Blow Jobs 101

November 26 2017

What makes a good blow job? Discuss and describe the best one/s you ever had?

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

Page 1 of 2 Prev12

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    6 years ago

    This is only going to turn into a sales pitch of woman after woman advertising herself by outlining in detail her willingness to give oral for hours and how it's her favourite thing ever and how good she is at it...... and how she expects nothing in return

    😜

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Please no teeth!!!

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    6 years ago

    eye contact as they sink it all the way down occasionally. and yup no teeth

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Booyum Booyum 45😈

  • Livingandloving2

    Livingandloving2

    6 years ago

    Is to properly be able to deep throat Mr LAL. I've got different sized dildos all ready to start learning on. Can I get feedback for you from Mr LAL some time next year? 😂
    Mrs LAL

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It's a thread for educational purposes lol. We would all like tips on what men like and I know everyone is different.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    The mouth has to simulate a vag or an ahole. The right amount of lip pressure. And yep, neither of those things have teeth. They don't have tongues either so that's just an extra to the equation to help

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ice cubes in the mouth giving it that hold and cold sensation. Taking pride in your work also goes a long way to it being mind blowing for him lol Which is what we all strive for isn't it?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ever had was in Belmont WA. By an old guy.



    It was at the old school barber. You know the kind that has the horse racing on. And he gives you a few tips.



    The best head job was with a sharp cut throat. He shaved my head. Wow it felt orgasmical!! I FELL ASLEEP afta.



    After he splashed some bay rum on it. Best head job eva. I got a real sweet chrome dome!🙊 I put my baseball cap on paid him 20 bucks and left.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Giving is as individual as the person giving and receiving. What might be hot for one guy may not necessarily work for another. Some guys I know would be happy just to get one let alone worry about the technique.As you get to know someone intimately then you know what they like.Like everything else with sex there is no hard and fast rules.Definitely no teeth though.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    EarthQueen posed this question to the guys more so I think.I am curious too and want to get some hints on what you guys like.I have been asked if I actually like giving or whether I was just saying that I do to get laid.Seriously I love it. Practice makes perfect.Ladies also if there is anything your guy loves please elaborate.

  • The_Phoenix

    The_Phoenix

    6 years ago

    Always helps😝

    The slow reveal and tease. Gently licking and sucking on my purple knob. Sensual full length slides. Those warm eyes loooking up at you with my hand behind your head pushing ever deeper and more forceful.

    Whoa, I better stop here😉

    Graceful1 - yep Ice cubes 😍

    Or, just a naughty face fucking slip fest with all the nasty sounds to boot. Brrrrr.

    And please no teeth, a very gentle touch is ok but those fuckers are sharp!!!

    Definitely no stop watch. We learnt all about that yesterday 😂

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I had a blowjob from a fifty-something and she used her teeth all most separated my knob from the shaft

    the next lady at the party gave me the sexiest head job

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Like many men it seems, I’ve never cum from one, so the best is yet to cum !

  • Katkat

    Katkat

    6 years ago

    5 mins def will cum toes curling & loud screaming haha no fail!

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    1. Is as Midnightblue says, for educational and research purposes. CuriousQuoting 'midnightblue71'
    EarthQueen posed this question to the guys more so I think.I am curious too and want to get some hints on what you guys like.I have been asked if I actually like giving or whether I was just saying that I do to get laid.Seriously I love it. Practice makes perfect.Ladies also if there is anything your guy loves please elaborate.
    2. I was talking to this guy at a party and he said didn't like them. I don't hear that often so I wondered if it was common, or was it technique or he just wasn't into them?
    3. I'm housebound and bored ATM so entertain me, pretty please.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Livingandloving2'
    Is to properly be able to deep throat Mr LAL. I've got different sized dildos all ready to start learning on. Can I get feedback for you from Mr LAL some time next year? 😂

    Mrs LAL

    - Posted from rhpmobile
    It's good to have goals

  • try1ngit

    try1ngit

    6 years ago

    No such thing as a bad blow job. Just different ways of doing it. Love having my balls sucked and licked and the area around the base of the shaft, also just tongue flicks on the tip.Every lady has a slightly different technique just as most guys have varying levels of 'cum' time. When I was much, much younger all the girl had to do was put it in her mouth and it was 'all over rover', now I can last much longer and enjoy it more.Mrs try it, can make me last for what seems like forever, by swapping methods, drives me insane,

  • The_Phoenix

    The_Phoenix

    6 years ago

    A guy who knocks back a BJ!! Now I’ve heard everything 🤦‍♂️

    Oh, Earthqueen, for research purposes a banana is rather phallic shaped, well, in my case any way 😂😂😂

    BB

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'EarthQueen'
    2. I was talking to this guy at a party and he said didn't like them. I don't hear that often so I wondered if it was common, or was it technique or he just wasn't into them?

    I was with told me before we hooked up that he wasn't really into receiving oral. I went ahead and did my thing anyway to see how it would go, and well, let's just say that his opinion about receiving did a 180
    Before anyone accuses me of self-advertising () it became apparent during discussions that the women he had been with previously weren't very adventurous or enthusiastic at all when it came to giving oral. He had never even cum in a woman's mouth. So, enthusiasm - actually being really into what you're doing down there - and being adventurous can make all the difference IMO. Bobbing your head up and down on his cock a few times isn't exactly going to light anyone's fire...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    could tell you but then I'd have to kill you 😁

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    tbh there have only been a few who were amazing, quite a few crap, my keeper will be a master of the craft, nothing less will do 😉

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon'Bobbing your head up and down on his cock a few times isn't exactly going to light anyone's fire...
    Agreed. I think this is the main point. If the object of the game is an actual blow job (ie to make the man blow/cum, with or without deliberate edging or delay tactics), then anything else is just oral teasing to make the man hard, in preperation for intercourse. Not that oral tease is a bad thing at all. Having said that, I have known of/seen men that cum from very little oral stimulation. In that case, the above few strokes would work for him, but of course, if the man has the problem of being too fast, then as I mentioned, the aim then is more to tease and edge, by using a variety of techniques.

    Some women will be good at the art of tease, but may not go further. But there is little sexier than a woman who actually wants a man to cum for her that way, and is trying to, and/or wants to learn exactly what the man needs to get him there. One woman has done that for me on a couple of occasions, and as it happened as an ending after all other play including intercourse (so a lot of edging time also taken care of) :)

    Some things may prevent a woman from doing so, at least enthusiastically. If she doesn't like cum in her mouth, then she has to get him very close, at which point either change to focusing on the underside while he cums (elsewhere on him or her), and/or involving a hand or two. If the man knows she doesn't like cum in some scenarios, that may also affect his enthusiasm for such ending.

    The other limiting factor may be what I may call for this exercise the "pornstar" factor. Oral sex resulting in the man orgasming is a mainstay of porn. While oral tease can certainly be done in a loving, romantic or affectionate way even, making the man cum (especially for a man that needs more time and effort) requires a lot of enthusiasm and very deliberate technique, as well as some duration. This might be regarded as "pornstar"- like strokes, lips and tongue work, almost an oral worship of the male organ, that might deter someone from the task who is not naturally that way inclined. But I will say, when it happens, it is the stuff of fantasy (in the context of remembering it later). ;)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I would like to boast like sassychic108 that 5 mins to make a guy cum no fail.Maybe I am doing OK on my own if I can make a guy cum who normally doesn't giving head. Not every time or with every guy but some.Love practising and if I achieve that I am pretty happy with myself Just like not every guy has their licking technique spot on either.Some women don't like giving at all or like guys going down on them which is OK each to their own and for whatever reason.I used to hate it with my ex because it was expected and hardly ever reciprocated. Love it now because I want to do it not because I have to.

  • smo669

    smo669

    6 years ago

    Swallowing always helps! It always feels good pumping a load into a wet willing mouth

  • smo669

    smo669

    6 years ago

    ‘Love practising and if I achieve that I am pretty happy with myself’

    Midnight blue come practice with me😜

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    6 years ago

    i love getting a head job no doubt about it ,but 5 to 10 minutes tops and i'm done ,never have orgasmed from just a head job alone but if in combo with a hand the chances go up

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Oral worship, cock worship and yes worshiping/fantasising about the whole process, like LD said, I also had one who had never cum from oral. He did with me.

    The key things are as you say

    1. Worship/want to be there, gag for it, anticipate to the point where it restricts your breath even thinking about it. I'm getting tight in the abdomen and chest now while typing this. That's what it does to me, which in turn is a huge turn on for them. Add porn intensity after worship time and 🐳🐳🐳

    Also fuck women who don't like cum in their mouths or on their face jeez find a woman who does and go for it. You shouldn't have to hold back/change position/think (at all let alone about her needs), or feel guilty about being pleasured. Most men aren't used to any of that and it blows their mind, as well as further south lol 😉

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I was just saying its not gnoring at a cock or gratting teeth down the shaft.unless u like teeth of course .
    When u eat a icypile do u suck it using teeth ?noooo u would get painfull teeth.
    U make love to his member
    Ask if he likes what yr doing
    Men be honest and tell her what to do .say it erotic so u arent insulting her dont rush it foreplay is the best part
    Dont rush just take yr time and explore
    Men make sure yr not shoving it in her face and expecting her to have it shoved in and out at speeds she cant get a grip if u want no teeth
    Remember porn movies are actors what u see in movies arent the normal thing
    Specially if she isnt good at it
    Girls go get a banana practice on it haha
    Tongue and lips all u use plus yr suction and back of throat
    Hum while its there
    Spit on it men are visual then let the spit go from yr lips or tongue to cock
    Men like to see u gag on it and hear it makes them feel like there average cock is sooo big and awesome
    Arggggg
    Have fun with it.put ice in yr mouth while suking
    Or swollow a mouthful hot drink then suk
    Suk rasberries give it a good rasberry while suking it differant sensations and i dont mean food i mean a rasberry using yr lips
    Or a mintie menthol chew it in mouth suck then blow cool breath on it then suk again
    Tease it
    Make him get close then stop do it over and over
    Use yr imagination ask him if he liked it if not ask him for ideas
    Take yr time and both b open and sugestive




    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Just remember there is a head job and a blowjob they are very different from each other head job is just sucking the cock and pulling out before cuming the guy cums somewhere else other than in your mouth.
    a blowjob is leaving it in while cuming and she either swallows or Spits these are the difference for those poor women that didn't know they had a choice now you know

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Just remember men not all cum is tasty some tastes absolutely horrible this may put women off from giving blowjobs there are some foods you should never eat if you're going to want a woman to swallow
    asparagus is one of the worst things to eat prior to a blowjob
    there are other foods as well dehydration also can make cum unfriendly on the palette it is the same for a woman if she eats a lot of seafood the night of her date it's what you eat is what you taste like that includes drinking and smoking so it's not that u haven't met a woman that likes doing it it maybe because your cum does not taste nice


    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Out camping....tired as fuck, it’s been a long day fishing. We collapsed into bed our naked bodies gently kissing each other after a dip in the river....

    That’s when it happened....

    I pumped, she pumped I pumped some more, sweat starting to bead on our skin....

    And finally!!!!

    The air bed was ready to use!!!

    Best ever night sleep 😊😊

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tylannister

    tylannister

    6 years ago

    Depending on how I'm feeling I definitely enjoy some teeth to add to the friction...

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon'





    Quoting 'EarthQueen'
    2. I was talking to this guy at a party and he said didn't like them. I don't hear that often so I wondered if it was common, or was it technique or he just wasn't into them?

    I was with told me before we hooked up that he wasn't really into receiving oral. I went ahead and did my thing anyway to see how it would go, and well, let's just say that his opinion about receiving did a 180
    Before anyone accuses me of self-advertising () it became apparent during discussions that the women he had been with previously weren't very adventurous or enthusiastic at all when it came to giving oral. He had never even cum in a woman's mouth. So, enthusiasm - actually being really into what you're doing down there - and being adventurous can make all the difference IMO. Bobbing your head up and down on his cock a few times isn't exactly going to light anyone's fire...
    I do have to admit when he said it I immediately thought "Challenge Accepted."
    But it wasn't that type of party.
    But it would be hard to date a guy who wasn't into it... unless I could convince him otherwise? ;-)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The best - a professional trombone player. This woman had been playing trombone for years and was at the professional level. She had muscles in her mouth that were so fucking strong. I have always asked to have my cock sucked hard in a head job, and this woman could suck. Its not just about the back and forth, in an out motion, its the pressure that can be applied through the mouth. When you get all of the above, you are not going to last long, I know I didn't. I miss her

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There have been plenty of people here say no teeth, well maybe there is something wrong with me, but I like a bit of teeth action. Its hard to get a blowjob that takes you somewhere you haven't been before. The mixture of pain and pleasure is something that I love. Just file off the rough edges as i am not chasing cuts and grazes.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    One that stands out most was a all rounder.. This lady took control from the start , pushed me backward onto the bed, undid then pulled my shorts off and proceeded to tease my hardness .. She didn't hurry and treated my cock like it was the best thing ever... Cock worship as someone already mentioned .. Her technique was unreal, more than a bobbing head, and her sucking motion held me in suspense. I don't know how long she was down there , but I could see that when she was satisfied she had me as big as she could , she jumped up and impaled herself.. That of course lead to some great sex leaving us both quite exhausted ... I still get rumblings whenever I think of her.. A true BJ specialist if there ever was one...

  • AKAHunk

    AKAHunk

    6 years ago

    There are so many ways to go down on a guy, and they're all fun unless there's teeth involved!! If the goal is to make me orgasm, slow and steady wins the race, plenty of saliva always helps, a hand stroking the shaft in synch with the lips is fantastic also. If it's just a prelude to sex then running the tongue all over the shaft and/or balls is sexy AF and feels amazing, especially if there's eye contact at the same time. Deepthroating, gagging and choking on it is hot and naughty, but won't get me over the line (usually!). Swallowing is sexy, facials to finish are sexier ;-)
    The greatest blowjobs are from women who you can tell actually enjoy the act, or at least enjoy the response they get from the act. Phoning it in just because you feel have to do it has made me lose my erection completely, which you would think is basically impossible while receiving right?
    For those that haven't come from oral, I'm sure it's just not finding the right partner...or the right partner not having the right technique for you.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    A gay friend told me that makes for a fun, if messier than normal blowjob. I've still not tried it but thought I'd share the tip.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    As in the chips or the hand movement? 😂
    So much to learn!

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Man goes to doctor telling him his penis is orange. Doctor examines him, and agrees, it certainly has a strange orange/yellow colour. The doctor is puzzled. He asks the man: "What is your sex life like?". The man says, "I'm single, I have none". The doctor asks "how do you spend your evenings?". The man replies: "I watch porn and eat twisties, why?".

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I was in a ltr for 25 years and never received a pleasurable blow job in that whole time as I could tell she didn't enjoy doing it. It was more out of a perceived obligation I think.

    I met someone after who loved doing it. She tried various things and I let her know what felt good to me and she stuck with that. I even shed a tear when she finished as I had never experienced someone so selflessly giving me pleasure like that.

    So my advice is make sure he can tell that you really want to do it and get him to let you know what is working for him. Everyone is different.

  • happy0450

    happy0450

    6 years ago

    Good post OP,



    Is there a common thread in the responses... that is a desire to make your lover, and in this case, his pleasure, the focus. From that comes the passion and enthusiasm that Graceful, L&L2, Meander, Midnight, Sassy, Luck D & SS have all touched on as being important.



    It also creates the motivation to look for your lover’s reaction, observing or asking what really turns them on. As is often described in topics of this nature, there is no one formula, however a strong and hopefully mutual desire between two people to please and be pleased is perhaps the overarching key to great oral sex or great sex of any type.



    This has been my journey after being indifferent about receiving oral sex during marriage. With respect to receiving, I have several gorgeous friends that for the time they are giving oral sex do it with a great deal of sensual passion. For me its not about deep throating or continual sucking, but more a mixing of stroking, licking, kissing and sucking.



    In summary, it’s no different than a woman receiving oral sex from a guy, you want to feel he is loving the giving experience, ever conscious of what is work for you, and open to feed back.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Spitting on your cock and very loud gagging. Anyone?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Happy0450
    So very well said and I couldn't agree with you more. Also, the amount of pleasure given will often depend on the person you are with, your feelings for and towards them and your desire to please and pleasure them.
    Passion + Sensuality + Desire to please = Maximum pleasure (In theory)













    In summary, it’s no different than a woman receiving oral sex from a guy, you want to feel he is loving the giving experience, ever conscious of what is work for you, and open to feed back.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I am not living in a porno.I do not want some guy ramming his cock down my throat. Turn off for me.Deep throating I have heard can be learnt by practising turning off the gag reflex. Haven't tried it, I gag on a hair so don't know how I'd go with a cock lolIf a guy wanted me to spit on it maybe but not really something I have tried or would do in general.No judgement what so ever from me if anyone likes this or it turns them on.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Apologies everyone for the bizarre format of my last comment.. I have not idea how that happened! lol

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'CandyDelicious'
    Spitting on your cock and very loud gagging. Anyone?






    by all means, go ahead with it

    ...you mean as part of oral sex, right? Not as a reaction to a rapidly opened trench coat?

  • AKAHunk

    AKAHunk

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'CandyDelicious'
    Spitting on your cock and very loud gagging. Anyone?


    I enjoy it sometimes for a bit of mental/visual/aural stimulation more than physical...it doesn't necessarily feel better, but it's quite dirty and sexy, and you definitely know your partner is right into it if she's doing that for you, which is the ultimate turn on!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    and having a cock thrusted deep into my throat mmm

    But spitting no. Hate spitting, can't even stand watching it on porn. I do promote extra saliva in my mouth and bring that out to make it really sloppy and wet, never spit though. Would be a turn off if a guy spat on me too 😀

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thrusted? Scuse bad grammar

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander'
    More enthusiasm, fewer teeth.
    Teeth suck balls... oh wait!

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    6 years ago

    To answer your question Op
    Best I ever had was from a self professed BJ specialist.When I explained I have never cum from one she went "Challenge accepted"I gave her a shot at the title... she gave it a good go, I am sure it was a few hours.In the end I propped her up on all fours and gave her some good doggy, ripped off the condom and blew probably the biggest load of my life all over her back! (Wish I got a photo of that)
    But still... no one has made me cum from head.

    P.S. I hate teeth getting involved, it bloody hurts and ruins any sort of build up.Also I did see a photo shopped pussy with teeth once.. shudder

    I have a question, does giving head turn women on?

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    6 years ago

    For me a blowjob works when they are enthusiastic and really put the effort in. It's when they like doing and not just because I do. I've met some women who get off to it and that turns me on.
    The wetter and messier is amazing

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Can’t speak for all of us but yes for me. It’s the submissive act crossed with the powerful ability to make him so turned on The contrast.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    That was to answer your question I don’t know how to quote from mobile?

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    6 years ago

    Thanks for that.
    Seems it does for quite a few women from reading this thread.
    I have also read where women absolutely hate it.
    Personally I can take it or leave it.
    Feels nice and all... But hmm.
    I would feel better allowing a woman to do that if it gives her a kick.
    I guess for givers like myself it would be important.
    I wonder how many situations I might have stuffed up by not thinking this through!

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    It can be about attitude, and your attitude about liking and getting turned on when giving head means more than you ever know.. At least it did for me... Nothing better than knowing your lady is down ther getting off getting you off..

    This attitude turns a everyday blow job into a heavenly one ...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    2 Best lve ever had were years apart. 1st was a lovey girl who would deep throat until l came and never moved until id finished. Awesome swallower.
    and the other was literally last week, with a glass of hot water. Ill leave the rest to your own vivid imagination.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think using one hand near her lips going up and down with her mouth while the other massaging the balls. That's the best.

  • aldus1

    aldus1

    6 years ago

    One of the most enjoyable bj’s I was lucky enough to enjoy involved toothpaste, a wonderful experience from a very open minded lady. Sort of like killing 2 birds with one stone 😀😀😀😀

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 52ShadesOfGrey

    52ShadesOfGrey

    6 years ago

    I do enjoy a lady looking up into your eyes as you are about to cum. I am just a normal size but lucky enough (in some instances) to have quite a big load. Although I find it a little embarrassing on my behalf if a lady gags on my cum. I always express, there is a lot but most can't swallow it all.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Of enthusiasm and technique. If it's just a case of preparation for intercourse then I last for ages. If it's to make me cum then it helps to use hands and mouth. But another useful technique in use of the mouth that Ladies forget is verbal stimulation.
    If you want your man to blow, tell him. Stimulate his mind. In between using your mouth talk him into cumming by creating a fantasy you know he likes or how much you want him to blow in your mouth.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I dont mind them, but i dont cum easily so if anything its a distractioon to me doing what i love which is cunnalingus.
    That being said, enthusiasum is a major turn on, a regular visitor to these forum pages is very good at it.
    Eye contact, and make the reciever feel like you loooovvveee doing it, that you cant get enough cock in your mouth.
    Well thats what i do anyway lol

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I've only had a blow job from 3 different women. So can't say I've had a wide experience. All 3 are/were quite different at it. If I know we have a lot of time together, then the long edging tease is awesome, I can relax more without thinking "I need to cum", the build up getting close to cumming then stopping, then starting again.

    One thing I know from my limited experience is that circling around the head too much is waaaay too sensitive for me (and I'm circumcised too if that makes a difference?) and anything more than a few circles becomes not enjoyable. It can be a nice start to things to attention very quickly, just don't focus there. If you go too long there, I lose sensitivity everywhere else to the point when I cum it makes the orgasm less pleasurable.

    Variation is good, but for me, between varying it up, i like if the female keeps coming back the to the frenulum, that 1 inch ridge area on the underneath side just below the head. That area by far and above feels the best. As a good tease, it's great if that part gets licked back and forward a bit before the lady puts me into her mouth entirely.

    A hand stroking up following the mouth strokes with a slight twist feels great. As for the mouth technique, once you've sealed, positive pressure on the way down and sucking on the way up (providing resistance) is good. starting at a slow speed and building up is nice, fast down slow up.

    Once I'm cumming, the head gets super sensitive so is nicer a bit further down in the lady's mouth. If I'm slippery enough, sometimes switching to the hand for cumming can be really really nice too.

    All things I've said above are just what I know from my limited experience that I like. It's by no means the definitive playbook for me - I wonder how many different techniques there really are out there that would blow my mind.

    I'm a vegetarian, non-drinker and non-smoker - I've been told that I taste quite good, but whether it comes down to that or not I don't know. I even taste myself occasionally and think it tastes quite okay.

    I've always wanted to know what if feels like to start getting
    sucked from soft and feel myself grow hard inside a mouth, but so far
    there's always been to much indication of what's about to happen and i
    get 3/4 before it starts.

    I do know that just with any kind of sexual fun, the amount I'm currently turned on can play a part - If I'm really tired etc or I know the giver isn't really in the mood it's not as pleasurable. I'd hate that the lady feels like she's obligated to do it, I'd rather she didn't if she's not into it or not really wanting to try. I'm most turned on knowing the other person having a pleasurable time. I'm not into forcing it down a woman's throat, if she's giving, she's in control. Sometimes I like gently rocking my hips forward and back for slow, slight thrusts, but the last thing I want to do is hurt her. I'm not really into having the lady spit on it either, it's not really a turn on for me personally.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Dayum - that was a long post - sorry - I'll buy anyone a drink who actually read the whole thing and didn't fall asleep...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Dayum - that was a long post - sorry - I'll buy anyone a drink who actually read the whole thing and didn't fall asleep...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The best kind of bj for me is to have my nob played with nice and slow with a girls mouth and tung and lips and when my nob gets all sensitive then a nic long hard deep throat why playing with my balls and getting my cock all loobed up with spit and to top it all off why'll deep throating my cock she licks my balls and a little bit of facefucking now I think that's a bj to die for

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yea no teeth ! Very painful when you have a thick one

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    .?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Had never had a partner who took the time and It was all too time consuming for them and mostly about them. Sad really!!

    Mission set and accomplished just for his pleasure and because I like it!!
    Not always about me getting off but I did because he loved it.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thankyou so much for elaborating so fully on your experience.
    I will take what you mentioned on board. I was never really into HJ or BJ but now I do it because I want to and like giving the pleasure as well as receiving because it is not expected but something I want to do.
    Hoping you get the pleasure of many more
    MB

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    Your right ? realising it's not always all about you but also what you can do for your partner is a blessing..



    I'd guarantee there are many ppl here who think its only about what's in it for them ...



    I know , I've been there.. the day I started to think about what can I do instead of racing to my orgasm , was the day it changed. These days , I'm more patient and enjoy giving a lot more of what I should have been giving for years.. It's a matter of taking the time to find out what gets your partner off which might take more time , but it's worth it...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You owe me a drink. whole post and didn't fall asleep

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    i wish a guy would teach me how to lol

  • PlayNow77

    PlayNow77

    6 years ago

    Watch a Jenna Jamison porn video and you'll learn from the best, slow and deep while looking up into our eyes! 👌🔥

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    From experience in receiving and giving, wanting to do it badly must be the main priority as you'll have one of two outcomes;
    1.) amazing blowjob
    2.) because the giver is so keen they can try different techniques suggested by the receiver.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I like it when a girl takes her time..runs her tounge along my inner thigh..lightly tickels my balls with the tip of her tounge then takes them in her mouth. Then works her way back up running her tounge along the underside of my penis and takes just the head into her mouth rolling her soft tounge around and around..

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I would have to say mix it up.
    If your entire approach resembles flicking the head of a dashboard bobblehead from start to finish you may find the finish will take forever. Either that or your are going to get the tap on the shoulder.
    I like slow steady licking all over the balls, shaft and head to start.
    The flesh between the ass and the balls does it for me as well.
    I also love the surprise factor. The transition from slow licking to enveloping the entire cock down your throat will always earn a loud groan from a man.
    If you are not deepthroat capable it's not imperative. Just take what you can handle.

    Remember though that it's not meant to be a chore for you. We can tell when you aren't that into it and its a mood killer. Do what 'you' like as well and you might just surprise him!
    If you get tired or sore, stop with your mouth and use your hands or breasts until you are ready to proceed.
    Don't be afraid to be firm with your hands as well. You probably won't hurt us!
    He's a tough bastard and we've put him through plenty of abuse ourselves over the years!

    Most importantly, if he says "don't stop" you are on to something good and taking it away may result in a frustrating anti-climax.
    You know when you are fucking and you find just the right position at exactly the right pace and you feel as though there is a very real possibility that you might have to kill him if he was to use that exact moment to change things up?

    Yeah, same thing applies during a blowjob.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'notmyrealname'
    Dayum - that was a long post - sorry - I'll buy anyone a drink who actually read the whole thing and didn't fall asleep...






    No it was very informative. Thanks

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Its simple.If you know how to wear down a large lolly pop with your tongue and lips, do the same to a cock.You'll give great head just doing that alone.Its not a competition.
    Take the head of the cock as deep in the corner of your mouth when he comes so it doesn't coat your tongue, and just "swaller" it down the moment it shoots out don't let it fill your mouth, it can be harder to swallow down with a mouth full.
    Deep throating is easy, every time you swallow food it suppresses your gag reflect, otherwise you wouldn't be able to eat food.So the "trick" is swallow the cock and continue swallowing the whole time its in your throat and keep swallowing until it's out of your throat.So long as you are swallowing you wont gag. Your eyes will probably water a bit.Since you need to take it out of your throat to breath you can take a break from swallowing and do a few shorter strokes before going the full length again.
    You can get fancy but those are the basics.Ball skills are appreciated, cupping your hand behind the balls and slip your fore finger and thumb around the top of them a give them small gentle tugs while working the shaft with your mouth..That'll impress most guys.
    Have funAnd Happy New Penis

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ok way too many post to read all and lots are off topic..

    For me, the underneath at the base of the head... That's the spot to attack... So to speak..

    Eye contact, looking up while you do your thing.. It takes it to a whole new level.. It's hard to explain and I've had chicks who were shy and didn't want to look at me while they got busy.. But darn it's a huge turn on..

    I've never really had a chick who could take it all the way (not that I'm overly big in that department, but they just had bad gag)... But deep is good. The feeling of the throat around the head... Getting goosebumps just thinking about it..

    I've never had tongue ring/studs.. So can't comment...

    And her enjoying herself... She has to be having a good time or it just feels off..

    I love to play the 69 game... Where you assume the position and see who can put the other off there game first... It helps to lighten the mood in some instances and make it less stressed on doing a good job and focus more on having fun/enjoying yourself.



    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Enjoy it, thats the best advice i can give. If you dont love it then dont do it, not just because you can tell if someone doesnt love it but also because sex and everything to do with it is meant to be brilliant from start to finish. I have had the pleasure of stunning ladies devouring me and really the only thing that the best blow jobs had in common were that it was obvious that they wanted to be there tasting me.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It’s all about working the sensitive areas!

    Working the tip = the joining part at the top

    It’s super sensitive. Work your tongue around it flick it when coming up the shaft

    The shaft = the line from the base up to the tip
    You can feel it it’s like a thick vein. Apply pressure to this while wanking him if and working the tip!

    Occasional deep throat = occasionally taking all of him in to the back of your throat!

    Do all this with with a fast pace and you’ll have them cumming hard!

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Serendipity69

    Serendipity69

    6 years ago

    Whilst there are a million ways to give a blowjob, and different situations and partners are all varies, each with their plusses, for me, when somebody really enjoys taking a hard cock in their mouth, and pleasuring the other person, they is the key.Some call it control, some it is the aim of an orgasm, to each their own, but when the other person is doing it because they want to, and are into it themselves, deriving pleasure for the act, then that is what makes it hot for me.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Q. Discuss and describe the best one/s you ever had?

    A. At minimal info, it resulted in an orgasm :P

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Ready to write the novel now.I love how this thread keeps on giving.
    It's almost as good as blow jobs LOL

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    some time nice ad slow is better mix it up try diff things. diff guys like diff things. I luv lotts of tongue and dirty talk can help also.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    A graphic novel

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You said it hun. Love it!!!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That's it enjoy sucking a cock and if we see you enjoying it it becomes more intense

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    When a girl can deep throat, 69s it and swallows we’re talking marriage material. And no teeth

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    when teeth are used its the worst ! I was at a swingers club in Melb and met a couple. one thing led to another and we were in our own private room. The young lady began to suck me and she was grating me with her teeth ! ouch !Best BJ is a sloppy lots of spit BJ super slippery and lubed up is the way to go !

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    6 years ago

    Something I’ve come across recently is cut guys. What does one do differently? To increase pleasure.

    I love giving head, and giving blowjobs. Fire and ice is a technique I pull out from time to time. Alternating hot/cold drinks, apparently it’s amazing. One thing I like doing is getting my lips all the way down to his body (base) and licking from bottom to top that’s fun.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    6 years ago

    I've read a lot of people don't seem to like their partners teeth getting in the mix. I find a bit of a scrap or bite very nice. Blow jobs are nice, they feel nice but it takes a big effort to cum from them. I like them for foreplay and I like the naughty side of a quick tease maybe in a public place. Ultimately I love the power play of having my girl on her knees deep throating me, choking, gaging and looking up at me with tears in her eyes but offering more. MMMMMM or having her force a submissive boi's mouth over my cock and making him deep throat me. YUM!! :)
    KC72

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That's delicate equipment you're handling down there!

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    I'm no master but I've always been willing to experiment and learn.

    One technique is to put one hand, palm up, along the length of the shaft, using your fingers to hold back his foreskin. You then press your tongue flat and stimulate the area on top just past the head, allowing your tongue to run over the ridge of his head every now and then. This will slowly build the tension, sometimes even making him a bit soft at times, but when you intersperse this with enveloping this entire length of his cock with your mouth it serves to intensify the experience. You can also mix this up by instead of your tongue, using your other hand - palm down - to stimulate the same area. Anatomically, maybe this is the male equivalent to pressing with your tongue above the clitoral hood on women and stimulating that zone. I'm not sure. Try it 😊

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    She has to have a firm grip with both hands as she slides over the shaft with her mouth , make it feel like its inside her .Had a girl do this to me and OMG ...
    Definitely NO teeth

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I’ve only ever been with the one woman so I can’t offer much information. However I can honestly say that I have never been close to coming from oral sex. It feels nice, but not amazing. I’m not sure if it’s her technique or if they just aren’t for me.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This was a really interesting post, I didn't know guys liked eye contact so much :)

Page 1 of 2 Prev12