Honesty on RHP. Is there such a thing.

Honesty on RHP. Is there such a thing.

    | Mar 18, 2017
WeMelT   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 38yrs
If someone indicatea they are looking for a man to join their threesome. Why agree to it and then keep pushing to get to the lady in the MMF alone.

Seriousley its not enough for my wife and I to invite you to spend a lot of intimate time with her in my presence you have to f..ck a good thing for everyone by constantly trying to get her alone.

Who else has had this issue?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 38yrs

It happens often

One states that one always plays together, in the same room, and yet the hunters don't respect this and go to great lengths to try to get the female alone ......

They clearly have no respect for anyone else and only want to satisfy their own hunger, at the expense of everyone else.

And they wonder we we get fed up with them?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

Yes

I've seen/heard of it a lot.

Can't understand it either. Respect what you have with them both and make it an ongoing adventure and friendship that will always outlast a sleazy grasp at the female half.

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Fourtothefloor

Yes there is still honesty Op

Wouldn't be Intrested in wanting to play alone.There ars some single men still who have morals. I even state it in my profile. Had cheating friends and exs before. Never nice to have to worry or go thru it.. Intregatity and honesty is what makes a man.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun   Man 57yrs

Maybe

Perhaps change your choice of men?
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lovman8   Man 65yrs

Honesty on rhp?

Men can be arseholes.
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madotara69   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 47yrs

It

Happens more often than not, we only have the one condition, we are in this together, so it's no surprise to anyone who joins us, which means the ways are manipulative, disrespectful, agenda and shows little values to the character by principles.

Guess these types of blokes don't know what it is, that we have on the strengths (our friendship) for sharing us together ?

Mado

Mado Tara xx
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Libertine44  

Man 53yrs

Grass cutters !

These men are everywhere and they do make it difficult for the genuine and respectful guys that are here.
They are so self centred that they don't give a toss that they are in effect trying to break up a relationship and muscle in.
Or is that their real aim ?
They Him Mr. Mower.
Victa Mower !
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Meander   Woman 44yrs

Yeah,

I happened to me when I played as a couple, and it sucks. Luckily I've found guys like this to be in the minority though, most men have been completely respectful and reliable.

Don't let one jerk spoil it for the others. In my experience there is plenty of honesty here.
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Fit_Geek   Man 43yrs

Weird guys

Here you are getting an invitation to enjoy time with another woman, you otherwise wouldn't and you're a dick. Especially stupid as be appreciative and you may get an invitation back for more play.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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CandyDelicious   Woman 31yrs

Getting it where they can

I always thought those guys were agreeing to a threesome just to get their willies wet in any way they can. So they are not really interested in the threesome at all, they will do it if they have to in order to get sex, but they prefer to try and get the woman on her own because that is were their true interest lies. One on one sex.



That's what I thought anyway.
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PeachyPearL   Woman 53yrs

We had one guy who pushed that agenda once too often

It took him a while to get that he'd ruined his chances.



It's really important a guy be into joining a couple but I think there are a lot of guys who opt for couples to up their chances of access to a woman. We would look for clues to that attitude in their profile and messages. Joining a couple is a big thing and respect and understanding must go all ways. Peachy :-)



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Qefenta1

I wonder

If the motivating factor is a bit primal..spreading the male seed,cutting out the competition.Some people are just very competitive,both male and female. They have to win. Q
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Slida181   Man 46yrs

MFM Fun

Well just to throw a little spanner in the works.....


Whilst I agree 100% with what everybody has said. There is one issue that may also be a motivating factor. A little story to explain.

My FWB and I invited a guy to join us for some MFM fun. Unfortunately he couldn't perform. He and I spoke about it afterward and he told me that the obvious connection that I had with K made him feel like the third wheel and perhaps a bit of an outsider....

I thought about this and realised that it may well have been a better session if He and K had have had a play one on one beforehand. That would have made everybody completely comfortable and made for a better play....

Having said that, I think this just goes back to motivation. If the motivation is just to get her into a one on one session and hopef that continues, then clearly if that's against the wishes of the couple, then that's just not appropriate.

Like everything, open communication and being up front about wants, desires and expectations, means that everybody going in open eyed and disappointment is less likely to happen...... all parties have a responsibility to be open about what they want...



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Meander   Woman 44yrs

omg




Quoting 'DynamicCouple36'

One states that one always plays together, in the same room, and yet the hunters don't respect this and go to great lengths to try to get the female alone ......





I totally read that in David Attenborough's voice.
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Willow_1   Woman 51yrs

Yes it can happen

But communicate first. And during. Make sure the invited guy knows that your wife is in control and its her call on where and how a 3way play pans out.

A personal example is my regular bloke and I had a planned mmf with a guy he had played with before(bi) . Guy turn up, and my mate goes and has a quick shower while the other guy and I chatted in the lounge room. Nek Minit.. New dude is doing the touchy feely thing with the hands wandering along my body. I simply said" when *** joins us, we can start playing" which was all I had to say and he stopped.

So generally, being verbal will get a play going in the direction you both want. But I think your wife/partner needs to be a bit more in control of the situation verbally? Just my point of view, because I have learnt from experience that if you dont say anything, its taken as a type of consent, because nobody spoke up and said they didnt want that
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 38yrs

Meander

LOL

You are sharp.

Yes, it was written with Sir David in mind.

Mr D does a great voice over impersonation of him. Tried it in the jacuzzi with 3 other swinging couples - a commentary about the mating habits of Humanoides Australianus ..... lol

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Willow_1   Woman 51yrs

I may have read it wrong

Just reading your topic again, do you mean that this all happens in your rhp messaging and turns you off a meet,or when you actually meet or play?
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On_Safari   Woman 45yrs

Yes OP there absolutely positively IS but......

Some people can't handle the truth so resort to bullshit instead 😏



I tend to be honest and philosophical about these things ~ Indy (Used Car Sales)
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Deceptive/selfish motivesu

Many aren't honest enough to reciprocate with PG's...it's very selfish and shows how they probably are in company also...

- Posted from rhpmobile
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wats025  

Man 63yrs

at a recent ffm had the same happen .

The female that joined us muscled in on my fake partner

- Posted from rhpmobile

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