The big V

The big V

    | Feb 04, 2017
SoftandCurious   Woman 38yrs
Valentines Day is quickly upon us again. Florists are waiting for their roses to be flown in from all around the world, the stores are full of chocolates, cards and suggested items we can buy the special someone in our lives.

Do you participate in this romantic/now commercial tradition or does it make you gag?

If you're partnered, is it something you celebrate together or is it just another day? For the singles, do you try and organise something or does the day leave you feeling lonely?

Will anyone confess to plans of sending a message or more to someone they secretly admire?

Does it bring out the hearts and flowers in you or make you eye roll? Over to you.......
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Eye roll

Being a cynical old cunt I rate Valentines Day up there with Halloween in the commercial exploitation stakes and with the Catholic Church in the keep them poor and keep them guilty stakes.

I prefer my romance spontaneous, not measured and evaluated by how much I spend compared to everyone else.

Valentine's Day is for the merchants and the emotionally fragile.
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cavey50   Man 57yrs

NFW!!




one day is just another day...

birthdays, celebrations days. father's day.. mother's day... couple's day... I have no feeling for them...

EXCEPT.. maybe Mother's day actually...

I usually post something along these lines on my FB page on Mother's day....

"To all those beautiful and sometimes insane Women out there who I have assisted in making this day YOUR day by getting you pregnant and giving you a child.... Feel free to call me.. drop me a E Card, message or email remembering the good fucking we had - and the joy that sex has brought you since our child was born"

Those who know me understand that..

At my oldest daughter's wedding, HER mother was there.. one of my other daughters was flower girl.. so HER mother was there, and the most recent (at the time) child I had, I was STILL with his mother.. so she was there too..

Fck Valentines day... the cost of all the flowers and chocolate would break my bank account...

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Meander   Woman 44yrs

Frankly,

It makes me gag, and all my loved ones know this so hey won't buy my crap.

As a result I've only ever gotten flowers for Valentine's Day once: a 200-dollar bunch of red roses delivered at work, from a mentally ill client who thought I was his wife.


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oralcpl

💑

It is just another day to most,but its what you make of it. As a loving couple i thr Mr love sending flowers to my loved one.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox  

Woman 41yrs

Oh I know

It's so commercial with the chocolates and the overpriced flowers and the teddy bears with the hearts.....

What means something to me is long conversations over dinner, walks while holding hands, just spending time enjoying each other's company. Coming out of a long term relationship where this stuff is long gone, I'll admit it- I miss it, be it on Valentine's Day or otherwise

XX

- Posted from rhpmobile
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PepperRose   Woman 41yrs

<3

Ahh, I dunno. There is always some pretty humorous events on. There is a pub nearby having a Stupid Cupid anti-Valentines day trivia night. And a couple of years ago I did a smutty romance writing workshop. That was a bit of fun. And I've had done some uber kitsch things in the past, for the giggles. Yes it's lame and cliche - but doesn't mean it has to be a dire experience. I'll probably catch up for food and with a fellow single girlfriend.

And 50z - I'm saddened. Halloween is my favourite night of the whole year. What a time to get dressed up and socialise with the neighbours. Always a hoot - who cares about the trappings and candy. Get dark and get amongst it. Always a fun party somewhere, where the fet people can slip some of their dress-ups sneakily out into pubic. Good times
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bigbustyBBW   Woman 47yrs

love it




I don't care its commercial and I tell and show the people I love everyday...but I still go all out on the day ..just an excuse to show the love....
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Stirry

For me....

If I had a partner.....showing my love for them would occur on 365 days.....

Not just 1......



- Posted from rhpmobile
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Misskez_2   Woman 53yrs

No

Not a fan... it's sweet if you're 16 but it's over the top expensive and if I had a friend I'd rather give or receive spontaneously

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Meander   Woman 44yrs

Whoops




Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney'

It makes me gag, and all my loved ones know this so hey won't buy my crap.



They won't buy me* crap either.
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inkypink   Woman 43yrs

Sorry hopefully hijacking convo

Do you have to be on the website not the app in order to start a forum or ask for people's opinion on things.

I want to know if I'm being greedy as a woman who wants to orgasm at least twice whilst having sex. I've been told by a friend that she doesn't know any women who orgasms every time during sex and that regular frustration is the norm for most women....is this true! Please tell me it's not....

I quite like valentines day, but I like kisses and cuddles and any excuse for more of them is fine by me ☺

- Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch  

Man 34yrs

...

I've only ever been dating someone over Valentine's Day once, in 2009, so I've only ever once had the need at all to buy a present etc which I did, and it was over distance at the time so I had it sent and delivered with flowers.

But rather than buy something, as a couple I would probably visit/stay/eat somewhere new etc, something simple. But whether the day is significant or not would depend on the needs of your partner as well. I used to feel sentimental about it as a single, but now it's easy to not bat an eyelid, especially if it's a workday which it nearly always is.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch  

Man 34yrs

...

Correction: 2008 :P


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WildOrchid80   Woman 36yrs

For me

It's just another day another dollar nothing special fuck Valentine's Day! 😝

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Betty7216   Woman 44yrs

Yeah nah

For me it's just a money making crapola fest...

I'm rather partial to Pepper's activities though ;) You might even convert me to Halloween at this rate, my delicious delicious friend 😍
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UlrichNo1   Man 34yrs

Personal opinion

We don't celebrate it as we don't believe in this, if you love someone yu ll get flowers nice dinners and stuff other days. If you do it only on this day because its about love and stuff its just a make up thing not real.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Limited_Editionx   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 39yrs

If you could make Valentine's Day more like Halloween that would be awesome...

I love that idea... scaring people with weird "romantic" costumes and street parties... that would be awesome fun!!❤️😈👹👻👠💋💄👑🔮💘

Xx Miss L.Ed.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

At least

We'll be spared the flirts and messages that night. They'll be busy with the wifes and girlfriends..........
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PurePeony   Woman 42yrs

The Big V?

OP, I thought you were referring to the almighty vajayjay! LOL! What could rank bigger in importance than the pussy? 😁
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

Pp

Back in the day, the big V was catching the dreaded VD. Venereal disease.

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