Lights On! Lights Off!

Lights On! Lights Off!

    | Mar 11, 2017
PurePeony   Woman 42yrs
Do you prefer to have foreplay and sex with the lights on or off?





I know men want to have the lights on and enjoy the visual stimulation. However, I've felt that harsh, stark bright lights kinda spoil the mood and I can only feel really uninhibited under dim lighting or mood lighting. I've also always felt that doing it in almost total darkness has a sort of forbidden, clandestine feel to it - very exciting!





Your thoughts on this? ;)


Does lighting affect / enhance your sexual enjoyment?
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Champagnesunsets

Preferably on

Im a visual person too. Mirrored robes are great! However, waking up in the middle of the night and grabbing my guy for a play in the dark does it too. But to answer the question.....on xx
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purplehaze4u  

Woman 52yrs

Lights on.

I like natural light or soft lights not bright blazing lights way too harsh on bodies. But also i find during the night in complete darkness when we both wake up and are horny, blind sex is amazing. All the senses are working overtime yummm.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Meander   Woman 44yrs

I like both

I'm more tactile than visual, so it doesn't really matter to me how much I can see, the look on my lovers' faces being the exception.

Not a fan of harsh lighting though, I'm all about candles. Many, many candles.
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Mon_Doctuer4  

Man 57yrs

Daylight Is Best Or Soft Lighing

I always remember one random chick in my youth, muff diving in the dark. I thought it tasted a bit funny, so I lifted my hand up into a faint shaft of moonlight. BLOOD!!

I don't remember the end, but it wouldn't have been undiplomatic.

Stupid youth. Look before you Muff!

M_D4

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Fuck who cares

But try this,

Tape all the cracks, blanket the windows etc until the room is pitch black, so you can't see fucking anything.

Then undress each other and explore, really good fun.

Let your eyes adjust for awhile just for fun and you'll find your others senses ramp up, its a wild way to fuck when you can only smell touch and hear.
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Allgoodfun42   Man 49yrs

A salt lamp

On the bedside table sets the mood and the lighting just right :)

- Posted from rhpmobile
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bex1971

Soft lighting always

You have to have soft mood lighting. Enough to see each other but not so bright as to see fine details.
A bit of mystery to heighten the other senses...Mmm taste and smell...
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PoisonIV   Woman 32yrs

candle light

candles are best or dim light otherwise lights on


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PurePeony   Woman 42yrs

Candlelight is the bees' knees!

Agreed, ladies! I love candlelight and during the colder months, my lovely votives, tealight holders, etc all come out to play.



Champagnesunsets, agree about the mirrored wardrobe. It's akin to watching yourself starring in your very own porn. Very titillating!
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tulips4u   Woman 45yrs

Also a fan of natural light



When I started out on RHP, I would pull the blinds and only played in the dark, but for different reasons to yours, OP. I had huge body image issues and very low self-esteem at the time.

That was a long time ago and I will never look back. I am all for the full exposure now. I love getting my gear off at the nudie beach, I don't care who's watching. (Poor souls! Lol)

Sex in full natural light is my preference unless it's at nights, then just to the soft light of the TV or the flickering light from the heater in winter. I like to see the hunger in his eyes and the wicked grin on his face, all the curves of his face and body next to mine. Watching our bodies meld together in my floor to ceiling mirror turns me on even more 😘

- Posted from rhpmobile
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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 42yrs

On

I love some lighting ,so I can see the porn show ,helps the stimulation ten fold ,and hell TBH ,I like to see what I'm doing ,my darkness skills of where's Wally in the boat are awfull ,lol

- Posted from rhpmobile
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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 42yrs

On

I love some lighting ,so I can see the porn show ,helps the stimulation ten fold ,and hell TBH ,I like to see what I'm doing ,my darkness skills of where's Wally in the boat are awfull ,lol

- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

Well

I'm a mood light person. Ambiance.

Enough to see but without highlighting what you don't want highlighted. Some like it brighter........
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kano693r

Lighting

Lighting is best i love watching a woman enjoying a banana

- Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony   Woman 42yrs

Winter is coming!

Any G.o.T fans out there? :P



Anyway, winter is coming, but no one's mentioned the light from the fireplace yet. I suppose not too many folks have fireplaces these days!
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PurePeony   Woman 42yrs

Allgoodfun42

Good on you for mentioning the Himalayan Salt Lamp! It does cast a very muted and soft light.



I have an eeny meeny one with an LED multi-colour bulb at the bedside.. I love to watch the colours changing. Very mesmerising.



Oops...very distracting too! Makes one forget about sex! LOL!
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Koolgrey   Man 43yrs

. . . .

This reminds me that I want a lava lamp.
Soft, dim and retro cool...
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Fourtothefloor

Shutters down lol

Big fan of natural lighting & candles. Certainly enjoy dimming my room during the day with Roller shutters and just allowing enough sunlight to peak through the shades.sexy look. 😈 Luv massage candles with some scented candles in the background. Definitely about setting the mood.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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upforthefunxxx   Man 43yrs

On

On. I always have the lights on

- Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony   Woman 42yrs

Lava lamps

Do they still exist? Are they still being sold? They are fascinating to watch but they can be a bit... kitsch. :P



I think lava lamps should come with sound effects that you can choose to mute. Maybe a "Bloop! Bloop!" sound whenever one bubble is formed and released.



Maybe they should have options too - "Bloop!" / "Burp!" / "Fa*t!" / "Boing!" ...



=D

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