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How serious are women....
November 30 2017
Are you looking for a kiss and a flirt, hopefully with a man around who can witness and be aroused?
Are you looking for a secret affair to fulfil a longtime fantasy?
Are you looking for night of wild girl-on-girl action?
Are you looking for an intimate and on-going connection with a woman?
Are you looking for sex or love?
Personally, I have fluctuated between all of these paradigms, so I'm wondering, where do you fit?
Comments
RHP User
6 years ago
I hate when I say I want a woman and men answer. My profile plainly states women.......but get bombarded by men either asking outright or pretending to be a woman.
RHP User
6 years ago
Pretending to be a woman,... What’s the use of that?
I thinks it’s fun, playing alone with her while hubby watches or sharing her with him.
Man or woman, doesn’t really matter to me, it’s about sexual fun.
Now if it’s a woman asking only for women, believe me, whatever she asks is exactly what she wants.
If it’s a couple that asks it’s a lot of the time the guys fantasy imo.
xxxSawadee
6 years ago
to see a woman asking other women where they stand with their preferences... Coming from a woman's prospective is something we don't see everyday .. Good topic..?
RHP User
6 years ago
In my experience, a lot of women are curious but lack the courage (or adventure) to explore on their own. Men will always want to watch or join in.
I'm not with women for any else's viewing pleasure, but in saying that is has happened before, as quite often bi women are already in a relationship. It's also happened in private.
I'd say my only preference has been a good connection and chemistry, and that has applied to both men and women.
Great topic! ☺
- Posted from rhpmobileHottie1
6 years ago
Is in finding genuinely bi women, to play with me alone. Being bi, I’d expect my sexual experiences with other women would be as any sexual experience should be, to pleasure and be pleasured. I’d give myself to the encounter as I would with anyone :) Kissing is a must for me but I don’t do it for anyone but myself and the lady I’m with :) I’m definitely not doing it for my men, though I’ve had threesomes (FFM)/where it’s an all in play and they’re awesome :) I’ve also had great experiences with women who are heteroflexible, but I’ve been very picky with those and for the most part, they’ve been awesome. I do have to say I tend to avoid those types of plays with people I don’t know well :) I have in the past been with people who ‘allow you to do things to them but don’t reciporacate’ in the same way ... again I did knowingly agree to that but knowing a lot more about myself and my needs, I will avoid those types of plays now.
I have enjoyed some incredibly sensual times as a bi woman but at heart I am the wild sex type of lady, the rip your clothes off, molest each other play. Kissing a must and the exploration of the whole body is critical to me :) Even with my heteroflexible friends, there isn’t always/usually oral sex but there is always pleasure given in so many delicious ways :)
Am I looking for love with a woman, I’m not sure I can answer that wholly quite yet. I’ve always been sceptical of women and their motives and can safely say I discovered my bestie only a couple of years ago. I’m already in a polyamorous relationship and my tribe does include some very special people that I love beyond the platonic :)
I’m incredibly close to a gorgeous friend in Melbourne, she’s a play friend but foremost she’s a friend, family friend at that and I do love her and miss her. I’ve also got a gorgeous tribe in Brissie now and there’s a very gorgeous lady special to me in that tribe :)
I’m still a work in progress ... I’m trusting my gut on many things and I’ve been incredibly fortunate in my journey to date :)
Mary xxtryinsomething
6 years ago
I to would love to find women who like me are shy and would like to talk and really get to
know them before I give myself over totally to them.
I’m only new to this also so it’s important that there is a friendship and even some sort of trust
between us.
I want to explore, play, kiss, pleasure like anyone else but I need to feel comfortable in the whole
situation.
If there is anyone else like this message me we could possibly work through this togetherRHP User
6 years ago
I understand fully where you are coming from. I'm curious to explore but really would like to build a comfortable friendship/trust as it's a big step. I find ladies who have a interest may be part of a couple and therefore are mainly looking for a female 'who is ready to play'. Not that is in anyway a bad thing at all, just not where I am at this stage.
RHP User
6 years ago
Totally agree with you ladies on all fronts.
It is something I would like to explore but maybe a little down the track.
It is always something I have been curious about but really don't know where to start.RHP User
6 years ago
For your replies and your honesty. It's good to know that there are others out there like me.
I feel similarly to many of you in that I am now beyond curious, yet struggle to initiate contact. Having been 'straight' (more like kidding myself!) most of my life, I am not used to pursuing a woman.
I have been lucky in real life to experience chemistry and connection with another woman which was easy to read and follow through with, yet I'm not sure how that plays out online.
Reading your replies, however, has given me the courage to at least message a few women on here and try on this new role. Wish me luck! :)
I hope you all also find luscious women to fulfil your desires xRHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'midnightblue71'
Totally agree with you ladies on all fronts.
It is something I would like to explore but maybe a little down the track.
It is always something I have been curious about but really don't know where to start.
I am always very respectful of people's profile preferences, and yours states that you are only looking for men. That's the only thing that would stop me from sending you a message.curiousgirl35
6 years ago
I am looking for a woman for all those reasons. We are also wanting to fulfill some fantasies together at the same time. I definitely think if everyone connects an ongoing relationship could evolve. I definitely want everything with a woman and would love to fall into bed afterwards for that close connection as well.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Hi.
Some of you know me well enough to know I was with I was going to say ...a... that is so not right, woman for 35 years, yes here in NZ. I was with Jos= Jocelyn all female . I quess in many ways I,m very comfortable with that, she was/ is lovely I would never ever say any thing to put her down, so you can quess I loved her and still do. she of cause has married a real man = male and we still have contact and see each other and ring each other up. so all this adds up to something I see as lovely. okay maybe to simple ya well maybe I am.
If I get tagged because I,m not understood I,m just a female with out her womb.
So yes I like my woman I wont say a woman as that's not quite right if women would like to spend time with me I would be quite happy. if they think I,m worth the time,For men I,m happy with and again if they like to spend time with me.
...noeleena...RHP User
6 years ago
I have fooled around with ladies in a couple/ couple situation, and it was always lovely...
But the few occasions, when I was fortunate enough to play with a girl alone... I have always had an explosive experience.
If a girl wants to catch up alone with another girl...
They definitely both know what they want!:)
Chemistry is very important...if the energy is right, and all inhibitors go out the window...
A woman’s soft touch and sensuality is amazing .
And I definitely want more than a kiss and a flirt...
I would prefer an all night long experience ...
Music, candles, champagne...and a slow ,sensual journey exploring each otherBazingal
5 years ago
From the OP question I am looking for an intimate and on-going connection with a woman.
I too have played with some gorgeous women in club/party situations and had so much fun. But have only had a strong connection and ongoing arrangements with 2 women.
Currently looking for a lovely lady to spend time with.
Lol, so if any Perth ladies are interested, let me know ;)RHP User
5 years ago
Quoting 'Bazingal'
From the OP question I am looking for an intimate and on-going connection with a woman.
I too have played with some gorgeous women in club/party situations and had so much fun. But have only had a strong connection and ongoing arrangements with 2 women.
Currently looking for a lovely lady to spend time with.
Lol, so if any Perth ladies are interested, let me know ;)
I'm def your girl haha - i just cant reply to your message as i have used all my 5 today....Send me a message if you can xRHP User
5 years ago
Quoting 'tryinsomething'
I to would love to find women who like me are shy and would like to talk and really get to
know them before I give myself over totally to them.
I’m only new to this also so it’s important that there is a friendship and even some sort of trust
between us.I can so relate to this - shy and nervous but totally curious and do I have an "escape clause" if a girl-girl thing isn't for me? Is this a good reason for looking for a couple who recognise this - I hope so!
I want to explore, play, kiss, pleasure like anyone else but I need to feel comfortable in the whole
situation.
If there is anyone else like this message me we could possibly work through this togetherRHP User
5 years ago
Mrs Red here,
Firstly I'm heteroflexible, not bi.
I have many more female friends than male, but it wasn't always like that.
I always found women beautiful, and love the female nude, so of course I was curious to see what it would be like with another woman.
I've gained more pleasure watching a woman be pleasured than from what I have received from a woman myself, so that is what I love about sharing intimacy with another woman and my man, so long as everyone is enjoying themselves, that's the main thing.
I enjoy forming friendships with our Male or Female play friends.
I think if you make your boundaries clear and communicate well then you can find some wonderful relationships in whatever form that comes. If you want a relationship with a woman, then say that. It might help filter out those not suitable.
Everyone has their own needs and wants that may alter depending on the situation.
My motto is to try and not have too many rules, but be kind and enjoy! ;)
- Posted from rhpmobilesweetnsensual
5 years ago
Like you red we enjoy sharing a woman together but I love the softness and sensuality of being with a woman.
I won’t play with another woman unless my man is at least there
I have always been attracted to women and love their minds and body but wouldn’t have a relationship so to speak.
Or maybe that’s just me conforming to society!RHP User
5 years ago
Hi,
Interesting reading this forum and happy to see that i am not alone in this desire, i too am shy introvert but then some would say im an extrovert. When i am comfortable i can be me , a lil crazy depending on the situation. I have answered only a coupe of "looking for woman" adds but get put off by the replies. So im not sure either where to find a lady with similar desires ??RHP User
5 years ago
I’m very bi and happily engaged but my partner felt bad that I’d never experienced anyone other then him and a shit ex so we are doing this and I definitely want to explore sex with another women but I’m shy of it too
RHP User
5 years ago
This past year has opened my eyes to this lifestyle. I am married and have been lucky enough to be with another woman (with my hubbys knowledge). I had no idea where I wanted to start and how to go about it to begin with and it turned out that my first experience was not with someone off the site or any site. If I am to be with another woman it will be without my hubby around or any other guy for that matter. I have very limited experience with being intimate with another woman therefore I want to take the time to enjoy being with them in every way and learn how I can make it pleasurable for them as well as myself. Being 1 on 1 with a woman for the first time was quite nerve wracking but we were both in the same position, we both wanted to try it. One thing I do notice is that where I can talk dirty to guys, I can't seem to bring myself to talk like that to a woman (yet). Maybe that might change later but who knows.
Dee xx
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