How do i find a play mate for my husdand

February 07 2017

My husband are new to this and we play together and now we also want to venture off and have a fwb that we go meet when we want to i already have mine but finding it hard to find one for my hubby

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You go to swingers clubs which is what I would suggest. Try to establish a network at these clubs and be sociable, get to know people on many levels :) hopefully he gets to meet people there, even if he's shy :) The fora is obviously a good place to advertise too :)



    I have played with couples in open relationships but I would be very reticent playing with a couple where the wife was 'looking for a fwb for hubby'. Why isn't he looking and developing a relationship with people who meet his needs and criteria? I'd feel that you (rightly or wrongly) will scrutiinise prospeective playmates for hubby. That would be very off putting for me, even if hubby was shy :)



    Just my 2 cents ....



    Mary xx

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    No thank you for your feed back very helpful 😊 he isn't shy and any ladys that show intrest he looks into on rhp we do dabble in the clubs we are very social and have been to sensationz and pleasure lounge and soon club 103 he works alot that's why i am trying we are wanting to branch out in our experiences and he just doesn't have as much time as me to find friends in this seen, learning much we are very new to this 3 weeks in haha

    Thanks again for your help
    Mrs EndlessFun

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    7 years ago

    The most constructive feedback is what Mary said. Plan ahead, pick a night, get to a party and take it from there. Cuts out hours of screentime and uncertainty.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Guys will fuck anything

    Women can choose

    If you dont value him to want him to be totally yours alone then no other woman will because he obviously isnt worth it

    Women only want what another woman has. If she doesnt consider hubby worth protecting then no woman will want him

  • Curious1965

    Curious1965

    7 years ago

    Hard comments. I am glad I am a man and shallow.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I am available for play but with couple or lady only.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'johnandaimeee'
    Guys will fuck anything


    Women can choose


    If you dont value him to want him to be totally yours alone then no other woman will because he obviously isnt worth it


    Women only want what another woman has. If she doesnt consider hubby worth protecting then no woman will want him



    Judge much?

    Though your profile is about as negative as they come... guess your reply is simply par for the course.

  • johnisfun3

    johnisfun3

    7 years ago

    Unless this post is to make men jealous that there are women who want their partners to have fun and actively searching for one. Any how good luck in your quest........................

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    if he wants to try an old duck, tell him to hit me up I'd take him out for a spin

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    you don't have to reply to that. I do it all the time. I'm well used to rejection. I've been hitting on langton on here for like 2 years now I'm nothing if I'm not focused and enthusiastic

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Come to the Pleasure Lounge in Burswood! We might bump into each other! 😜

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • langton11

    langton11

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'
    if he wants to try an old duck, tell him to hit me up I'd take him out for a spin
    She'll damage him and break something. He'll never be the same, the woman's a sex android, I'm convinced of it

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You guys have cum a long ways(pardon the pun) in 3 weeks. That is great to venture out together. Keep on doing what makes you happy

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    Men will fuck anything ? What a load of BS. There are some men who would , but for most , they'd have their own sense of worth and taste...

    Im a man and if I fucked just anything as you say , my book would be full.. I'm not as fussy as I once was , but I still have my standards. Quality beats quantity hands down...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Haha thanks swinga 😄 that night at the pleasure lounge really opened up alot of doors and ideas for us, and the point of this question was to learn how this kind of thing is done we are only hatchlings when it comes to this and i fully expect him to be able to do what i can when playing...only fair.
    But thank you everyone for your advice, very helpful.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Contact women who aren't looking for what you are offering...married or couple or both.
    Just saying ;)
    KH

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Nooooo new pictures, nice 😛 you see now it's all going to start again. You're killing me here 😟

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lol what a joke!

    Mr Spice



    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You could try eBay...

    But 2nd hand disposable ones might not be clean lol

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    To OP:

    3 weeks in it's a little early to expect results you have to be patient and break down the barriers that society has brainwashed us all with. Get out there and explore there has been many good suggestions posted by other RHP members.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Just be open with each other after. Make sure you've had a good time and anything need change if there's a next time.

    Interested to join you

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I am in the same boat, trying to find a romantic/sexual partner for my husband is ridiculous. He's been out and about as long as I have and yet, while I've been turning down people almost every day I'm not interested in, I've become attached to a male lover, male FWB, and 4 different females, whereas nobody has shown interest in my gorgeous, sweet, affectionate sweetheart of a husband. It's sad and I feel bad for him. He's happy for me, but I want to see him experience as much love and joy that I have

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • teachme383

    teachme383

    6 years ago

    I know most men or couples are not looking for a person such as me for this type of fun, but I am available to be a FWB for a man or a couple

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hubby has given up looking..so here I am doing the same. He's a sexy man and I enjoy seeing him with others, he also likes a connection with women, so a proper FWB that floats his boat would be awesome.

    And no Johnandaimeee he will not fuck anything...otherwise I wouldnt still be looking for him.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Naughty1

    Naughty1

    4 years ago

    I’m first timers open for sex fun contact me I’m will play with your hubby anything what you want to.