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I think Im about to be cuckolded......
March 08 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
The things I get from this are
Cuckold is into humiliation. If you get off in seeing your wife with other men without the humiliation then that is what's called hot wifeing.
Communication is a must. You need to be able to clearly articulate to her what you want out of this and what you don't want Eg humiliation. Being able to discuss your feelings and emotions. Do you want to be always present and part of say a group conversation or kik or do you
Finally is prob best not to dive straight into the deep end with a full swap. Take some baby steps so you can assess how you both feel as you go. There are a number of guys who have a cuckold fetish and wanted their wives to sleep with other men have tried it and the husband didn't like it or couldn't handle their wife getting the attention and having sex and the husband not wanting it anymore while the wife is ....... You pushed me into doing this for you and it was amazing getting the attention from the men and I want more of it (no takesies backsies) and your just going to have to deal with it:
I know there a few experienced cuckolders on the forums who can also give some great advice so over to you :-)
Cheers,
W
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
The thing that stands out to me is that you're now both in the same frame of mind. You can do one of 2 things. Act on it or if it's too uncomfortable leave it as a fantasy. In my experience , the adrenalin rush is absolutely breath taking and the quality of sex you have with each other afterwards fantastic . Discuss your do's and donts put your boundry's in place and make a pact that no matter what happens it's accepted as part of the experiment. Like you , I don't buy the humiliation bit , that has nothing to do with your wife having fun and you seeing her have fun. Just another stage of your lives. Happy to chat
ImpressMeTemptMe
8 years ago
Given your penchant for cuckold type stories, fantasies and how much it excites you, why not give it a try? Your wife is obviously devoted to you. I'm sure she would like a little spice in her life - who doesn't? Even better it is in a realm that you find exciting!
Your wife is being more than open and honest with you by conveying her thoughts and feelings in regards to the whole situation. No doubt she will abide by your wishes which is more than others would do. You are a very lucky man.
As far as what to expect. Hopefully a happy wife and a lovely and different experience for her to be involved in. It would spice up your sex life together too. I do believe she wants to go there given how she has expressed everything to you. It would also 'do it' for you to when she recounts what has happened.
I think it is a win/win situation.
~MissTRHP User
8 years ago
Well said. 👍
RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you all for your comments and advise. This has been a fantasy of mine since I was a teenager and it excites me to hell to think that it might soon be realized. It is wonderful that it is also my wife's fantasy. We have talked and fantasied bout this for a few years so communication is not a problem. I have watched her flirt a few times and yes I did feel some jealousy but I was more excited by it and was able to talk to her about it afterwards without any undesirable feelings getting in the way. It turned us both on. I have never asked my wife to fuck another man. I have only told her that it is my fantasy to be cuckolded, preferably in a 3sum. BTW I'm using the dictionary term for cuckold, not the lifestyle term.This came on when my wife told me she may have found someone she would like to cuckold me with. I have not yet met the man but my wife thinks we will get on. At the moment I am trusting her judgement. She has had 2 lunch dates with him and has learned that his interests in sport, politics, current affairs and leisure are very similar to mine. The thought of her husband going fishing with her lover excites my wife. What Would we talk about??. Also, on their last lunch date they saw a woman walking down the street arm in arm with 2 men. Their discussion turned to what do they get up to in private. This leads her to think he may also have similar sexual interests as me. She also said he told her he hasnt had sex since his divorce a little over 12 months ago.Anyway, my wife and I read your comments together and had a long talk. We decided that a few things have to fall into place before anything happens.1. We both agree to go to the next level.2. We are both involved. No secret affairs.3. The man has to agree to involve both of us.Still a moot point because he doesn't know any of this yet. We have agreed that on their next lunch date she will let him know she is interested. If he reacts as she thinks he will she will talk to him and tell him she wants a 3sum with him and me. If he agrees we will discuss the next step. If he doesn't agree its over. Well that's the story so far. Any suggestions?
RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ImpressMeTemptMe'
Given your penchant for cuckold type stories, fantasies and how much it excites you, why not give it a try? Your wife is obviously devoted to you. I'm sure she would like a little spice in her life - who doesn't? Even better it is in a realm that you find exciting!
Your wife is being more than open and honest with you by conveying her thoughts and feelings in regards to the whole situation. No doubt she will abide by your wishes which is more than others would do. You are a very lucky man.
As far as what to expect. Hopefully a happy wife and a lovely and different experience for her to be involved in. It would spice up your sex life together too. I do believe she wants to go there given how she has expressed everything to you. It would also 'do it' for you to when she recounts what has happened.
I think it is a win/win situation.
~MissT
My wife likes your advise the best,,lol. So do I.RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_MrsAraps'
The things I get from this are
Cuckold is into humiliation. If you get off in seeing your wife with other men without the humiliation then that is what's called hot wifeing.
Communication is a must. You need to be able to clearly articulate to her what you want out of this and what you don't want Eg humiliation. Being able to discuss your feelings and emotions. Do you want to be always present and part of say a group conversation or kik or do you
Finally is prob best not to dive straight into the deep end with a full swap. Take some baby steps so you can assess how you both feel as you go. There are a number of guys who have a cuckold fetish and wanted their wives to sleep with other men have tried it and the husband didn't like it or couldn't handle their wife getting the attention and having sex and the husband not wanting it anymore while the wife is ....... You pushed me into doing this for you and it was amazing getting the attention from the men and I want more of it (no takesies backsies) and your just going to have to deal with it:
I know there a few experienced cuckolders on the forums who can also give some great advice so over to you :-)
Cheers,
W
- Posted from rhpmobile
Communication is not a problem, We have talked quite openly about it.We have a fair idea of our emotions. We feel there will be no "takesies backsies". We are on the same page.Your advise is appreciated and we have taken note. We wont be rushing into anything. Thank you.RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'amos444'
The thing that stands out to me is that you're now both in the same frame of mind. You can do one of 2 things. Act on it or if it's too uncomfortable leave it as a fantasy. In my experience , the adrenalin rush is absolutely breath taking and the quality of sex you have with each other afterwards fantastic . Discuss your do's and donts put your boundry's in place and make a pact that no matter what happens it's accepted as part of the experiment. Like you , I don't buy the humiliation bit , that has nothing to do with your wife having fun and you seeing her have fun. Just another stage of your lives. Happy to chatI can feel the adrenalin rush already.We are in the process of making a 'do and dont" list. The "pact" is signed and sealed.
MsJonesy
8 years ago
Communicating, then more communicating, and then some more. Setting some boundaries is also a great idea.
My concern however is that the man is the one you talk about in your original post; your wife's colleague. Mixing business and pleasure can be fraught with danger so tread very carefully.RHP User
8 years ago
Kissk, communicating is key and quite frankly when you're both on the same page the communicating can be fun. We are both enjoying talking about this, working out our rules and limits, how we are feeling and what we expect. We have talked and role played about this for some time but the last few weeks when we have stepped up from fantasy to making it reality has added a new dimension to our discussions. It is by far more erotic and has led to some extraordinary love making.Also, they don't work in the same store. His store is a 2hr drive from my wife's store. This leads us to believe that the fact they both work for the same company it shouldn't cause a problem.
In my last post I said that my wife was going to let him know that she was interested at their next meeting. Well, it seems our friend can't wait that long. Yesterday he called my wife to say that he will be not far from us on Saturday. He is picking up his teenage daughter for a day out. He usually has breakfast at a Maccas not far from us before he picks her up and he was wondering if my wife could 'sneak' out and join him.When my wife told me this I replied, "Could be he just wants a new friend or could be he plans to seduce you."That bought a twinkle to my wife's eye. "I think Id like to be seduced, would you like to see your wife seduced by a handsome man?"I must admit that the thought of my wife being seduced definatly turns me on, a fact I couldn't hide from my wife, it sort of stuck out like a sore thumb,,,lol. So my wife is meeting him for breakfast on Saturday and we will see where it leads from there. I feel I'm handing control over to him, a feeling that scares me a little but excites me at the same time. My wife is looking forward to telling me all about it on her return. She wants to roleplay a police interrogation. I play the cop and interrogate her on what happens. Could be fun.RHP User
8 years ago
Quick update for anyone who is interested.Wife met her possible boyfriend for breakfast last Saturday. They had 2 coffees and pancakes. All was pretty innocent for most of the encounter until a family arrived, dad, mum and 3 kids. Dad and mum were both blonde white caucasian, 2 of the children were blonde, white caucasian and obviously offspring of dad and mum. The 3rd had black hair and darker complexion. This led W and B/f to discuss the origins of the 3rd child. Was he a friend?, adopted?, gene throwback from a grandparent?, or the product of an extramarital affair?.They opted for the extramarital affair. This led to a discussion on who might be the father, does dad know, how did they meet etc. Then on to the pros and cons of an affair or one night stand. He admitted to one affair that led to his divorce despite his ex-wife having had 2 affairs that he knew about. During the discussion he held W's hand quite a bit and at one stage placed it on her knee. She was wearing jeans and white blouse btw. She wanted to show off her figure, not her body. After their breakfast he walked her to her car which she deliberately parked in a quiet corner of the car park. He held her hand as they walked and upon arrival at her car he turned her to face him, took both her hands in his and asked if they could repeat breakfast next Sunday. She agreed and he kissed her, still holding her hands. It was just a kiss, no passion in it. He broke the kiss and looked into her eyes then released her hands, placed them on her waist and kissed her again. This time forcing his tongue into her mouth. My wife accepted his tongue, sucking it in. This kiss lasted longer with definite passion. He was smiling when he left.By the time my wife finished telling me all this I was hard and she was wet. We had wonderful sex all day. Between our lovemaking we discussed where this was going. It seems that my fantasy will come true soon. My cuckolding is under way. And my wife is excited by the idea of having a lover. She admits that after 30+ yrs of marriage the thought of making love with another man is really turning her on. And the thought of finally seeing her fantasy of 2 men at once is making her light headed.This has bought up a question. When do I meet this man?We have discussed a few options.1/ I don't meet him. He stays separate and my wife meets with him and tells me later. Neither of us is real keen on this idea as it leaves me out of it to a large degree and puts the kibosh on my wife's fantasy of a 3sum. Which is also my fantasy.2/ I meet him after he has cuckolded me. He fucks my wife this week, I meet him next week.3/ I meet him before he cuckolds me. I meet him this week, he fucks my wife next week.4/ I meet him same time he fucks my wife.
In 2 and 3 we start by my wife and he having 1on1 sex before moving on to a 3sum. In 4 we start with a 3sum. My wife likes 2 or 3 best and Im more inclined to 4 altho 2 and 3 don't turn me off.
Any ideas or opinions or advice?Do you have a 5?RHP User
8 years ago
for the 3 of you to meet and discuss what you have in mind before anything . With my experience , I found most couples prefer that both to be present even if hubby is in next room or in the same room watching his wife be pleasured. Whatever you decide , don't forget your " do's and donts " and the fact it's all about the 2 of you. Being new ' it only natural for your wife will show a level of energy you havnt seen for some time . This is normal and needs to be understood as the excitement of it all. I could go on , but I think you get the gist of what I'm trying to say. Whatever you decide, I wish you both good times ahead.
RHP User
8 years ago
Has your wife told him that you know & approve/encourage that shes meeting him for lunches, breakfasts etc ?
RHP User
8 years ago
Wow....hope you have some good & exciting news for us argosy :)
RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry for taking so long to up date. A lot has been happening and Iv been pretty busy. I haven't been cuckolded yet but it has started. Things on this front have been moving forward.My wife met with her boyfriend on Easter Monday and during their discussion confessed to our desires. She told him of my desire to have a hotwife and be cuckolded and of her desire to have an MFM 3sum. She explained that its been a long time fantasy of ours but until she met him we have never pursued it. She feels that all 3 of us will be compatible in this situation as he had been cuckolded in his marriage so he knew what it was like. She also laid the law down stating that if he didn't agree this would be their last meeting as she didn't want to be a cheating wife. He was a bit taken aback by this confession but he said he was happy and honoured to be the man we have chosen. When he agreed my wife told him she was hoping he would because she really wanted to be with him. She then took his hand, placed it on her breast and kissed him deeply. She concluded their meeting by giving him a blowjob to prove we were serious. When she returned from their meeting I was working on my ute, giving it a service. She took me by the hand and led me inside and raped me right in the kitchen. I felt sooooo used and abused,,,,,,,lol. After she was satisfied I asked her what bought that on. She told me of their meeting in detail which had me hard as a steel girder again. I was a little more considerate than my wife, I carried her to the bedroom before raping her,,lol. We spent most of that afternoon in bed.I was pleased to hear that he excepted and knowing that a life long fantasy is about to happen has put a new spark in my life. My wife and I cant stop talking about it. We are both looking forward to the consummation. They haven't met up again since then as he has been away but have communicated via phone, e.mail and skype.
My wife organized a fishing trip for her B/F and I for yesterday. just the 2 of us so we could get to know each other. I figured if I didn't like him I could use him for bait,,,lol. It was a bit awkward for the 1st hour or so but eventually the conversation started to flow. We talked about a lot of blokey stuff for starters, sport, politics, cars and found out we had a lot in common. Eventually the subject of my wife and what we were planning came up. I told him about my desires and hers. I told him of our rules that my wife and I had come up with and he agreed to all of them. I asked him what he wanted and he told me of how he became attracted to my wife and his desire to be with her. He said he wanted to be our friend most of all, he liked my wife's personality and wicked sense of humour and he was beginning to like me as well. He was willing to leave it at that but to have sex with my wife would be a bonus and on top of his wish list. He told about his wife and her cheating on him and how he felt about it. He didn't like it but it also turned him on to think about it. This left him in great confusion but it also meant he understood how I felt about it. He did ask for 1 thing that wasn't on my agenda. He said he would be happy to join us in a 3sum but would also like some 1on1 time with my wife. My wife and I had only talked about a 3sum or me watching but I promised to talk to my wife about it and think about it. I said it will probably be ok if all goes well. I cant put into words how erotic it was to talk to another man about sharing my wife. I had a hell of a time hiding my erection and was pleased to see he had the same problem. And knowing his erection was for my wife only made it worse, or better.
So that is the situation at the moment. We have pretty much decided it is going to happen and my wife and I are extremely excited about it. Its now only WHEN it will happen, not if. We are waiting a few weeks to let us all become accustomed and comfortable with it and to enjoy the anticipation. My wife and I thank you all for your kind advise and encouragement.If anyone would like to tell us what to expect we would love to hear from you. Both from the male and female perspective.RHP User
8 years ago
For the next 2 weeks you wont be able to keep your hands off each other :)Don't over think it just go with it, enjoy the banter & the sexiness of the build up.Go shopping together for a complete new outfit especially for the night, one that every time she wears it will bring back memories.From a males perspectiveExpect to feel mixed emotions, euphoria, angst & lack of control.You may even doubt yourself. Its a mental mind fuck,there will be things that will blow you away & tear you apart at the same time, like watching her really kiss another guy, watching her body react to him,her orgasm/s,her cum face.You will see the woman you love in a totally different light & after hes left your love making will be intense, passionate & emotional as you reconnect on another level.
Enjoy it all but make sure you really communicate in the days after. Don't hold back & be totally honest with each other. Never forget its about both of you.
One thing for sure is that fantasy & reality are 2 totally different things & once you've stepped across the line your life together will never be the same, it should bring you closeras a couple :)These are just my thoughts & like I said everybody is different on how they feel. Build your own path & enjoy walking it hand in handRHP User
8 years ago
I'm beginning to wish I never set foot on this path, its become quite expensive, lol. Norcuck, I read your post Saturday morning and made the mistake of letting my wife see it. She thought a shopping trip was a good idea, (she would), lol.So Saturday was spent shopping. 1st it was a boutique. We bought a short blue dress, (not micro) with a lot of lace up top. It showed a lot of cleavage but not in bad taste. Of course she needed shoes to go with it and a handbag as well. Next was a lingerie shop for matching bra and panties. A new teddy was also added. Last a sex shop for something sexy. She got a long black, figure hugging gown, backless, plunging neckline and split to the waist. I wont mention what the cost of all this is other than to say last weeks paycheck copped a severe hiding. I must admit the fashion show was very enjoyable, she tried on many outfits before making her mind up and it was rather erotic too, helping her choose and knowing the reason behind these purchases.The 1st dress was for a date we had with her B/F. We all went out to diner and dancing on Monday at an RSL club. We decided to have a trial 3sum date to see how we would react and to get the feel of it. It was a wonderful night. Diner was very good and B/Fs company was courteous and entertaining. We sat in a booth, my wife in the middle, not too close as to be conspicuous but close enough to touch if we felt the need. The conversation was light and pleasant with a little innuendo thrown in to spice it up. As the night wore on and we became more comfortable B/F started to push the boundaries 1st by turning the conversation to the reason we were there, sharing my wife, and by touching my wife as we spoke.At one point he started to caress my wife's thigh under the table, watching for my reaction. I watched and then started caressing her other thigh. My wife opened her legs a little, sat back and enjoyed the attention. Eventually I asked her to dance. We danced a few numbers, talking of how we felt before B/F cut in. I then sat and watch them move together. About 11.30 we decided it was time to head home as we all had to work next day. We walked B/F to his car which was parked in a dark corner. My wife said "this is a trial run, lets go to 1 more level". So we all got in the back seat of his car and had a 3sum pash session. No sex yet but it was definitely eye opening as we took turns kissing my wife. A little groping went on as well.My feelings, high arousal, euphoria, love, excitement and blue balls but no jealousy or any other bad feelings. I really want this. My wife's feelings, exactly the same as mine, (except for the blue balls) but add nervousness and a little fear. We didn't stay long in his car, but I think the few minutes we spent there made our mind up. We left with a promise to be in touch very soon with a yes or no. When we got home I asked my wife to put on the black number from the sex shop. She said no. Her reply was " When I wear that dress for you it will be to realize your fantasy." Well what can I say to that. You people can think what you like but I'm sticking with "She will be wearing it for ME."BTW, the sex was awesome. PS, Norcuck, thank you for your contribution.
RHP User
8 years ago
This is something I'd love my wife to do but she's not ready. I've love reading your story and can relate to some of the things you are feeling, My wife an I had a similar experience with another woman. It was so hot and the feeling of lust was intoxicating OMG. Hahaha please keep updating us with your journey.
RHP User
8 years ago
Not much to tell this time. Been a few phone conversations, mainly between him and my wife but I have spoken to him a couple of times and a couple of between all 3 of us. Some of the conversations were pretty explicit as to what we all expect and want and when we want it. It looks like this weekend is going to be IT. The sex between my wife and I has been fantastic. we are both looking forward to expanding our horizons and if the last few weeks are anything to go by we can look forward to a LOT of intermit time together. We have enjoyed talking about our fantasies of sharing her with another man and what might happen when we act on them. I'm looking forward to being able to talk to her about these same fantasies in the past tense, about how she had 2 men, about watching her with another man, about being a cuckold. If all goes well I'll soon know.
RHP User
8 years ago
As the time comes closer, I'm sure that the excitement & tension levels in your household are reaching new heights . Try not to let expectations take over, just go with it, let it happen, enjoy being in the moment & have fun.Two men pleasuring, spoiling a woman & taking her to a higher level is the bomb
ImpressMeTemptMe
8 years ago
I'm pleased for all involved that everything seems to be going really well :)
~Miss TRHP User
8 years ago
A quick update for anyone who may be interested. Well my wife has finally had her 3sum and I can no longer claim to be the only man to enjoy her body. Another Man has had sex with my wife so I am now a cuckold.And I couldn't be happier.It was bloody awesome. All I hoped and then some.My wife feels the same. She loved every minute.Ill tell more later if anyone wants details.Any questions feel free to ask. Thank you to all those who offered advise and encouragement, it was definitely appreciated.
RHP User
8 years ago
Argos 99 good to hear everything went well, before and after. I imagine it would have been such a rush!!!! I'd love to hear in more detail how your night went. Yes ok I'm living my fantasy through you lol
RHP User
8 years ago
Is that a trick question...........of course we want details
RHP User
8 years ago
I dont know where to start. Its still a bit of a blur and I'm having trouble getting my thoughts into order but here goes.We invited Dave around to our house for dinner last Saturday evening. We all knew what was to happen so as you can imagine Saturday was a very emotional day. The anticipation was extreme. My wife and I seemed to take turns being nervous and reassuring each other. It was also a lot of fun with sexy chat and teasing. My wife teased me by saying this was my last day as a straight husband, tomorrow I will be a cuckold. Id tease her the same way by telling today your a housewife, tomorrow you will be a hotwife,,lol. We didnt have sex during the day but that didn't stop us from pleasuring each other in other ways.As the time grew near and we started getting ready we showered together, washing each other. I shaved her pussy and legs, helping to get her body ready for the event. Helping prepare her body for another man to enjoy was extremly erotic for both of us. She wore the black gown we bought and she looked amazing in it. She opted not to wear anything under it. The neck line showed a lot of cleavage and being backless it also provided a pretty good side boob as well. Her excited nipples were quite evident. The dress was split to the waist and when she walked her entire left leg came into view. 3 inch heels finished the outfit. She was amazing.When Dave arrived I answered the door and invited him in. The look on his face when he saw my wife standing in the lounge in that dress with her left leg exposed to the hip was priceless. My strongest feeling at that moment was pride. We had drinks and chatted like normal people for an hour or so. Neither of us men could take our eyes off my wife who seemed to be enjoying the attention and definitely enjoyed the effect she was having on us. She never deliberately exposed herself but she did not adjust her dress if it draped open either. It didn't take long for Dave to realize she didn't have anything on under it. We enjoyed a pleasant meal, although for me it felt a bit like the last meal for the condemned, good conversation. Anyone watching would never have suspected the events that were about to unfold. It wasn't until after dinner coffee that the conversation turned to the real reason for Dave's visit. After reassuring Dave that this was what we both wanted, that he was the person we wanted to share with we soon became comfortable discussing sex with my wife.I put on some music and asked my wife to dance. We danced a couple of numbers, holding each other tight, my hands roaming over her as we kissed. Basically showing Dave what I expected. Dave sat back and watched. After about 3 songs I invited Dave to dance with my wife and I sat back and watched. It didn't take long for Dave to mimic me and soon they were in an erotic dance of love. At one point he turned her to face me as he held her from behind, his hands exploring her body in full view, even slipping into the split on her dress. I couldn't keep my arousal secret any longer so i joined them, 3 of us in an erotic dance.Our fantasy had begun.
RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for sharing your experience 👍👍👍
RHP User
7 years ago
I'm sure something else happened on the night
And what about the other nights?
Regards
Mr SRRHP User
7 years ago
Thanks for sharing your experience. I surely enjoyed it and that is my type of an encounter.
- Posted from rhpmobile
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