To Reveal Or Not To Reveal? That is the question

To Reveal Or Not To Reveal? That is the question

    | Jan 10, 2017
LaFemmeFontaine   Woman 41yrs
Identity.

I keep flopping about on this one. I am in the entertainment industry so being a progressive, sexually free woman is neither here nor there. In fact, it's largely expected. It worked for Mae West, Madonna & Marilyn (until it didn't) to name a few. My problem is, I am predominantly attracted to conservative men, professional men and also to defense guys (hello boys 💋).

Show my face or no?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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S_OnTheLoose   Man 37yrs

no

never, only agree to meets that involve balaclavas, paper bags or large blindfolds


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ChasinMidnight  

Man 53yrs

If you do indeed...




...have any concerns at all with broad scope identity then you also have the right to your privacy. Pick the folks that you select through a process of inclusion rather than exclusion. The good ones will understand and accept that and the rest don't matter.


There was a time when I was a fairly well known public speaker and topped over 3000 attendees per year but then again, how many of them would be on this site? Don't even ask about the smaller gatherings and limited ''by invitation only'' clubs. I have no clue and damn if you have a face like mine that don't forget you!



Best...... Midnight

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FlyGirlC   Woman 36yrs

The choice is yours

I choose to be discreet and only show my face to those that I'm interested in (usually on kik). I don't believe people really care here, unless your meeting up. But I think some people like some mysteriousness. Teasers are great 😉 even on guys profiles. I don't have private photos cos then people ask to see them, I can't be bothered with saying no when they ask. I've had some drama with men when I say no...block. But that's just what I'm comfortable with.

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sweetgem   Woman 37yrs

LaFemmeFontaine

It's your call on this one. Only you know how important it is, or is not, to keep your face private on here, nobody can decide that for you 😊 but I always tend to think that, if anyone I know in the real world sees me in here, then that means that they are either on RHP too, or searching for some kind of adult sites. So, what right do they have to point their fingers at me?! 😊 and really who cares what other people say or think about me?! 😊

I choose to hide mine simply because I do not want to attract any unwanted attention, as I am no longer here for anything more than the Forums 😊

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Summer_in_Sydney   Woman 44yrs

Maybe I misunderstood but,

How would showing your face make a difference, unless these so-called conservative men were on here too?

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inspirit   Woman 53yrs

Show some days and others don't.

Just mix it up. Tho I know and possibly for you too, face pics draw a lot of attention from those type of men you described.

I don't have a problem showing a face pic tho depends on the mood and I'm in and the type of gent I am trying to attract.

:-)

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Lovinit28andKC72   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 48yrs

Up to you

I'm not in the entertainment industry, but I do have a career, I'm also a mother of adult and school age children. I choose to show my face, I don't mind who sees it, I don't have/do/say anything in here that I wouldn't in RL or that I'm ashamed of. What I do in my time is my business, as long as I doesn't affect my everyday life, my work or the lives of my children then I don't see a problem. What I like sexually has no bearing on what kind of person/mother/worker/human I am. Geez I also have my face on another site and it's a little more graphic than this one. 💋
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Hank_E_Panky  

Man 63yrs

Personal choice.

There is always the PG
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soretongue   Man 38yrs

Scary movie?

Agree with Hank about use of private gallery and restricting access if comcerned. Can't remember which scary movie (#2?) it was but there was the scene where the chick had a paperbag over her head. So it is do-able. At least thats what the girls tell me just before they put the paperbag over my head! 🤔😳😜
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Cheekyass71  

Man 46yrs

Privacy is ok 😎

It's entirely up to the individual's personal choice. Nothing wrong with holding back your pic's. If you can't come accross as intelligent, witty within your messages or profile then a pretty pic is just wasted material.Unless she or he is that shallow they only goes for looks. (then not Intrested!)
Would have to say that some mystery goes along way. That's what your private gallery is for ? or Kik if thing's look like progressing further.

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Koolgrey   Man 42yrs

My take on this subject...

...is if your not doing anything wrong, then what have you to fear.

But only you( as I do for myself.. ) can decide what's "wrong".
Hiding things in the cupboard doesn't make them go away or become accepted quicker, I think.
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usnow  

Couple Man 56yrs Woman 52yrs

Face

Just put them in your private gallery , then your in total control .
If you don't want to do that just meet guys without them seeing your face , they will all jump at the chance as they are so desperate .

Usnow .


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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

well

I don't do blind dates and agree with kool, if you're not doing anything wrong, why hide. If they're on here looking, they're here for the same reason you are, or maybe because they're stuck in a relationship, frustrated, not necessarily active, but makes no difference, they're still on here. I have also wavered with my feeling about this though. There are those low individuals who will try to harm you off this site, once they know your identity, or think they know 😉 but for me, my resolve to be me is stronger than the fear of what people can say about me. Quality people don't listen to gossip anyway. A regular user on here once said it's a choice whether we choose to let peoole upset us or get under our skin, that works for me. I don't listen to gossip, and figure who really cares what is said, how will it affect me? The answer is it doesn't affect me at allzcmight make them feel good, but makes zero difference to my life.

If it's expected almost lol within your industry or common place, what would you have to be worried about?
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Tall_n_Hard   Man 59yrs

lol @ I Touch..




Not into Blind Dates - not what I've heard.... What about the Blindfolds being used, hmmm ?


Tall

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Tall_n_Hard   Man 59yrs

LaFemme...




I believe all viewpoints have been reasonably covered, and in saying that, if you still can't determine which way suits you, perhaps then do as a few have suggested. Reserve your full face pics for your PG, and if you trust the people asking you, you always have the option.


Tall

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Missb4u   Woman 44yrs

For me

I agree with lovinit.

i have my face visible on all sites I'm on.

Personally I think getting rejected after opening pg that contained my face would be pretty rough.
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Qefenta1   Woman 63yrs

La mystique

Maintain the mystery ..why not. Q
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

Tall

lol only after I've gotten to know them and trust them, then I'll go blind or get blind 🍻 burp 😇
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Rick_Blaine   Man 45yrs

I'm also in the entertainment industry

And it wouldn't damage my career in any way if people knew I was on here, and in fact some do. But I like to control the flow of information about me, so I keep my face in my private gallery. And I keep my real name (no, sorry, I'm not really Rick Blaine) for when I open my private gallery. Which is actually pretty quick off the mark if I'm interested in someone...


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Hank_E_Panky  

Man 63yrs

If you're not doing anything wrong...

What a crock...

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