Gangbusters

Gangbusters

    | Jan 10, 2017
LaFemmeFontaine   Woman 40yrs
I'm not going to lie.

Gangbang.

I fantasize about it.

A LOT.

I struggle with wanting it, while admiring the women who are free enough to bask inthe pleasure of this, I war with myself, like somehow this makes me less of an ethical person. The sometimes ongoing battle between my desires and my self judgement droves me nuts! I experienced one multipartner experience and the men involved got a little beasty and I didn't enjoy it. So, I've not done it since.

But god I want to.

Does gangbang mean just that, 'banged' or can it be sensual as well as debauched? I don't like the idea of being the submissive in a group situation - rather prefer the notion of being thoroughly spoilt.

Have you participated in them? Were you nervous? How did you get past it? How did you feel afterwards? Guys, thoughts?

Please can you bust some of the bs misconceptions I have about this?

Femme 💋



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johnandaimeee

Hate it

I hate watching gangbangs on my wife.

Guys have no respect and just fuck her like a whore.

Of course she loves the attention and thinks that the guys are sweet.

If only she geard the way they talk about her afterwards.

One group who didnt know i was husband were calling her a dumb fucking slut, filthy whore, low life asian bitch and other things i dare not say. They all said she was filthy and comments about how they were happy not to be married to such a slut.

I find her fucking other people a real disgusting situation. Particularly since they have such little respect.

Maybe i am just too old, but i ask why would a woman do this? She thinks the guys love her and are there for her. But i suppose you all are going to say that im strange
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countrytouch   Man 35yrs

...

https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Calling-all-Studs-It39s-Gangbang-time-52608

There a quite a few forums on the subject. The above is just one example.

I have been to many, most are run by experienced organisers/parties/events and/or couples who repeat that type of play, and have known preferences for who they will invite (or a purely private invite list). It is hard to organise a one-off and get the right people, and to get them to show. In my experiences, the biggest problems are no-shows despite the men's apparent initial willingness. I've seen very little in the way of excessive "down talk" etc unless it's been in the situation where the female has expressed/requested that a certain level of "talking down" actually turns her on.

Sometimes the lady has been submissive, other times they are simply spoilt (particularly for one recurring event run by a woman for the benefit of women - normally starting with a group massage etc). Often they occur spontaneously at single male friendly events, as the women/couples know (and they advertise as such) that this is the type of opportunity that is catered for.

If you were in Vic you would actually be "spoilt" for choice, with the option of going to an event specifically with the participants and activities you are looking for; I can't say about other states but anecdotally they are hit and miss. There are a lot of opportunities, but the organisation of them is often located across different websites, so it can require a lot of time in networking.

Yes it can be sensual as opposed to debauched, although I would say it's hard not to appear debauched in a DP/DV/TP/bukkake situation etc, despite how much the women may like certain activities! Certainly the smaller number, the better to start with, and the greater individual interaction, and the ability to be generically social also. In many cases, the group/party/event has social time before and/or after.



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Meander   Woman 44yrs

Not even gonna dignify by quoting




Quoting 'johnandaimeee'




*Hands John a hankie for the faux tears.*
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Gang Bang's and MMMf

I've been involved in a few, some as before mentioned aren't great, aren't sensual or anything more than one step up from masturbating.

But, I've seen my then partner be totally adored my about 7 guys. I loved watching it, she was lost. It was great, they were really good guys, we found them on another site, they were highly recommend and deserved everything they got, they took care of everything. This is worth looking into.

I've also been to ones where it's more husband, with three our for guys and his wife. This was amazing, two days of solid sex.

Unfortunately, I've also been to ones where it's a line up. This isn't great.

Search for your guys, I have a mate I play with occasionally, we have a few friends. It's fun. Choose your guys and you'll feel empowered.

J

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Meander   Woman 44yrs

OP,

In my professional life where I'm often in a position of power I usually need to be in control, and very aware of what I say and do. My job is also all about giving attention and receiving little myself.

So on weekends I sometimes seek out situations that are the absolute opposite. A gang bang would certainly qualify as that!

Thoughts?
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boobs_or_bust  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 42yrs

Very interesting topic

Let's hope the comments are helpful and positive for others to follow ,rather than tune out, due to undignified comments

Mr b

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Lovinit28andKC72   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 48yrs

I watched a gangbang once

It was amazing to watch, her husband was there with her, she enjoyed herself very much and I enjoyed watching it. I didn't see any disrespect from the men that were there that day, maybe about 20 all up, they were all very attentive to her and her needs.

Yes I have also participated in a very small one, only did it the once, (more of a bucket list kinda thing) yes I enjoyed it, yes I was nervous, I had a friend there to hold my hand he did a very good job, (I would recommend to take a friend to hold your hand and keep you safe). I wouldn't do it again, because my wants and needs have somewhat changed thoughtout my journey and its not something I need to do again. 💋
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LaFemmeFontaine   Woman 40yrs

Apologies

Once again for the typos.

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LaFemmeFontaine   Woman 40yrs

Outback6pack



Thank you for your candor. I do prefer the idea of a mmmf than 20 or so guys. I think that is a little too adventurous for me just yet. 💋
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hussarddumort  

Man 37yrs

Participated and spectated

I've been in a couple of MMF, FFM group situations, watched a few gangbangs and been in one myself.
It's a lot of fun and takes a certain kind of mindset. You have to be committed to it.

The dirty and debauched image of them makes them attractive and naughty, but they're really just about having fun. I'd hate it if the lady involved wasn't into it or was having a rough time, the point is for everybody to get their enjoyment.
The one I was in was organised my a friend of mine with a woman he knew, Her fantasy was to be in a gangbang and his was to film it. There were 4 guys and one girl. We all just switched around positions and took turns at everything. We were nervous to begin with but we soon warmed up to the action and performing for the cameras actually made it easier.

Everyone was smiling the whole time, especially the lady. It was an enjoyable experience.
But I would tend to think that 3 guys and one girl is a slightly better ratio.
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FlyGirlC   Woman 36yrs

Touché

@CountryTouch

Your experiences were very well articulated. It's how I imagined gangbangs to be like when I suddenly got asked by a friend on the weekend at a party - a couple who I trust.



@johnandaimee

That's a real shame that's happened :( it sounds like a miscommunication or non-communication of rules beforehand? Sorry, I could be wrong...I honestly don't like that sort of dirty talk myself and I would've told them to STFU or GTFO hahaha Couples/women should always have the upper hand here. I'd hope that you could open your mind again to a properly organised, no BS gangbang but if it's not your thing, then that's ok too. Thanks for sharing what could go wrong... I think that's equally important in a discussion.
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SassyChic108   Woman 37yrs

I thought about it for experience

But I'm not a submissive person I don't think I could take 20 that would be way too much. May be 10 the most lol but they have to be someone that I have known I just don't have the time previously have been asked few times from different groups just the thought of so many guys u don't know it's like insane. Plus I'm too picky 😝

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oralcpl

Johnandamie

So if thats how you feel why would you let her do what she does?
Personally i think a woman being ganged banged is disgusting ;Maybe im just abit old fashioned.

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jayme2   Man 54yrs

La Femme

Very well articulated. The one sentence that stood out to me was ...



I don't like the idea of being the submissive in a group situation- rather perfer the notion of being throughly spoilt.



I agree , providing your pussy for pleasure should be a two way street. Being spoilt should be the only way. There's no way I could just stick my dick in just because I could. I still need to have interaction . It's about mutual pleasure isn't it ?



Personally , ive never been involved in a gangbang even though I've had the opportunity , specially in my footballing days where girls making themself available was quite common.



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cat_n_the_hatter   Couple Man 51yrs Woman 45yrs

Not for me

Humans are strange creatures and they behave differently when in packs than when they are alone. What some women think they are getting is not always what men think they are giving.
(Ms)


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All

John shared his experience, leave him be and share yours. 😇
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oralcpl

Poor John

Not a very happy guy by the sounds of it.

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johnandaimeee

Just dont get it

Yes it is true i do not believe in swinging.

I have only had a few partners and infrequent sex.

On average probably 2 times per year for my adult life.

I dont see sex as important

But my wife does. Such is life.

What i have learnt from this, however, is the lack of humanity that exists in the scene. Especially the disrespect shown towards women.

To me sex is about love and respect, but that is just me.

What i find amazing is how defensive some on here get. Im not passing judgement just a perspective.

What you do is up to you and you can answer to your God when your time comes.

I am condemned by my involvement and know that i will need to pay for my sins.

In reply, i have attended these events to try and salvage a marriage. Maybe that is wrong. Maybe i should have walked but i stayed.

I read about women who swing for their husbands and my heart bleeds for them. No woman should have to do that. At least i am a man and as such must do what i can for my wife no matter how distasteful i may find it.

I have observed that some women are just as degrading of guys who " dont meet expectations". I was at one party (as an observer) and listened to a wife discuss "her pathetic small cocked husband" when he was having sex in another room. I could not understand how people could be so hurtful to their partner. Later he approached my wife with an opening line " so how about you come over here and suck my cock".

So in short, yes i find swinging disturbing. I find people see others as meat not as a person. And yes, it has deminished my interest in any type of sex.

I M not judging, just demonstrating that people are more than cock tit ares and pussy. They have a soul. Aspirations. People who love them and who rely upon them. All i ask is to show some common respect because the real pain lives with their loved ones who cant do anything except be dragged along for the ride and live in a world where they cant talk about their heart ache or find peace.

No doubt i will recieve further complaint. She who persecutes me shall say further hateful things. And i will be a lone voice in the wilderness.

If it is a consultation to you, our membership is almost up and wont be renewed.

At least that is something we agree with. That RHP is a BS site and that it is not worth the annual subscription.
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hornybitchplus  

Couple Man 46yrs Woman 46yrs

Gangbangs

Love it want it more

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CandyDelicious   Woman 31yrs

Agree with that50zguy

John I'm sorry that happened. I would definitely be bitter and/or scarred if that happened to me. Shame some posters have zero empathy. I have watched a few gangbangs and generally they are not like that. Although there are certainly men that just stick their dick in as some have said. Not everyone has respect for women's sexuality which is a real shame.

Jayme, are we really offering up our "pussies" for men's pleasure !?!

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