The trials of organising gangbangs...

December 16 2017

I've been organising gangbangs for a while now.
It's interesting.
For both girls and guys it's a fantasy that they have to work up the courage to turn into reality. Once the girls have decided to do it though they generally go through with it whereas 90% of guys chicken out at the last minute. No matter how eager they say they are. In fact the MOST eager guys are the ones most likely to be no-shows. The more they talk, and brag and describe what they're going to do and ask about breast size and positions etc the less likely they are to go through with it.

If you advertise for them the guys who respond will tell you endlessly about their dicks for some reason... it's cut, it's uncut, it's big, thick, long... and even when you say "NO DICKPICKS" they send them anyway. WTF?
Women don't go on and on about their pussies, so why do these guys have such a thing for their dicks?
When you're talking to a straight guy organising a gangbang all that matters is that you HAVE a dick and it gets hard, nothing else. I don't care about your ugly todger. No one does.
Guys with big cocks seem to be the worst. Their dicks are very important to them and their self esteem. -Not all bid dick guys are like hat, it's that all the self concious, dick obsessed ones have big pricks.

Oh, and the amount of people that want to do it without protection... Seriously, in a gangbang???

There are a lot of misconceptions about Gangbangs too, that they're dirty, shady, involve coercion of the girl, the girl is overwhelmed, used up, abused... Not in the ones I organise they're not!
The woman is the queen of the event, that's how it has to work. She lays down the ground rules before we even begin and she decides what's what during it. And in every case the lady outlasts every single guy easily.
The reality is that however many guys take part most of the action is only a series of 3somes with guys rotating in and out of the action. All that DP, triple, quadruple penetration action you see in porn isn't common, it just involves too much careful coordination of legs and arms. I find you do that as a special event, not the main show.
Anyway, I just wanted to talk a bit about what I'd learned.

Comments

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    6 years ago

    😂

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That was rather like going on a date with a Greens voter. Rant, rant, rant. For any Reddit users out there, TL;DR - Men are shit. Especially those with big dicks apparently.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I'd like to take part in a gangbang but I can totally see how it could be a difficult thing to organise. One thing for sure is I'd probably be taking a bucket full of condoms and be changing them regularly. That raises another issue as changing condoms can sometimes make me go limp. Do some of the guys sometimes struggle to perform? Another thing that porn gangbangs don't show is quite often the guys have fluffers off of camera who are sucking on the guys cocks to get them hard ready for when they switch in

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    The question is??

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    6 years ago

    A popcorn moment, sweeping generalisations , a rant and an advert all wrapped up in one.

    Sings “ Tis the season to be merrry ...”

    :)

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    ... what to make of this ? I'd like to think it is what it is ,, but for some reason there's something I can't get my head around something.. but that could just be me. Kudos to you if you did put it all together and the girls all walked away with a big smile on their faces..

    What I'd like to know is how you put this all together and where do you find girls willing to fill this fantasy ?

    Just curious ? Jay...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Good question. I'll respond according to how I'd like it to happen if I were the lucky girl 😊

    I like to get guys hard myself and I'm strangely turned on by a soft cock, I think it's because I want to do my magic and watch/feel the transfirmation, feel the guy get naturally turned on. So for me, that would be one of my conditions, that they step back until invited in, without expectation of having to come in with a raging hard on, then move as with a normal meet, with intimacy and a healthy dose of body worship. I can stop and start, 100% happy with guys doing the same, doesn't take long to get hard again if relaxed, and without pressure. I would also want every guy to know in advance that if they struggled getting hard, stage fright, that that's okay. No sexual meet should ever have that kind of expectation. We're just horny humans getting naked together. Relaxed for all would be the way I would want it 👍

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Always have a lot of condoms around. That's essential. When you're really into it changing condoms isn't a problem. And yes, some guys do find it hard to perform, we all do from time to time.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Tinder, swingers clubs, friends of friends. All you need to do is ask. Many women are curious for the experience.
    And once it's known that you do them other girls are curious and want to join in- especially those who want their partners to experience a gangbang, they will often want to try it out themselves.

    BTW this wasn't a rant or an advertisement. I just thought it might be interesting to someone, if I chatted about my experiences.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'hussarddumort'
    BTW this wasn't a rant or an advertisement. I just thought it might be interesting to someone, if I chatted about my experiences.


    Doesn't matter what you post you'll cop shit from some on here. It's often referred to as the sandpit but I think of it as the snakepit
    I'd love to organise a (small) gang bang at some point. The big 40 is coming up next year, maybe that can be my present to myself. Realistically it would probably be easier to organise than the bi MMF that's top of my fucket list.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As luck dragon says there are certain profiles (not mentioning any names) that will post something condescending or derogatory to the OP about 80% of the time and very rarely offer any knowledge, experience or understanding. I've just learned to block them out as if they weren't there :)
    So yeah I touch, maybe dealing with two at a time would be the best way as I can imagine keeping 5 or 6 cocks hard at the same time would be the equivalent of plate spinning lolSo would you or anyone else reading go the full way and maybe experience the more extreme aspects and do double penetration? The OP is right that it's a pretty hard manoeuvre to perform. I've noticed in porn when the guys do it they're clearly very well rehearsed and one bloke will tuck his legs in to give the other access. Why I'm watching that instead of the sex I don't know!My friend wants to tick DP off her list before Xmas and I've been invited, apparently tho I'm not allowed to do the anal as I'm too big. HEY HOWS THAT FOR AN ADVERT

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    Better you tick it off your list rather than die wondering,.... ?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hey! I’ve seen a number of gang bangs at larger parties. Pretty much all the guys are standing around naked and wanking waiting their turn. If you don’t feel prepared (hard on wise) don’t step up to the plate so to speak. Lol. Doesn’t matter if one guy doesn’t perform at large gangbangs as there is someone to take your place.



    At bi parties the guys are usually sucking and ranking each other off as well, of course not all of them are interested in the women being gang banged. It’s fun. :)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ranking is not a weird sexual position. Haha. That should say wanking.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hope you have your MMF. Once you the bi men group sex.... you’ll never go back!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    A bit of a soft on is better for anal .... particularly for DP action so I've heard. 😇



    Super hard dicks in your bum can hurt!! Believe me. ☺️

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    mmm 😜 what was that you were saying? 😁

    I'm more of an oral girl, lol there'd be mass disappointment at a gangbang if I wasn't, but I need that to orgasm, giving and receiving, being fucked or penetration is part of the whole fantasy with a gangie, I would like to roleplay that a little further, forced, clothes ripped off, that type of thing 😍 but I have to be honest, I don't even think about DP, more how turned on I'd be with multiple guys/tongues/hands/lips/cocks in the room with me. I would however love both holes being fucked at once, and yes only a certain size will fit at the back lol 😉

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    that's an orgy, not a gangie

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    orgies don't interest me at all, people fucking all over the room, then swao and change, it's disconnected with one small group not knowing what's going on in the next group and so on, just don't see the point really? Smaller groups get the big tick 👍

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    swap and change. I also would be worried about where the hands, mouth and cocks had been before they got near me, any arse contact without washing properly in between, cross contamination. Orgies, no thanks

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    Atfer reading all the statistics on how this best works would probally turn me off .. Specially standing around wanking and trying to keep it up. I think the only thing that would keep me interested would be the visual ...

    I just can't see me lining up for anything sexual although I know there are those who can. I understand the excitement for a female wanting to be fucked by multiple guys for the experience , and appreciate this would be a common fantasy amoungst lots of women..

    Regardless '. I really do admire women who know themselves well enough to carry through with this..

    There's only one way to find out I guess ?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    How can you comment ? Orgies are an experience that is hard to explain to newbies, depends how wild you like the atmosphere.



    I do like lots of wild uninhibited people in one space. There is an electric buzz in the air which is instensley exciting. I'm not interested in it being all about me.



    However, small groups are friggen awesome too. They are different experiences. All good and lots of fun. I don't feel something always has to be the same way, I like to mix it up and do lots of different things.



    Just get in there and actually do it really! :)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    People are gang banged at orgies all the time. A gang bang doesn't mean nothing else can happen. OP, isn't it true that women are often gang banged in pairs or there are a few women. It isn't always just one chick....

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    DP or DV is not that difficult as far as actual positioning goes. A woman can be on the man below facing backwards, forwards, or alternatively can be done in a spooning type position (the guys will have to interlock legs somewhat though).

    What is difficult in my learning experiences/attempts, is being able to fully relax while remaining turned on in close proximity/touching the other man/men ie if you are straight. Also the time taken to move around, likely fumbling a little, can be enough time to lose your erection, and if you do, I've found it at any such time difficult to get the erection back with a now shriveled condom on you (considering you put it on while erect). Even if you do, then perhaps the other guy has now a similar issue! So it is about keeping up the mood and momentum.

    Like Pommy I've also been knocked back for said top situation once (wink wink nudge nudge), however have since been that guy during a revolving DP play (gangbang), and as it happens is the only time I have given anal on anyone.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The belittling, bless 😄

  • SexyHedonist

    SexyHedonist

    6 years ago

    I love looking after 3 or more men at one time and haven't found men getting into position a problem as long as a couple are experienced. I often find my guy giving the others pointers as to where to put their legs etc. It all works smoothly.

    Going soft at times happens and isn't a stress. Plenty of time to play and hot, live porn usually does the trick. I'm so relaxed that I think it helps and when you've been involved in a few gb's you realise there is a natural ebb and flow and most men go soft at some point.

    Men with big cocks are fabulous. They can really help keep the rhythm going with dv or da as they can reach from the more awkward further possies.

    Gb's seem to be something that really get you off ... or don't seem to do it for you. The majority of men I know it's not there thing... and that's ok. For the ones who love gb's though... well it's magic! There are men who get off on seeing a woman being used and devouring men. Love the idea of being involved and watching. If those things don't do it for you it's perfectly ok... and maybe gb's aren't for you.

    I find 1:1 boring now! Gb and dp fabulous but mmmf hard work... not enough to rotate and rest like a gb but too many to ever get a break as a girl (all holes busy can be tiring and distracts from orgasming)!

    I also love gb's at orgies with complete strangers... fun, fun, fun 😜

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Fun fact for today: you can attend orgies and enjoy the atmosphere and you can still choose who to have sexual contact with. Yes, you can stick to people you know if that is your choice. Or you can sit in the corner, legs spread flicking your bean way . Your choice.



    Fun fact 2#: yep sex is messy. All those fluids, squirting women and come all over the joint. You can’t control others but you can frequently shower to get all those pesky germs off you. :p

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Mrs posting here. We love gang bangs both bi and straight. I have had dps and double penetration in my pussy and absolutely love it. Wearing a blindfold also adds to the total experience. I actually prefer a larger cock anally than in my pussy must be the way im built. Anyhow do whatever makes you happy and happy swinging. We do find that there are a lot of no shows last minute as the guys get cold feet. But our regular playmates are awesome reliable and have stamina.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Owen1984

    Owen1984

    3 years ago

    I’d love to join your gangbangs I’ve been in a few had a great time was invited back each time but he stopped hosting them so looking to rejoin I’m fit fun guy very well endowed and love to have a great time

  • WE_CQ_2PLAY

    WE_CQ_2PLAY

    3 years ago

    Know what you mean...Tried to plan and organise this and had 5 guys expecting at least 3 to show but as the evening approached and hotel room booked we had 5 with 4 hours to go and by 9.00pm not a single fukkwit to be found... One fukkwit even asked if he could meet at 2.00pm despite promising to be there early... ..

    Simple suggestion ... Find a group of guys over a series of meets and if they are happy to play again, guys you can trust and play with them and a few add ons but have your back ups also... especially if they know how you play...

    We friended a gang bang group on RHP who invited us to watch a play one night...
    Hot to see their sexy lady guest (45 yr old MILF) willingly getting used and pleasured by lots of young naked guys, all races... using condoms and lube as required also...
    This visit to observe them served 2 purposes... First a good way to see how they played and what respect they showed the lady guest .
    Secondly, they met us to know we are genuine and how we play as well...
    We did not play in that meeting as the lady guest was the priority, not us... It was hot and she was definitely enjoying it when we left...
    If gang bangs can be arranged well in advance, with several players and allow for possible no shows, you have a chance of getting one together... `
    However, Don't get your hopes up too high incase it does fall over...
    Enjoy it if it does...

  • lookin1748

    lookin1748

    3 years ago

    I used to go to gangbangs years ago. They were hosted by a couple and it was really good laid back event. There was always 2 to 3 girls there and about 5 - 10 blokes. I never forget one girl made me cum 3 times in 15 minutes, first time was having sex with her then she blew me twice after that, she was an expert. After that I spent the rest of the time watching as I was totally wasted. It was really well run and everybody was super friendly but they vanished off the face of the earth, I do miss those gangbangs.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    HI IM VERY INTERESTED ON HAVING A GANGBANG PLS CONTACT ITS BEEN MY FANTASY. BUT THEN I JUST LOVE IT!