Why do we like various sexual positions?

Why do we like various sexual positions?

    | Dec 21, 2016
Hank_E_Panky   Man 63yrs
For starters is doggy fashion so popular because both people can pretend they're wit someone else?
The idea for this thread came from a chat with a friend, she prefers the man on top because he has move around more.
I said I like the cowgirl position so I could perve on the female body during intercourse.

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S_OnTheLoose   Man 37yrs

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I don't think people want something else, some people just think it looks cute, I think it generally looks ridiculous. I did like the one where they made it look like it was being eaten by an alligator - the one where they looked like little ice hockey players was pretty well done too. But those are costumes, not so much fashion. Generally I hate doggy fashion. I don't know why you were thinking about this and sexual positions, you kinky fucker Hank... into some slutty bitches are we? should we be calling the RSPCA? ;)

I generally prefer the prone variant to regular doggy position, them flat on the bed with just the arse up a bit - sometimes relative femur lengths make doggy just all awkward. I'm not super crazy on cowgirl, it works if I'm saving my legs/hips for something important later on, but otherwise... it wouldn't be my favourite (except if you're both sitting up and it's that super romantic deep kissing and rocking motion, then it's great)
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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 42yrs

Sometimes

Sometimes just cos it feels good on the day ,but tomorrow not so much and the brain needs more stimulation and a visual position needs to help out on the job

Mr b

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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 42yrs

Sometimes

Sometimes just cos it feels good on the day ,but tomorrow not so much and the brain needs more stimulation and a visual position needs to help out on the job

Mr b

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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 46yrs Woman 38yrs

Our preferences

For us, "doggy style" is about deep penetration, and also the view. No one that we have aver played with has ever mentioned that its so that one can pretend the receiver is someone else (ie one cannot see their face)

It all depends on what type of penetration / stimulation you enjoy more.

For a woman that is more penetrative / g-spot orgasmic, riding the man ( she is on top) will offer her more control to achieve a deep, vaginal/G-spot orgasm.

And so preferred positions will vary from couple to couple.

We don't stick with any fixed position, but instead vary our positions during sex so as to make it more interesting & enjoyable depending on our moods and level of arousal.
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Qefenta1  

Woman 63yrs

Because

I love having my neck bitten :)Q
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Hank_E_Panky   Man 63yrs

S O T L, You're slipping...

Don't forget to tell the RSPCA about the cows as well.
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Mister_Playful  

Man 39yrs

Variety..

Is the spice of life Hank.
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SoftandCurious   Woman 38yrs

Because variety is the spice of life

Different positions get different penetration, depth, physical and emotional contact.

I've worked out my favourite is belly down or flat doggy style. Arms above my head with our hands intertwined. There's something about having the guys weight on top of me, it feels raw and primal. Having my back and neck kissed 😍 Missionary and all variants of a guy being on top facing are great for eye contact and connecting. Being on top is more of a show and gives the guy a break. I feel more dominant being on top, which is why it's not something I 'jump on' all of the time.
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Meander   Woman 44yrs

Different

Positions do different things, fill different needs, hit different spots, get different results, etc. Don't make me choose!

I love doggy because a guy's cock gets to hit me extra deep and hard, while his hands can grab my hips and pull my hair...
But as I also love the feeling of body weight on top of me, so doggy usually ends up the way S describes it.

As for cowgirl: It sadly tends to mess up my hips, and I'll end up limping the next day.
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LittleGiant   Couple Man 31yrs Woman 29yrs

Nah...

Nothing to do with wanting to pretend it's someone else (just close your eyes in any position for that) and everything to do with the physical sensations and feeling physically dominated - for me, anyway. Throw in a little hair pulling, some neck kissing or being held down and I'll melt.

I think we like what we like not only for how it feels but depending on whether you enjoy dominating or being submissive, whether you're feeling energetic or lazy, whether you have muscle soreness from working out our not...a multitude of reasons. Personally though I love getting on top so I can hit 'the spot' and it is one of the easiest positions for me to finish in. Once I've gotten there though, I love being flat on the bed with their body weight pressing me into the bed and having the back of my neck kissed/sucked. Bliss!

Miss Little
Xx

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Gone_Girl78

Exactly




Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney'

Positions do different things, fill different needs, hit different spots, get different results, etc. Don't make me choose!


Was talking to someone about this the other day. I can't choose a favourite position, they all produce different sensations and allow different parts of your and your partner's body to be touched and explored.

Another favourite of mine is when the guy sits up against the head of the bed or in a chair and I'm on top of him. Oh, and the twist on missionary where you kind of cross your legs and end up half on your side (great explanation there lol)...lets the guy go in really deep.

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sweetgem   Woman 38yrs

Doggy position

Isn't my favourite position to be honest. But it's not a deadly deal breaker like anal sex, so I'm not against it and I'll do it for my partner, as that's what you do for someone love. Well, that's what I think anyway :) and knowing that he gets satisfied and seeing him smiling from ear to ear afterwards, it's all worth it :)

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S_OnTheLoose   Man 37yrs

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Quoting 'Hank_E_Panky'

Don't forget to tell the RSPCA about the cows as well.
nah, cows are kinky as fuck - I've heard they have professionals to double fist them so far it'd make HotKinkyJo wince!

LD: like the prone position, but rolled onto your side, the upper leg brought forward/up?
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ontology   Man 45yrs

Well, f@ck me sideways!

I may be mistaken, but I might wonder whether this is a shot across my bows?


Quoting 'Hank_E_Panky'

Don't forget to tell the RSPCA about the cows as well.
I'm aware my posts draw criticism from some, but I do my
best to walk my talk. However, for the purpose of this reply post, I'll draw
on the wise words of another. Why? Why not?


15DEC16: "Looks good to me.
Can I use some of it?...

14NOV16: "Now...
This is getting interesting."

09NOV16: "No time...
like the present."

03NOV16: "There are those who will knock you in one way or another, but life's like that take no notice and carry on. As
long as you are honest and respectful and honest...remain true...then
you will be able to plot your course through troubled waters. I am one
of those who understand your circumstance through personal experience,
it's not easy...use tact and discretion."

26OCT16: "How
respectful are you...here? So choose who you approach and how you
approach them... Let them know what you want and what you have to offer
and you might make a friend..."

23OCT16: "I awoke on Saturday morning with a renewed zest for life, my time here is not up yet."

15OCT16: "Actually I do plan on living forever...

[Quoting 'Bazingal'

Who wants to live forever?]

So far so good"

What
about injured animals? Who's to say/how can you know they would not
also wish to live and be free of pain (which they would do if medically
treated in a timely, humane manner?


17SEP16: "I'll be damned.

[Quoting 'ontology'

...Would
you agree that some principles are worth fighting for? What of the idea
that even if the outcome does not meet your own immediate
requirement/preference, it may help protect you and others from similar
injustices at some point in the future?]

...when viewed
subjectively the answer could be yes and no, a bit like damned if I did
and damned if I didn't. In the last case...I knew the job better...he
did a hatchet job on my reputation... skulduggery on his part...I'm sure
as you suggest I did help prevent others from suffering similar
injustices. I know that they were somewhat astounded by my resistance to
the injustices heaped on me. It is empowering to know what you can
withstand."

12SEP16: "I don't get it?
Why are people so dissatisfied with who and what they are or have? First world problems.
Count your blessings and remember if it ain't broke don't fix it."

Surely,
if you find something is broke, you would make an attempt to fix it
yourself, or refer the matter someone empowered and/or capable to do so?


04SEP16: "Paranoia revisited
Just because you are NOT paranoid it doesn't mean they are NOT trying to get you..."

04SEP16: "Setting aside the bravery of raising this subject.
Is
asking someone a bit like asking someone if they want first aid
treatment. When a patient accepts an offer of assistance the first aider
is then duty bound not to withdraw that offer and to
continue their
assistance until more qualified assistance arrives. So following that
logic if you ask someone if they're OK and the tell you they are not
does this mean you know have assumed some form of duty of care?"

Using our big human brains and opposable digits, we are capable of determining when animals require first aid treatment.

31AUG16: "The right to remain silent

[Quoting 'Stirry'

I got a reaction once......

And it ended with the right to remain silent lol]

Hmm but do you have the ability to stay silent?"

I welcome further discussion, but at some point people have got to walk the talk.

31AUG16: "I'm not into jungle warfare but...

I still won't say no to a Brazilian, which is entirely predictable."

(I too am a bald c@nt! Sometimes a cheeky smart arse bastard too).

24AUG16: "Catch 22.

I can't tell you whether I'm being part of the solution or the problem.

Tagging this post with "conundrum "

17AUG16: "Henry for President!

[Quoting 'ontology'

Henry Rollins offers some insight as to how people fall prey in a song titled "Liar" on the Rollins Band album titled "Weight".]

Plato;
No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth."

In event I am mistaken, I hope you'll forgive me for any embarrassment caused by reminding you in (largely) your own words.

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Hotwives_Inc   Couple (FF) Woman 48yrs Woman 48yrs

Doggie gives him access ....

To just about everything ;) my arse is there to be spanked, he can get more leverage by pulling on my hair, his hands can dig into my hips as he pounds ... he can grab my breasts ... you get it :)

I struggle with me on top, my legs are quite short. I opt for the squat position of being on top and the view is awesome I hear :)

I'm lucky I can 'cum' from any penetrative position but my least favourite is missionary :)

Mary xx
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Meander   Woman 44yrs

Really,

I still find the best way to pretend being with someone else is to wear a blindfold. Or a gimp mask.

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SoftandCurious   Woman 38yrs

LD

I know what you mean but I don't know what it's called. And yes allows for very deep penetration.

I also find having my feet on a guy's chest with him on top works well. Maybe it's my long legs, but my knees either rest on top of my boobs or my shoulders depending on how far apart my feet are.

Summer - lights off or a paper bag? And maybe a gag for him ;)
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davidmurbko   Man 66yrs

doggy




It is an easy position for a cock to rub on the g spot and then be pushed in harder Also of coarse the hand has easy availability to to the clitoris and breasts
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

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I'd take any sexual position today. Anyone one one one. Sorry there's an echo in my bedroom, need to fix that 😉

Doggie I have to have, it exposes the nerve endings, sensitive, the female body is amazing, those nerves seem to extend out much further than guys realize. S I was bit confused BT your comment. So you don't like doggie so you don't do it. Are youn

interested in her pleasure, do you know that for many women, it hits spots big time. Why would you want to deprive a woman of that? I get the feeling you think you're above it, too primal for you? I can tell you right now, no doggie, no sex in my world 😀 and I'm not a fan of any body weight sex, not for me
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

typos

So many typos 'BT' lol I didn't type that 😀

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