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Jan 12, 2010
customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham
I have noticed that guys, who have come out of long term relationships, are like boys in a rhp lolly shop.

They eyes light up and they are dazzled by the range of sweets on offer...they seek to sample, all of the tasty morsels on offer here.  To experiment and explore, see which ones are sweet,  sour, soft, firm, melt in your mouth...

Is this a passing faze, or a new addiction, to all things female? Do they ever develop a passion for a favourite lolly, that they return to often?

The purple lolly, or the red one? Followed by a licorice allsort and some whizfizz?

Should the lollies be locked away in jars, until they understand the value of them?



Trish
kjandnev

mmmm

Whizzfizz.....lol.......havn't had one of those for yonks!


definetly in the jars i think Trish, unless said sugary substance is into taste testing.


I is a good boy now, and avoid all things sugary.....DOH !!!!



Cheers Nev  

missguided74   

F 35yrs
Mindarie

The Gobstopper

Making up for lost time perhaps Trish? ends up leading to a major sugar high though I would suspect. Not to mention err umm the chance of a cavity or two ;)

The never ending Gob Stopper...now there's a sugary treat bound to make your mouth water!

Tx

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

You can't beat some lollies, they are sooo sweet

I have a favourite lolly,  one that makes my mouth water and tastes so good when I can find  it. I don't think, I can taste too many others. I do look longingly and wonder sometimes...a choo choo bar, a raspberry, banana? How many different types of lollies, do other girls like? A mixed bag?


Trish
niceguy0068    M 41yrs
Castle Hill

Right now...

I'm wanting to try lots of different lollies.. or at lease believe I can try them... There is one that I like the taste of very much... but I'm not yet thinking I've tasted enough of the different treats to be sure.  So I'll keep sampling... or trying to sample... so that I know the one I like is the one I really want.  I just hope that there's enough supply of the one I really like to last...

 

Wayne

 

Mars_n_Venus

cum on suck it

How did that song go??I wanna suck on your lollypop. Its a favorite at our place. Mars
customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

Should the girls seek some more candy?

As long as they don't try too many?

Trish
niceguy0068    M 41yrs
Castle Hill

Same rules apply

Trish - IMHO, same rules apply for guys and girls - why should it be any different?  Provided both parties are up front about it and agree then there's no problem....

 

Wayne

 

mr_sheen_live    M 36yrs
South Bunbury

Fill your boots!

The thing I love about candy is all of it! I must say i find it difficult to pick favorites. Can't I like them all equally? Today I might feel like boiled lollies tomorrow it may be chocolate.....but I can't eat chocolate everyday...or boiled lollies for that matter...sometimes I crave sherbet and every now and then I get this unholy desire for a big old fashioned liquorice stick...you know the ones about a foot and a half long.....ahhh the good old days

xx

sheen

topguy4u    M 35yrs
Perth

kandy

men probably just turn a bit girly when they spend so much time with their woman, ladies tend to like little sweets so men just probably fall into an unconscious habit, typically drier foods like chips, cheese, nuts, crackers are the staples of groups of men as its more manly...sweets are feminine just as a generalisation.
TipRat1    M 40yrs
Perth

Apples in Eden

      It's not just a male thing Trish. I've seen many women behaving badly in the lollie shop. And what's worse is crying foul when they come unstuck. Apples in the Garden of Eden would suggest it has been human nature for a very long time to want to taste what you know you shouldn't.

      Wasn't it Eve who took the first bite?       TR1

ElleDee

Sometimes

Just the taste of one lolly isn't enough for some men......even when it's supposed to give the utmost satisfaction.....

 

Starting to think I need to cut lollies out of my diet altogether.....and RHP....

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

Starting to think I need to cut lollies out of my diet altogether.....and RHP....

Options?

Remove lollies from my diet altogether, go cold turkey? That might push me over the edge

Embark on a cleansing programme, take long breaks, to remove the longing and desire for them? Replace with carrots?

Remove the male jelly babies, and replace them with the female ones? The male ones have that  extra appendage...I like that!

Musk sticks? Peppermint patties? All day suckers?  Acid drops? Sugar free lollies? Ginger bears? Minties?

Trish 





customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

a foot and a half long!

Now, that sounds interesting...

I could share it with a friend, that way we could join in together, any takers?


Trish                            



Mynameonurlips    F 46yrs
Sydney

I like my men the same way i likes me smarties

NOT!!

Hey de howdy Trishalicious!!

(some) Men....can't live with em....can't shoot em!

A entrepreneurial RHP mate and I have decided to revolutionize

the porn industry and in doing so we will require assistance with

casting the luscious eye candy meaty bites who will act as co-stars

to the bevvy of beauties we have in mind.

I'm thinking....Trish and Elledee would be perfect for the roles as

casting couch connoisseurs!

Maximus taste testus...of the testes!!

I hasten to add that all this is still in the premiminary stages

(we are legends in our own minds) However...lets not

get bogged down with the details....

Smarties anyone??

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

Girls with balls in their hands? Sounds dangerous

We shall handle them with care and be very gentle

Perused from all angles?

Measured?

Tickle scale?

One at a time?

Save the red smarties for Trish please, let them melt in my mouth, so that I can savour the chocolate inside...delicious

Trish




missguided74   

F 35yrs
Mindarie

Trish go Cold Turkey?

Well Trish if you are going to remove lollies altogether and go Cold Turkey, might i just suggest you watch out for the slap!
kjandnev

Haha

Think i know who you are talking about........"like a duck on a pond"



Cheers nev.............Ich Will

junior1008    M 30yrs
Cannington

hi friend

hi friend ur so nice there...
OneBrightStar   

F 41yrs
Springwood

Lollie bags....

Remember the lollie bags you used to get parties when you were a kid?

 

You gobbled down your favourites

Saved your BEST favourites til last to savour them

Gave the ones you didn't like to someone else

And then waited for the next party :)

 

Yeah, I kinda like the lollie bag

 

 

 

 

 

Miss_Saturn    F 39yrs
Sandringham

When the candy is free you want more !

Hey Trish

 

Glad to see your humour is back... perhaps with a touch of sarcasm ! Mmmm rhp can do that to us.

 

I've been rather confused since joining RHP.

 

AT first I thought I wanted as many different types of candy the store stocked but then I realised it interfered with my enjoyment of the quality of candy..  I was also eating more candy and spending less time at the gym which resulted in a few extra kilos.

 

Then I thought lets just stick to one or two pieces of candy. But the candy didn't want me to share. I had to have EITHER musk sticks OR jelly beans but neither wanted me to have the other.  In the end both types of candy decided I didn't deserve them ! Ooohhh that HURT !  

 

So... I then took a 5 week break from ALL candy ! Guess what happened ? I got depressed and put on more kilos (lucky I was slim to start with ) !

 

Now I'm back in the candy shop but this time I''m looking at the candy and trying to work out which candy I will enjoy the most.  I"m asking the candy upfront whether they are happy with me having other types of candy and whether there are limits on the range I may sample.  I have also told myself that for each candy experience I have to spend an hour at the gym! It keeps my priorities in perspective.

 

I don't know where this is all going to lead.  For now I'm trying to take it one day at a time. If I find one piece of candy I really like... I will 100% be sticking to only that candy.  I just hope the candy feels the same ! Chances are the candy wont!

 

My experience from all this is that men are as confused with what they want as the women. They say they want to play and have fun with many women but they are really uneasy if the women do the same. And they run the same risks of starting to like one candy more than they expected.

 

Kisses, Ms Saturn

 

 

 

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

Sweet as

I understand the excitement, of a male, being able to choose from so many different forms of candy, the sense of freedom , would be so liberating...so attractive, but hopefully not, too addictive in the long term.


Re Ms Saturn: "My experience from all this is that men are as confused with what they want as the women. They say they want to play and have fun with many women but they are really uneasy if the women do the same."  I doubt many women will feel comfortable doing the same. We just view things a little differently...

Trish


CaptJackSparrow    M 43yrs
Maroubra

Lolly shop

Quoting 'customer69'
I understand the excitement, of a male, being able to choose from so many different forms of candy, the sense of freedom , would be so liberating...so attractive, but hopefully not, too addictive in the long term.


Re Ms Saturn: "My experience from all this is that men are as confused with what they want as the women. They say they want to play and have fun with many women but they are really uneasy if the women do the same."  I doubt many women will feel comfortable doing the same. We just view things a little differently...

Trish
 

I think both men and women when they come out of a long-term relationship want to sample all the candy because they probably haven't had any in a while and because they are out for fun, at least to start with. There is also the aspect of wanting to try new things, maybe because previous partner wasn't willing to try. While i'd like to try a bunch of lollies, i'd probably find one that I liked and want to keep getting that one.

 

As for allowing the women to do the same, well I just don't know if I would be jealous or not. I'd like to think I am mature enough to allow a partner to be with other people as long as its what she wanted and she was safe.

 

So many lollies and not enough time or money to try them all. LOL

TipRat1    M 40yrs
Perth

Apples in Eden

       It's not just a man thing Trish. Women can behave just as badly in the lolly shop. And cry most foul when they come unstuck. Apples in the Garden of Eden are perhaps an indication that wanting to taste things forbidden has been human nature for a very long time.

       Wasn't it Eve who took the first bite?

Ajaccio    M 30yrs
Melbourne

Re: "Is this a passing faze, or a new addiction, to all things female?"

Maybe they always were addicted to all things female.  So it's not a passing phase, it's just same old same old.

dzynr    M 49yrs
Ashmore

Lollies

Trish, nice euphamism, more photos!- nice.  always makes me feel better to go shopping for clothes.  Lollies, you can’t tell what they taste like until you try it, I also like the lollies in wrapping, ones that you can partly see through to get a hint of what is inside. (trish). If you are dying of thirst of course you are going to try and drink a lot, but  they also say you should sip slowly, the body cannot take the onslaught of so much after so little dzynr.
customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

Lollies under the age of 18 are a protected species...

Ms Saturn, I wish to apologize if my tone was sarcastic, it wasn't meant to be. I am basically an honest and passionate soul, this can be my undoing at times. I would like to share something with you, to explain why I am a little touchy at the moment.

I have been emptying my mail box and replying to some of the many messages I receive, learning to banter a little with the rhp folk. Perhaps I got a little too cheeky, asking  what one particular guy wanted on rhp.I thought it was fictional  stuff we were discussing. And it is better to clear the air and learn about people.

I am not sure, whether I want to vomit, or cry.One person, expressed an interest in my daughter and this has turned me, on my head. She is a young girl, on the verge of womanhood, almost 13 y o. Definitely forbidden fruit, in every sense of the word.

** Damn Eve, that greedy wench. She could have gone shopping for shoes instead, and had a different pair to wear, every day of her life!

I shared one marital jar of lollies, for 21 years and it rocked my boat. My former hubby, secretly sought out some fresh new lollies. I guess my eggs have passed their use by date, at 43, and the lines on my face, bothered him.

I have been very fortunate during the past 2 months, to have been allowed to find, one special lolly jar. It has been the most wonderful time of my life and I truly appreciate being spoiled in this way. No girl could have asked for a more passionate experience, that has stimulated, all of my senses. I apologize for being clingy and expecting to be invited back into that lolly jar.  You can't blame a girl for asking!

I do sense, that couples, have a more balanced view on life and sexuality, than I do, as an older single mum, in the trenches...they have the emotional strength and maturity to handle it better.

Trish




Miss_Saturn    F 39yrs
Sandringham

Eating candy is bad for your health !

Hey Trish,

 

I think you ROCK !  I also have moments of sarcasm, I say its just my humour but usually it reflects some underlying frustration I'm having.

 

I'm sorry about your recent FWB situation.  I have SOOO been there ! The experience is now affecting my enjoyment of other candy which I am starting to view as all bad for me ! Sometimes I think I should just stick to fruit and vegetables !!!

 

WOW... wot a fcukin prick for making any comments about your daughter !!!

 

One of my mottos (I have many) is: "You can fcuk me, fcuk me up, fcuk me over but NEVER EVER fcuk with my family!

 

It's the one thing in life I will not tolerate.

 

I have changed jobs to protect my family. I never hesitate to report anything to the police if it regards my family.

 

I'm a big girl and will enter the candy shop, make my own selections and cope with the result of any overindulgence.  BUT just because I like candy doesn't mean my family should be exposed to the rot and decay that can be in the candy shop!

 

A big hug to you Trish.

 

xxx Saturn

 

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

I also like the lollies in wrapping

Bright shiny wrappers, to entice and taunt you

Or those, that need to be removed with your teeth

That make noise when you touch them

And explode in your mouth

Trish
single1_4fun    M 40yrs
Clifton Hill

Ur Daughter

Hi Trish,

What a sick bastad that was.I can feel my blood pressure levels rising..Totally disgusting.

Its great you have found someone the way you have. I think we all secretly would like to do that.

 

You are right, many men have double standards.its fine for them to play the field but not women.

Its such a wrong opinion....

 

Cheers

 

roughfukr1    M 36yrs F 38yrs
Virginia

i must be different

I have had a few long lollies go sour, and believe me the last thing i wanted was to sample other lollies.
Need time away from all lolles to find out what type of lollie you are.
Funnily enough, during these times of self discovery i was bombarded by all sorts of lollies. The more youpush them away, the more you are bombarded.
Trish, with your charm, wit and manner, i just know there is a lolly out there,the flavour of which you have never had, which will bring you all the joy and spine tingling excitment you deserve.

As for the sick twisted fuckr who asked about your daughter,  may his miniscule Chuppa Chup disolve in a "gilfs" hole!
Ajaccio    M 30yrs
Melbourne

pedo

Quoting 'customer69'
I am not sure, whether I want to vomit, or cry.One person, expressed an interest in my daughter and this has turned me, on my head. She is a young girl, on the verge of womanhood, almost 13 y o. Definitely forbidden fruit, in every sense of the word.

That's really awful.  I feel for you, but I also can't help wondering why you tell anyone here that you have a 13yo daughter?  Shouldn't that sort of information be entirely left out of a website like this?  I think you mentioned your 13yo daughter in a message to me (without me asking), and so that makes me wonder, how many other people here have you told about your daughter?

 

Just don't tell people here that you have a daughter, really it's none of their business.  Or if you do tell people you have a daughter, don't give out any details such as her age, her name, or anything (and obviously no photos).  I think it's important that in order to protect yourself online, you shouldn't give out certain kinds of information online.

Whitehawk77

Trish.....

The ladies are the same..if not worse!! They actually get what they want where as the guys don't.
dzynr    M 49yrs
Ashmore

info

sorry but I politely disagree with ajaccio, social interaction involves providing information about ourselves and family and children are a big part of our lives. Just like discussing the weather we discuss our children. Though you probably were just meaning to give advice, you have implied the fault is trish’s,  the blame should be directed to the other person. dzynr
mr_sheen_live    M 36yrs
South Bunbury

breathe.....

Ok Whitehawk.....

It's a free country and everyone has the right to express their opinion; even you and...even me...so...

 

SHUT THE FCUK UP!

TAKE YOUR MISERY ELSEWHERE AND ANNOY OTHERS!

 

ok? have a nice day!

 

sheen

x

 

JOSEin4REPAIRS    M 42yrs
Melbourne

lollies, lollies and more lollies...

 first of all trish...ya so delish...maybe ya should send this to the dick who suggested ya daughter...

...may your pubes be infested with a thousand lice...

...and may your arms be too short to scratch them....giggling

anyway...i think for the ladies there are many lollies from which they can choose...

all bringing their own unique flavours...ahh...ya gals are so lucky...

and for the boys...omg...so much candy to look at...some wrapped oh so beautifully...mmmm-mmmmm

but the candy is very particular as to which mouth it wants to pop into...grins...

oh boy...me?....i just love my dark chocolate....yuuu-mmmmmmy....

but i also like it flavoured with orange...or maybe some nuts in there...that's almonds, not men's....roflmfao...

cheers

jose...
ElleDee

Yuuummm dark chocolate

Am so craving some right now..

 

It would be a bit desperate to eat the chocolate body paint alone and out of the jar wouldn't it??

 

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

Let Trish spread it on your belly instead


Then i can lick it off for you ElleDee, if that's  what you want?            

Trish nom nom nom     
 

niceguy0068    M 41yrs
Castle Hill

Cleanup in isle 3...

sorry... made a mess... umm... tissues....???

Just the imagery of Elledee and Trish with chocolate body paint.....mmmm norty norty girls... now I'll have to find you both and spank you!

 

Wayne

loves chocolate.....

Sonsie    F 32yrs
Brisbane

Ooooo....body paint....

You know...I have my own secret recipe for chocolate body paint....and you use it all nicely warmed up.  If I make it ElleDee, can I come and help Trish? ;)
Ajaccio    M 30yrs
Melbourne

Re: dzynr

"social interaction involves providing information about ourselves and family and children are a big part of our lives."

 

Yes, but there's a time and place for it, and a sex site is not the appropriate place for it.  And apparently it's not a safe place for it either, considering what happened to Trish.

 

"Though you probably were just meaning to give advice, you have implied the fault is trish’s, the blame should be directed to the other person."

 

It's like if you posted some of your bank account details on a website, and then some crim used it to steal money out of your account.  The fault, the blame, is at the crim.  But nevertheless, you shouldn't be posting your bank account details on a website.  It's a matter of taking sensible precautions to protect yourself online, and not revealing sensitive information (such as bank account details) is such a sensible precaution.

customer69    F 43yrs
Sydenham

We shall have to find something extra to do

To burn up all of these calories...

Perhaps a wrestling session...a nudie dudie run...some dirty dancing?


dishing it up at body tmperature   
casa_blanca

A foot & half long you say?

Hi Trish,

 

I'll take you up on this!

 

Andy

 

 

PeachypearWeB    M 43yrs F 46yrs
Midland

IMO this person should definitely be reported...

This is not acceptable!

Quoting 'customer69'


I am not sure, whether I want to vomit, or cry.One person, expressed an interest in my daughter and this has turned me, on my head. She is a young girl, on the verge of womanhood, almost 13 y o. Definitely forbidden fruit, in every sense of the word.

I'd also like to very much so, politely agree with dzynr!
Quoting 'dzynr'
                                  sorry but I politely disagree with ajaccio, social interaction involves providing information about ourselves and family and children are a big part of our lives. Just like discussing the weather we discuss our children. Though you probably were just meaning to give advice, you have implied the fault is trish’s,  the blame should be directed to the other person. dzynr                                

Sorry, nothing more to add on the topic Trish... Hugs Mrs P'
dzynr    M 49yrs
Ashmore

the blame

I put this in the same category as No means no, no matter if a girls walks around the street naked, (exaggeration) some may suggest that she is asking for it, it may generate an overwhelming desire of lust but the person who attacks her is to blame. Someone might be verbally abusive or drunk but the only person to blame is the one who throws the punch. trish unable to reply to a mobile! dzynr
roughfukr1    M 36yrs F 38yrs
Virginia

hahahahah

Wants to buy Mr Sheen a beer!
ElleDee

Yuuuum home made choc body paint!!

Yuuuumm to Trish and Sonsie too.....only if you let me lick first girls.....I'm the one with the cravings remember :)

 

Mmmm....chocolate ain't all I'm craving now ;)

mr_sheen_live    M 36yrs
South Bunbury

hmm beer...

You've got me there! Much more of a beer person than chocolate these days.... how about a frosty coopers sparkling on this balmy january day.

cheers for the beers Roughfukr! Up your bum and no babys!

 

Ajaccio    M 30yrs
Melbourne

Re: dzynr

Quoting 'dzynr'
... the person who attacks her is to blame.

What's your point?   Why are you even bothering to say that, considering I already agreed with you on the question of where the blame lies?  I never said the blame should be directed at Trish.  I merely said that Trish should take sensible precautions -- and this is very obviously true.

 

It's like I said, "The crim is to be blamed", and you replied, "No, the crim is to be blamed".

centro    M 40yrs
Kenwick

ar gummy bears for me

i like the chewy ones theirs nothing like a a chewy one don't ask me were im going with this but all this sweatie talk is making me hung=gry..................lol
stalky   

M 38yrs
Hurstville

I'm a professional... :p

C'mon Trish haven't you heard that candy rots your teeth. Jeese.... it's ok to like tits and pussy... it's low calories and no carbs but I still recommend regular brushing. :p

 

Hugs

Stalky 

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