Singles of QLD

Singles of QLD

    | Feb 19, 2017
HornyBitch6969
Who would be interested in a singles only swingers event?
Clubs cater for couples all the time which is great but what about singles whom are only interested in other singles?
It's time to show these clubs what singles want. Fees for single men need to be reduced for starters and single woman shouldn't be free.


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MnauMnau   Man 41yrs

Good Topic

HornyBitch6969 thanks for this Topic.
Yes, I'm in. Some might not notice but fee for a single male went up at few clubs already, just saying.

Mischeviouslad, I'm trying to understand what you are saying
"The First Law of economics is Supply & Demand.
There will always be an oversupply of "single" men and an under supply of single women." On RHP you are right, more guys here. At the clubs you are limited by how many can attend. So you shouldn't have an oversupply of men, even they are required to pay a fee. And saying that, females entry is free and not limited, so it should be full. But its not.
SuperFoxxxy "For a single man, it's probably wise to go with a single lady and split the entry cost of a couple fee." Very true but, why would single lady split the cost if she can go for free, and pretty much at any party on her own?
purplehaze4u "Too many restrictions with some couples." You are so right, couples have wide range of singles too choose from. Specially the ones where male partner sets the conditions "we don't play with single men", but in RHP profile they have something else.
DynamicCouple36 "Killing Kittens is another example of a party (albeit paid) that attracts a high number of single females", you have forgot to mention that single guys are not allowed to any party, last time I checked. So again, couples venue and for couples only.
HornyBitch6969 "Making Money" you are right, its no-brainer. If clubs can make money on Friday nights, because single males are allowed to come and pay ridiculous fee $80-$150, and next day can't go any vernue as only couples and single females are allowed for free or $20-$80.

If there is a high demand for single men why there is no single night for them? let say once a month or every 3rd and in limited numbers?
Instead, it looks that single men are paying for all the couples parties.
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HornyBitch6969

DynamicCouple36

You are very wrong. I know of 15 single woman whom would gladly pay and attend a club full of single men. It's what we want! I don't need to look at ratios or statistics. I've been down the coast and personally attended these clubs were it was not viable for the clubs to be open on those nights. I've personally meet these woman and it's been a topic we have discussed on several occasions so don't tell me only very few single woman will attend when I'm speaking on behalf of them! I've done my research so can back myself up. You only have second hand information so I'm not interested in what you have to say.

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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 38yrs

Mnau Mnau

Ask yourself why there are more single females at killing kittens, and / or at attunga, on a night where there are no single males. Yes killing kittens does not cater for single males. Perhaps this is why there are so many single females that attend?

Attunga does have nights (every Sat except last Sat of the month) when single males are allowed. You will rarely find any single females at the club on the single guy nights, but rather a few couples.

If females don't pay an entry fee ( why? Because the clubs use them as bait to attract the premium paying males) why are there not more single females in the swingers clubs ? (Especially on single male nights?)

What would happen, if one of the nights was reserved exclusively for single males & single females ? Chances are you would end up with just single males and no single females?

Many single men, bring along a female ( friend or stranger) just to be able to get into the club as a couple. Once inside they part company and the guy reverts to being single, leaves his companion sitting at the bar. We have , in the past, got chatting to several single females (at Attunga & Wet on Wellington) who were not there to play, but simply came along as their male friend wanted to get in.

We don't think there is a quick fix and or easy solution for singles. It is clear that there is a huge oversupply of single males who want to get into swingers clubs. But what's the point of allowing them in, in large numbers, if there are only 1 or 2 single females?

Would the majority of females be happy with the ratios? From past experience, we say not. There are more single females at Killing Kittens, Attunga on a couples night, and at well screened, free private parties (no single males ). This seems to indicate that single females (or at least the ones who attend Attunga , KK & the private parties we have been to) prefer not to attend if there are single males around.

Maybe they just get inundated with messages and requests (on here) and this makes them feel as if they are being hounded. Perhaps they fear the same at a swingers club on single male Nights ?

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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 38yrs

An idea

How about all the available, and willing, single females (on here and other swinger sites) get together and open (or even hire) hire a swingers club one night. That way they can then allow as many single males into the club as they wish. They would be able to pick and choose ( and be spoilt for choice )

They can then either charge the single males an admission fee or not. Or perhaps the single females can pay the fee.

We are not sure what it would cost to hire a swingers club for the night, but if there are enough single females willing to share the costs of the venue, amongst themselves, we are sure that they would have a lot of fun.

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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 45yrs

MnauMnau

Because I want to feel safe (going with a male), knowing he has my back.

Yes, I've done that before. Yes, they've had my back. So why not. Ms Foxy
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imallyours12   Man 32yrs

Singles swingers

Yes i would definitely be interested in this case.

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LaFemmeFontaine   Woman 40yrs

Horny

Count me in Honey!

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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

DC

A club filled with single males and very few single females? I don't see the problem, so long as I'm one of the few females 😛😜
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HornyBitch6969

I_touch_myself2

I'm working on a singles party. So you may get your wish!

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HornyBitch6969

I_touch_mysrlf2

Sorry just realised your in Perth but I'm sure some sort accommodation can be sorted.

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MnauMnau   Man 41yrs

That's good...




Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'

Because I want to feel safe (going with a male), knowing he has my back.


Yes, I've done that before. Yes, they've had my back. So why not. Ms Foxy
I am all for everyone safety, but not everyone has the "partner in crime" to go with as you can. There are many single females that are not as lucky as you are to have a male friend to go to clubs.
I have offered to few females to meet me at the club which was ok but to go together its a bit unsafe at first which I completely understand.
Just curious about your friend, how it works. If you go together as a couple than at the club, both of you go different ways, or he waits for you or?

My question is what the ratio male:female you think should be? and
How much you willing to pay?
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

I am

getting seriously sick of men floating along on their wife's coat tails, and bagging out on single men. I wonder how many couples take one for the team when one partner of the other couple is unattractive, overweight, much older, any or all of that seems quite common with many couples profiles I've seen. So one does wonder if they'd even get in the door if they were single. Hang on to your partner is all I can say, without whom you could be washed up 😉 and be nice to the single men who you might be sharing a beer with at the bar one day 😃
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PushLimits

Singles

I can say I'm single happy as well, would be a great event with singles instead of been look upon as just so,some wanting to get there rocks so to speak with a couple it's not what it's about. Couples are great yet once they where single as well.

Wanting to find the person whom makes you laugh share good and challenging times together I'm sure most of us on here are willing to put ourselves out there and I return find a person we share our lives with. So bring on a singles night we can relax knowing we found the night on here we are all open and just looking to make our life better sharing with whom we regard as that special person.
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Mr_DJ

First timer 🙂

I would like to think that I am a very active sexual being however I have never experienced a party.



I would definitely support and attend a singles party which was fair for all.



Knowing that all singles in the room were in the same boat as the next person makes it a very exciting night.



My flights are already booked 😉😎



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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

HornyB

Good for you and thank you. I'd love to come if I were closer, I can't travel right now, but I'd definitely be there if I could. Something I've been wanting to do myself, gaggin to host my own parties, though I can't currently, hopefully soon. If you're able to now, don't hesitate, life is too short and I imagine you'd be knocked over in the rush 😜😉
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

question

Can I ask if anyone has hosted singles parties with a younger age group, in a hotel, and were they successful. Without extra play rooms, people attending would need to be comfortable playing in front of others, or all in lol 😛 although that would be to my taste, I've found not everyone is comfortable with that. So if you hosted a party, did you have trouble finding people open enough to play that way, or is it more something that we become comfortable with as we get older, that's certainly the case for me. And with the financial side, can you get payment in advance, and refund if it doesn't go ahead, which can happen with low numbers etc. Just interested to hear from people who have done this 😃
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Eiliethiya  

Woman 39yrs

I think

the concept sounds fun and interesting. It would be exciting to know that everyone there was single, and hoping to meet/find someone too.
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 45yrs

MnauMnau

Well, each person I've gone with, has been different, on each occasion, so it depends. Communication and discussion prior is the key, that way we know where we stand and boundaries. Well, that's what I've done on each occasion including costs, play etc. I would never met with a man (whom I haven't met before, a total stranger) at the front door. I did it once, coupled up with a man to get in, but he was part of a large group of us. People knew him and it was discussed prior the night. I got the choice. I did feel ok with that and fine. However, we had no obligation to each other once we were inside (discussed prior).

As for ratio, I guess it depends on what the organisers want who plan, as each event would be different.

Single nights are great as there is not much out there in the community that really caters for single ladies, where they can feel safe. Sure, there's titty bars/gentlemen clubs for men..but nothing really caters for the "single" ladies, besides Adult clubs. Ms Foxy
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

foxxxxy

Re your remarks about safety in a few of your posts, generally speaking, they don't want to cut us up and put us in the freezer. Most times they just want to have sex 😉 where did anyone ask about safety? Men and women need to all take care but women aren't any more at risk than men. This topic is also about singles, not single women exclusively. But as a single woman, I haven't been chopped up once 😀 the inferrence or idea that every woman is a nervous, shaking butterfly, lacking in confidence, needing a man or friend to hold their hand, is a bit old school isn't it? If you need that, fine, but don't be implying all women do 😃
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

haha

Shrinking violet I meant, coffee coming up, need more coffee 😀

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