement, and not really all that important.

    If you don't fit the above criteria it can be a struggle, just keep persisting.

    If all else fails - get a sleeve tatt!!

    I've seen men go from zeros to heros (in Aussie women's minds) after getting Tatts, there is a mentality here that men with tattoos are tougher, more 'alpha' and can fuck harder (porn has created this mindset).

    Good luck 👌

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    6 years ago

    Yeah, nah you're really not helping your brotherhood 🤔

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander'





    Quoting 'kinkyrpguy'

    Men & women should like Indian men because they can be better lovers than white men, they also have bigger manhoods & know how to use them better & longer? So come on white women, love ur Indian men & try them out for good sex



    You're an Indian man, and not model Charles-Laurent Marchand whose pics you're using?

    To the OP: I like my men over 6ft tall, and can honestly say I have yet to be messaged by an Indian man who is that tall.

    You are in the wrong business. You should have been a detective.And you are correct - the pic is Marchand.
    Personally, I have found most Indian men I've met via RHP have been very polite, warm and friendly and the sex was pretty good too.Shame that, with one exception, they only wanted ONS.There was another one, however, with whom I found the sex unappealing no matter how friendly he was.I just couldn't face having sex with him again when he asked to see me, I had to decline the offer of a 2nd date.TBH his penis was very unappealing in a few different ways.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Because of the experience l have had with Indian guys, being pushy and arrogant and a belief in their over importance as males on this earth.

    You asked and that is my opinion only. And I'm sure there are wonderful Indian males about but at this stage, they are off the menu at Annie's smorgasbord.....

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have never found one that is respectful

    One that's smells nice

    Generally not circumcised either

    Indian women on the other hand a gorgeous and taste beautiful

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    6 years ago

    that we have come across, at Attunga (a swingers club) have been extremely pushy, arrogant and very disrespectful / chauvinistic towards women.

    Perhaps a result of the patriarchal society (where women are seen as lesser beings) that they grew up in?

    We have heard similar from other couples, but obviously can only talk from our experience.

    So OP, perhaps it's this negative perception that puts "white girls " (perhaps women would have been a better choice of words?) off Indian males ?



    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    6 years ago

    Sending us repeated flirts & friend requests has accomplished nothing, besides being added to our bloclk list

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have met up with only one Indian guy, very early on in my journey, and he was a very nice person, inside and out. We had a connection except, his family sent him back to India to marry at 20-something (as is their custom, so I was told). He did ask to play again when he came back but I said no.

    But like some people have said, it isn't about the ethnicity but the connection.

    But I'm yellow so maybe my opinion doesn't count 😑

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Livingandloving2

    Livingandloving2

    6 years ago

    Last time I looked I was an Australian female..... none of your negative comments remotely match my preferences. What a shame to generalise and disparage an entire group based on your very narrow view point.
    Mrs LAL

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    May thanks to everyone who commented. Wasnt really being too serious when I posted the question. My apologies if I offended anyone. All your comments gave very good insights. Yes I do agree that indian guys are pushy and arrogant..atleast some of them. And as most of you have pointed out its a matter of attitude. Thanks again.😊

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As it happens, my best male friend is Sri Lankan (I know...). However my point is, he happens to not like other Sri Lankans and others etc because of many of the above points.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This seems to align with my (lack) of experience so far as well, on POF in particular almost every profile explicitly states: tall, tats and tanned. I guess it's the 3 T's that matter most. Depressing, so yeah, thanks for brightening up my day there.

    Quoting 'Hotstepper85'
    Australian women (especially on dating sites over-burdened by choice) are particularly fussy and quite superficial.



    Many won't want to date a foreigner who does not fit the ideal standards set by their peers on social media.



    Aussie women want: tall, tans, tattoos, and handsome faces. Personality is a 'secondary' requirement, and not really all that important.



    If you don't fit the above criteria it can be a struggle, just keep persisting.



    If all else fails - get a sleeve tatt!!



    I've seen men go from zeros to heros (in Aussie women's minds) after getting Tatts, there is a mentality here that men with tattoos are tougher, more 'alpha' and can fuck harder (porn has created this mindset).



    Good luck 👌

    - Posted from rhpmobile

    .... Re: the OP: my ex was actually searching for Indian guys as she specifically finds them attractive. Indians that I've known and worked with have all been great people.
    Also, a lot of the other posters in this thread have great general advice for your profile. Heed them well before you get on the Racism Train my friend.

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    6 years ago

    But some if you know from facebook are rude and pushy.. like please show pussy type messages.. sometimes indian food seeps tjrough the pores and gives a bad smell.

    Although ive been with an indian lady before and it was awesome.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    They treat women well than Australian men

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I find it funny when someone says your racist for having a like or dislike!

    I don't drink sambuca as don't like the taste

    I don't do uncircumcised due to the look and feel and smell

    I don't like pushy rude inconsiderate people wether man or woman

    Culture plays a big part in how people act ant treat other people especially women

    That generally comes with a race

    People are so PC

    Look at his words

    White girls?

    Shows a lack of understanding and respect

    That's not racist that's being a person and not wanting to be classed as a white girl

    If people not races treated people with respect and people especially men wether white black Asian or aboriginal learnt to communicate then they would find they would get better responses!



    I personally don't respond to wassup with a dick pic

    The lack of communication skills and respect has transcended all races but I do think there are some cultures worse than others!

    It's Australia a democracy one which I have served overseas for so I am happy to say what I think!

    Don't get me started on religions that's a whole other spectrum!

    Good morning everyone!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    What a bout Arabic Man? I searched in websites about an austrlian lady. I like Australian woman too much

  • maxyloe

    maxyloe

    6 years ago

    In my case, I'm not indian but from indian heritage (and sort of look indian). I have played with plenty of women from RHP and other sites and had amazing times. All I can say is for some women, its not their thing (whether its previous experience, stereotype or otherwise). I always make sure I put it out there early in the conversation as a disclaimer though.
    The most frustrating part is someone just stop responding once they see a pic or are if I tell them.
    At least be courteous and say no thank you, especially if we have chatted a bit.
    Jus sayin... not cool ladies...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    many reasons as many of them are desperate for sexual play.
    -garlic odour
    -body odour
    -spices from food odour
    -clammy creepy soft girly hands
    -lack of social etiquette in group scenario
    -expectancy of admiration
    -massive untrimmed unkept pubic hair



    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    6 years ago

    Perhaps Australian women have had too many issues with telstra complaints dept & Telemarketers.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I've been interested in Indian girls for a very long time.


    I have never had any luck.


    Why can't this white guy get an Indian lady to show some interest?


    Azz

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Telll us more about the Quoting 'laugh_anytime'
    -clammy creepy soft girly hands


    My daughter works for an Indian guy, now you have made it certain that next time I talk to him I am going to closely inspect his hands.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Difficult to answer given the racial overtone that can come across in replies, however as has been pointed out, certain things turn us on/turn us off. I have trialled a few, absolute worst sexual encounters I've had. One was good for the first meet, but still things that turned me off, all oral that time, the next meet full sex was terrible, not something I'd want to repeat. The others were so bad, you seriously don't want to know the detail. I put it down to lack of experience, cultural difference whatever, but due to that lack of experience, and other factors, they're off my menu as well. Don't get me started on the disdain/disrespect many Indian men show towards women. I've experienced that first hand and disgusted would be an understatement. The sheer arrogance I have witnessed, and not sexually, I mean in RL, well Australian women are naturally not accepting of that. Sorry but you did ask. Whole lot worse I've skipped over here too

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    ..in a dept store. The store was playing some modern rap type music.. Really good and I'm getting into it bopping along minding my own business. Then I spot this gorgeous Indian girl with who I presume were her mum and dad..( maybe grandparents ) She in sexy modern gear, nice figure , high pony tail and her parents in the traditional Indian type clothing. Anyway , she's also bopping along to the same music and we look at each other and smile. So I'm looking through the new season stuff , then realise they were there doing the same. Our eyes meet and she smiles and says Hi.. The mother smiles but the father looked daggers and says something to her in Indian. She says something back , then walks over and apologises saying he doesn't like her connecting with any non Indian guy... Told her 'no worries ' and went on about our business.. However they were still having words .. Poor bugger.. all she said was 'hi ..

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Indians are so special!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Unfortunately true though. Have you been with Indian guys, just wondered what you're basing your racist claim on?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'jayme2'She says something back , then walks over and apologises saying he doesn't like her connecting with any non Indian guy... This is pure racism.That's what's so good about Australia is that the immigrants kids become Aussies, and it's shame when they don't, won't or can't.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'
    Unfortunately true though. Have you been with Indian guys, just wondered what you're basing your racist claim on?
    I wont speak for Meander, but I liked Meander's comment based on the fact that any broad, sweeping negative statement/s about any race is actually racist... In the same way that generalising negatively about women is misogynistic, or about the LGBT community makes you homophobic, and so on.
    If the poster above had qualified that his statements are relevant to Indian men he has met (I am assuming that he has not actually met every Indian man on earth...), and that he understands that not all Indian men are the same (because, let's face it, that is a ridiculous notion), then it would have been less offensive (still not my idea of ok).

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Fair enough but do either of you meet Indian men for sex, and if not, why not? You see? Not so easy to say flat out in public is it, but the question has been asked, skirt around it all you like waving the racist flag, go you, but not answering the op either. Why don't you find Indian men sexy? If you do, then tell us about your experiences 👍

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If the op was worried about racist comments, he wouldn't have asked the question, riding in on your white horse, surprise surprise with one, followed by having the entire topic deleted, that your next move?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'
    Fair enough but do either of you meet Indian men for sex, and if not, why not? You see? Not so easy to say flat out in public is it, but the question has been asked, skirt around it all you like waving the racist flag, go you, but not answering the op either. Why don't you find Indian men sexy? If you do, then tell us about your experiences 👍
    My comment above in response to you, was my first on this thread. I often choose to read and not participate, so have no issue with not having answered the OP's question. I will answer your questions, for the sake of being transparent, and 'cause I like you :)
    I have not had sex with an Indian man. To my knowledge, I haven't been approached here, or on other sites, by an Indian man for sex. There are plenty of men who have 'other' or 'ask me' for race, I don't ask, because I don't care... I really don't. I am either attracted to someone, physically and mentally, or I'm not. Their race has absolutely nothing to do with it.
    I should probably clarify that I'm not meeting men for casual sex, so I have less opportunity for variety ;)
    I do have an Indian neighbour who is sexy AF... I have been doing some design work for him and am very attracted to him, both physically and mentally Am pretty sure that would be a lil too close to home for my husband's liking though

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I met two Indian men out one night with my best friend when we both lived together in Sydney CBD. I had an awesome night with them, chatting, dancing and drinking. I was out until 4am with them. My friend left earlier in the night. Becuase she is weak (lol) and I was self medicating at the time.

    These two men came and brought maccas with me and made sure I was safe and in a cab home. They treated me like one of my male friends would. At the time I was with my ex and was monogamous. But if I had been single I probably would have invited one back.

    It had nothing to do with his race. It was the connection we had both physical and mentally. He spoke my language. He responded to my body language, had amazing banter and treated me like a human. All panty droppers for me.

    If you want to spend time with 'white girls' as you say. Learn our culture, speak our language (and I don't mean English). Learn what these women want and see if you are compatible.

  • Miamore369

    Miamore369

    6 years ago

    That is unfortunate for you that most Indian men smell bad and have no idea how to have sex.

    That said I have once came across a Indian man that was just great. So there are exceptions to the rule

    But us girls have a large choice and for me I prefer to not take that one off chance.

    AND THAT IS THE UGLY TRUTH!!!!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have never found an Indian man to be attractive, in my opinion. But that's me and my personal likes and dislikes.

    In my experience at swingers clubs, men of that nationality or similar, tend to be less respectful. But there are plenty of white guys who are disrespectful too! They can also be creepy and pushy. They're usually the type of guy who wanks in the corner at a club, or sits too close to a couple having sex while he jacks off.

    Indian accents are not sexy to me, which is also a deal breaker.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I am staying out of this cause things start getting a bit "hairy".
    I will pass on this forum......NO COMMENT.

  • fawksguy818

    fawksguy818

    6 years ago

    Since this question was aimed at beautiful ladies I am not exactly eligible. But I have been in Australia over a year now. Being from India, I have some insights into this. I actually empathise with women who don't trust Indian men. I might be exaggerating this but not by a huge extent, Indians are racist and sexist as fuck. I would categorise what I have experienced in Australia as being stereotyped and not racism. Stereotypes though wrong, exist for a reason. I have found women who just don't reply when they know I am from India and then I have met women who actually try to get to know me.
    The way I see it if someone isn't attracted to me and will never be attracted to me, it's a favour they are doing by not wasting my time. I could not care lesser if it was because of something I cannot change.
    I think there were a lot of valid points mentioned throughout but I definitely found a few things that helped me
    1) Hit the Gym2) Eat healthy
    When I started getting healthier, I thought it will make me more attractive to women. That's how we all start. But it's mostly the boost to confidence that helps though. Confidence is attractive. True story
    3) Improve communication
    Cultural differences make it really difficult, especially for me because I wasn't always good at expressing myself. That doesn't help when stereotypes are in play.
    4) Self Improvement
    We all want to be liked, but only for what we are. Most women complain about men, in general, being selfish in bed, talking about themselves all the time, and sometimes not being respectful. Being a feminist myself this was never a problem. But I try to improve myself in other aspects and this again adds to the confidence.
    5) Accept Rejection
    Rejection is hard. Takes time to get used to it. But it's important. This was the hardest for me.
    I had the exact same thoughts as you and realised it was me and not Australian women. Good luck mate.

  • youngbrownguy

    youngbrownguy

    6 years ago

    Mate same feeling i am Indian too and I feel same that white Girls aren't interested in us. But I guess the reason is Facebook because most of our Indian guys ask random white Girls for Bob and vegene pics that's pretty rude just because of them all white Girls thinks we are rude and pushy but they don't know that all five fingers aren't same there are some good Indian guys too.


    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Excellent post 👍 all power to you, all those things certainly level the playing field.

    The one thing you missed, a lot of men miss, is body hair. Indian men though are usually very hairy. Not an issue for all women but consider this. Practically all of the guys I've met, and there have been quite a few 😊 have removed hair from pubic area/chest etc some shave the tops of their legs, gym guys I love because they generally like to lose the hair. So when that's what I'm used to, and I then see a guy, speaking generally here, with maybe a beard and a fair amount of chest hair, I'm thinking he's gonna be hairy all over. The last Indian guy I was with was VERY hairy, pubic area was like a national forest, but even his legs and arms, huge turn off for me personally.

    Not meaning to ridicule but knowledge is power as they say, you're on the money with all the other boxes you're ticking, absolutely couldn't agree more with everything you said, and it's all about attitude and condidence, well done, great post

  • Jay696969

    Jay696969

    2 years ago

    Not every Indian male is pushy or arrogant!!