The Good, The bad and the Ugly.

The Good, The bad and the Ugly.

    | Mar 22, 2017
Fourtothefloor
What attracts you to a person here on rhp?
What turns you off ?
Understanding this will be different for everyone so no wrong or right answer's here. 😎

Is it purley primal lust or an educated stimulating conversation that builds up to a first meeting.

Are you attracted to someone within the forum for there persona

Please keep this topic friendly or refrain from commenting or attacking others views.


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Pure lust, with the right person(s) 😝

Negativity, selfishness and dummy spitters are the biggest turn off, compassion, understanding, and a filthy mind get me hard.
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 46yrs Woman 38yrs

Cerebral

An educated, articulate, stimulating conversation from a well travelled, well groomed, respectful person

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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

for me

I've been pondering this lately and trying to be more open to older men, closer to my age at least, well over 40 😀 but it's not going well lol recent encounter cemented my preference for young, so will continue being a dirty old woman chasing young flesh 😉

Good - young, fit, horny guys who are seriously turned on by me, and me them, dominant, porn style sex 😇

Bad - bad is when I hurt someone, as I did recently, ticked so many boxes, but sex was awkward, perfect up until then, but I was devastated to not be into him the way he was me, and although I hope you're not reading this, if you are, I'm so sorry. It just happens sometimes, I would change it if I could 😘

Ugly - I have the perfect answer for this, and I hope he is reading this. Ugly I don't associate with looks, but behavior. I would much sooner be with someone who wasn't perfect looking, than this choice individual. A guy who looked hot, great body, seemed good in other ways, but it started to go pear shaped when he started calling me, and because I was busy, suggested he could pick me up, I could give him a blow job, he could drop me off lol well my response was no of course, but in my mind it was not ever 👎 selfish is ugly, but it got uglier, numerous further attempts to get me back on side, but not happening. Some time elapses, get another call a few days ago, I had almost forgotten who he was, but the voice I knew, said I wasn't interested, and he swore at me, I tried to hang up quickly but told me to fuck off, or worse. That's really poor behavior, disrespectful. No means no dude, move on to the next, but always respect
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

the forum

Yes, 2 guys, one is really special, so much so I don't talk about him. He's not on the site anymore but we're close 😉

And Langdon lol you poor man, you've had me stalking you for the entire time I've been on the site 😀 and always taken it with good humour. You know I want you 😛
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braden98   Man 18yrs

Cougars

The most appealing of all

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Eiliethiya   Woman 39yrs

...

Of course initially looks will attract my attention. But without some brains behind the 'beauty' there's no point.
I like good conversation, wit and humour. That will attract and hold my attention.

Turn offs:
The standard 'cut and paste' profiles...If you can't be bothered to use your own words, and put any thought or effort in...then you're maybe going to be the same in person (or in bed!)
Pushy or rude guys, when having said they've read my profile...hit me up straight away for casual sex (not what I want), and then get nasty when I politely say thanks, but no thanks.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

For many men on here.....

A pulse is a positive. But not essential
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langton11   Man 47yrs

Good question

I love a sense of humor, thoughtful inquisitiveness, an opinion (even if I don't agree) but tbh, I need a decent body to back it up in order for me sexually attracted to someone, label be shallow, go ahead, judge me lol.

Hey I_touch_myself2, got a little story. We went to The Arnold over the weekend (it's a fitness show) and the wife and I met this pretty attractive chap. My wife, who is incredibly picky and is never attracted to any guys, loved him. She was googling him and internet stalking him all the way home; he's 26. Anyhow, I suggested she may be a cougar, pretty sure that's the last time I'll suggest that, but now I know that like you, she has a preference for the young ones lol.
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langton11   Man 47yrs

woops

Sorry about the double post.

Also, re what turns me off a rhp'er, nasty comments esp when they're tactless. To me it makes someone appear ugly on the inside
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Fit_Geek  

Man 43yrs

Go ahead make my day

Wait, wrong movie 😳

The good - outside the obvious one of looks, as an unashamed geek I love intelligence (geek/nerd a huge bonus).

The bad - incoherent or template profiles. And as a male profiles that have male included in what they are after, but then say 'No single males'. How hard is it to not put that in what you are after?

The ugly - rudeness, but the ladies on RHP are a cut above what it seems many of the men are, as even the inevitable rejections have been polite.

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Fourtothefloor

Pmsl Annie literally 😭😂

I think i just weed my pants I laughed that hard. A little embarrassing as I'm on the train to work. Definitely agree with you all. No need to be rude or volger. If someone can't take no for an answer then definitely a red card in my book. Then sent packing.
Sorry to hear about some of those bad experiences itm2. I think alot of people would of had similar experiences where everything else was great and had a awsome connection just to turn out unmatched in bed or just not feeling it. Part of life and if he is reading it then hopefully he will understand from your kind comments. 😀😎😎😎 He might of been nervous being the first time.? lol
Maybe worthy of a second chance? lol



DC Love your responce 😍 Someone comfortable within themselves is such a turn on. Being able to express it with tact, humour, wit and timing is makeeff of the man.

Eilleethyia.
Agree lack of effort in a someone's profile tells me there either not really looking or just lazy and probably a starfish in bed.



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tall60   Man 66yrs

Jolie Laide

Jolie laide is a French word describing someone who is not conventionally beautiful in appearance of any gender..don't know that Anglo culture embraces that idea the same way..



The non physical attributes of anyone can glow thru physical beauty and transform 'ugly' ducklings ...interlect and verve does it.
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

braden

Well I had to like that comment 😉
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

langton

Love that. Tell her I highly recommend 😛😜
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On_Safari   Woman 44yrs

Well hello Mr Cheeky, love the topic



For me it's a combination of primal lust and an educated stimulating conversation that builds up to a first meeting. Unfortunately some guys blow it by assuming some gentle flirtation back from the fairer sex equates to an immediate "let's fuck". (Sigh) and that kills it for me.



Luckily though there seems to be an increase in "thinking men" approaching me of late and I do love witty repartee with someone else who enjoys pitting wits, stroking the cerebral cortex and blowing my mind before my genitalia. Is also good if they aren't deterred by Chocky Desire and respect our Primary relationship. (Wham Bammers need not apply) 😎 ~ Indy
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libido6971   Man 39yrs

Confidence vs Time wasters

ON: Honesty. Good with words. Of course being physically attracted to the other person/couple. Yes, as most have said already, looks are important but they need to be backed up by something other than space between the ears. A good conversation. Chemistry. Confidence. Oh yes, confidence. Never crossing the line into cockiness, but yes, knowing what she/they want and going for it. Humour. Honesty. Did I say honesty already? A dirty mind that is allowed to roam and fantasise. The confidence to allow bodies to follow...

OFF: Lack of respect. Time wasting (isn't that disrespectful in itself?). Lack of honesty. Even simple lies are unnecessary. Leading anyone on just to let them down.

So for me it's all a glass half full where a lot more things attract me to a person/couple than distance me from them.

Good topic!

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inspirit   Woman 53yrs

Tacos

I want fucking tacos.

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EarthQueen   Woman 46yrs

Good topic

The good -Physical attraction. Someone with a sense of humour and confidence in their profile. Interesting profile thats shows something of who the person truly is so you can get a connection. Clear photos that are not R rated. Witty, sexy banter in messages. Sometimes there is just the instant lust factor and when its backed up by someone who is smart, thats gold.

The Bad -Dodgy out of focus photos, Fetishes that I don't like, R rated profile pics as main picture. When we're both guests and can only flirt LOL (Yes I don't have to be a cheapskate and could get a membership :)

The Ugly - No photos, stock template profiles, Entitlement, anger, arrogance.

Re liking someone of forums because of persona yes, but I think many people would be more reserved on here than in real life so it's hard to tell sometimes. Or vice versa, could be more outspoken. Hard to know or judge before you have talked to them in private.



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EarthQueen   Woman 46yrs

Forums

Need an edit button. For typos and grammar

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braden98   Man 18yrs

Vacant spot

I_touch_myself
I am currently looking for someone to fill the positiom

- Posted from rhpmobile

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