M39
Single guy looking to play with couples
June 21 2016
Brief calls with organisers indicates as a single guy I can only attend a gang bang with up to 5 guys and one lady. This doesn't appeal to me and I get the feeling the organiser is just hiring a working ladyand making profit on the fees from the guys...
Can anyone point me in the right direction? Am I naive in thinking I can play with couples as a single guy? I imagine id be in a crowd of tens of thousand other guys...?
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some couples do enjoy an added gent in the mix, and you probably won't be the first in line ;)
Not having a photo up makes your chances even smaller. If you build relationships, and demonstrate that you're a respectable guy who isn't just interested in himself, I'm sure you'll find some good matches.
If you are indeed well presented, you might want to explore The Monkey Club in Melbourne.
Happy hunting.
B
DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
If you look at the ratio of "single" guys to females, on this site and others, you will soon realise that you outnumber females more than 100 to 1.
Party organisers & many swingers clubs, see the single male attendees as the "cash cows". The female half of the couple (or the promise of single females) is the bait used to attract the paying single males, who incidentally almost always pay a higher admission fee, to get into the club / party, than the couples & single females. They are promised sex and expect to get sex for the $$ they have paid.
Attunga, a swingers club in Elsternwick, allows single guys in on Saturday nights, with the exception of the last Saturday of the month, which is couples only.
On the nights they allow single guys in, there could easily be 45 guys to just 4 couples and so competition, and resulting frustration and desperation , is rife when the males realise that they are not going to get any sex for the $80 they paid. They would have more success at a brothel.
Our advice to you is to be well mannered, respectful and non pushy, and to rather meet some couples on here. Don't bombard them with penis photos. Rather message them and tell them a little more about yourself . Read their profile wording so as to enlighten yourself as to what they are looking for. Remember that for most, them inviting you into their bed, is mainly for their enjoyment , be it physical , visual or otherwise.
Good luck
- Posted from rhpmobileDynamicCouple36
8 years ago
And also , we suggest you add some photos and fill in the missing "ask me" sections of your profile
- Posted from rhpmobile
Katkat
8 years ago
Sell yourself there
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
as a single man wanting to play with couples you'll have much more luck looking on here than at parties.
RHP User
8 years ago
Why do you say that?
RHP User
8 years ago
Hi, thank you all for your input.
Re the brothel comment, Iknow o could pay for this but it's the atmosphere of the party which I am desiring. Even if I don't get to participate, I would still enjoy being there.. Basically on not just going to get my rocks off...
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Would you be able to elaborate? Would you recommend I upgrade membership here to be able to contact others? I noticed I can only send flirts....
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Your profile as it stands is totally useless. You have 1 photo and that is hopeless. As a couple that actively seeks the +1 male we would see your profile and ignore it in spite of a received well written message. You need at least 3 or 4 facial portraits without sunglasses, hats, googles, helmets etc. You need at least 3 or 4 body shots. If you have to have a cock shot just make it a couple.FFS put a bit of personality into your profile. Couples want to know what they are getting and you come across as dull. Here's a tip never ever ask for more "naughty photos" , let the couple decide what is acceptable.
RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious'
Why do you say that?
because very few clubs let single men in .. at least where I am ... and if they do they charge single guys the earth for the privilege.
Fit, I would certainly recommend upgrading your membership :) from what I hear its quite difficult for single guys on here so being able to send messages would certainly helpRHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the tip. I don't really ask for pics like that. One more of a "can we meet over coffee and see if we are right for this " type of person.
Also not keen on posting face pic as I don't want certain people knowing I'm on here...
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Thank you for the help. I did "apply" for one club (I think monkey club) was a TPK party....?
I got rejected at the drop of a hat.... was kind of a blow to my confidence but I took it constructively...
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Sorry for the flirt, and thanks for the kind words. I was experimenting with what I could and couldn't do on here... OMG like I was swinging with the RHP app!
I will have to think about upgrading on here. Ill wait a bit, and see how I go I guess :)
Ive already been chatting with some nice couples around AUS. I didn't I know I could reply to they're messages. But once I send, I have to wait to hear back before I can send again...
- Posted from rhpmobile
Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
You expect "second of people" eh.
Good for you 😄
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Create a private gallery and put them in there.
RHP User
8 years ago
I do not understand what your getting at?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I love to be a single male an have great times with great people its all up to who ur meeting
STHBrissyFun
5 years ago
Social suicide.
Well said, honest and to the point of what a couple are most liking looking for in a profile for a single guy. I did look at your profile and very much liked. ☺️ If possible, it be great if you could take a look at mine, mayb let me know if I’m on the right track? Cheers 👌🏼☺️RHP User
5 years ago
As a couple that actively seeks an extra male I would say you are wasting your time without a membership that allows you to easily communicate.
Also full body pics in a private album are a must, we are not so hung up on face pics as we prefer to stay anonymous till we meet....so what is good for the Goose is good for the Gander
Naughty1
4 years ago
Im open minded for anythyng love to join some couples for 3som fun , im open to play with both in any way
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