Passion killers

Passion killers

    | Feb 20, 2017
Betty7216   Woman 44yrs
Shells' "Kill Switch" thread got me thinking. I sometimes use this term to describe behaviours that instantly turn me off/kill any previous attraction I had towards someone. I'm guessing that everyone has different stimuli, depending on your personal experiences, values and beliefs. What is it that someone says/does that instantly kills your passion/desire to continue contact?
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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 42yrs

Talking at me

Just kills me ,when someone just talks at you, not to you, like in real a two way conversation ,but just interested in getting what is their head out ,like it's more important to anything you may have to say .almost like they turn their listeners off ,and their mouth goes on auto pilot .3 minutes of that ,and yup ,you can go now

Mr b



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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 42yrs

And add

To the above ,talking over the top of you as soon as you get three words in ,that's pushing off a cliff material ,

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Lifes_great   Man 49yrs

RHP Profiles




That are focused on what they don't want or what they hate. Some write and essay complaining about people and traits they hate. Very unappealing....I like happy people. I think people should focus on what they want and like....look for positives not negatives. I think it says a lot about a person and their state of mind.
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PurePeony   Woman 42yrs

Talking too much...

... when the deed is happening. :P I'm trying to enjoy it, I'm in the zone, I'm almost getting to the Big O... and if he then starts talking too much, it totally distracts me.



Talking dirty is good and it gets me in the mood ... but it's not like having a race horse commentator with a motormouth. :P
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Meander   Woman 44yrs

The biggest killer for me is

Insincerity.

Whether that is by lying (like pretending not to be married, catfishing and making up stories), game-playing (Negging, trolling, gaslighting), or being fake in another way (acting exxagerated, contrived)...

Very unattractive and kinda sad to me.


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blissful_45

Surrounded

by passion killers this week. One wanted to fuck me like a porn star....another after several attempts to let him know I like intelligent conversation continued to go right to what he would do to me. I mean seriously....its enough to make me want to abstain altogether...almost ;)

xx


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houndhunter

Like a pitbull

^^^ lol

No passion killer for me.

You can say or fo whatever.. im still gonna hit that lol

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houndhunter

Oops

Say or Do

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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

God

I have one I was wanting to put into another topic but it wasn't appropriate. Great timing, I've been wanting to get this off my chest lol
Guy I'd seen numerous times over an extended period of time, our encounters were always amazing, he has been referred to in my posts here a few times, making reference to his intensity, he was in fact the first guy I successfully had anal with, but so much more. So he eventually started to go off the boil, not obvious to me until he was a no show for one meet, so some more time elapsed and he contacted me again, I figured what the heck, he's bloody amazing sexually and I was having a dry spell haha so was wanting to give it another go, but was busy, more time after I had to put him off because I was so busy, then I contacted him one day and asked if he wanted to hook up again. His response was really shitty. I've never had a guy say this to me, or make me feel as bad as he did that day. He said something like "Yeah why not, you are a great fuck, so yeah why not". That was more than deflating, his luke warm reply, and it was luke warm, made me feel like shit, I never replied, and I never will again. Fuck him, and I've said that before lol but this time I mean it
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

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S_OnTheLoose   Man 37yrs

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Quoting 'blissful_45'

One wanted to fuck me like a porn star....
on a vinyl lounge with a camera crew and 3 lighting guys standing around watching?

- Non-sarcastic references to astrology.

- incessant squealing
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KillerHeelz   Woman 44yrs

oh boy ...

Babe, hun. gorgeous - not my style.

Then the 'c' word.

I'd rather a man not speak and just moan and groan.... :)

KH x
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blissful_45

S_Onthebkoose

He actually did say that it would be worth filming!! Haha nobody needs to see that lol



Xx
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Luck_Dragon   Woman 39yrs

Briefly off topic

I_touch, I say this with all sincerity. If that's the worst thing a guy has ever said or done to you, you really should think yourself very lucky.


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Betty7216   Woman 44yrs

I think...

I Touch was saying it finally killed her desire to see him? Rather than it being the worst thing that has happened to her?
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Betty7216   Woman 44yrs

A few for me

Being called 'good girl' or being told I look like fun 🙄

Gaslighting - do not project your crap onto me!

Asking if every friend I mention might be interested in a FMF - seriously, do guys want to fuck all of their friends?

Sending me an erotic story about the first time we meet, detailing everything, including what I'm wearing and how I will move - just no!
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Luck_Dragon   Woman 39yrs

Betty

I_touch said ''I've never had a guy say this to me, or make me feel as bad as he did that day.'' That's what I was responding to.
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Luck_Dragon   Woman 39yrs

And to be clear given our history

I'm not trying to be patronising or to minimise how the guy made I_touch feel.


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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

I felt

the way I did. It was all about context and tone, the overriding lack of interest/enthusiasm and lack of respect. Does that make it clearer? It made me feel instantly repulsed, and how you feel and I felt, might be different MsDragon, but aren't we talking about our own kill switches?
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

Betty

I love being called a good girl, as a good little sub, I like to please 😛

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