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Are you attracted to Asian Women?
July 07 2014
Are there men/women out there who only seek to meek women/men of certain race, (not necessarily just Asians)? What attracts you about them?
No judgment but I understand a preference. Nothing wrong with that. I have a Aussie girlfriend who only likes to go out with black or Mediterranean men. I have no idea why and she does not know why but it is just he case.
Just curious. Get the ball rolling...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have always found Asian women attractive- a lot of my good girlfriends growing up were Asian as well (we were the smart nerdy group :/) Also being fairly small myself I tend to be attracted to females who are about the same size as me :) nothing to do with a bucket list.. I've already ticked it off a few times.. Possibly I wasn't the sex you were expecting an answer from... Xxviolet
RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I think some people have fuckit lists that include certain "'races"...different in my opinion to a preference...bbws,cougars.milfs,...all terms I dislike btw, appear on their lists too....to have a particular race on your list appears to me,to be casual racism xQ
RHP User
10 years ago
My interest in asian girls is a relatively recent phenomenon and stems from an interest in rope bondage, a couple of sessions I've had have been with women of "smaller stature" and that seems to work really well. I'm also interested in the aesthetics of dark hair with red rope. There a bit of nostalgia too - my first serious girlfriend (by serious I mean we fucked like rabbits for days at a time) was Eurasian and after many years of blonde hair and blue eyes I'd like to see what it's like to be with an asian girl again.
RHP User
10 years ago
My two cents,a lovely looking woman is in the eye of the beholder,we all have different tastes. Asian women can be quite sensual to me ,but not a race thing,just appreciation of beauty xxx
Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Violetincredible' I have always found Asian women attractive- a lot of my good girlfriends growing up were Asian as well (we were the smart nerdy group :/) Also being fairly small myself I tend to be attracted to females who are about the same size as me :) nothing to do with a bucket list.. I've already ticked it off a few times.. Possibly I wasn't the sex you were expecting an answer from... Xxviolet I appreciate your input. as I said, regardless of sexual preference, feel free to contribute. Thank you so much for the viewpoint.x
RHP User
10 years ago
For us I think it is more about build and size…..we are both tall and not small….and like our sexual partners to be fairly tall also……
It would be much more convenient to us if we were!! We visit Thailand 3 times a year!
I find all races of women beautiful etc, and love thee culture and people….We both just never seem to get a boner ( lady boner or man boner) there ?RHP User
10 years ago
we both like asian woman because they usually are quite petite and slim - we both think thats very sexy - we also love the dark hair
we dont have bucket/fuckit lists and actually think the idea opf doing cartian things to cross them off a list is quite stupid but each to their own ;)
if there are any asian ladies in perth looking for fun with a couple send us a message ;)RHP User
10 years ago
Ive always had a thing for asian women..Not sure why , theyre just so damn sexy lol But in saying that , i find native women from africa to be pretty hot as well...Not talking about african american, i dont find them attractive at all ..But the real native looking africans with that tall slim build beautiful skin wow !! They look amazing ..
RHP User
10 years ago
We, S/E Asians, have flat noses, tiny slanty eyes, broad foreheads, and are bow-legged. Why would anyone love us? ;P
Anyhow, I was one of those who wanted boxes ticked off when I first joined this site. I wouldn't say that I leaned towards any race in particular. It was just an experimental phase of my life.
So, I was looking for men of different races and had met with 6 in my first few months of joining. Pity I couldn't find one with a real French accent :P
All that stopped after I met a particular guy who totally messed up my fantasy for a BBC. I will not elaborate here but I learnt not to make assumptions lol
But one of my fantasies is to have 'the world at my feet' - guys from different backgrounds all under the same roof, for my pleasure. Guess it'll stay a fantasy a little longer :)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' Yes I think some people have fuckit lists that include certain "'races"...different in my opinion to a preference...bbws,cougars.milfs,...all terms I dislike btw, appear on their lists too....to have a particular race on your list appears to me,to be casual racism xQ
To me preferences are fine, but if the old racial stereotypes are brought into it as 'reasons' that's when I find it distasteful and racist. For example, the men who say they prefer asian women because they are more docile and subservient to men than 'western' women are, which is an insult to both groups of women.RHP User
10 years ago
if any Caucasian women get into Asian men? It is quite evident that men like the Asian women, but I have never once heard of the men being attractive to Caucasian women.
RHP User
10 years ago
Personally, I adore women of all kinds of shapes, sizes, colours, and ethnic groups - must be a wannabe manwhore! Asian women, of all kinds, are included; I can't imagine ruling out any one group because of their genetic background. Beauty comes in many. many forms :-)
RHP User
10 years ago
My first boyfriend when I was sixteen was of Chinese descent and a medical student from Malayasia...my parents did not approve ...He was 21 and a lively young man....I have also' more recently had as lover who was also Chinese xQ
RHP User
10 years ago
Lovely young man I meant:-)
RHP User
10 years ago
Again , I love meeting anyone really…..However , sex on sites like this….this swinging thing……. for me is purely hedonistic and all about visual pleasure, and a add on to my life. personality and life goals etc play very little to my wanting you.
I LOVE BIG burly guys…..so asian men don't usually do it for me…however a Eurasian guy once blew my socks off :) He was 6'2 and hung like a donkey…...RHP User
10 years ago
I think its totally okay to have a preference on race ...... but with caveat that you also are with that person cause who they are as a person in addition to your preference. If you just there cause of that preference and personality has no bearing in the attraction (ie only attracted cause of the race) then I think that's crossing the line from preference to racist.
People are attracted to women for a variety of reasons on physical appearance from breast size to hair colour. Why should it be any different. I also don't see it being different for someone wanting BBC (ie the guise of black men being bigger) though happy for any afro americans to set the record straight if they have been objectified.RHP User
10 years ago
I am attracted to Asian woman, but I wouldn't call it a preference, I'm attracted to lots of different types of woman, from a variety of different races, my first girlfriend was from Sri Lanka and she was beautiful.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' Lovely young man I meant:-) Lively works, too :-)
RHP User
10 years ago
My late wife was Singaporean Chinese. She was the first Asian that I dated but I didn't date her because she was Asian, but because she was smart and sexy. My late wife certainly didn't fit the petite stereotype described above.
In our social circle at university, we had many friends who had Asian boyfriends or girlfriends. Her 2 male cousins both married Caucasian women as did one of her closest male friends.
I have heard of Caucasian men who seek out Asian women expecting subservient stereotypes. From experience, it seems to be driven by assumptions from lack of contact with Asian culture. It probably doesn't help that Chinese culture treats the status of women so poorly (for example being labelled a left over if you are not married by 28). If you live as an expat in Singapore and Hong Kong for while, you soon look past the exotic gloss and just see people for who they are without tags.RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' My first boyfriend when I was sixteen was of Chinese descent and a medical student from Malayasia...my parents did not approve ...He was 21 and a lively young man....I have also' more recently had as lover who was also Chinese xQ would you call the attraction a preference though? Would you seek out Asian men over others?
Newday10
10 years ago
I find Asian woman attractive and sexy , there's so much mystic . There known for honesty and loyalty and make excellent partners ..
RHP User
10 years ago
I don't seek any potential friend's, playmates on creed, colour or race I obviously look for certain things in profiles and not always sexual, then if things move on it's chat time eg phone call that's the defining moment, personality - which doesn't come from colour, race or creed, just my opinion of course as always
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
I have no preference as long as I find the person attractive... XQ
rupamohan
10 years ago
we don't like or dislike any race including own race. It is more of a person but yes we have enjoyed bit more with Asian girls.Not sure why may be similar culture? may be it is just a perception that they might be less demanding...or just as a variety...or the smaller size gives a feeling of being with some one young?
We have played with few kind of Asian girls from mail order brides to dominating and uni educated to Aussie born. Though have found Korean girls more comfortable compared to Chinese. Also have found Taiwanese students on working holiday visa very hot and keen to try out .
tamworthguy46
10 years ago
I suppose I am attracted to woman of all different nationalities, I have never really singled any one out as a favourite, my current lover has very strong islander genes, and she is awesome !
RHP User
10 years ago
Like Tam,my last lover was Samoan xQ
Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' We, S/E Asians, have flat noses, tiny slanty eyes, broad foreheads, and are bow-legged. Why would anyone love us? ;P
Anyhow, I was one of those who wanted boxes ticked off when I first joined this site. I wouldn't say that I leaned towards any race in particular. It was just an experimental phase of my life.
So, I was looking for men of different races and had met with 6 in my first few months of joining. Pity I couldn't find one with a real French accent :P
All that stopped after I met a particular guy who totally messed up my fantasy for a BBC. I will not elaborate here but I learnt not to make assumptions lol
But one of my fantasies is to have 'the world at my feet' - guys from different backgrounds all under the same roof, for my pleasure. Guess it'll stay a fantasy a little longer :)
- Posted from rhpmobile I forgot to include this addendum on my OP....
"Tulips, behave when you post."
Lol,.RHP User
10 years ago
NO
RHP User
10 years ago
I've crossed the "racial" part off thanks to a very lovely lady from Brisbane.
I've always found Asian women to possess some really sexy bone structure, eye shape, and such witty personalities.
They also just seem to know how make a guy feel sexy too.
If that helps.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
200 nationalities recognised by the UN. I got some work to do. NEXT.
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' I have no preference as long as I find the person attractive... XQ
Totally agree with this comment ...Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' 200 nationalities recognised by the UN. I got some work to do. NEXT. On ya bike then!!! 199 to go!!!
RHP User
10 years ago
Not looking for any particular bread of women just a good woman, that would be nice to hang out with, hold hands, cuddle, kiss and wake up next to in the morning.
RHP User
10 years ago
I acquired one of these when I was living in Asia so yes, I do have a weak spot for sexy Asian men (and among my Caucasian girlfriends, this is rare!).
Variety is the spice of life after all :)RHP User
10 years ago
Since my first year of uni (cough*. Abt 20 yrs ago) I've been attracted to asian women. None of my friends were interested in asian women at the time. The majority of the people in the area I lived were asian as were the students. Since then I have had the pleasure of various asian partners from varying backgrounds. Recently I've learnt that I'm definitely more attracted to a woman with dark hair and eyes hence why asian women have had a predominant place in my life.
Interestingly enough many of my friends from back then now have a 'thing' for asian women. Glad I got in early ;)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
Don't matter what race anyone is :) there are hot sexy in all races :) In saying that I go weak for Irish girls (never laid with one but still love the way they sound)
Seachange
10 years ago
Thanks for the post. I'm sure that all your appreciation wouldn't be lost in any woman you are with. May you continue having fun with whomever confirmed you taste in women regardless of race..
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
I've always had this weakness for Asian girls as I've met quite a few over the years but I can't really describe exactly what it is. Definitely though it seems to include a femininity factor and I also tend to think they are in general more healthy and just more pleasant to talk too, perhaps most importantly I know Asian girls like me and again I can't understand why as I think I'm pretty average really. My best female friend is Asian and incredibly hot, certainly well above the average and the envy of many other women and we travel a bit on hols from time to time BUT...and this might be a bit hard to believe - we don't play because she doesn't want too ....partners etc moral issues blah blah. She does like looking at pics though.This isn't meant to be a dig at some Aussie 'chicks' though just an answer to the OPs question
Seachange
10 years ago
Thanks for sharing your viewpoints. I do not think it is a dig at Aussie women or any race at all. You are just articulating your attraction to Asian women. Just as Delicious Curves has articulated her non-attraction to them. All good discussion points.
We'll all keep it an intelligent objective discussion. Well done.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
when i see an attractive asian woman it makes me smile, a lot of fond memories.. i have lived in south east asia and found the ladies there very kind and none judgementalif was to be looking for a partner i would start there not because there asian,just find that asian people friendlier than most....
Seachange
10 years ago
Haha. I had a big laugh at that one. You seem mad, offended and shouting with your post. Lol. Use you speaking voice.... shhh...hushed tones. No need to shout even if we repel you so much... eewwww Asians!!! Lol. I promise to shower and tyoe with my rubber gloves on next time I post on the forum.
It is an straight forward question to satisfy my curiosity and not a threat to inject you with the AIDS virus. Lol
But thanks for the articulate response.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
I definitely have a thing for dark-haired European men. I'd be like a kid in a candy store if I went to Croatia (where my dad is from). My mum also had a thing for them...her first serious boyfriend was Italian and then she ended up marrying my dad (who was pretty hot when he was younger). She said she found the European men much more interesting than most Aussie guys. I can see how that would be and I know it's a generalisation but I just see them as more cultured and sophisticated than a lot of Australian men. Can't wait until I can travel overseas and sample some...
RHP User
10 years ago
My first girlfriend was of asian descendancy.I have a soft spot for for asian women, black silky hair, dark smouldering almond eyes, and that skin Mmmmmm.In fact I have a soft spot for anyone or anything dark and exotic.
Please dont call me racist for that :DRHP User
10 years ago
The super sexy Chow Yun Fat....Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon.....xQ
RHP User
10 years ago
When I was in Hong Kong, Chinese (mostly mainlanders) would come up to a friend of mine to touch her blonde hair. Just walk up, no asking for permission or even acknowledging her. They found the hair fascinating.
In both Hong Kong and Tokyo, I have seen strangers also come up to touch my daughter's face. She is Eurasian with Asian colouring but wide Caucasian eyes which the Japanese consider kawaii. It is very disconcerting and I have had to shoo them off.
It is the same principle - a fascination with the unfamiliar.RHP User
10 years ago
Tony Leong in The Lover, a film based on a semi autobiographical novel by French author Marguerite Duras...I love this film....also so many exquisite Asian actresses Michelle Yeoh,Bai Lin,Gong Li xQ
RHP User
10 years ago
Tibetan men,gorgeous and sexy,but most of the ones I met were monks:-) xQ
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' Like Tam,my last lover was Samoan xQ were everywhere LOL :) BTW lets hope it was good experience otherwise my comment as a bit premature huh LOL
Bubbaj
10 years ago
wishlist... but when it comes down to it, i dont even ask! :)
RHP User
10 years ago
Apologies for not behaving like a proper lady *shuffles feet* but I get a little distracted when there are hot guys around. You know how it is... But.....don't you wish you could be a part of my fantasy? ;)
And just for the record (to 'save face' of our Asian men), just like not all Black men are well-hung, not all Asian men are small where it counts. It's all just an urban myth :P
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
I am very much into Asian women. I find their super soft skin, brown nipples and brown pussy lips a real turn on.
RHP User
10 years ago
Travelling through Vietnam currently, then Singapore. My travelling companion is a Thai girl. When I survey the local scene, I'm not attracted to 99% of the female population, just like in Melbourne. But when I see someone I like, kapow, it's a visual delight. Same as in Melbourne. I haven't been to South America, but would like to, as I find dark skinned South American's/Latino's attractive. In fact I find any race attractive if the woman has that certainly attractive glint in the eye. The city where I found the greatest percentage of women that were attractive to me was Stockholm. The women were so damn sexy because of their stylish dressing and the way they confidently carried themselves. However, I had been away from my former wife for three weeks so I think my judgement might have been impaired. Silva xxx
RHP User
10 years ago
When I say Thai girl, I mean a lady who is a friend who is only a couple of years younger than me. Don't want anyone to get the wrong impression. And you may think I'm picky by saying 99 out of 100 I'm not attracted to, but test it out yourself, don't pre-filter for age, race or look. Silva xxx
RHP User
10 years ago
as a person who passionate travel allot learn about peoples food, culture and sexual "styles" I must say I do love how small and cute some asian little petite girls can be and have come across a few very very extrodnery ones :-) whats not to love, I like brunets generally speaking with darkish skin but saying that if a woman can flirt, dance, and keep my attention regardless of her race I would like to get to know her and maybe play if we into the same games..
I do like how they stay young and also how they have far less body hair hair than other brunets generally speaking, but im more a succer for south american, europian accents and some middle eastern..RHP User
10 years ago
Yes it was indeed...a very gorgeous man xQ
Seachange
10 years ago
When I went on holidays in Fiji with my ex, many moons ago, I couldn't believe how GOORRRR-GEEOUS these tall well built men are. I was in paradise... literally.
The men working in our hotel would also perform in the firedance almost naked, saved for the grass skirt and flexing those muscles and moving seductively. There is something very attractive about their gorgeous dark skin, strong bodies, broad shoulders, musical ability, great smiles and great sunny/relaxed demeanor... I almost ignored my husband (French Canadian) during the trip whenever a gorgeous Fijian man walked past.
Dwayne Johnson aka the Rock... Hubba hubba...It takes a lot of self-control on my part when I meet a gorgeous Polynesian.Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u'
Apologies for not behaving like a proper lady *shuffles feet* but I get a little distracted when there are hot guys around. You know how it is... But.....don't you wish you could be a part of my fantasy? ;)
And just for the record (to 'save face' of our Asian men), just like not all Black men are well-hung, not all Asian men are small where it counts. It's all just an urban myth :P
- Posted from rhpmobile Hahaha. Still luy ya, ya kinky bitch! As if I can stop you from doing what you want... Hahaha. You crack me up.Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'HardNFastWA' I am very much into Asian women. I find their super soft skin, brown nipples and brown pussy lips a real turn on. Ahem!!!
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' if any Caucasian women get into Asian men? It is quite evident that men like the Asian women, but I have never once heard of the men being attractive to Caucasian women. I was never attracted to an Asian man . Attracted otherwise to other races. I don,t know why
RHP User
10 years ago
Just cutting and pasting from Tulips4u
A face only a mother could love We, S/E Asians, have flat noses, tiny slanty eyes, broad foreheads, and are bow-legged. Why would anyone love us? ;P
So very judgemental Tulips you from your profile have a cute bum, great breasts etc. but I digress. I would say I have been attracted to asian women since P---y W--g smiled at me in 3rd class, I just melted, sure I've enjoyed my way allmost around the world on beautiful women (and yes All Women are beautiful). But for total adoration (from me) I seem to always come back to you ladies of the exotic east. Btw looks are only 1 leg of the chair, there is the serenity of presence, that asian way of presenting oneself to the world, the exquiste beauty of the nape of your neck, your smell and taste, yes your size can come into it and Lillyorchid your gr8 legs don't hurt the argument eitherRHP User
10 years ago
I was being sarcastic ;)
Lilyorchid, I was hoping you might want to spank me for not sticking to the rules hehe *muah*
- Posted from rhpmobileSeachange
10 years ago
Lol. You are a lost cause my dear petal. Hahaha.. No amount of spanking by me or anybody can save you from your inherent naughtiness. Lol. You are iincorrigible!
And I have a feeling this is something you might enjoy so will have to deprive you of your kink!!!! Stay hot dear norty gal. Xxx
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Lol. You are a lost cause my dear petal. Hahaha.. No amount of spanking by me or anybody can save you from your inherent naughtiness. Lol. You are iincorrigible!
And I have a feeling this is something you might enjoy so will have to deprive you of your kink!!!! Stay hot dear norty gal. Xxx
- Posted from rhpmobile Was hoping you would fall for that trick but you're just too clever for meRHP User
10 years ago
...but I was instantly smitten. Kung Fu was huge in the mid-seventies, there were 'Kung Fu' pyramas, 'Kung Fu' icecreams, 'Kung Fu' bubble gum with collector cards, Bruce Lee movies in the cinemas, "Kung Fu Fighting" on the radio and lots of comics ('Master of Kung Fu', 'Iron Fist', 'Yin and Yang' etc.) Anything to do with Kung Fu was promoted so, after Nancy's appearance on the series and her new popularity, the television broadcasters began showing her old movies so I saw quite a bit of her that year. She was stunning. So I've liked Asian beauties since puberty and I've always had a preference for brunettes of any nationality but I also like redheads, thanks to Ann Margaret, blondes, thanks to Bridgette Bardot, and black women, thanks to Diahann Carol (I spent a lot of time in front of the idiot box as a kid). Really, a woman's ancestry is unimportant to me. I just like attractive women.
RHP User
10 years ago
:P
Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'Let's not forget Kelly Hu.:P
Kelly Who?RHP User
10 years ago
Women were like Neapolitan ice cream! I'd like all 3 flavours!
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tedmcmin' Women were like Neapolitan ice cream! I'd like all 3 flavours!
- Posted from rhpmobile I'm a little nutty at timesRHP User
10 years ago
Doh !! err YES, YES and YES. I'm sure its a personal choice thing but basically yes.
RHP User
10 years ago
you seen "Real Newsreaders of Sydney"?
Lee Lin Chin is just too awesome for words!
Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
married to an Asian woman for 30 years - Burmese. When I was in my early years, Asian women did have a certain appeal, but it was not an exclusivity. Can't speak for the guys who have contacted you, so don't know if they just want to hook up with you just to "tick off" a box in their wishlist, but if I was closer to you I'd like to hook up because I think you are an attractive woman (who also shows a nice personality thru the forums), not just because of your background. But I have a an appreciation of women from virtually all backgrounds.
Tall
CuriousCoupleXOX
10 years ago
Going steady with one, lucky me!
RHP User
7 years ago
Hi LIly,
I can confirm that I am only interested in asian women. I was born in Australia and am a caucasian male.RHP User
7 years ago
Holy thread necromancy Batman!
RHP User
7 years ago
My vanilla FWB in London, Toronto and Miami didn't have Asian girlfriends before meeting me and although we may have dated if I wasn't leaving the country inevitably, they all found Asian monogamous girlfriends/wives after me. One had a great career, one had a shredded body and another fucked me and made me scream the apartment down... met 2 of them clubbing which is not usual for me either. Dunno about all the other FB I didn't keep in contact with.
So um... I'm picky and yes I'm quite proud to be Asian. Something I got teased for and hated for in a small town school but who didn't get teased... I got valedictorian so I thrived. Yay me.
Some guys look for Asians specifically and I don't really respond well to it, if at all. Some probably think I can't speak English. Then when I do fluently they get turned off hahaha.
- Posted from rhpmobileSeachange
7 years ago
Can relate to the last paragraph. 😄
Also love it when you stand quietly at a train platform or some shopping area and they speak loud and slow at you. Best bit when/if they finish it off with 'do you understand what I'm saying? ' this happened a few weeks ago as I was standing outside s a local fish and chip shop waiting for my son's order. oh gawd... Condescending much? 😡
But hey. We put up with these racist remarks. And before people jump me for it, yes it is racist. for us getting treated like this too many times to remember, it is offensive and demeaning to us. no excuses. We just put up with it most of the time and think 'ignorant person' and just walk away. it gets worst when they defend their attitude. Meh. save it. Why spend time with people who don't matter.
We're Asians. Not deaf. 😒RHP User
7 years ago
Hellllllllll yessssssss I adore Asian women there is this elegance a way about them an exoticness . The long black shiny hair of silk Damnnnnn don't even get me started lol
- Posted from rhpmobile
PurePeony
7 years ago
FlygirlC and Lilyorchid!
Too many times I've been approached by men, usually much much much older, trying to charm me by attempting to speak in Mandarin or smiling like a creepy Cheshire cat and trying to strike up a conversation by yes... speaking slooooooowlyyyyy. *rolls eyes. I think these men must have a misconception that Asian girls are "easy" because there are those from *certain countries* who would do anything to get an Aussie visa. I usually respond with a very disinterested, deadpan look, and deliberately put on an affected accent, "Excuse me?" That almost always throws them off guard and disarms them, rendering them shocked and rather speechless. They just got karate chopped by my body language!RHP User
7 years ago
Growing up, i only had a thing for Caucasian women - may have something to do with upbringing.As i have aged, i have found that i actually DON'T have a thing at allI love women of all races and sizes.I think as men mature we tend to look much deeper than whats on the surface.I have found the most captivating beauty wrapped up in a size 18 negligee, and have walked away from size 10 with DD.I do know though, of more than a few guys who find Asian women very attractive - and some of my mates have mentioned it has a lot to do with most being petite.
RHP User
7 years ago
HELLO!
- Posted from rhpmobileSeachange
7 years ago
Hilarious 😂!!! @ attempt speaking in mandarin (my case Thai or Indonesian) and @Karate chopped by your body language. 😁 👍
RHP User
7 years ago
I enjoy Asian ladies. Especially submissive ones. If any of you read this. Say hello. Mind you i love all submissive ladies. So dont be shy if in Sydney
- Posted from rhpmobile
boobsandbusted
7 years ago
Love the 2 Asian chicks from goggle box on tv ,they are hilarious , we love all races but Asians in general imo,have a very attractive light hearted playful nature that just makes you feel good on the inside ,
Mr b
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
For me I like woman of all races, shapes and sizes as long as she can stimulate my mind, don't or would never have a tick the boxes thing going on. As for Asian women I have a few things I love about them. Those I have met are thinkers and love to converse. The silkiness, darkness and sheen of their hair and the big one for me, the softest of skin (our largest sexual receptor) and my fav. as a touchy feely guy
RHP User
7 years ago
I love all women , but admittedly do have a penchant for Asian women for the following reasons ; Yes I do find their looks attractive , both figure wise and facially . They are in my experience not a ladette , not subservient either but actually carry themselves more gracefully , not loud mouthed boorish alcoholics . Sexually I have found them more responsive and adventurous . They haven't been as worried about age , as in our culture we denigrate anyone over forty . I appealed looks wise to these ladies , extremely clean cut and smooth faced and very white skin and blonde hair (perhaps exotic to them)Again , this has been my experience only and perhaps I have been lucky .
RHP User
7 years ago
While I don't have a thing for Asian ladies *specifically*, there are plenty of ladies who are deliciously attractive who happen to *be* Asian.
So: if you are an Asian lady, or of Asian descent (there is no easy language to use here is there!) and you are approached / hit on / chatted up / messaged by a Caucasian man, is your default assumption that he is approaching you *because* you are Asian, or simply because he finds you attractive?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
I have never been with one but I always find them very attractive. It isn't just Asian women though and I am not saying the attraction is purely sexual. Most of the Asian women I have met have been pretty shy and I find it cute.
RHP User
6 years ago
I’m going off-topic but I couldn’t resist.
I can relate to your unintentionally racist encounters. I’m Eurasian, ABC and have been called Banana all my life by my extended family.
People are interested in my mix but have trouble asking question. I won’t give up the answer until the right question is asked. I never take offence and like to make it a positive learning/teaching experience. Generally, it goes something like this
Where are you from? - Melbourne
Originally? - WA
...Where are your parents from? -Sydney
What’s their nationality? - Australian
......what’s your cultural heritage? 👍🏼
I’ve even done it myself a few times.
Onto the topic.
Asian women. I have had relationships with a few but do not actively seek/prefer them to women of other races. I can understand people who have a preference for Asians. I prefer voluptuous and red-haired women, but it’s only a preference. For most, I think mutual attraction will always trump preferences.
***for those not down with Azn lingo***
ABC = Australian Born Chinese
Banana = yellow on the outside, white on the inside. ie. fully integrated, too Western for overseas relatives to handle
- Posted from rhpmobileSeachange
6 years ago
To answer your question, I would say because he is attracted to me. But can never be sure until I ask him.
Went to a meet and greet recently. I met up with a gorgeous young guy i was chatting to for a while. we chatted and we then mingled around other people. Well I did. Lol. however, we had lots of stolen glances at each other across the room.
I was about to leave and he asked if he can walk me out to my car. We left together and he grabbed me and kissed me passionately. He told me he liked my profile, our conversation and when we met, he really liked what he saw. Definitely said I was hot and we are keen to meet up sometime after the crazy Xmas season. At any point in time, No mention of my Asian heritage nor stereotypes associated with it.
He's a classy good looking mature man as I see it. He just happens to have a Mediterranean heritage. That just adds to the charm. 😊 can't waitSeachange
6 years ago
Thanks for the comment. 👍
Banana 🍌 made me laugh 😁. Haven't heard the ABC for a while. Funny thatSeachange
6 years ago
Go for it in a non sleazy way else you may scare the more timid ones. 😄
In general, most Asian women would prefer respectful and non pushy men. Those raised overseas are used to the more pleasant and gentle behaviour. Just a cultural thing. Manners are important.
It doesn't mean they are subservient in the bedroom. you may be surprised on those Asian wildcats in the bedroom 😉RHP User
6 years ago
Ever since I was young I loved them.
Couldn’t pull a root with Asians in the clubs so I enjoyed going to the brothel and unloading in a couple of willing Asian participants.
Their culture is created to support their kids an I really respect this.
All you sexy asian girls come at me x
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Late to the party....
My first three girlfriends back in my teens and 20s were all Asian. No specific "fetish for the exotic" or anything, just circumstances (long story).
Fast forward 20 years, and I really don't have any strong racial preferences at all any more. Heck, even my gender preferences have gotten more and more fluid over the years. I guess I've come to realise that people are just people. It's more about who is up for certain types of fun than who looks like what, if that makes any sense....
That said, I do seem to have some ingrained preferences for different racial/gender combinations which I can't really explain. Eg. When it comes to guys, I'm mostly attracted to Europeans and Africans, and not so much into anyone else. With women I'm more open, but more into Europeans and Asians than others I guess?
Totally individual at the end of the day though....RHP User
6 years ago
All Asian woman?Particular areas of said Asia?Eurasians?
RHP User
6 years ago
I've never sat down and decided to only go for Asian girls, but there is something about them that just gets my heart beating faster!
The typical slim body shape, smallish breasts, dark hair and beautiful eyes always tick so many boxes for me..... Then add in the demure and polite attitudes and culture and i'm ready to fall in love!RHP User
6 years ago
i dont know what it is but they definetly turn me on.
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6 years ago
racist or nasty here but one of the reasons I stopped meeting men online was because I realized I wasn't the right race for many of them.I don't have the right "look"My hair is not long, dark and glossy enough.
I'm very blonde, blue eyed and fair skinned so everything about me seems to be the wrong colour for many of them.In my experience of hearing (and overhearing when I was out of their sight) conversations between men at work, at pubs, on the train etc etc one of the many things I discovered about what men REALLY think about women is that Asian ladies are now the flavour of the month and Australian caucasian women, especially those that are heading into middle age or those that are already in the older, mature age group, are no longer liked, desired or respected.That's fine.Funny though how those same men wouldn't have even considered an Asian lady 5, 10, 15 years ago.Heard them admit that too.At least I know the truth about a lot of things......now.
I work with many people of various nationalities and backgrounds, heaps of Asians. All great people, excellent workers.I have also lived in various places in a variety of types of dwellings - with and near all types of people.Watch out guys if you arrive home to your Asian lady at 3am when you were expected much earlier/she thinks you've been with another lady/she's upset with you for some reason.Your ears will never recover from the constant shrieking and neither will the housemates/neighbours who've had to endure hours of her screaming at you in the middle of the night and she's STILL screaming even after you've fled the home.Never heard such a racket from anyone else in my whole life.BTW, no noise was heard from the men in return, they seemed to be able to keep their cool.Just imparting my personal experiences here.Seachange
6 years ago
I have no idea what you mean by this
"Watch out guys if you arrive home to your Asian lady at 3am when you were expected much earlier/she thinks you've been with another lady/she's upset with you for some reason.
Your ears will never recover from the constant shrieking and neither will the housemates/neighbours who've had to endure hours of her screaming at you in the middle of the night and she's STILL screaming even after you've fled the home.
Never heard such a racket from anyone else in my whole life."
😮
No way anything like this happens to 'us'. Lol. It may be true for that couple but it could be true for any other couple of any persuasion or race. All I can say that any inconsiderate people of at race will make a scene or be disrespectful anywhere because they are just that. Inconsiderate.
I take my kids to Bali every year on holidays. Whenever we wander into 'town' in Kuta for shopping, there would be no fail, a group or couple of loud Bogan Aussies, making racist remarks and gestures to/about the locals. Wtf? So disrespectful and our Balinese friends just shake their heads and are gracious about it because they know these filthy minority is not representative of all Aussies. They do not generalise.
My young men are born and bred Aussies, half European and they don't have Asian features. But they have been raised with the gracious demeanor of politeness and consideration that is practiced in my culture.
So we can't generalise but I accept your experience as it is. Personal.RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Seachange'
I have no idea what you mean by this
"Watch out guys if you arrive home to your Asian lady at 3am when you were expected much earlier/she thinks you've been with another lady/she's upset with you for some reason.
Your ears will never recover from the constant shrieking and neither will the housemates/neighbours who've had to endure hours of her screaming at you in the middle of the night and she's STILL screaming even after you've fled the home.
Never heard such a racket from anyone else in my whole life."
😮
No way anything like this happens to 'us'. Lol. It may be true for that couple but it could be true for any other couple of any persuasion or race. All I can say that any inconsiderate people of at race will make a scene or be disrespectful anywhere because they are just that. Inconsiderate.
I take my kids to Bali every year on holidays. Whenever we wander into 'town' in Kuta for shopping, there would be no fail, a group or couple of loud Bogan Aussies, making racist remarks and gestures to/about the locals. Wtf? So disrespectful and our Balinese friends just shake their heads and are gracious about it because they know these filthy minority is not representative of all Aussies. They do not generalise.
My young men are born and bred Aussies, half European and they don't have Asian features. But they have been raised with the gracious demeanor of politeness and consideration that is practiced in my culture.
So we can't generalise but I accept your experience as it is. Personal.
that the demure Asian ladies we see in the workplace suddenly become screaming banshees in private when they're not happy with something their partner has done. This type of thing has happened across a few locations in which I've lived and the shrill shrieking had to be heard to be believed. I wouldn't have believed it of these women if I hadn't heard it with my own ears. And as already stated, one such occurrence was in a block of suburban flats at 3am. Nothing was heard from the guy. He seemed to be able to remain quiet but myself and the neighbours could all hear her still screaming obscenities at him long after we heard him drive away in his car!I've never heard or witnessed this behaviour from others and couldn't help but make a mental note to myself at the time - don't EVER cross an Asian lady. I would like to think that everyone could keep calm and speak quietly and rationally when they're having arguments. There is no need to raise your voice and put on a performance for all and sundry to hear. If it's a private matter it should remain exactly that - private.Again, sorry if this sounded racist by singling out Asian ladies but I have never seen/heard this type of behaviour from others and was quite astounded at how out of control they were and how long the disturbances lasted. I can only impart my experiences - won't go into the stories I've been told about the rage and fury others have experienced from Asian ladies. But I tell you something - I will avoid at all costs any sign of arguments, misunderstandings and the like with Asian ladies.Again, you're right Seachange - this could occur with anyone. Can only describe my experiences though. I'm so glad their partners (some Asian guys, some Australian) remained calm and didn't fire up in retaliation. Not a peep from them.Bali - I have no doubt whatsoever about unsavoury Aussie bogan behaviour in Bali. It's well documented. I've never been to Bali but have met many Balinese around the world and they are the nicest people. It beggars belief how they tolerate the disrespectful behaviour from a minority of tourists who visit Bali. My belief is - when travelling, Remember - when in Rome, do as the Romans do. Be happy, respectful and on your best behaviour at all times. You're in someone else's country. You can't just do as you please. My view anyway.RHP User
4 years ago
Most definitely. They are so sexy its unbelievable
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