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Unicorns really feel like they are mythical creatures from beyond lol:)
April 23 2017
I have been a unicorn and have included unicorns in my sexual experiences for about 20 years now. I have also had multiple partners in the bedroom and none of us were attached. Now all of this was in Canada.
I have been in Australia for 10 years and am ready to include another wonderful human being in our life, however after being on here (RHP) for a few months, out and about, and have attended some events I have had absolutely no luck. I am finding that it was so much easier finding open minded women in Canada and having these incredible experiences time and time again with little effort and tons of chemistry is just not happening here.
I wanted to know if anyone has any suggestions regarding the nuances of finding a unicorn in this country? Or maybe I'm doing something that would be acceptable in my country but not yours? Or maybe I simply need to be patient?
Thank you in advance for your help:)))
Regards,
Your happy Canadian:)
Comments
FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
Hello happy Canadian.
My (Fred) view is that your profile reads well but is not clear that you are the woman speaking and so you come across to me as just another guy wanting the infamous FMF hookup.
Secondly, I believe there are not many unicorns to go around and so you are definitely playing against the odds.
If you could open your view to couples where the focus is for women's play then you will find a larger playing field.
All the best in this 'Lucky Country'
Fred
- Posted from rhpmobile
DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
You have included unicorns in your sexual experiences for 20 years now ?
Wow you started early - 11 & 15 ? Unless it was a typo?
Unicorns are notoriously hard to find, and your chances of finding one, on here, who is interested, are very small
- Posted from rhpmobileDynamicCouple36
7 years ago
You are 35 & 31 as per your profile states
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
'Make sure you are well read and full of energy because I have very high expectations. Unicorns ONLY!'
Is off putting. Unicorns are hard to find as it is you don't want to go making demands of them,sure you're allowed standards but I don't think its necessary to state that they must be well read - after all you want to fuck them not debate politics right? "i have very high expectations" is going to make most people think that they can't meet those expectations. Up to you, I'm just noting that it will be decreasing your chances.
I suggest editing your profile. Also like another poster said it is not clear that it is a female who has written the profile. Lastly, its a numbers game and unforutnetly unicorns are few and far between - best to go to some RHP events or swingers clubs as well to really work on attracting one.DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
You wrote on your profile " Since my early 20's I have enjoyed women in bed and men on my arm"
If you have been including unicorns in your sexual adventures for 20 years now , that puts you in your 40's, not 35.
Something just does not add up, and in our opinion you are starting to sound more and more like a male posing as a couple.
Perhaps you should get admin to verify your profile. At least that way we won't think you are a lone male predator on the hunt for a single woman.
- Posted from rhpmobile
MsJonesy
7 years ago
If written by the female, then it sounds as though you are the hunter for a unicorn for both of you. Or are you looking for one on one action which may on occasion be expanded to include the male part of your couple?
As a unicorn I would not be in touch, even if I met all your criteria. High expectations are all very well and good, but what does it actually mean?
On_Safari
7 years ago
The Mrs engaged me first, we developed a rapport and later a friendship. Her husband was a gentleman and I never felt there was any pressure. We met, went for dinner, went back to my hotel. Was genuinely a fab experience for all concerned.
I don't believe Unicorns are the ones thinking they are mythical beings what I find even more mythical are "genuine couples" who are out there for the genuine pleasure of the Unicorn in their ménage à trois. As have often been noted here the wives who don't/won't allow certain inclusive intimate behaviour with their Unicorn (kissing, receiving oral from the husband/wife) and are simply there as an enhancement to their own guilty pleasures.
Perhaps it's your bait and the way you're stalking that's letting you down?
Just my 2 bobs.....Indy On Safari
lovebitten
7 years ago
That is all I will say
- Posted from rhpmobile
LoveMaiden
7 years ago
Your profile sounds pretentious.
There are no pics of your partner and the 'about us' is exactly that, not more of what u want.
As a Unicorn i want to know you are both in a secure relationship, do you have boundaries and what do you both like?
Goodluck sweetheart, you may be slim and attractive but you lack some qualities some of us look for and that is humility, modesty and honesty.
- Posted from rhpmobile
Katkat
7 years ago
Not much women here are not open in their sexuality but I guess USA & Canada is far more open & wilder in sex but then there's more people there than here in Australia.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
In regards to your searching on RHP I agree with others above, your profile is rather confusing and overall is just not appealing.
You say you've also had no luck at events. Without knowing what you're doing and saying at these events, we can't really help you there. Perhaps you can give us some examples of approaches you've made, what you've said, any feedback you've received from others at the events.RHP User
7 years ago
Go to your local swingers clubs or sexy hotspots, strip clubs or burlesque clubs and put yourselves out there. The type of open-minded women you seek do exist in Australia, threesomes happen every weekend in the real world without the help of any website to connect them, just be in the right place at the right time, be sexy, use your eyes, and they will come to you.
I prefer the term "Butterfly" because you can't chase them or catch them, you must be in the right place at the right time wearing the right colour, and you might just get one to land on you briefly.
OPNmarriagecpl
7 years ago
As the wife in an open marriage who plays solo more then we play as a couple..... I kinda think I can put a toe in the unicorn camp. But your profile is SO off putting. I would read it and click you immediately. You both sound..... if there is in fact a "both" So full of yourselves I don't think there would be room for a third..... of yoir idea of a unicorn even exists to your "standards".
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Comments have been very fair IMO and much less critical than mine would have been. So to break it down, in point form kind of, these are the factors that question the validity of this as a couple's profile and not a guy.
1. Not one single public picture of him
2. More importantly, not one picture of the couple together
3. The about me starts with an individual - Since 'I' - a couple is a couple, not one and this just sounds wrong, different if each partner is described
4. The maths, as highlighted above, and contradicted in the profile. 20 years as a unicorn would be age 15? Pretty impressive, not impossible but firstly, most teenagers aren't comfortable in group situations and states in the profile since age 21?
5. Profile is not verified, essential for a couple IMO
6. Unicorn who looks like this having no luck? Come on now? On rhp for a few months and no luck as a unicorn, double come on now?
7. Been in Australia for 10 years yet as a 20 yr unicorn veteran, only now looking to play in that capacity?
8. "Little effort and tons of chemistry" that comment isn't necessary relevant to the couple status, but quite telling
Regardless of the actual truth re couple/single/guy profile status, my points here outline how it looks, or is viewed, so might give the op some insight there. I'm not claiming isn't a couple, simply how it looks, and I think the comments here have been low key and fair. A couple's profile is exactly that, not a single so why post pictures of one person. That in itself is a major red flag for me, given that I get hit on routinely by the male of apparent couples (to be fair, from real couples as well) quite frequently, another one a few days ago, profile looked dodgy, message said his wife was out of the country. There was no wife 😉
Tough crowd? I don't think so, until now 😉RHP User
7 years ago
Hi,
We are searching for rare Ann's beautiful unicorn. I (Female) am the one doing all the hunting for hubby and I. Only new to redhotpie so any tips would be great thanks.
Regards
xxx
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Your search criteria is hugely limited. Must be curvy Asian with no boundaries! I wonder what you think that really means? - I think perhaps a sex worker may be the best bet for you guys, however if you are
Into extreme kinks that will cost a lot.
Cheers, CDRHP User
7 years ago
Yup I was 15 when I had my first group sex party with all girls :))
RHP User
7 years ago
Definitely agree with Meander. plz posters give the Op the chance to respond before we all voice our opinions. 😊😎
Not the Aussie way to make other's feel unwelcome.
Op they're out there, It's not impossible to find you just have to be patient.Maybe look at your approach. I've had more contact as a guest then a member. Let other's find you. At least you know there Intrested. lol
Funny things happen when you stop looking.
Good luck Op and hope you find your unicorn 🦄🦄🦄
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Lol thanks everyone for your feedback. It was actually very helpful.
I work with children and my partner has a position that would be jeopardised if he was spotted so I am simply very careful.
I am going to re-do my profile. Hopefully you guys can tell me what you think after. Thanks again everyone!!!RHP User
7 years ago
Is that what I have on there lol...really ??? How do I fix that!!! hahahaha Not my type at all
RHP User
7 years ago
I simply get hit on by guys heaps at events and so I become quite reserved. I am only interested in women other than my partner.
RHP User
7 years ago
What a difference... nicely done OP, reads so much better now... I'd be tempted ;)
RHP User
7 years ago
Changes look a lot better, you're of Asian decent? Correct me if I'm wrong, diffucult to say exactly but appears that way. Funny you never mentioned that but did make a point of stressing your Canadian background. Re your rhp experience, revealing that after the event, well that's just annoying and time wasting. Before I get slammed for being racist, not many non Asian women are attracted to Asian men, that is a fact, some have commented on the forum, but I'm talking in RL as well, it is what it is. But I think there's your answer but you would have known that, most Asian men are very aware of it.
Since the question has been asked, I would say your rhp experience would have been affected by A.your lack of disclosure and B. Asian decent, particularly your partner, being that you're searching for women. At clubs and events, it could be a combination of that and how you project yourself in person, how you connect with people, engage people, only you know that.
I personally like all the information up front. Biggest waste of time online is having to pry information out of people. I don't believe the decision to hide your partner was based on his job, it never is 😉 And you still have no mention of either being Canadian or being of Asian decent, in your profile? So much time gets leeched online through stuff like this and it irritates me. This is like a jigsaw puzzle. Are there any more pieces still missing?
I was also curious about your wording in your last profile speil saying you liked a man on your arm and sex with women? Can you explain that? How does he factor in your life? Because it sounds like he's just there to pay the bills.
My short answer would have been, Canada and here? There would be zero difference , if anything, America is more prudish than we are when it comes to sex and restricted media stuff etc., quite different to how it is generally perceived from the outside. But Asian and Caucasian? Yes, there it is
Missb4u
7 years ago
This one looks good. I'd be interested for sure.
RHP User
7 years ago
Couple profile leading with a couple photo... how novel, and how much more appealing it makes it. Nice job on taking this thread on board. Have fun
RHP User
7 years ago
The OP isn't Asian, I'm not sure where you got that from? If it was from Candy's comment, she was replying to another couple who had commented on the thread. I'm also not sure why the OP needs to mention in her profile that she is Canadian, I don't see that as being something that would affect many people's decision.
The profile looks much better OP, sorry you've been given such a hard time on here, have to say you've taken it very well. They call this place the sandpit but I think it's sometimes more of a snake pitMissb4u
7 years ago
Totally agree with that snake pit comment.
RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks again everyone. Profile changed, verified and ready to mingle.....See how we go.
With online dating and people in general, they often think I am too good to be true. It is very difficult not to sound cocky but it is what it is.
For all the skeptics, you have to remember what angle the person is coming from. Myself having never really been in a bad relationship, I am naturally very attractive (can't change that fact and definitely is one of my descriptors whether I like it or not), am very lucky in life and start with the assumption that people are good until they prove otherwise. If my profile seemed a certain way that may not be true I think you need to remember that many people have different experiences that shape their existence. I have high expectations. I am intimidating no matter how nice I am and men and women make sure they tell me how intimidating I am now matter how hard I try to make someone feel comfortable. It turns some people on and some people shy away. I guess thats me. So knowing that this is a place where men can wear lace and women can ask for men who like to wear cages I thought it would be ok to state my standards.
Either way, everyone has their thing. Mine happens to be hot girls who fuck like champs.....any takers LOL.
Have a great day everyone <3RHP User
7 years ago
Sorry, my comment was answering Naughtycpl 's question and not directed at the OP.
RHP User
7 years ago
I asked because I wanted the truth!!! I love the truth.
The reality is that when you grow up lucky: attractive, smart, athletic and nice people will bully you to bring you down.
I don't think that is happening here but my skin is incredibly thick so I genuinely wanted to know. I got some great answers. Even the meanest of comments...really not that mean...were helpful.
HAHAHAHA yeah I wondered where the Asian comment came from.
Made the changes. Glad you think its better:))) Question is: Will I attract hot, down to earth girls that are good at fucking????RHP User
7 years ago
Few things:
* Canadian and Australian culture is incredibly different. So I wondered if it was cultural thing.* I am not asian although there us nothing wrong with that...* I like to date men and fuck women. As a bisexual women I have an issue with a couple of things when dating women: for me personally women are too emotional. I struggle to connect with a large majority of women on an emotional level. however I find their bodies much nicer to enjoy. A man is a great companion and we see eye to eye on a daily basis. Hence why I like to date men and fuck women. I love watching a girl get fucked. and I love making a girl cum....
Lots of assumptions but fetishes and or preferences go far beyond money and/or anything superficial. They are what makes us tick.
Good luck RHP people XXXXXXXRHP User
7 years ago
They look Asian to me, and purely by looking at the pictures. If not, then my comment is irrelevant. As far as mentioning race/nationality/what country you are from, yes I hate it when I find out after the event, sometimes react in the positive, but it's disclosure and saves wasting time. Deliberately not disclosed in a lot of cases. Saying they're Canadian I imagine would be good? She says sheepishly. LD absolutely not getting into a race argument with you or anyone. All should be disclosed on a profile of course since we want to know who we're going to be meeting, at least that is one of my pet peeves, I"ll put that on my peeve topic. Something as simple as an accent can turn people on or off depending on which one it is, given that we need to be turned on, not off, to have sex with someone. So what is the benefit of waiting until you meet someone? You in the general sense I mean. Anyway, think I'll leave the topic. The Mr has now appeared, good luck to them
RHP User
7 years ago
Just read your comment up above. Thanks for clarifying. For the record, knocking you down because you're so good looking? I've never done that to anyone and I never will, and very arrogant omg I don't exactly look like I ran into the back of a bus sweetie 😇 but you think I want to knock you down because you're so good looking? lol 😕 There's another piece of the puzzle. If you think they find you intimidating on here or in flesh at events, it's likely more that's what you are projecting or wanting to project, and less about how good looking they think you are. Good luck I'm out
RHP User
7 years ago
Yes of course I know and I just knew you'd pop by to tell me that 😉 I refer to Canada and America as America, but that's just nitpicking isn't it 😉
RHP User
7 years ago
Hang on, before I exit, a few things you haven't clarified properly IMO
Why do you have your status as 'ask me'? Is that because he's just a friend? So you're not having sex with him at all, just getting other women to do that? Maybe I got that wrong too. You see in my opinion, if that's a fetish, then put it in your profile. It's important information that potential play partners will want to know.
You also say you are not Asian, what about your partner, what ethnicity is he? You see the puzzle problem. I'm not trying to attack, I'm trying to help you. Jealousy is not something I suffer from, so don't throw me into that poolRHP User
7 years ago
If I am going to fuck someone I have to be in to them. I am simply open with my desires like people who want someone to shit in their mouth. I can see the jokes coming hahahaha
It is amazing how we are on a site where we should be able to ask for what we want. I am simply wondering if there are any down to earth hot girls down to fuck....don't worry about analysing me. It is important that people are honest or we do not get what we want. So any around?
Meander, I love how you keep the conversation going;) You know you have backed up my point by saying nice people don't bully....It doesn't mean it doesn't happen and it certainly doesn't mean that women can't feel inadequate without anyone doing anything to them. Fact is I've been bullied heaps but doesn't phase me. Just need to be honest because I don't need some girl hating on herself when she should just live in the moment; which is what I would love a girl to do when we go on a date:))) So even if I come across as cocky or whatever people are going to say I am at least hopefully going to attract people that are super confident in themselves. The amount of women that say "there is no point in going out with you cause no on will look at me" is super ridiculous. Ugh what a turn off and what a ridiculous way to view yourself. But throughout life this is what women have said to me.... like really!!!! I am simply trying to avoid such nonsense and find someone really really comfortable in their own skin. So many say they are and then when I meet them they simply are not.
Alright let's try this: Any women who love themselves and won't worry about any imperfections? They take care of themselves and do not wear a lot of makeup or padded bras or anything else really really fake? Someone to fuck my man with me and someone to take a nice dick while I help you cum even harder on it.....I love tasting his dick after its been in you... do you like that too?
How about that!!!
hahaha feed back appreciated:)
yankmychain56
7 years ago
Look up 'the hot/crazy matrix' on youtube.It is a 'guy' thing, a flow chart on what women that are 'fun', which ones you can safely date, and ones you take home to introduce to the family.Unicorns are almost off the scale.Make sure you are not drinking any fluids while you are watching it, as it will pass through your nose when you laugh.
RHP User
7 years ago
Me too Meander me too lol:)))
I am mis understood because people assume I am american and in Australia the view on America seems to be that the population is full of cunts.. Mind my expression. I like and dislike many from each country. But no Canadians and Americans are not alike at all. Just like Canadians and Australians are not the same.
Since I have been a unicorn I understand the dynamics. My fiancé and I are in a very loving relationship. He only wants me but I want 3....lol He is happy to indulge me. I have had many threesomes and girl origies and simply miss them so so so much. Have only been with a few girls in Australia and had some incredible times in Canada 4 years ago.. was it ever saucy. It just feels easier to connect with the women there and the threesomes have always flowed so easily.... Ah well. Booking my flights I guess haha!!
Meander if nothing else we should have a drink if ever in the same town. I feel like we would get each other quite well.
sweetnsensual
4 years ago
Unicorns are not mythical
We have several as friends and lovers
We include them in social events and even mix with them with our vanilla friends
Finding a decent single guy now that’s chasing a mythical creature lolRHP User
4 years ago
I am just a dumb straight guy who loves his sexual pleasure and likes his partner to have fun and pleasure too. Please explain to me what or who takes the tag Unicorn?
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